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Why is it that I am only okay with black people when they're old? This dude was based. Also the "big mama" stereotype is also nice. But young nigeers just seem dumb and piss me off.
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Because they were treated as second class citizens and don't take shit for granted
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>>18595849
Because you think that the bad and dumb ones don't reach that age (not out of jail, at least), and when they do they're harmless
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>>18595849
>atheist
>based
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What does it mean when a girl tells you she feels anxious, (not anxious in a way youd be anxious about social interactions, but rather, distressed or panicked) . A girl ive known for almost a year snapped me this, and im wondering if it means something cause there are signs that shes into me, im not 100% sure tho.
Help me adv
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it means she's feeling anxious, what the fuck do you think? lol
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BEST CASE SCENARIO:
She's saying this b/c she wants to to comfort her and end said anxiety. She's into you
ACTUAL SCENARIO:
OP's a fag and she's just being honest
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What are the things that really annoy you, /adv/?
For me, I can't stand when people assume that either because:
>I'm a millennial
>I know how to use a computer
That I'm somehow always attached to an electronic device. Just this past week a colleague was upset that I shared a file with them and they couldn't open it. They texted me, called me, emailed me, and constantly sent me notices over Google Drive that the file was not shared. Turns out they were trying to access it using the wrong account and just needed to log into their work email from home, but when I told them they said it was "my fault" even though I sent it to their work email with them in the room and verbally told them to their face that's what I was doing.
They stated that I should have known better because clearly I was a "nerd" who just didn't want to help somebody "older and computer illiterate."
Fucking gets me every time. Really rustles my jimmies.
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>>18595823
I can't stand the double standard with women. It pisses me off how there are just so many things our culture lets them get away with while holding men doubly accountable.
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I hate being stuck in the house. Before I enjoyed video games and tv but now I only see them as a waste of time. My current go to for days like this is reading and simulated human interaction via 4chan, but I can't keep this up. What else can I do when I'm stuck in the house? I do volunteer work to get myself out as much as possible.
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Anime. There is no down time when you're in anime.
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>>18595857
Funnily enough anime is what inspired me to start lifting, and still does.
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The thing is that you don't like to be with yourself, you'll have to deal with it and find why are you avoiding contacting with yourself
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Hello, /adv/, I have a need of knowledge and advice.
So at this new work (it's mah third week) we work a lot in Excel. We don't program it or anything, we just use it all the fucking time.
My higher ups want me to learn VBA so I could keep programming Excel and continue what others have done. The thing is - What's written so far is for advanced people, and not noobs like me. My only experience in coding was creating a small text game via C#.
I know most of the basic terms.
I have until Thursday to study a LOOOTTT of VBA coding, and I seek your advice.
Also, when I say what's written so far is complicated, I mean it's fucking MASSIVE. Pages upon pages of code which allows the normal workers to use special functions, like pressing on a button to automatically send mail, or to keep a special tab of notes which you can save & load at will and even edit.
Where is the best place to learn it, what's the best way to go over the subject, and how the hell I can remember all of it?
I'm currently on this series of vids:
youtube.com/watch?v=c8reU-H1PKQ&list=PLNIs-AWhQzckr8Dgmgb3akx_gFMnpxTN5&index=5
pic related, digimon are in the computer.
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I take depression pills - 20mg of paroxetine and 25 mg of lamotriginum a day (i know that these are small dosage, but it works for me, im sensitive as hell for medication).
The problem is sex. Paroxetine makes me NOT sensitive at all.
I still have big sex needs (i've always had...), also i have recently found a girlfriend, and i am so really attracted to her, but when she touches me it's just... meh. I can cum by myself, after looong and to be honest - not pleasurable session, sometimes it's necessary for me not to get crazy, during my period for example.
Next weekend i gonna have hot date with my sweetheart, and i completely don't know what to do. Is it possible to stop taking paroxetine for such a small amount of time to avoid withdrawal symptoms (which are awful, i've already went through this...), and gain lost sexual sensitivity? I want that night to be magical...
In a long term, i know there is a drug Wellbutrin, it fucks with depression, but it doesnt destroy fucking, unafortunately it's hella expensive, and i probably cant afford it.
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I have same problem. I did paroxetin two years, i was even anorgasmic at all, effect ends after three months after paroxetin.
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Created a forum - idk how to promote it
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>friend is a website developer
>we've created a forum
>went live today
>realised neither of us have the money needed to buy ads
>don't rly know how to promote for free/cheaply
>ohfuck.jpeg
Any advice?
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>>18595710
> create forum
> make post about not knowing how to promote it
> doesn't link it
You already failed
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Lol releasing a site with no active marketing campaign . No one noticed you launched so what's the point.
Relaunch but build a community with a soft launch.
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>>18595717
Thought it would look too obvious
www.gehenna.club
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tl;dr [spoiler]I'm trying to interest younger girl.[/spoiler]
All my life I (21yrs) haven't had a single kiss with girl except from family. Well, I had some crushes - was close to serious relationship in junior high but screwed up with my hesitation.
In high school had crush too, but I was only her good friend. Overally, during highschool I probably got "this good, funny >>>friend<<<" from girls. Well, I was reconciled with this at least.
Im after my second year of IT studies and given my faculty's nature - there no cute girls so I hadn't even chance to fall in love.
To the point - I'm anime enthusiast and one time per year I'm going to the con in my country. It was my third time. We go in 10ppl pack because we can't stand the rest of people in there.
This year I met there 18yrs old girl - cute (as for m/a is strange) and stoic. We talked to ourselves sometimes but not as much.
I was so intimidated by her that I wrote to her 3 days ago on fb. And well - she is so polite, that she don't dismiss me with some excuses. I try to keep talking to her, but it looks sometimes to me like I'm forcing this.
I'm not used to talking about nothing but I tried so we still had some connection.
I just had to lament to you. Idk if I should still talk to her or leave her cuz maybe she is too polite to be sincere with me.
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I've had some hemorrhoids for years, but they haven't bothered me because they're small and under control.
Last night my GF and I has sex, and we didn't do any butt stuff. However, my hemorrhoids are now swollen and I can barely sit.
Is there a connection there? Is it just a coincidence?
She's going to buy some medicated ointment now, si it'll be okay, but I wonder if we should suspend sex for now.
We did it in the missionary position, like God wants.
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if it doesnt get better with the cream, consider going to a doctor, also hemorrhoids can also get trombosis, especially true for smokers and people who drink lots of alcohol (they get swollen, red and you jump into the air, if they touch anything) then you should go to the ER imidiately.
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How often do you do anal to get hemorrhoids??
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>>18595696
Probably just a coincidence.
>I've had some hemorrhoids for years, but they haven't bothered me because they're small and under control.
this is a mistake. you should not have them. They are a sign of bad things within.
You should...
- eat well
- take baths not showers (with salt if you can)
- don't powershit, take your time shitting
I've gotten a couple, and wanted them gone right away.
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What does /adv/ think? I have been looking into it for a while, but haven't made up my mind yet. I'm looking for a dog that is aggressive, big, strong, loyal.
He would be protecting my house, and I really do need good protection.
Any thoughts?
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>>18595635
doberman
my brother reunited with his gf for the 4th time after breaking up 3 times before.
is this normal? what is happening?
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>>18595567
It's not normal, and your brother is an idiot.
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>>18595574
they are both idiots.
>maybe they need now for you to step in
and end things alrdy since its clearly not working out before smthing ugly happens.
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What do I do about my girlfriend?
She's very insecure, she suffers from severe depression and probably suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder. She's not very toxic like some people but her insecurity, neediness and lack of emotional fortitude has taken its toll on me.
I won't go into all the details, this is just 4chan, but I maintain that if the genders were reversed her actions could be considered abusive.
She's my first girlfriend (which explains why I'm reluctant to break up) and she's really made me feel like I have someone to confide in. She's a lovely person when emotionally stable, caring and loyal, witty and the sex is mind blowing. I wasn't in a great place when I first met her, and I think having a partner helped lift me out of that.
While I'm quite emotionally stable, and generally realistic about how dysfunctional our relationship can be, I haven't had the balls to break up with her. The problem is, I don't think I'll be better off without her - but it has affected some of my friendships and restricted my opportunities to socialise with a wider group of friends.
Any advice is appreciated, especially if it's someone who has gone through this before.
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>>18595565
> typical women
anon i don't see the problem here , literally none
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>>18595565
>abusive
>affected some of my friendships
>restricted my opportunities to socialise
Dude, leave. Restricting other social ties in order to control you better is some basic abusive shit. That's how it starts, so that when she goes nuts on you, you won't have anyone left to turn to for help and support. She's insane or at least getting there, no matter how sweet and lovely she acts when she's feeling like it. I get that she's your first gf, but if you stay with her you're just indicating that her bullshit is fine by you and you'll put up with anything from her. It will only escalate from here.
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Having a partner in general will affect your social circle, so I'm not so sure that's unique to her.
She needs her own friends, therapy, and her own life (job / school / hobby). Perhaps take some time apart (I do not mean a "break", I mean maybe one of you visit family by themselves or travel alone for a few weeks by themselves)
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how to stop addiction 2017-08-06 04:15:57 Post No.18595559
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how do you overcome addiction? I always need to be addicted to something. whether it's drinking alcohol, drinking energy drinks or porn I'm always having to have some sort of thing to be addicted to. I'm tired of living like this but it feels like when I'm not drinking or something I feel so depressed I don't want to move, like I"m in a black hole.
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>>18595559
Get addicted to mental exercise.
At least, however much you overdo it, it wont kill you like physical exercise could.
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>>18595566
thanks yeah I think I just need to re-wire my brain to new addictions. I was addicted to physical exercise for a while and was like a madman. sometimes I pushed myself so hard I would get a fever. I know how not to push it that far anymore.. but the physical exercise I had a certain goal, which I did achieve.
I need a tangible goal. I don't know why but it's like I only have two modes: go or die. when I go I go as hard as possible. when I don't i feel like I'm crumbling apart.
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Well how screwed am I? Also, I already know Im crazy and beyond stupid for what I did, so no need to scold me. Today before work something pretty bad happened which affected me emotionally which is irrelevant right now to go into. Anyway I go into work even though im super emotional and cant stop crying because I cant call off because I have too many points and calling off, even if I was desperately sick, would still make me get terminated. Anyway, I try to wipe my face up and stuff but I still am really emotional and obviously cant conduct myself properly so my manager pulls me over and asks whats up and basically wants me to go home obviously. This is where I just turn retarted and burst out a lie because I don't wanna get fired for leaving early. I tell her that a cousin of mine died, which is untrue, because I know my work allows people time off without getting points if a death happens.
Now Im scared to go back into work tomorrow because theyll probably want proof and obviously I dont have that. What the fuck do I do? Tell them the truth and tell them why?
How screwed am i? im obviously a fucking idiot, a liar, and deserves to get caught in it because lying about someone dying is super fucking horrible. I dont exactly think things through obviously.
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Just tell you lied because the thing was hurting you and you wanted it to remain private, if you told what you were thinking it would have driven you insane because you were trying not to think about it. And say you are sorry you were being so emotional at work.
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>>18595534
they ask death certificate copy or what?
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How do I learn to love the man in the mirror?
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>>18595524
Build him into someone you could love.
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It's not that I don't know who I am, it's that I'm
starting to deeply understand key aspects of myself I don't like and that has always been there, and I just can't deal with those truths.
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>>18595831
sounds like you could use some therapy man