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I wanna get my gf peridot earrings for her birthday. She's 5'0" tall. What size mm earrings should I get her? Seems like 6mm is what a lot of people get. Would that be to large for her ears?

First time buying her earrings and all she has is pears or cut silver ones but nothing with a single stone or diamond. What would you recommend? I want it to be a surprise so I can't just ask her
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Ear size has little to do with height so you're clearly a bit of an idiot. Also how big really depends on personal preference; 6mm is too big IMO but obviously someone is buying them.
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>>18600313
>you're clearly a bit of an idiot

Yup. That's why I'm seeking advice from /adv/

I'm really not sure what to go for. I don't want it to take up her whole ear. Maybe 4mm is better? It's hard to compare cause this is the first stone she's gonna wear so I can't just pick up one of her older earrings and compare size.
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>>18600318
If 4mm is an option, go with those. Not too big, not too small. Bigger studs with stones make me think of cheap hooker jewellery.

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I wanna make plans with someone, anyone besides this one annoying guy I know. Thing is, there is absolutely nothing to do in my town and I don't drive. I want to do something before work. I don't want all of my time off wasted in my house playing vidya and jacking off.
What do?
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>small town
>don't drive
what's your issue, OP? You should really be driving if you live in a small town.
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>>18600326
Car got evicted

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I constantly get angry at everybody and everything. I feel completely powerless to this and would like to know how to get rid of it. Or at the very least learn how to control it.
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>>18600281
Anger is sadness inside out.
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>>18600284
Well I always feel sad right after feeling angry so maybe. but I don't got shit to be sad about, so I get mad that im sad. It's like a pointless cycle
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I used to be this way.

I'd see someone do something stupid in traffic, and even if it didn't even slightly inconvenience me, I would get irrationally angry at it. Dumb shit happening used to make me so mad because it just didn't have to be that way. Why can't everything just work the way it's supposed to?

Once, I realized that there is a spectrum of world view betweenL
>thinking about how things should be and devoting your energy towards changing the entire world to fit your vision
>thinking about how things are and devoting your energy towards understanding it and working with or around it

One of these is realistic. One of them is romantic and idealistic.

Getting mad at shit changes absolutely nothing. Nobody gives a shit about your feelings. They're still going to pull out in front of you in traffic without signaling, because who cares, you're just a random dude. It's shitty but it's true.

If you do care about something enough to want to change it, you still have to understand it first.

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I'm studying EE right now and I don't know what type of thing I want to do. sometimes I really hate how companies try to seem extremely altruistic, how everything is meant to help people. sometimes I hate people and I feel like technology makes people lazier and I don't want to help people. is there an area of engineering where everything feels justified? what should I do
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civil

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https://www.instagram.com/p/BB1TSSlwjU4/?hl=en&taken-by=colesprouse

I don't know if it's just that clip but I'm star struck anyhoo Makes me wonder if the way movies are shot can make the male viewer gay eventually after enough exposure since it's filmed in a way so as to evoke adoration from the viewer/camera?
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It's only gay if you would fuck him

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>be me
>me and 3 other people i know agree to go in on a 5 bedroom apartment back in december
>one of the roomies says her friend can fill the fifth room
>we don't really know him
>"ok if you think he's a good fit"
>8 months pass and we're moving in next week
>5th roomie throws a party at his parents house while they're away
>it has some shitty techno theme no one cares about and he starts freaking out at someone for taking aux so i gtfo
>already really not excited to live with this fag
>see him in the hospital on his snapchat story a couple hours
>find out the next morning that he started cutting himself with a sword and then pulled a gun on some kid to get everyone to leave
>no way in hell we're living with this kid now

what do i do /adv/? the kid is already on the lease and we're not sure if he's gonna abandon it and sublease his room willingly and i haven't been able to find a solid answer as to what out rights are as far as kicking him out goes.
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where do you live?
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Inform your landlord of the situation, I wouldn't want a maniac living on my rental property.
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>>18600198
Wisconsin

Hi adv
20 virgin male here. Never had a gf and I always had trouble opening my feelings towards women. That being said, I can openly talk to anyone about almost any topic, except for what I feel for a femanon. Not long ago, I've started using tinder and started talking a bit seriously with a girl. Now it's been some days I'm talking to her.
What I mean by "seriously" is I started opening the chat with something like "hey femanon how are you? I'm doing X right now" and right off the bat I started to wonder about casual stuff like the music she likes or what is she studying right now, telling some stories in between and other stuff, but I never got to move on to asking her for a date because I feel the way I talk to her is as if she was a friend. Yes, a mistake I know, but I find it quite hard to ask her to meet in person. I feel quite nervous just by thinking what she might say. I don't know if it's early to ask her or too late.
How would you follow the conversation to end up asking her for a date? I'm quite interested in her and would like her, in best case scenario, to be my gf.
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>>18600190
First off how long have you been talking to her for? Because as soon as you send her that first message all your following texts should lead up to meeting in person. Don't text too much because when you meet in person you'll have nothing to go on since you guys have basically already told each other everything. I wouldn't worry too much about talking friendly to her but like I said you need to show her that you are interested in her as not just a friend to text.

If she talks about something food related, try to find a way to turn it around and invite her to eat.

Or you can also recommend to go somewhere, like the zoo or something, just think about the conversation and always be on the lookout for ways you can turn it around and use it to land u a date

Good luck anon

What is the best board to post on when you're drunk?
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>>18600173
Bump for interest and I also had the same toy in pic
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>>18600173
Dude, obviously /b/.

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/adv/ I'm "dating" a girl and I don't know what to do, how to react to her,I just want to hug her and "shiet", but she's the kind of girl that "takes it slow". how do I approach without feeling like I'm invading her space?
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>>18600171
I can hug people I met 10 minutes ago, without any romance being involved. If she takes it so slow that you can't hug her, than I would say that there are intimacy issues.
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>>18600171
Just enjoy each other's company without physical contact. When you feel at ease with her, hold her hand as you walk, or hug her goodbye. Next steps, in more or less this order - goodnight kiss, cuddle while watching TV, kissing and cuddling, making out, sex

I have depressing thoughts all the god damned day. I've had helicopter parents that have seemed to see me as a means of taking control of something and lessening their own existential dread, but I've never been able to have my own experiences without going behind their backs. What's worse is that when I tell people (even those I know) about my depressing thoughts, I can expect them to not respond or to even start avoiding me for a while. I'm fucking stuck beside myself, and if I don't become self-sufficient within the next year, I don't see how I'll make it. I'm 22M and about to graduate college with 3.8 BA in Business.
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I only seem to attract women who are really into daddy fetish shit. Is it just me or is it that common now?
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>>18600015
Are you balding or are you just not into teeny bopper music and other such shit?
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>>18600015
More kids grow up without fathers now, so you get tons of women with daddy issues.

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Need /adv/ice

Can you use this type of portable speaker as a portable guitar amp?
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>>18600009
Can't really tell much from the picture and I'm not going to bother looking it up.

Typical signal strength from a guitar is typically going to be higher than from a mic, so will probably work, though I don't know how well.

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So I was wondering if someone could give me some advice on how to handle certain situations at my job. I specifically work at a resale shop, think Goodwill but not Goodwill entirely. People donate things and we sell them at a mark-down price. Of course our pricing methods are less than ideal, there are 3 of us myself included who do pricing on merchandise and we all have different standards for pricing. One of my co-workers marks everything up because he believes it to be valuable, like an antique. The other one doesn't really have a method to pricing, they just price whatever they feel like. I actually try to research how much the item cost at a retail store and slash that price by 50%, but I've noticed that doesn't sit well with my co-workers/employer.

Frankly I'm thinking of just washing my hands of pricing and letting my other two co-workers handle it, would that be ideal? Sure would take a load off my mind, especially since I have no confidence in my pricing anyway.

I really have no issues just taking a backseat to pricing and letting my co-workers do it since they seem to be more comfortable with it. My other plan was to just start asking them how much to price things, though I'd hate to sound like I can't think for myself. Also how do I handle customers that think are prices are too high? It's tough because no single person is responsible for pricing, so it's hard to think of a way to calm down irate customers when they complain our prices are too high. Would anyone know a proper thing to say in response to that? Because I certainly can't think of one, at least not one that doesn't make me sound like an asshole.

Sometimes they ask me "Who is in charge of pricing?" or "How is pricing done of here?" My superior tells me that it's not the customers business, but I can't say that to their face so it's hard to think of a response when they say these things to me. It's just getting to the point where I don't even want to be responsible for pricing.
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>>18599996
Is there a boss or at least a most-experienced worker? Ask him/her for some guidelines on pricing for all of you to follow. And then stop fixating on it. Who cares whether one of you mis-prices an item?

If customers haggle, just say "You'll have to speak to the manager about that."

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I'm moving soon and I want to actually make friends. Anybody have advice?
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>>18599993
Don't look for friends. Look for activities.

Join a club, join a gym, take a random CC class, do volunteer work. You'll be among people doing the same thing, and chatting will be easy.

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I am 24, Italian is my native language.
I think a lot, always without using words.
I can appreciate studying anything and I have resources to do it, but I never did it for myself.
I have never had a purpose in life, except my love, but all the people I cared about gone mad, killed themselves
or died around me.
My resources come from my dead father.
No one ever understood anything of what I was saying emotionally or how I was behaving emotionally.
I do not care to overcome the unhappiness, because I strongly believe that my pain proves my emotions towards my love and she never thought I cared about her.
I would rather die for my stomach melting than give up the importance and thoughts I give to her.

How do I study medicine, I am only driven by commitment and passion towards that single person. I need to put myself in a place where I am socially forced to do it.

I have no self love.
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That person is not with me anymore.

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