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am I basic looking /adv/? or am I just socially awkward? I remember a girl saying to me at my old job that I had a really nice looking face but I don't believe her. she however said I was kinda boring. My current girlfriend thinks I'm not boring but we are both kinda weird.
when I was younger and fatter (with a facial infection) everyone said I was ugly.
but I wanna know: one, am I ugly. two, what determines attractiveness, and three what determines ugliness
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>>18615092
You'renot so bad, but the fat breaks it. You might be pretty good looking if you didn't have such a pudgy round face.
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>>18615123
yep, figured I am shit. I never understood the psychology of it, why do round, wide, or fat faces turn people off?
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>>18615092
You look pretty good to me familia. You look clean, and I think your face only looks wider / rounder here because of shitty phone camera distortion like in pic related
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Can anyone help in a way to locate or reach out someone facebook profile with his photo only a way other than regular reverse image found online
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>>18577111
Why, did he steal your baby?
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trouble getting YouTube Channel off the ground
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>Have a Youtube
>need subscribers
>don't want to shill in every video
>is there a good forum or discord
>or a good place to do targeted paid advertising
>please don't say fb, I don't want to give them any more money.
Any Tips?
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>>18577087
learn to greentext.
use 4chans ad service, or hell use youtubes ad service, I got pretty good views for such little money. i dont remember the exact details but via advertising i was able to get like 8000 views on a trailer i made.
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How I feel when I make a video and look at views/subs
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So a week ago my friend and I decided we wanted to have sex in her apartment while her mom was away. Everything was going well and she was enjoying it, but midway through the condom broke and she wasn't on birth control. We panicked and I ran to the store to buy the morning after pill. Two hours later I showed up in the parking lot and gave her the pill since her mom was back from work. I expected her to open it in my car, however she ended up taking it into the apartment and her mom found the box.
A few days later she texted me that she got her phone taken away. So I waited a few more days and she told me the pill worked and that her mom is made her go to therapy on Wednesday because she thought I had manipulated her. She tried and explain that this wasn't the case but her mom wasn't listening. So I told her I know that this whole thing happened between us but I hoped that we could still talk like we had before. She then told me that if it meant I wanted to have sex then it wasn't gonna happen. She told me before that she wanted to be in a relationship at some point and that she thinks we should consider it later but when we text it's kind of obvious that she's more reluctant to talk than usual.
Should I wait it out and text her or should I let her text me first? I really want to be more than friends since we used to get along so well but I don't know how to ease her suspicion if she thinks all I want is sex or how I should go about talking to her again.
Also today I'm going to a party and I'm pretty sure she's gonna be there. I'm hoping it's not awkward but is there anything I can do to make it not awkward?
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stop posting this pasta
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>>18577050
No pasta here, just the sad tale of my life in shambles
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If you see her, gently break the ice the first chance you get. Say something like an apology, I feel bad for playing part in creating this situation. Laugh about it if you can, if she's cool with it, focus on being a supportive friend. Acknowledge young dumb mistake and move on with friendship.
I always feel like crying or running away when people flirt with me. When I was confesses once I was shaking. I never had a relationship in my life or any traumatizing experiences, but I was ignored for most of my school experience.
To be blunt I think I'm afraid of real love, but since I can handle fanfiction and cartoon crushes. Does anyone know what to do cause I've heard more people are starting to romantically.
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1. Your English needs some work, but maybe you're just nervous.
2. Treat it like fanfic, if you have to. Nerd Rage kids get huge thinking of working out as grinding for exp. Some of my salespeople friends get laid pretending they're 'selling' themselves. If you have to, pretend you're a character. Play a part. Pretend it's a game. It kind of is.
3. You don't have to be hyper-confident tsundere. You can be shy. But be real, too. If you're nervous, tell someone you're nervous. Sometimes, if someone can't tell, they might misinterpret your emotions.
4. Sort yourself out. Figure out why you're afraid of real love. Clean your room. Bucko, etc.
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That sounds like a dramatic over-analysis. Regardless of how you respond to flirting, you will probably only make progress after you try communicating with someone. That means putting out your real thoughts so you come to an understanding and get somewhere, not a scripted conversation based on small talk like a TV show.
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Hey /adv/!
I try to keep this short:
>like girl
>get along really well at party
>nearly start to kiss but friends interrupted
>sister tells me she drunkingly told my sister she likes me
>she starts to text me the day after
>Convo ended with her sending pic with an answer to what I said (on snapchat) without room for continuing the convo
Now I ask myself:
1. Should I text her first now, or wait for her to text me? If I should text first, how long should I wait? ( We only got to know each other last weekend, but knew who we were before, if that makes sense )
2. How do you keep convos going via text? What topics should I talk about?
I'm a really confident guy overall but when it comes to this type of stuff I'm a looser.
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Sorry if I won't reply it's late here in yurop and I need some sleep. I am very thankful for any advice and I will make a thread if it works out with the girl. I'll add the word "Tinklehoy" in too on the top of the thread when I post it so you know who I am
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I would say go for the text if she seemed interested. Don't text for too long though, you only want to text long enough to ask her to meet up. Otherwise it will become stale and you won't have anything to talk about and she'll lose whatever interest she has.
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How do you become really good friends with someone at school? I'm talking brotherly bonds, not just friends who occasionally talk.
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Walk on teams.
My mom forced me to do running sports when I was in High School. Got me in incredible shape and I met some of the best friends of my life. One is getting a job for me when I graduate from college this year.
College: same thing. Intramurals or join a frat.
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follow up to >>18576914
What builds strong bonds is shared hardship. That's why sports work. That's why frats haze. That's why armies drill together.
I figured I'd give you the equation as well as some of the solutions, in case there's something more relevant to you that fits the bill.
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>>18576916
This explains a lot.
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What is love, in a romantic sense? Is it different than a very close friendship, except maybe adding in physical attraction?
Legit curious what people think. If it's something other than the above I don't think I've ever experienced it.
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BABY DON'T HURT ME
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>>18576863
Ask Plato. Symposium - Diotima's bit.
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>Is it different than a very close friendship, except maybe adding in physical attraction?
It's this but more. Can't really explain it, if you're not sure what it is you've probably never experienced it
It's more than a close friendship because you don't obsess over a friend, or don't fear to lose them that much, etc
This is why you need to control your feelings a little when you're in love or else it makes you do really stupid shit and can fuck you up bad
I realize I'm making it sound really bad but it's actually the greatest thing ever, it's just also very overwhelming and a little scary
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If I smoke a cigarette ~1 hour after exercise, will it interfere more than it usually does with my lungs etc? I like to smoke a cigarette every evening but since I started jogging in the evening now the two rituals clash.
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>>18576839
Nothing wrong with a cigarette.
Its those "i smoke a carton a day" people that literally die.
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>>18576845
We all literally die
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What would you do?
tldr; I'm a female, have only one close girl friend for so many years. But as far as I know of, she is toxic, one of my side says I should stay away from her, the other - stay with her.
Me and my best friend we are close for around 12 years, both of us are so different but fill each other. For starters, I was always boyish, got along with my parents great, grew up in a poor family and was a bit lazy. She was always girly, her parents are so pleasant but she used to yell on them when she was a young kid and lives in a wealthy family which never grounded her or told anything bad about her tragic grades.
But we balanced each other, I started to act more girly, got more active and she started to respect her parents more and studies even if she sucks at it badly still.
She and her boyfriend are together for around 3 years now, whenever they get in a fight, she doesn't keep it personal and even punches him and screams in front everyone in the room. Tried to talk about it with her boyfriend, to tell him that from my view, it's not how relationships are suppose to be and he should calm her. He ignored it.
Whenever we would get in a fight with her, she would start saying embarrasing stuff about me near other people so I would 'shut up'. For example, two years ago in her birthday party, she got mad on me because I got a little bit ill and went to bed for an hour and missed her 'blow out candles' moment. She got so mad ant loudly shouted at my face that 'trying to commit suicide is such a joke'. I did tried to commit suicide a year before that.
A year later at night, we sat on this bench outside talking with her, her boyfriend and a friend. Me and her boyfriend joked about her being afraid of the dark and she got so pissed about it, that she started talking how a person like me should appreciate that she even is friends with me.
CONTINUE below
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cont.
Imagine a group a friend;
Friend A - A huge smoker. A few times I would hid his cigarettes because he wouldn't respect me or my best friend. He broke my phones screen and almost broke my arm because of this.
The BFF Boyfriend - Nice, but stupid. Always acting like he is some sort of a gangster and whenever if someone is hurting his 'baby' he gets so mad starts doing stupid shit.
And my best friend - Told a little bit about her, which you can tell she is toxic.
NOW. It's her 21st birthday coming up on Friday.
We planned celebrating it on friday at her summerhouse a little bit far from my home city. Decided start decorating that house on thursday. I got a lot of things she needed, a projector, a lot of paper, paint and so on. Because I got a hand for drawing, we had an idea for me to do most of the decorations.
Today she wrote me she is planning to celebrate her birthday on saturday, I told her for the third time that I'm busy on saturday and I couldn't be there, but I would be with her till saturday morning, I'd still stay with her and help her with the decorations and be on her birthday but not the party itself.
She got furious about it, how can I not bet at her birthday party? She told her friends about this, that I can't attend, and they got lost, how can't I be at her party? She told her sweet mom about it ( it breaks my heart, because her moms is the sweetest ), and she didn't understand how can I miss her birthday party?
Am I a bad person for missing out the party? I said I'll be with her from thursday till saturday morning, I'll help her out with everything she needs and be on her birthday, but not the party.
Is this a bad thing or I just don't get it? I do believe she is just toxic, but it's hard for me to push away the only girl friend I have in my life. What would you do? What would you say to her?
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>>18576836
I'd say she's a toxic botch and tho u let her do such shit to you is way too kind.
As far as hoes the fact you know each other for such long I'd still consider cuting her off.
There might be a lot of 'it's nothing desu' moments when she looses her shit like a kid, but it will gather.
Is talking to her even an option or she is just lost in her feeling of being a princess?
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>>18576875
we were chatting. I wrote a lot to her how I feel, how I view this situation and so on.
The only thing what she could reply is a: (y) or 'how can you miss my birthday party? Do you how stupid you look?".
She would ignore my questions.
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Hey. Long story short:
Anxious about an upcoming operation. It's not too serious as it's only a cholesteatoma and it's 3 hours, but I'm having an issue with it. I have social anxiety and up until this year I've barely been to the hospital and only as a very young kid. A few months ago I had a related smaller operation so I thought I wouldn't have anxiety for the next one, but turns out that's not the case.
I'm not a squeemish sort of person by any means and I like to think I'm pretty desensitized to things like this and I know I'll be a sleep. But that's just it. I know I'm going have butterflies when they're about to use the general anaesthetic even though I've had it before. I just hate the situation of being in a hospital. All the people. The smells, etc. I know no one likes hospitals, but it doesn't help I have anxiety in the first place.
Any ideas to help with this?
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Just the fact that I'll have to sign in, put a robe on, sit around in a depressing place and wait till the damn person comes to call me. Ugh..
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>>18576815
Just went through this last week OP, finishing my pain meds today.
Just relax and know that it will pass in time. You aren't going to enjoy it, it's going to suck, and there may even be complications. But, you'll be done with the hospital within an afternoon, and can manage things on your own after that. It's just a few hours. Besides, you're expected to be nervous. Ask questions to the nurses, I bet at least one will be cute.
Just relax dude. It's something you have to do but once you do it, it's done...
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I tried to take out some money I have in an online gambling site. I've done so before in the past with no problem, but this time I was asked to upload some document to verify my identity. It had to be 2 months recent and have both my name and address. I don't own the place where I live so I don't get any kind of bills; I ended up taking a picture of an older letter, then copypasting a number from somewhere else on the document over the month for the date to make the time limit. It's not noticeable to the eye, so do they have any way to tell the image is altered? Do they even care to check?
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The chances of you being caught are slim, but you'd be fucked if they did catch you.
I've been with my current gf for 5 years. We have 2 kids together. We live together. I have a good job but I also suffer from severe depression. Therapy doesn't work. Meds don't work. I've tried it all. I want to break up with her because she doesn't keep the house spotless. I rarely have clean clothes for work and she doesn't cook anymore. She's a good mother but I know I'll get fucked if I leave her since women are entitled to the kids and half your shit.
We've already split up once and I could not deal with not seeing my kids every day so we got back together but I'm still unhappy with her.
Do I continue to suffer for the sake of the kids or do I deal with not being able to see my kids every day and venture onto new horizons and find a woman that wants to be a traditional housewife?
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Traditional? You had 2 kids out of wedlock.
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>>18576812
This. You can't really claim that you want someone who's traditional if you did something like have TWO kids before marriage.
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>>18576747
Does she has an job?
If yes, your complain is unjustified.
If no, talk to her about this issue. Also involve her mother if it doesn't change. Show her how her daughter is a mess.
You are overreacting a bit. You have two kids togheter. Try to work it out.
Also if she doesn't work she should find a job. Most people get lazy in every aspect and envolve bad charisma when they are unemployed.
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been on this stuff for nearly 3 years.
think it's time to ween off them? how do doctors generally do it and can I do it without having to go back to the doctor's?
I just feel as though it's locked up my swag and I don't feel I find comedy shows that funny anymore.
at first I thought it was bs but what I do notice is that I don't get a nagging suicide feeling over every little fuck up I make.
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>>18576717
Doctors do it gradually, after an interview with you, so it's important that a doctor follows you in the process
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Speaking of Ween and Zoloft. . .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2atr-SKjM8E
>>18576721
Good advice. Getting a medical professional on board will also be helpful as they can assess how well your thoughts and behaviors have developed through Zoloft, which can be a good indicator that you likely won't return to pre-Z depression style.
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>think it's time to ween off them
You're a funny man OP
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Should I continue to date?
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I've known her for over a year. We have dated on and off. Share the same birthday, get along for the most part but I feel like I could do better. Then again I find myself constantly coming back.
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>>18576711
Anon, honestly if those in the picture are you and her: no, you can't do better. Enjoy it while it lasts and make sure it lasts long