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Yo, whats up with groups of overweight women calling each other "beautiful ladies"?

They cant mean on the outside, they are very not beautiful.

They cant mean on the inside, theyre nasty as fuck.

They cant mean spiritually, theyre godless individuals

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So hey /adv/, I guess I've been antisocial most of my life, no idea why, but recently was with an alright friend and they said something that really hit me hard, and made me realize how little I have experienced when I was young. Every day I'm counting the times I could have made friends, or done something more social with my life, and failed, and have got pretty depressed from it all.
Any advice on how to not feel so down? I'm open to anything, but really not sure how I'm going to deal with it. Trying not to think about suicide.
Pic kinda related. One of my obsessions was aircraft, and a reason why I was so isolated was that I guess.

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Some time ago, some guy with an obsession with my life convinced a girl that he could set her up with me. He told her he and I were best friends, fed her a false narrative in my name, constructed a fantasy relationship, and then posed as me, over text, for weeks or months.

She and I had only met in person twice, but during those meetings I'd unwittingly reinforced the narrative this guy was spinning.

Long story short: He fucked with her psychologically and emotionally. I did eventually find out about it, but she denied or dismissed everything I said. I did get through to her eventually, but she still sees me as unreasonable and/or emotionally unstable.

When we talk, she gets defensive and lashes out at me for things I didn't say or do. I don't blame her for this. In fact..I really care for her, and I might even love her to some degree.

But we don't really talk anymore and she doesn't understand, or chooses not to understand, the reality of the situation we were in.

But I dunno, she's coping with it in her own way, is seeing someone, and we're not a part of one another's lives`. Is there any point in reaching out to her again to try to explain things?

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So soon 19 seeking some sort of advice(?)

Along with my beloved beta friends from same town (about 20k people) we fairly confirmed that we don't have any girls that'd fit our preferences, barely relating to appearance
Tried using various places to find me a person to realize they were useless. Insert date sites, tinder, well rl approach exists too.
Might not be very surprising, am not a party person, like staying in my underground.

But saying for myself, I feel pretty insecure about future (extraordinary).
About two years ago decided to make my body slightly more appealing so lost about almost 20kg and am also almost pretty much at proper weight and my look is propably average or better
My interests are propably not extraordinary if it is mainly drawing with occasional games and watching anime with "that slightly rougher taste"
My music be generally techno without getting further into genres
My social life is aight(?)
Also don't smoke nor drink
Also pretty much degraded my own persona in every aspect so I could find even a "normie" girl interested in me
Often try to pretend confidence, so can easily hide shyness
Besides having primal instinct desires like anyone I mainly wish to find me a soulmate gf, so even a potential wife.
While being in this generation I also feel hatred for how pussylike people have become about relationships, although I bet this sounds like the typical wish to SMASH

Not sure what else significant could I present but I feel like my general life approach is unappealing for the opposite gender, as well as quite rare combination of things in one person (despite saying about not being this special).

My current plans are to hope for develop of current status quo in next year when September starts and when I'll go to maybe some art or logistics Uni in one of near cities.
Should I keep on being patient?

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Hey, so I saw this guy in a porn video and I was wondering what to tell my barber (who probably watches porn too) if I want the same haircut.

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Why am I such unrelatable garbage?

I don't feel, or like, or think anything. I'm revolted by my own opinions because they feel phony. I don't know what the fuck I am.

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Hey /ADV/, is there anyone tech savvy that can tell me about rooting my phone? I would like to do so but I am not sure if I should.
(Pic obviously not related)

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>Be me
>See Mucous Cyst on my finger
>Don't know what it is yet
>Bite it
>Figure out what it was after a few minutes of research
I'm scared, anons. Give me step 2. I'm too poor to see a doctor.

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How do I be a nice guy?

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I dont know why but it's really hard for me to say happy birthday to someone. Anyone. All my life I really avoid mentioning anything birthday related on someone's birthday. I avoid making phone calls and texts to wish someone a happy birthday.

I don't do this because I hate people or to be rude I just cant bring myself to do it.

Now i'm sitting alone, realizing this about myself, with a phone in my hand, debating whether or not i should call my grandpa to wish him a happy birthday (which was technically yesterday). But something is preventing me from dialing his number and calling him.

Anyone know why I can't do this?? Is this some mental/anxiety issue or am I just simply a pussy? I'd just like someone else's take on this situation

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Tl;Dr Version: Don't know if I should lease a new place for my gf and I for a year or save money and wait.

So I unfortunately moved back into my parents house after spending a few months living with my gf and her roommates. I had to move back in after one of my gf's roommates moved back in after spending a few months out of state doing an internship. Didn't realize until a few weeks prior that I had the option of moving back in with my parents, so I chose that after I couldn't find a decent roommate through Craigslist. Now I don't hate my parents, I just hate my living situation here.

Anyways, my gf's roommates will be leaving at the end of the year and she'll have no other choice but find a new place. She graduates a semester prior to the rest of her roommates and she wouldn't be able to afford the rent at the house she currently lives at. She also wants to go out of state and go to graduate school after she graduates this spring semester.

Here's my dilemma... I want to move out and get a place of my own, and at the end of the year, she would move in with me. If I get a place now, I'd probably have to sign a year long lease and idk if she would want to stay till August 2018 before we could move wherever for her graduate program. If I decide to stay at my parents till the end of the year, and then we decide to move to a new place together, we would then have to stay longer. She could find a new place of her own, but she really doesn't want to do that.

I really don't know what to do and on top of that, I've never had to sign a lease or move out on my own so that by itself makes me nervous as hell. I love this girl, she's beyond faithful and has made me and my life so much more exciting and worth living for. Maybe the answer is obvious to you all, and maybe because I'm focusing so hard on it that I'm also overlooking a simply answer to it all.

What do you all think?

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Story thus far:
>Currently 23 y/o male in PhD program
>Last gf was at age 18 in my senior year of high school
>Tried a few times to date during undergrad (only took 5 semesters there, maybe asked out ~5-6 girls)
>Have tried twice in grad school
>Never made it past a second date, they don't generally seem in any way interested
>Facing increasing familial pressure to find a partner

I want to try to get a partner, but it feels like the one gf I've had was pretty much a fluke, I don't know what the progression into a relationship is supposed to look like. In no particular order, I was hoping to ask

>what are social conventions for dating in my age group (should I use an app?)
>as I'm of fairly normal appearance, would shooting for someone way less desirable than me to up my chances be conspicuous that I want my family off my back
>does anyone else who doesn't like being touched have advice on sex (not a virgin, but I've been out of practice for the above 5.5 years and the last time I did it was fairly tooth-grating

Thanks senpaitachi

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Is it okay to use Tumblr for the cool art and poetry, or is this how people become radical feminists?
I should be safe if I stay away from the politics blogs, right?

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guys I get a little depressed and neglect things I should be doing. What strategies have you developed for keeping yourself motivated and dealing with depression?

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Soon after our break up my ex girlfriend blocked me and deleted all evidence of us together. Most ex's don't do this so I guess it's because I'm so repulsive it's embarrassing for her? I bragged about being with her all the time so I'm hurt she didn't feel the same way, even though she wanted to marry me at one point.