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this seems like the eventual dwelling of overemotional sissy GIRLS!

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How do I fix my head?
I have everything already from looks to charisma to being financially stable(not rich, but doing well enough that I can afford stuff I want) except for a "real" romantic relationship with a woman.
The problem is, while courting someone I always go the distance, but after I get to fuck the woman all the "feelings" disappear, they probably weren't feeling in the first place.
It doesn't matter how great of a person or how beautiful the woman is, after fucking once I get bored immediately.

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I came to realize this after meeting a Japanese woman who I swear to fucking god is so pretty and kind, not to mention she's also a singer in Japan but is just traveling. I did the usual courting shit people do, dating, going out, whatever the fuck else. Then came the other day where we spent 2 nights and 1 day fucking the shit out of each other. I just arrived home, we're still messaging each other, but what I felt the past couple of weeks is now completely gone and I just want to find someone else again.

Is finding a partner really even necessary?

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What steps does a completely uneducated individual have to take in order to publish a roleplaying game system?

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I have incredible anxiety and confidence issues. It's gotten so bad that I can't hold conversations with people online unless I'm anonymous, and I can't even maintain my own Facebook page. The idea of posting something where almost everyone I know can see it fills me with dread, because I think my post will be weird or in bad taste. When others reach out to me I don't reciprocate, because I'm always convinced they hate me by the time they're done interacting with me. I filter myself heavily when it comes to IRL conversations, and I seldom enjoy them because my focus isn't on the conversation itself as opposed to what the other people is thinking about me.

I can't create stable relationships or friendships, and of course this sort of thing affects my ability to network or build strong bonds with people at work too. It's getting harder and harder to function. Would anybody have any advice for this kind of issue?

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If you live in the NE US, you know our drivers are garbage. I've lived in several states in the US and the closer you get to DC the worse the drivers get. That said, I need input on an idea.

Citizens that have dashcams in their cars could send copies of the footage to police stations. If a crime is recorded, the police can then issue a citation and mail it to the owner of the vehicle(similar to red light cameras).

I'm certain there are a great deal many issues with this proposal but I would like advice on evolving it to make it half decent. I think the following would be required:

1) Clear evidence and view of the crime committed(No half shots).
2) Clear view of the license plate of the vehicle.
3) A lead time of 60 seconds prior and 60 seconds after of the user's dash cam to prevent scamming.

I'm basing this loosely on the idea of red light cams, but instead of checking poles for cameras people would essentially have to assume every car on the street is watching them for crime. I think a second benefit to this would be education people that mail in tapes whether or not something is against the law. "We understand you didn't like the way he merged, but it is technically the correct way to drive. Sorry you spilled your ice cream on yourself during the event. Maybe next time don't drive while eating."

Any constructive advice welcome.

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I don't know what happened to me. In short I went through alot of shit. Then i came out of it, and people's love towards me started to change me back to "feeling" things. I guess I was bullied and harassed; downright tortured by almost everyone. My crime was being good at something and making people feel little.

Problem is that I now hold thoughts towards people which are very wrong, and I feel tremendously guilty towards them. When I see people in real life I talk to them as if they are monkeys or children, because I feel like they are. They are not even cute like cats or dogs so its hard to have empathy.

Most women look like ugly leather bags and they have no feelings or substance worth knowing about, very rarely do I like someone (but when I do I like them alot). To me most women are driven by an evolutionary desire to find the best provider they can, and beyond that point they are nothing but insects with feelings which are rarely above a mindless reflex.

How can I get rid of this hate for the common person? I am not an elitist or an asshole. Actually, the other day I had a long convo with a girl on a wheel chair who had a speech disorder. But I considered her a human being and I could "connect" with her. Something about her presence drew me in like a magnet.

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hard position in my life, so anons need to step up your game


> 1 month (i'm on the 5th day) these workers have torn down the bathroom and kitchen inside my house, so my parents took another apartment for that 1 month.
>family problems
>collage starting soon
>economical problems

AND NOW, as i was coming back from my parents new apartment, someone has put super glue in my keyhole. I had to wait three hours before someone came and fixed it (finished 1am).
Yesterday, the same thing happend however my sister was home and i managed to get in, although the keyhole was completely blocked and the whole shit is currently broken, we need to get it changed.


What do? I've decided until i catch that filth i'll try watching the door through the "eye" in the door.

I went to the police station, and they said they couldnt do anything, however if i had proof they'd be able to help.

setting up a camera illegal they told me

what do other than watching the door?

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I hate my smile. I dont have grossly yellow teeth, or too terribly mangled arrangement, but I can't stand my smile. I love it when I'm frying, my smile is wide and pure. but any picture I see of me smiling, candid or otherwise, I look so foolish, so weak.

How does one practice smiling?

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I have a problem /adv/,
In the recent nights I've been having more and more incidents where I am sleeping in bed with my boyfriend and in my sleep, when I'm turning over or stretching in bed I manage to unconsciously smack him in the face. I feel awful because I can't control this. We are a long distance couple and I'm used to having a double bed all to myself.

A few times he told me he tried to wake me up by shaking me lightly or saying my name to which my response is grumbling in my sleep. Last night I elbowed him several times in the bed to the point he decided to move and lsy his head on the other side. I don't know what to do about this or how to stop it.

I was reading a little online and apparently there could be a link with night terrors. I struggle with anxiety and I have very vivid dreams to the point I think they're real though a lot of the time I can't remember them later.

What can I do to stop hitting him at night? I would never hurt him intentionally. Another similar problem is that I apparently steal the covers a lot subconsciously

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25/m
So I don't really have sex a lot, not one for simple hookups and general issues with getting close to people.
And of the 10 or so sexual partners I've had in my life, a few of those long-term, I've only ever been able to cum with one of those.
No issues when masturbating, which I basically do daily tho.
I'm uncut and my tip being very sensitive is an issue as I never pull back my foreskin completely while masturbating, immediately loose my boner when that happens during sex.
Sometimes get soft without any reason anyways, never able to cum from sex, dick is average length, but very thin, microdick when soft.

Recently I've seen that in today's dating world sexual compatibility is extremely important to everyone, so I'll need to get this under control before actually dating, how tho?
I've tried nofap, then had a single hookup which didn't work out, after got ghosted by the girl.

Should I just get a hooker?
Should I get drugs, at least when starting out with a new date?
Where to get those?
Don't have any friends close enough to talk about that/ask for help...

TL/DR: Can't cum during sex.
How to fix?

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Living with a 4in is hard. I'm always feeling depressed and sad. I can never be fully confident, and feel like i can never satisfy my gf. I don't know what to do at this point. I need help...

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Are some people inherently boring and passionless?

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I don't know how to start a conversation nor keep it going. Any advice?

The context is trying to speak with some girl without sounding like an idiot.

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So i have been together with this girl for 7 years, shes beautiful, we have loads of fun together, and being this long together shes pretty much completely integrated into my family and circle of friends. She even went of the pill recently, so she might get pregnant in not to long

The thing is, i think she might have some kind of mental disorder, but is just really, really good at hiding it. It's the same with her dad, he seems like a great guy, but once you scratch the surface you realize he has some serious issues

95% of the time shes sweet and caring, but at times her ugly sides shows up (especially when she is drinking) and it really freaks me out. One example being she was having drinks with her colleagues a Friday night and wanted me to come along, i went and had a grand old time

I spent most of the evening talking with one of her co workers (a guy) which i have loads in common with and we both had a good time. On the way home she went completely ballistic about me being "anti social" despite it not being true at all. It ended with a huge fight (her yelling at me) over basically nothing and her crying herself to sleep

Shes also terrible at handling her emotions and especially conflict, so what it usually ends up with is her getting annoyed by small stuff, building it up over time and then taking it all out at once, getting upset over trivial shit

The worst part though is her responding really poorly to any critique and seemingly never forgetting it. For example a couple of months ago she made a soup that pretty much tasted like cardboard and when i said so she again got super upset. Also, these things i've mentioned and the examples are not isolated incidents and they all follow a common pattern

The thing is , her dad is very similar (only a lot worse). He to handles critique/conflict poorly and can get mad a long time over bullshit like my mother in law moving his tooth picks

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I don’t read books anymore.

I’m in my mid 30’s and I live ordinary life with plenty of free time. I always loved reading and I used to read at least one book per week. Last couple of years I sometimes re-read something, but I simply can’t force myself to start anything new. From time to time I go to bookstore and buy many books, put them on shelf and never read them.
When I take any book to my hands I get strange feeling of being too full of information and suddenly I feel tired and I don’t want to read it.

I always thought it’s TV fault and honestly I missed that feeling of excitement while reading books so much that I got rid of TV and I don’t watch it anymore for years. Once or twice per week I watch a movie on computer. But nothing changed, my brain is still clogged.

>>tl dr; I can’t read new books because my brain feels full of information and immediately feels tired.