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I'm a 22M Kraut from western Germany. How the fuck do I get a normal gf? Dating sites are shitty af and night life is fucking dead arround here.
Seriously, I wanted to go clubbing again today in my aria and everything was just closed. On a friday evening. Then I went into a bar where like a total of 5 dudes were in.
There are only Sandniggers and rapefugees roaming the streets at night these days.
Is there any other place to go to meet girls? It seems like normal white girls don't even leave the house anymore arround here.
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>>18590847
At your workplace, at your school, at friends' parties, etc. Wherever people gather. I've never thought of a club as a place to pick up a gf, but maybe it will work out for you. If you live in a town where the "club" is closed on Friday, then yes, it's likely that the girls don't leave the house. Join a sport club, other hobby club, go to church.
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How reinvent my self when i go uni? 2017-08-05 01:51:59 Post No.18590819
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How reinvent my self when i go uni?
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Don't wanna be sad boi no more
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I'm up for a promotion. It's over $20k increase. I'm really great at what I do. I can talk to all my bosses and their bosses no problem. I've even had lunch with them before. We exchange stories and stuff. I have no problem with them. The thing is, whenever I know I'm interview or going to interview, I get crazy anxiety. Except I know what the issue is. I have about a 1000 thoughts a second. I imagine every possible answer I can give and how they'll react. So I start off great with an answer, then I get ahead in my head and lose my place. What can you guys suggest? Any anti anxiety pills that'll slow my thought process enough to think clearly? My interview is next month. Anything else I can take? Any suggestions at all? Again, my problem lies in my thinking too much, not necessarily my confidence or my work skills. Thanks
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Hey OP I have basically the same thing, but I haven't tried any pills.
In my experience practicing the interview until you get comfortable with your answers is the only way. Do it with someone, friend/gf, or even just write down 30 interview questions and practice a few a day until you get comfortable with the words that come out of your mouth.
If I don't do that and I go in "blind", I basically fuck up every interview. I will give an honest answer but I will ramble and give an incoherent answer because my mind just goes everywhere. Being organized really helps with my anxiety at work (Generalized anxiety, retail district manager), and the only way to organize your thoughts is to memorize.
Good luck, hope you get it!
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>before dad past he made a cray will (also due to manipulative family members), 5 years latr we're facing greedy family members
>put up with family members
>i think in the end we will lose our family home
>I guess I'll be free in the end if we do though (cut absolute contact with these family members)
I wake up every morning with pinging ears and stress, thinking about going back to a psychologist
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oh...thanks for that
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>>18590975
ask and you sh all receive.
but you just blogged.
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>be me
>good friends with girl
>fall in love with girl
>like really fall for this girl
>want to date her but I'm in a bad place in life
>tyrn life around for this girl so I have a chance
>lose weight, and do school work again
>to scared to just outright ask her out so make plan and set day I plan to ask her out
>other guy who knew how I felt about girl asks her out before I can.
>spreads bs and causes drama, friend group fractured
>they break up but too late damage done.
>me and girl not friends anymore
>tried dating other women, never felt the same about any of them, always end p bored and frustrated or annoyed by them
>try to forget about girl but cant
>still miss her to this day
its been two years since I last saw or heard from her and I still have feelings for her that I cant shake.
I want to try and contact her again because I miss her and I'm now in a better place in life. I still hope that one day me and her can be together. I would like to try and contact her again but I have o idea how I would or what I would say or if she would even want to hear from me again.
what should I do, like I said ive missed her and tried to move on but idk what to do
is it a good idea or a stupid idea to try and contact her again? if so how should I do it? if not how can I move on?
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Just ask her if she wants to catch up, and see what happens from there
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>>18590768
would be difficult, she now lives in a town an hour away for school
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>>18590781
fucking easy mode, I dated a girl on the other side of the Atlantic
she left me after 2 years tho
I have this friend from my childhood, and i just found out that she's texting a 18 year old guy and talking about some really fucked up stuff with him.
I turned 18 a few months ago and she's 4 years younger than me.
Any way i can tell her that what they are doing is fucked up and that it's not going to end up well?
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>>18590750
sure just be straight with her. If she blows it off oh well.
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>>18591132
already done that, but she just kept ignoring me.
she's like my little sister, i can't just do nothing and then one day find out that she got raped and killed by some fucking pedo.
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>Be American
>Evil bitch boss fires me so she can get her boyfriend in my position
>Fine whatever I hated the job anyway
>Lose health insurance and income
>Apply for health insurance on the website and they put my request on hold because of course
>Immediately get horrible ear infection
>Stomach gets fucked up
>Everything else in life quickly falls apart
How do I stop this bad luck? It's like nothing ever goes right for me and everything that should go smoothly, even a simple bs thing like applying for healthcare, gets turned into a shit show. I'm fucking done.
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Posting this again cause I need more answers
why am I so fucking useless?
I just can't find something besides gaming and anime that make me happy at my free time.
I'm not good with anything. I tried drawing, watched a couple of youtube tutorials, failed miserably and I didn't even like drawing. Tried the piano, too dumb for it and I just can't find amusement in it. I can't even be smart. I can't bare reading so much that I never even finished one book in my entire life so I suck at writing stuff and EVEN speaking. Why am I so useless, I shouldve never been born.
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If you were good at anything and everything, what would you like to do? What do you think you would find enjoyable?
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>>18590636
I can't think of anything, that's the problem. Nothing seems enjoyable.
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>>18590630
Your problem is the fact youve fed yourself on comfort. When we do the stressful hard things, repeatedly and tell ourselves this is to help us, we still sit in denial. We throw we're never going to be the best, greatest, richest, extradionariest person even if we do those things. But you'll never know till you put down the comfort and revel in the hard work of yourself.
I know how you feel, at one point and still now waivering with my comforts. I love to game and digest anime all day, but it doesnt help that nagging feeling of substance. You can only be entertained so long on two small mediums of live before the wanting of more hits you. It can be crippling that weight of experience and pursuit of live. But its what allows us to appreciate those comforts and find true passions to pursue that ultimately fulfill us.
All I can say is I sympathize, but I diverge into many passions and allowed the comfort of my passions to busy myself instead of being productive with them towards my path in life. Set yourself an objective not a goal, but something you feel pressed to the head with a gun to fulfill and wont allow yourself to slack on. Even if its simple thing as exercise many people who work on the focus towards that and accomplish it like their life depends on it realize the task at hand was completed. Hopefully you feel inspired to simply act and say this is what I want and allow for myself. Listen to your intuition and feel proud that you expect more from yourself.
Hope that helps and Mobile Suit G-Gundam is best. Fuck the outdated gunpla T-T
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What the fuck is this shit
Typically I only fap once a week. But i fucked up and fapped twice yesterday, and twice today.. I feel like absolute shit. Almost like being hungover, I have a headache, I feel very anxious, I just feel really fucking uncomfortable. I'm so mad at myself for fapping today. After doing it twice yesterday I should have stopped because I felt off. But i sat at the computer all day and it just happened.
How do I make this feeling go away, I feel like shit
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>>18590610
Get a girlfriend and stop crying like a little bitch.
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>>18590610
Avoid sites that lead you to porn, 4chan is probably a good start, its right up there.
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>>18590610
You could have caused an inflamed prostate. It's happened to me a couple of times before. Don't be tempted to fap again, that's the worst mistake you can make, I've done it before and it wasn't pretty. Just relax, drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep, and if it doesn't go away in a couple of days, go and see a doctor. Or go and see a doctor tomorrow if it gets worse.
If you feel lightheaded seek immediate medical attention. I'm not a doctor, of course so only you can determine if you feel sick enough to go seek help now.
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There's this girl I was messaging who suddenly stopped messaging me. We generally have good rapport so I'm unsure as to want prompted her lack of response. As of now it's been two weeks since we've exchanged messages and I'm wondering if I should message her. The last message I sent her was asking her how she's been.
Now I understand that there might be a myriad of reasons and I'm inclined to believe she just forgot because she's usually so forthright with me.
Help me out /adv/. Should I message her?
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>>18590580
After losing contact, have you tried to reach her once?
If "yes", then move on. If "no", send her a message and if she doesn't respond, move on.
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>>18590592
No not really. That's what I was planning to do; just wondered if it was a good idea.
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/adv/, I recently had a rubber band ligation on a hemorrhoid and am due to have two more procedures. I have lots of issues with my digestive system and I believe I have IBS.
I experience bouts of diarrhea and constipation and even had brief fecal incontinence today. I drink 64 ounces of water every day and eat two to three Greek yogurts along with light snacks like popcorn, pretzels, sometimes some dark chocolate, and carrots and berries at some times.
Has anyone else dealt with intestinal chaos? What do I do to end this madness?
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(pretzels?!)
i have a really weak digestive system, partly cause i was born too early and was fed crap at the hospital (thanks soviet system), partly cause i got prescribed too many antibiotics as a kid.
what helps me whenever it's all going weird is to take probiotics. greek yogurt doesn't cut it, i'm sorry to break it to you. it's something!! but it's not nearly enough for people like us.
i don't want to recommend a specific brand, but like, spare no money on this. there is a huge difference between probiotics and probiotics. make sure there are many different strains included in the probiotics you buy, and that they are live strains. your eyes might pop at the price tag, but they are great stuff.
remember to exercise regularly, even if you do half an hour of yoga from youtube per day, it helps. like twist and stretches to your torso help your belly.
make sure you breathe properly during the entire day.
check the waist of all your clothing to make sure they're not too tight.
i also like to add a soup day per week.
etc
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>>18590577
that's crazy, I'm sorry to hear that.
I thought pretzels would be okay as long as I didn't have a gluten intolerance..
What particular brands have helped you? I really thought Greek yogurt would help, it actually alleviated bloating pains in my lower abdomen.
I'll follow your advice as close as possible but I'm not so sure about how my digestive system compares to yours
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Hey /adv/
I just applied for a second student loan for an MA degree, and I have parental support paying for my rent.
I feel really useless at this point; even though I want to pursue my degree, it is not something with which I can tutor kids, and I feel really useless and guilty about letting a debt pile up without working.
So I want to get a job, but I'm an unfit manlet who was recently rejected from an application to be a bike delivery boy.
What can I do
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Im M18, fat and never accomplished anything in my life. No job or girlfriend not even hobbies. Everytime I try to do something good for myself it fails after less than a month. I sleep most of my time.
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>>18590507
you aren't willing to be bad at anything, so you're not getting good at anything
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Don't worry about gf, or get one who is on your level of attractiveness.
Plenty of people are fat, it's mostly metabolism (unless you are binge eating, it's understandable.) Just eat for metabolism (study Ray Peat, he focuses on this): fruit juice, fruit, milk, dairy, rice... avoid junk food, obviously, and don't be gluttonous.
The job issue, assuming you have good support, you can do it if you just want it. Stop being lazy and put some effort buddy. Everyone has to be persistent to succeed.
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>>18590507
You are 18, your life is just starting. You don't need to be good at stuff to have a good time. Just do what you enjoy. You'll get better with practice.
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School or traveling to learn martial arts
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I can't decide whether to go to college and stay there for 2-4 years while in the marines(active duty) to pay for it. Ideally i want to be done with college and the military my the time i'm 20. Or to just join the military for 2 years and leave with the money I've saved up to learn martial arts in other countries(Plan to learn one here in U.S). Countries would be Russia,China, and Thailand.
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you just made me reevaluate my life.
i would say martial arts. people will say its useless and will get you no where but the right schools have far more than fighting skills to teach you practically applicable things like natural medicines and self healing to name a couple of thigs some schools will tech you.
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>>18590449
Do what you want op. Schools teach you how to get the sheep skin. Martial arts can teach you about life, philosophy, and spirituality if taught by the right teacher.
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>have college STEM education
>can't graduate because I get fucked over by university
>move back home
>finally find a decent job after a year
>two years later and the company has gone to shit, treats me like shit, keeps me from advancing
>try to get helpdesk jobs around town
>companies show immediate interest based on resume
>never get past phone interviews despite being able to confidently answer questions
This shithole screwed me so hard that I can't even afford a studio in a non dangerous part of town despite working full time and earning 12/hr. A better job would let me do that but I get fucked over no matter what I do.
So my question is, how feasible is it to find jobs out of state with only work experience for a big name company? I have enough tech knowledge to get A+ and cisco certs if I can have them paid for, but I never get a chance to even demonstrate it.
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There is a reason you aren't getting jobs and it's unlikely that your current job is the reason. You need to make a new game plan.
It's just as easy to get a job in another place unless you live in some rural shit hole.
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>>18590442
Take you Cisco certs it'll help you get a job. Test is like CCNA or CCNP or some shit like that if its networking. It's like 300$ or something like that. Save the money up and do it. I'm sure you can cut back on something and save enough money
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>>18590470
It does kind of limit my options because I work a weird schedule and have trouble being able to get off for interviews. I'm not blaming the job for not being able to find a different one, if anything the company is why I'm getting so many call backs for applications. The issue is that I can't even get an in person interview because of some unknown reason. I don't bullshit the HR people, I tell them that I want a more challenging job and that I was able to do everything they list in the job listing which is true. I don't know if I'm just not using magical buzzwords or what.