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so for like the past year of my life i've really off and on had lots of anxiety over my sexuality.
"hocd" seems silly and idk why i have this problem, but i really feel like i'm constantly questioning whether or not i'm bi or gay.
i mean, all of my actions and feelings in the past tell me that i'm straight. i've enjoyed all of my relationships with women and i've definitely had strong feelings for women and i fantasize about girls that i like every day, but there's like this nagging "what if i'm wrong" thing that's in my head every day and it drives me crazy.
i've never had a "crush" on a dude and i really struggle to see myself with a guy and most of the time it just makes me really uncomfortable. i don't think i've even ever had or wanted to have an experience that was just outright gay, and the sexual attraction to other guys is slim to none.
but it's really frustrating and i just want to move on with my life and feel comfortable being myself again. before i was genuinely happy being a straight guy, and i still have those feelings, but it's clouded by this weird anxiety and i don't know why.
i mean, could it be that i'm in denial? that seems really hard to believe to me but idk. or is it just a mental thing? i've had other similar obsessive, looping anxieties before, but this one is definitely the most troublesome. i just want to feel normal and comfortable again but i can't make this totally go away.
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Idk where else to ask this, but I am planning on not going to college this fall. I just graduated high school, and I am enrolled at a public university in texas, but I do not want to go right away. I have $8000 saved up and want to travel a bit and then attend university next fall. I haven't paid for classes yet, but I have put a down payment on my housing, attended orientation, and chosen my classes. Will it count as dropping out of college if I stop now? I ask because the university I am looking at in spain charges more in credit fees if it is your second round in college. Pls help.
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>>18591219
Here's a bizarre, off the wall idea: Why not ask them?
We are not likely to be conversant with the policies of some unnamed Spanish university. But the university itself will know, and will not hold it against you if you ask.
Based only on the few US universities I know about, it is probable that you could withdraw your application and it would be as if you never applied. You might or might not be able to get your housing deposit back.
It is also possible that they might maintain your acceptance but delay it a year, so you could be assured of a spot next year.
But you have to ask them, not us
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I met a nice girl over Tinder, she is really cool, funny and I enjoy a lot talking to her. I want to meet her, however, she told me she considers herself asexual. She has had boyfriends and had chances of fucking but bursted in laughter.
I consider myself a very sexual person, so I know this will be a problem if we ever get to that point. What should I do?
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>>18591212
Well, if she is really asexual, drop it. OR, if you are both really interested in each other and she is open minded, just tell her that you'll fuck other grills just for the pleasures but you'll love her. High chance of failure, but you won't lose much with an asexual girl if you are a very sexual person.
My ex gf let me fuck others because she knew I only loved her, I never did it but it was just an example.
Good luck.
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>>18591212
>me and this girl are totally incompatible but I'm so beta I think this is my only chance at female companionship what do i do?
I rephrased the question to be a bit more honest, now tell me how you would answer this.
>GF wanna go long distance for 6 months.
> I can't do that if I am honest with myself.
Anyone have a similar situation? All I can come up with is breaking up. Is there a viable alternative? Also share similar story if applicable.
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>>18591209
Why do you think you can't handle it?
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What makes you think you can handle that? get out dude
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>>18591247
I understand that this is a difficult and emotional situation for you, I'm just trying to understand why. No need to let your pain drive you to lash out at me, I'm a friend not a foe
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How do I stop overanalysing everything
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>>18591139
Get drunk
Or
Just do it
Mates give me some fucking advice please.
So im dating someone not super sexual like me but we haven't done anything and i love her to death but for some reason i cant fucking control my urges and pretty much jerk off every night to her. She says how sexual i am is okay and shes willing to deal with it (did i mention this was LDR?) And the thing is, she wont get sexual with me until we've dated for atleast a year.
Honestly,I concur with her on that. Its not a good idea to rush things, especially since we both hold our virginities dearly.
The thing is she loves me for who i am and kinda knew i was like this but i want to change for the better for her. Im doing all i can to be a better person for her to feel like i deserve her
Like i've started working out and i've been for 2 months and showing change. No one has ever gotten me to do that like her. (Shes not forcing me, this is my own intentions)
but this is one thing thats really hard to get over.I feel the need to be more patient and its getting hard as these sexual urges are like a shook soda can every day as if i need to do it every day.
Is there any advice for cold turkeying this shit, please? I've done everything to do to try and get my mind off it but when im talking to her it gets very intense in my head.
To rub salt in the wound: Previous sexting partners want to do shit with me still. Prevoking me as this current girlfriend refuses to give sexual, well, anything.
I dont want them, i want her, i love her to death. This is the best girl i've ever been with. Out of anyone i've been with irl and ldr.
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Tl;dr
HOW TO STOP JERKING OFF AND GETTING SO SEXUAL
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>>18591074
you probably shouldn't stop jerking off
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I'm too insecure to hold my own opinions and rely strictly on others to help solidify my thoughts. How do I move past this?
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Holy shit, are you me?
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>>18591278
Congratulations, you're both human beings without autism. Enjoy being a predatory pack mammal.
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>>18591069
You're too concious
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I've met this girl online recently who I've hit it off with really well.
The only thing I am currently struggling with is progressing past the "friend" stage - considering I know we both have a mutual interest in each other.
But at the moment it's just that, mutual interest. I don't have any experience with LDR's so I'm sort of strugging to move it past this stage a little bit.
Any tips before this just becomes a missed opportunity?
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ask if she wants a relationship before you cuck yourself.
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>>18591029
Try getting her to share more information about herself. Try getting her to do things with you. Try starting and continuing conversations. Go from there.
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>>18591078
I think I'm going to try to get her on skype video chat more, but otherwise I'm doing all of that already. It's just still a bit too close to that "friends" vibe y'know?
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really low on money and I need some. How do I start dealing drugs? Live in Australia. I've sold spare DNP, ephedrine, adderall before, but that was just my left overs. How do I source for selling?
Thinking of just selling weed to uni students since I'm a uni student.
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I am bored out of my fucking mind and nothing satisfies me. Only thing I want to do ks make money, please give me some ideas on how to do so, please don't say: "Lol get a job noob" I already have one but I want to make more money from other things
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>22
>No job history
>Tech school certificate
>Been a neet for 8 months now
How do i join the ranks of the wagecuckery?
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>>18590989
Told this to another anon, I'll tell it to you too.
Dress business casual. Groom yo ass. Obviously.
Talk about customer service skills. (if you don't know what constitutes a customer service skill: https://www.helpscout.net/blog/customer-service-skills)
Speak clearly.
Before you go in, prepare some questions about the company, because in my own experience, at some point, they'll say "do you have any questions for me?"
They will definitely say "tell me about yourself." Have something prepared for this. Something that makes you sound capable.
That first handshake communicates SO MUCH, but it has to be firm. FIRM. Just like I showed you. I didn't raise a quitter, Champ.
Look them in the eyes, but don't stare. Ya feel?
It's kind of late, but if you have the time, bill up a cover letter and a resume. If you don't know how, Google Docs is your best friend, but let me know if you need any other help.
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>>18591021
I threw a resume together and got 1 job interview from it so far(didnt get the job of course). I never under stood the point of a cover letter or whats supposed to go on it.
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>>18591048
>tossed fucking adobe preimere/photoshop experiance on my resume, for when I made shitty memes with pirated copies
>spammed it at anyone who would listen
>got job at really fucking comfy cellphone repair shop
>I have no fucking idea what I'm doing
wewlad
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I'm soon to graduate High School and I don't have any plans on attending college. There's nothing I'd like to study, and there's no careers I would like to get into. Even if I did, there's no way I'd be able to afford college. I'm thinking of enlisting in the Army and becoming an Infantryman.
Have any Anons here ever been in a situation like me? To those of you who have enlisted, what was your experience like?
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>>18590976
Yeah I've always felt like that.
I went to college for some bullshit
Got the degree and then went to be an officer in the Navy with that degree.
I wouldn't do Infantry. It's 95% total excruciating boredom (guard this parking lot for 12 hours) and 5% sheer terror (go patrol that IED ridden road and clear that building).
Go AF or Navy Seaman
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Is it ever acceptable or justified to call a partner names? Such as being called a retard in an argument.
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>>18590907
Depends. Was it meant to hurt? Then no.
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>>18590907
It's not right to call a partner names. However, we often lash out and play dirty when someone said or did something that touched an emotional raw spot. Like when you have a dog with a wound and you accidentally aggravate it, the dog may snap at you. And just as you would with a dog, the proper response isn't to get mad at your partner even if it hurts, but to be sad that you accidentally dug into that emotional wound.
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>tfw when seeing many beautiful girls on bus ride while going working
>tfw when you know not one of them ever will belong to you
>tfw when you return home at night, you'll sleep alone and lonely
>life is shit and sad
Make me cry /b
General feels thread
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>tfw not even replies on 4chan
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>>18590888
>/b
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>>18590855
protip: when you get the girls, you realize they're a curse, not a blessing.
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I've recently grown an addiction to porn , I don't know how to deal with it ( image not relevant)
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>>18590854
Run an internet search for "nofap".