Is it a dick move to not let my friend/roommate borrow my clothes, especially shirts I don't wear that much anymore?
I just don't really like lending my things. Last time I let him borrow a shirt to go out one night, he kept using it for weeks like it was his. It was a shirt that's too small for me now, so I don't really use it anymore, but I still asked for it back because I like my things to be in their place. He gave it back, but he kinda gave me passive-aggressive attitude about it.
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no, it's your shit and you can do with it whatever you want
the fact that he feels entitled to borrowing your clothes seems like more of a problem
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In girls world:
u both dickheads... he should have used it one time when he asked
and not lending clothes is when you dont wear them is not very nice, but not very bad...
well, he is more dickhead, part where you asked for that shirt back (even though it doesnt fit you anymore) is normal, bc he was dickhead
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suicide - what's the best method 2017-08-02 03:34:00 Post No.18582598
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suicide - what's the best method
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the least painless one
I won't tho
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Gun, helium or jump off a really high building
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I'm in England and made redundant a while ago from a part time job. Was told I was entitled to 30 days severance pay plus outstanding holiday pay which is I was told was 10 days. So 40 days pay altogether at £7.50 per hour, £22.50 per day. 22.50 x 40 is 900. They are arguing that I will get £645. Am I missing something here? Not entitled to actual redundancy pay as not worked there for 2 years yet. Any help would be great, thanks in advance.
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>>18582569
Withholding for tax and national insurance?
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>>18582569
The ctizen's advice bureau might be the best place to ask dude.
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How to NOT fuck up college 2017-08-02 03:15:08 Post No.18582562
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How to NOT fuck up college
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I'm going to a small college in the South for music performance in approximately 10 days. What do I NOT do when I go to college? I have heard things like "leave your dorm door open during move-in day" and would love to hear more things like this so that I don't make stupid sperg mistakes.
I am planning on joining some sort of fraternity (pike, SAE?); the other choices on campus are a little too religious or retarded. I expect to have to undergo a major attitude change - I had a really bad home life throughout high school and was a major piece of shit; the question is how to not kneecap myself socially from the beginning. My politics are far-right and I'm non-religious, but I know not to be an unironic nazi sperg.
If anyone could do their freshman year over again, what specifically would they do better? Anything helps. Thanks so much
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>graduate
>spend 2 years working part time wagecuck jobs while living at home and wasting all my free time and feeling demoralised
>move to London after getting full time job
>just barely make enough to pay for everything
>job is boring but thankfully light on work and never goes past 9-5
>became the ugly loser loner beta nobody talks to only a few days after starting
>realise I'll never have the social skills needed to succeed among normies
>had zero social life since school, no female attention ever, blackpilled and know women find non Chads disgusting
>see guys younger than me with gfs and feel insanely jealous
>see normies socialising effortlessly (including people who started after me) and feel bitter
>feel under pressure more during my free time than work because I feel like I have to learn maths / learn CS / do practical programming / read lots of books to be smart and successful and have a social life to stop wasting my youth (i.e., I feel bad because there aren't 100 hours in a day)
Well this is demoralising. And this is with a really low work government job. If I actually had to work hard and work a full 8 hours or more then I'd go crazy.
My free time consists of procrastinating over dedicating all my time to some other heirarchy I can feel bad about (i.e., programming).
And you know what really runs it in? The normies who get jobs easily due to normieness and poshness. The women with lives on easy mode and sugar daddies and bfs handing everything to them while society uses me as a disposable battery and deluges me with propaganda. The thousands of teens on the internet getting rich for wacky reasons (apps, crypto, exporting marmite to Tajikistan) while I stick my nose in to SICP- a nerd too scared to go off the beaten path, cowed by the masses while at its bottom rung.
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I'm you and this makes me want to give uo
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I am also literally you.
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Like I said in the other one, really close to you, and probably the London part in the future as well
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Dad's maybe cheating on Mom and IDK what to do. 2017-08-02 03:12:11 Post No.18582555
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To be honest I really think my dad's cheating on my mom. We have a family business and the office staff we have appointed is just a lady because it's a small business. She's been with us for the past 12 or so years so we are more like a family together.
Okay so straight into the matter. So a year back, while my dad was in the shower, someone called in it. So I came and told I'll pick it up and tell that he's on shower. After I told the guy on the phone that dad's on the shower, I accidentally touched the gallery icon on the front page of the phone. It straight up showed the recent photos. Around 5 or so pictures where my dad laying his head on this lady's lap with smiles on both their faces.
After a day or so, he told me that the other day he had high blood pressure and got into this lady's home because he felt like he can't drive more and asked wether he saw the pics. I don't know why he straight up asked that at first but I told him no I didn't see it.
I am 20 now and I live with my parents coz I go to college and in a few months I'm moving out from here for the first time to a friend's apartment and find a job in between.
I really have no idea what to do. I'm so sad of the fact that even tho all of this happened, my mom's still cheerful with my dad and us and I often wanted to tell it out but it'd obviously get their marriage go into a disaster.
What do I do now? I can't hold it any longer. I haven't told this to anyone of my friends, not even my best friend who I happen to share all my other secrets with. Should I confront him? Should I just say it out? I just don't know what to do. I can't hold it all in after seeing my mom's sweetness of a behavior to everyone.
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I'm going to tell you the single hardest thing for you to accept about this:
This story is not about you.
This is something between them, and your only role is to sit on the sidelines and wait for them to sort it out.
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>>18582625
I also want to think that way but somethings making me not do that.
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Wait until you KNOW, rather then speculation
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How do I stop bragging? I feel a pretty strong drive to share my personal achievements with my friends and family. Sometimes it's telling my friend about the awesome challenge I overcame in a video game, explaining how to *actually* excel in a game, the song or art project I just completed, or the grades I got in school. I feel like I have no social energy without stimulating myself with elitism.
Like those are the things I'm most interested in, I only want to talk about other people's interests if it relates to me or I'm in a super good mood. Am I just a covert narcissist? I feel like I got along better with other self centered and achievement oriented people, who also talk about themselves and there's mutual listening involved.
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You sound like a prick, stop being a humblebrag and talk about anything other than yourself.
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You sound self-centered. You are the exact type of person I try and avoid in life. I have brothers that share a lot with your personality, and they can be annoying as fuck. All they talk about is THEM! Even minor events to them are BIG achievements.
It sounds like being self-centered is a part of your personality but let me tell you, you will have a shitty time with relationships (family, friends, partners).
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>>18582536
For every time you brag, you have to tell some funny story about how you screwed something up. Not necessarily right away, but work to keep the balance.
How do can I get started with python on linux? How do I update it from version 2.7 to 3, along with libraries like matplotlib, scipy, and numpy.
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what distro?
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pip for libs, python 3 depends on distro.
you need to be able to solve problems like those on your own...
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2nd Year of Uni. How do I not fuck it up? 2017-08-02 02:43:24 Post No.18582522
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Everyone says first year is the most important because that's when you meet all your new people, I completely screwed it and want to change it. How do I rectify a shit first year?
So, it's currently summer break still for me. Going back to uni in a month and a half and really need to sort myself out. Haven't left the house outside of chores and work for the past 2 months of summer. My only contact's been one friend from back home who's just as fucked as me and one guy from uni too. It's kinda been like this the whole of the last year too. It only struck me recently that I'm actually really fucking lonely and even though I consider myself more of the loner type, physical and visual human contact would be really nice.
My hearing's pretty fucked so I can't really go out to clubs or anywhere to loud without wincing in pain. I tried joining clubs and societies in first year, but felt awkward and really out of place. I'd made tonnes of casual acquaintances but nobody I could really talk to out of the blue.
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The easy answer is this: Whatever you did last year, don't do it again.
It sounds like you gave up too soon. Everyone feels a little out of place when they first join a club, but they just hang in there until they begin to feel more part of it.
You say you have tons of acquaintances. It is partly your job to convert some of them into friends. Instigate conversations, don't just wait for them to happen. Be the guy who says "Let's all go see the new movie this weekend" Chances are they're waiting for someone to reach out to them just as you have been
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Anon above me is right OP
>Chances are they're waiting for someone to reach out to them just as you have been
Don't keep waiting for people to ask YOU out. Set up activities.
Don't expect to make friends as soon as you join a club or group. Participate, ask questions, share ideas.
Basically, don't expect others to do all the work.
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>>18582522
Where I'm from the uni offers tons of sports classes. You can make some friends there since you see them every week, train with them and share an interest with them
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>been almost a year since my ex suddenly said "Im fucking off to a foreign country bye forever"
>am still devastated
>have fucked 6 different chicks since then, tried dating others
>in the best shape of my life
>career is taking off and more money in bank then ever before
>she probably still doesnt even have her g.e.d., is fucking randoms and still working as a cashier
>somehow im still conpletely dead inside with severe depression
Its not a contest about who is more accomplished, im just wondering why i still feel like an abandoned loser despite everything else in my life being the best it has ever been. Even if she came back I wouldnt date her again, this has hurt me way too much to even want to talk to her ever again.
Please help.
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>Career taking off
>Having one night stands
>Severe depression
I would say you are successful, but when you added that you have severe depression, it looks like you haven't accomplished shit, OP. Every woman for example can become a prostitute and make fat stacks. You can even scam people and make a bank. What is really difficult is to do a job that you really enjoy and make lots of money by doing what you love.
Reassess your priorities and change your life around, OP.
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Heyyy are you me?
It sucks man. I realize the thing I need to give up most is the dreams of what life would be with her.
When I take a big fat sip of reality I turn around and look at a girl who didn't want the same stuff I did, wasn't into the same life I was, is a bad fit for what I want and that I still have all my chances at life.
But yeah I should also get a therapist because those moments last five minutes then I'm back thinking about lying next to her.
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In the grand scheme of thing a year is not a lot if time, but following a traumatic incident, you should be able to recover mentally and at least get back to normal within 3 months. This is known as the hedonic treadmill.
My best guess is that you've worked yourself into depression or you have a form of clinical depression. Go get some counseling and talk through this with a professional. If they feel it is necessary they will have you take a blood test to see what levels your neurotransmitters are at as well as other proteins that affect dopamine production and production auxiliary molecules in your brain. If things are not where they ought to be then that is a sign of a persistent issue and you will be prescribed something.
Therapy is cheap and you will feel better if you are honest with them. Also cut out porn, you'll feel a lot better.
That aside, quit having a pity party and do something about it. Getting out and being social will help enhance new relationships so you can forget about the shitty ones.
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Is it ever worth pursuing getting back with an ex if you're on good terms now?
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No.
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That depends on the situation obviously. Fill in the details or fuck off.
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Only if you've both solved what made you break up the first time and you are still attracted.
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I made this podcast and it is failing hard .... what can I do to make it better?
http://nothingbutthegeek.podbean.com/
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podcasts are boring, better video
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Don't do a podcast unless you are 100% certain that at least 1 person out there is actively listening and promoting your podcast. Go for YT instead.
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tried listening, but you need be closer to mic or talk clearer, and your voice sounds depressed, like you anr not talking about things that interests you. just lacks positive mood in voice.
i sound like this when im drunk and talk about problems, very monotonous voice.
sorry if offended, but listen to radio, people talk in a certain way that is dynamic (too hard to explain, limited english)
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How do I start finding clubbing/parties enjoyable?
Same for hookups/casual sex
18M starting college in Jan btw
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mdma, amphetamine, cocaine, 2cb,...
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>>18622655
Forgot to mention, I don't drink or do drugs either for the same reason
I'm pretty boring
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>>18622670
clubbing without drugs ? doesn't really work
for partys, depends on the partys i guess, what kind of partys ?
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Maybe my issues will get me beta male of the year but what ever...
She is 25, im 30. She doesnt want to get married. She has miscarraged and 6 months later medically aborted. She has self esteem issues and is literally on fb 24/7. Posting photos of herself and now instagram. The sex is great when we actually have sex... i feel like sex is kinda forced on by me. She likes being restricted so the forcing is something she like but lately she just isnt keen on sex.
If i talk to any chick or go out with any friends, to her im ether cheating or talking about other girls which im not but she wont believe it. She can talk to all the guys on the internet though. We not even friends on fb.
I went shopping with her. Literally she was complaining that all the other girls look way more prettier then her so i spoil her. Get her nails done, hair, threading, clothes. We have a long chat about my needs and i feel like she registered everything. I find messages to her thirsty guy friends on fb that "she treating herself to clothes and dvds."
Fucking pissed off.
Ive broken up with her twice before and she is in tears asking to have me back and I cave because these times she is 100 giving me attention.
Am I beta of the year??
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This girl sounds like she doesn't respect her father. NEVER commit long term to a girl who doesn't respect her father.
You're only a beta male if you stay with her.
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It's clearly obvious you should just break up and stay that way. If you're willing to dish out that kind of cash for a day out, spend it on a woman that will actually appreciate it.
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I'm going on a no fap holiday and I was wondering if there's an app that can block websites I choose to block, any suggestions?
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If really want to not fap, go by not blocking any websites. You will fail and that is guaranteed. Build your will power to not go watching for porn. Again, you will fail for sure but you can only gradually improve in this and not by the snap.
I literally stopped Porn a year back without wven blocking any websites. You are always a few clicks away from a porn site but you must have the built up will power to not go into that.