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How do i find out a girl likes me or will say yes to me for a relationship WITHOUT asking her out? Surely someone will have a answer.

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My mom seems to think it is. I don't. So here's the story
>Boyfriend has exams tomorrow but he forgot about it
>Didn't hear from his for hours
>I get a phone call from him (he borrowed a stranger's phone) and I can hear that he's very drunk
>He's outside my home, struggling to keep his composure
>He's 'suicidal' and is threatening to kill himself because he's not prepared for the 'most important' exams in his life
>I call his dad because he can't drive, I'm watching over him so he doesn't do anything stupid and he's just going on and on about how important his exams are and how he needs to kill myself, he was gonna run away but I had to hold him back
>Finally his dad comes, and he keeps yelling insulting things at me
>I tell my mom that he needs mental help and my mom thinks his behavior is normal. Wtf?

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Well, story time with bad english (sorry), it is long so hold on fellas.

>met a girl in some random chat room (2009)
>chat a lot with her with msn messenger (r.i.p.)
>had 'cam-sex' at least 3 times
>lost contact almost 6 times from 2009 to 2017
>she suddenly travel to my town (i didn't know antything about that), it was a surprise for me
>she calls me (this was the las sunday (aug 2017)) and say that is near to my favorite bar
>i'm at that bar singing and having a good time with the owner and some other dudes
>holy shit, imscared.png
>have a meeting with her at a nice restaurant across the street, she came with her cousin (seems to be a cool guy).
>we talk and the proced to go to another bar, get semi-drunk with some tequila
>we we're having some heavy kissing (that thing was really nice for me since i'm being alone for almost 6 years). This was repetitve all night long.
>she wants to visit some hot springs near my city, we travel.
>she's distant as fuck, and only is talking with her cousin.

Also she's 4 years older than me, so what the fuck is going on?

I have a planned go to her city in 14 days, i was going to call her when i arrive at her city, it was planned as a surprise.

Should i keep with the idea of going to visit her? I need advice, my head is going to colapse or something, this feeling is weird as fuck.

Thank you.

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Im having urges to look up my ex's instagram and see her updates. She broke up with out of nowhere a year ago and ive been having severe depression. Last time i looked a few months ago i had a mental breakdown. I know i shouldnt look. Its a dark hole of stalking and looking up each person who liked or commented to find more details. Its unhealthy. Please tell me not to do it. Please tell me it will get better.

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Last spring I was put onto academic probation for my shit grades. I took classes over the summer but it isn't enough to get above a 2.0 cumulative. I am certain that I am going to get academically suspended. I've never had grades this bad in my life and I don't know how to prepare for this. What do I do?

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How do I give really awesome gifts to friends?
Let me rephrase, How do I give a gift that says "I care about our friendship" but doesn't go super overboard?

I always feel like whenever I try to show my friends I care about them, it's more of a surface level appreciation rather than having a deeper connection.

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>be me
>be 25
>have butterface 40yo milf needing a fuck
>I play dumb for weeks
>she has one of her ex stalking her
>so desperate she writes publicly on facebook she just wants to fuck
>I couldn't even get my dick up for this job
>yet I feel obligated to do it
>what do now

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I want to work from home has a help desk/IT support tech. Can I do this with an associate's degree in IT?

My wife is currently doing an ultrasound tech program at community college and we live out in the sticks. IT is the only thing that really interests me and this seems like my only career option.

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besides from the obvious such as flaunting wealth with expensive clothing, toys etc

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Hello /adv/ , i am doing my Masters and Bachelors in Computer science in one of the best universities of india , but my thesis advisor is a bit of a cunt , he keeps screaming at me , what do ?

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hey /adv/, had a really good life until late 2008 when my mental health started to go downhill. 10 years later and even though I'm still relatively young and straight edge outside drinking my mental health has fallen off a cliff in the last few months.

I'm starting to hit a wall after 10 years of roughly 3-5 panic attacks a week and my anxiety/OCD progressively getting worse. In the last 2 years suicidal thoughts have started to enter my mind and this year they have gotten to the point where I've planned my suicide and I just need the courage. The problem is, part of my anxiety is a fear of death. I'm completely ready to die, but my anxiety is preventing me. I can't fly in planes and I can barely handle being in a car anymore. How the fuck do I jump off the suicide spot near me?

TL;DR: I'm afraid to live and afraid to die, what kind of life is that? How do I get the courage to commit lads? Do i need to right every wrong first or something?

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>1K in credit card debt
>5K in debt with high monthly and yearly interest with various bank loans
>10K in debt from student loans
>20K in debt from legal fees that my parents covered

Is this even salvageable? I quite honestly don't know where to even begin to tackle this debt. I'm freaking out at how stupidly irresponsible I am right now and I'm wondering if bankruptcy is an option. I only make 36K a year at a local government agency, but I barely make it through a pay roll period without having to take out more money just to cover interest costs. I need to consolidate but the only way to do that is to ask my parents to co-sign - I don't want to go begging them to bail me out (again).

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Hey guys,
so I have a friend who I grew up with.
I use to like her back in the day but we both moved on. She has a boyfriend now and I have a girlfriend.I have my own biz and she was working at her old job. I bumped into her, after years of not talking. She wants to work for me and I offer to teach her my craft. I teach alot of people. It starts off normal, but she starts to wear skimpy clothes around me which I ignore for the most part.I tell her that my business partner will be throwing a party to celebrate the success. So she proceeds to ask "So you want me to dress like a skank?". I didnt say anything on top of that. Tbh, not sure if shes just trying to play the role as the "Sexy Assistant" or if shes playing around. I reminisce with her about an old gf that had a C Cup. She immediately looks at her breast and tells me she has DD's. Again, I didnt really make a big deal about it but the worst part to me isn't that I have a girlfriend. Its that I met her boyfriend, whose housing her. When I had a chance to have sex with her years ago, I never did it for some reason. But seeing her again and doing this it makes me wonder if all women./people are like this under power. I'll usually tell my girlfriend things like this but I decided not to because I am not sure if its a big enough deal or if its just casual talk since we've been friends since we were kids and now we are grown up/more mature.
Part of me feels bad, for knowing this information and not telling my girlfriend. Part feels bad for her boyfriend, but part of me thinks I am over reacting and its probably just casual conversation.

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I'm 23yo, I've got a happy life with lots of friends, I'm successful in my studies and in my professional life, but I can't stop thinking about my teenage years, when I was friendless and socially inept. I think about it a lot and cringe when I think of all the mistakes I made and how few people liked me. A while ago, 2 of my old classmates looked me up and started talking shit about me to the people I currently hang out with. How do I stop feeling like a failure at life because of my unhappy past even though I'm now happy?

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Is it normal to want to neck yourself literally everyday. I've been depressed for over a decade now, fluxing between chronic and major depressive, so I'm not sure any more what is and isn't normal. I don't even think I live a bad life. I have a very sick mother and used to have a emotional and on rare occasions, physically abusive father, but thankfully my mom and I got away from that. I've gotten help intermittently, but it never seems to click. I can't express how crushing the weight of my mind is on itself. I've been put on several different anti-depressants over the years, none of which seemed to help much, even over years of dosage changes. I don't even really know what this is about, just need to ramble to get it off my chest how much I wan't to brain myself sometimes. I want to try starting E, because I often feel more comfortable when dressed up as a girl with make up on and my hair done, but I feel like I would just be a failure at that too, just like I was at school. I'm 6 foot and feel like an amazonian linebacker when I wear my favorite 5inch heels. I can't paint my nails to save my life, I'm awful at make up, and I'm totally tone deaf meaning I'd be awful at changing my voice. I've felt trans for years now, and have barely done anything about for, maybe fear I don't know, that I would just look like a monkey in a dress, because thats often how I feel due to streching out the tops of EVERY shirt or dress I've owned.
>pic related, then gf putting make up on me