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ITT: Paying for affection
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I've saved up small amounts over the past few months and I am seriously considering getting an escort. But most likely not for sex, but for the GF experience. Go see a movie, hug, maybe kiss.
Has anyone else done this?
Also, general advice on escorts / prostitutes.
Is it worth it, I think it'll help. If all goes south I'll probably just spend it on alcohol and drink myself into a comma or something.
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nah, total waste of money. what would it help if you clearly know she only does this for the money?
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>>18618098
The fantasy of it I guess. But I also have this stupid idea that It'll help me gain experience with women.
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>>18618095
>Go see a movie, hug, maybe kiss.
Those usually cost more than straight up sex.
>>18618098
>what would it help if you clearly know she only does this for the money?
Some escorts are just really damn good at their job, that you walk away feeling like a human being regardless if it was just for money. They also have to cultivate some kind of relationship with you in order for this to work (and for you to keep coming back).
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Going to college soon for freshman year.
Planning on rooming with a close friend of mine
Everyone keeps telling me that by the end we will en up hating each other.
How can I prevent this or keep our friendship stable when rooming together in college?
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Trust me dude, you won't be able to do that. Make someone else your roommate but try to have close by rooms if that is possible. That's way better because you make new friends like this and you won't have fights with a good friend, but you are still close by.
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accept each others privacy
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>>18579108
See how tidy he keeps his room vs how tidy you keep yours. If there's a big difference you're going to end up hating each other, because the one that has higher cleaning standards is going to end up doing most of the cleaning and seriously resenting the other one.
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How do I get out of minimum wage hell and get a good job the fastest?
>drop out of college
>now stuck in deadend sweatshop
>need fast training so I can get out of hell as fast as possible
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Get to know important and/or influential people. Sometimes this consists of going back to college or learning a trade, or lying your way to relevance.
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Chances are you have either a brother, uncle, cousin or even friend in the union.
Ask them what the process is, and join, its great pay and has a lot of benefits.
Most union jobs are tenured too, so unless you fuckup, you wont get fired or laid off.
Also keep in mind some counties, states and unions might require some education at a vocational/technical/community college, prior to joining so look into that.
Its really your only way out, other than college.
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actually need advice for this, posting it like this since it is 4chan xd (it's true and i need advice)
(pic kinda related, i feel like i'm being deceived)
>am me
>good grades
>good social life
>get 8 hours of sleep everyday
>no gf, ded inside
>xth grade
>best friend transfers out of school, we call him "mark"
>cute girl transfers in
>get to know her
>become close over the past few weeks and months
>drama shit happens around us, mostly because a lot of people were talking shit
>ask advice from Mark, he gives me and they were pretty good
>drown in it as well
>stop talking to her frequently for the next few months, since she won't absolutely talk to me and kept pulling me down
>(x+1)th grade
>best friend transfers back, i'm pretty happy
>HE SITS NEXT TO HER, ABUSING THE FACT THAT I WAS TRYING TO FIX THINGS BETWEEN US
>he gets close to her, same as me, thinking nothing about it with some other 3 friends
>3 friends hate the two of them since they were "too close", i thought of the same but i was thinking i was being cucked and it hurt bad
>both of them absolutely stop talking to me, same as other 3 friends
>get sad
>few months later, still talk to them, become close with the two of them again
>mark transfers to another country for vacation
>become MUCH more close to her and fix our misunderstandings
>almost always outside together up until night due to me attending a daily church activity she goes to
>mark goes back
>he was being clingy the whole time since all he heard about was other people telling him i was always with her
>don't know why I never confessed during those times we were alone
>(x+2)th grade
>Mark and I are close to her, sometimes we get our own time with her
>i want to confess before we graduate but i fear rejection, what do, /adv/?
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Also, she treats both of us the same as well as some other boys (kinda touchy and stuff)
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Plot twist- she's toxic for keeping the same peope in her life for so long and only has you guys as friends so she can fulfill her desires for attention. Dont be a cuck. if you love her, fuckin say it with all your heart. if you get rejected, o wel, you're a nice guy and you'll get someone worth keeping some other time. keep in mind, high school relationships have a slim chance of lasting long.
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whenever my husband and i don't agree on something, he panics. he gets all wussy.
he then wants me to comfort him and convince him that "we're going to be ok". (which obviously we will... we only would have needed to find out stuff like: "do we buy a car with 7 seats or 5" or "how often do we let our son sleep in our bed").
he then isn't able to talkt to me about the subject on hand anymore. which leads to us often not being able to actually determine what to do.
sometimes i suspect that that's his way of getting out of having to actually find a solution and voice his own opinions. it's not that i trample them down. i am just not going to accept ungraspable arguments like "i just don't like it" or "i don't know". if he doesn't like/want something, then he should be able to tell me why. for example: "i don't like it when our son sleeps in our bed because then i can't sleep as well because his tossing and turning wakes me up" or "we can buy a car with seven seats once the baby is here, we don't need it till then".
it bugs me that i feel like he gets all dramatic to avoid being honest.
how do i deal with this? i already told him and he simply denies it.
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how long did you know him before marrying?
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>>18618031
>marrying a pussy
wew lass
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>>18618062
5 years, 2 of which we dated an one of which we were engaged. why?
obviously we didn't disagree on anything befroe we started dating, actually, not until we moved in together (one year before marriage). i didn't really notice this behaviour until lately. might be that he always kind of did it, but it never actually was that obvious. it's not unbearable, but definitely annoying and unnecessary.
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What do I leave behind so my mom doesn't feel bad about my death? Will she read it if it's a letter? If so how should I write it?
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Nothing will keep her from feeling bad short of you staying where you are, even if it is difficult.
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>>18579055
My sister killed herself a year back and left a letter behind. It didn't help any. My mum's still a fucking mess and probably will be for the rest of her life. If you care about your mum at all, you bite your teeth and wait that she dies off first before offing yourself.
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There's no easy way to say this, but no matter what you leave behind, it will destroy your family & hurt many of those who knew you. I know this is 4chan, but these words come with genuine sentiment - Please hang on. I know it can be extremely difficult, & how everyone says to just hang on. Trust me, I know, It may, & probably is the most difficult thing you've done yet. But please, hang on. If not for yourself, then for your mother. That's all. Best of luck.
Realistically what kind of leniency would an apartment complex or similar give to a tenant who is late on rent?
I'm trying to be fair with my tenant who is likely going to ask for an extension this month because he's been talking about how tight money is pretty repeatedly. I'm trying to make the point to him that if he lived in a larger owned complex instead of a private home, he would be evicted almost immediately, so rent needs to be a priority. Am I right or wrong?
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>>18579041
How often does he do this?
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>inb4 tenant is OP's son
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Most places are going to charge a late fee per day that they're late so they don't really care. $30 for the first day and some $ amount for each day after. If you don't pay by the end of the month, then that's grounds for eviction.
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What's your shitsuations? Lol
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I had sex with a girl I'm "friends" with after alcohol was involved. I use quotation marks because she is more like a friend of a friend but I see her around all the time when I'm with some of my friends. I basically haven't said or done anything besides give her my phone number the morning after and it's been 2 days.
I'm pretty sure I'm not interested in something beyond sex, so I want to know how I should take it from here while still keeping her interest. She is a very cool lady and all, and I would like to stay friends, but I can't imagine us being legitimately romantic with each other.
Should I just casually snap her or start a conversation? Should I text her and set ground rules? It just seems so unnatural and unattractive.
It's inevitable that I will see her around again. She also is going to be going to my bands show next week.
is it cool if I act like nothing happened and don't mention it? Maybe I should ask her to hang out soon? If it comes up obviously I'll joke my way out of it, but I also don't want to close the door for it being a continuing thing. As in if we don't establish fwb I'm cool with it being a one time thing but I'd rather not hurt her or be rude and permanently shut that door forever
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>>18579031
don't take it to social media, keep it real.
Just be casual next time you all are around, and if you want to, and have the chance to, try and get her alone for another bone session.
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Desperation move vs No move? 2017-08-01 02:24:28 Post No.18578998
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Desperation move vs No move?
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Been seeing this girl for a while.
>I like her
>Building confidence to make move
>confident as balls
>She 180's and flirting stops working
>Confidence lost
>Move unlikely to work now, still want to try!
What is better: Make move and fail or not and fail?
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It's just a girl dude wtf man.
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>>18579001
>I like her
I never like girls (not in a gay way, I just very rarely like them in the way I like this one)
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I have been a bedwetter forever. After I turned 16 it rarely happened unintentionally. I say unintentionally because I have developed an age play side. I like to pretend I am a child of around 7 or 9 years old who has a weak bladder. None of this concerns me greatly.
What does concern me is some of the thoughts I have been having for years. I do not have many complete memories until I was 16, and even after that I seem to have less memories than most. When I was around 15 I started having thoughts of being forced to do sexual things as a child. I remember drinking alcohol to try and get rid of these. However the first time I remember stealing alcohol was when I was around 12 or 14, and I also remember shoplifting things around this age too. The previous memories are some of the only ones I have of that age.
The most concerning thing for me is that I get turned on when reading about bad things happening to children, but I must be clear I imagine I am the child. If I ever thought I wanted to do something like that to a child I would kill myself. Sometimes I thought that was what was happening when I was 16 and I thought of driving into a tree at top speed, slitting my throat, or something else that would have the same effect.
Other things I remember before I was 16 is wetting the bed and leaving the sheets wet and sleeping in them again. My parents would tell me that I need to clean the sheets every time, but I wouldn’t. My parents never punished me for wetting the bed, but they wanted me to help in clean up. I did not see the need to for whatever reason.
The advice I am asking for is should I go to counseling, and if I should what should I talk about.
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>>18578997
Uh, yes, you should definitely see a professional. This is a whole big bundle of fucked up that /adv/ can't solve.
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What would you have done in this situation?
>go to after hours club with friends (open til 6am)
>caters to gay people, usually about 50 percent of guys are gay, but hot straight girls go too
>standing on crowded dance floor
>packed tight with people
>feel guy behind me moving through
>moves by me
>grabs my ass
>i instantly push him an arms length away hand on his chest
>looks surprised
>"whyd you grab my ass bro"
>says it wasnt him, was the guy behind me
>let go of him, yell at guy who had been standing behind me, claims he didnt see any ass grab (lasted less than 1 second so possible)
>guy i grabbed is gone
>this other guy still claims it wasnt him, asks me if im ok and if i need a drink
>like im gonna accept a drink from a potential faggot
>tell him no i dont need a drink, yell more, question again, still nothing
>i walk away pissed
Did I handle this right? A part of me feels wrong, feel like I should have beaten someone up tonight, just niether of them owned up to it. Really frustrating. Also the guy walking by me was black, standing behind me was white guy. I feel like I was dissed and I'm pretty mad about it. What would you have done?
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It would help if you stated your gender and sexual orientation. I'm assuming you're a straight guy. At which case you're fucking sexually insecure. Some guy pinched your ass in a primarily gay club. What did you expect? Take it as a compliment and move on.
>feel like I should have beaten someone up tonight
Want advice? Get fucking therapy or anger management. Looks like we know who the real faggot was in that club, holy shit.
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>>18617981
Same fag, forgot to say... You asked what I would have done in this situation. I would have not been a fucking insecure baby about it, taken it as a compliment, and moved on with my evening, let alone my life, and have a great time with my friends in the club, rather than being a fucking downer the rest of the night, whining like a bitch and then posting on fucking 4chan the following day looking for 'advice'. You are actually a fucking joke and I can't stop laughing.
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>Go to the fag club
>dance with faggots
>be mad cuz faggots touch your aas
Lmao what a homophobic faggot you are. You are literally chimping out cuz somebody touched your ass for a sec are you a chick or something?
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Hey /adv/, I have a friend who is the Student Council President of my school and he's considering on lifting the ban on cellphones our school had for so long. I don't know how to ask this question properly but are there any ways that we can let the students bring their phones to school but not let the students use it during class? We are very close to convincing our disciplinary teachers on the matter but this problem is driving me and my friend to a wall. Sorry for ESL
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>>18578968
student council is a bs activity and group that does nothing but do party planning. youre never gonna get your flip phones in
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>>18578979
Who knows, maybe this one will go through as many teachers are actually pretty lax on students bringing phones to school. Catch is you can't use it inside the school for obvious reasons. We just need a way to legitimize the idea in order to be approved by the principal
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>>18578968
Every1 puts their phone with muted sound in a basket at the teacher's desk.
How do I stay asleep in the mornings? It seems like any time a little bit of sunlight trickles into my room, I'm awake, like today, where I woke up a full two hours before my alarm and spent 45 minutes trying to sleep again before giving up. I also wake up a lot during the night.
It wouldn't be a problem if I didn't crash hard around 10-11 every day. By the time 4 pm hits, I'm just completely exhausted.
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It sounds like you could have sleep apnea. Either way I would see a doctor about this. Its not a serious condition but its nice to just get a full nights rest every now and then.
If not, get some black out curtains or try getting used to wearing an eye mask
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>>18578955
this, black out your windows, it fixed the same problem for me
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>>18578955
Thanks for the ideas. I wear an eye mask, and I have blackout curtains, but light still trickles through the dishes of the curtains and into the space between my nose and eyes. It's like my skin can feel it. I'm reluctant to put tinfoil or something on my windows because then I'm gonna feel like I can't ever open the windows and let light in, so my room would always be a cave. But it's a thought.
Any other ideas?
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Will college be weird?
I'm going to be 22 when I start college at LSU. I've spent the last 4 years making sure I can pay for college without student loans. Part of me feels like I'm too damn old for the college life. Most incoming freshmen are 17/18 and I'm 4 years older than that.
I feel like it's gonna make me be the creepy old guy who no one talks to.
I already live in Baton Rouge, have a bungaloo and make 65k a year. I'm not the same as someone who has never been away from their parents before.
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>>18617715
>"I make more than the national median wage"
>"I should go to college!"
Why?
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>>18617715
Look around you when you get to the campus. You will see LOTS of people even older than you. College isn't just for 18 year olds any more. I don't know the statistics for LSU, but based on other state universities I know about, I'd bet that at least 25% of undergrads are your age or older,and have stories similar to yours.
The one thing you're right about is that you may not fit immediately into student social life, but that will be more a matter of your living off-campus than your age.
The school may have special clubs, social events, even a separate dean for "older" students. And many of them, having day jobs, will be taking evening classes. Check out the snack bar at dinner time.
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>>18617734
>Golly gee I have 45K saved up and free tuition better not use it
Why make 65k when I could make 165k?
>>18617743
Living on campus seems like a terrible thing. It was one of the reasons I didn't go right out of high school.
One of my FWBs says I'll liked because I can buy booze and have my own place and car, something most college kids don't have.