So I'm on vacation and I started my day by watching a tv series. I didn't really enjoy it but it was OK, it killed time.
Then I went on the sofa and alternated between browsing reddit and 4chan and staring at the ceiling.
Then I ate and talked to people on some IRC chat and now am going to bed.
My problem is that nothing really amuses me or give me fun. I'm just looking for way to be mildly entertained. I can literally stare at a wall and get as much enjoyment out of it as if I was doing most of the things I usually do.
I think I need some kind of hobbies and I've already tried some (drawing, climbing, singing) but had no luck.
Does anyone know what to do?
tl;dr: apathetic about everything, would like to get fun back into my life.
>admitting you're reddit
You have to go back.
I had someone in the bad nearby city pull a gun on me, but he didn't intend to use it. That got me thinking, how can I live each day like any day could be the last? I still want to plan for the future. I also want to live now!
Op you can get hit by a bus tomorrow think about that no matter how well you live
>>18605442
That's what I'm saying.
Hi people, not sure where to ask this but my hand looks like this, should I be worried? Just my right hand, not changed any part of lifestyle etc. I figured maybe eczema? Does it make your skin slough off like this? Thanks in advance
It's a mass pealing of skin happens when your hands get exposed to certain chemicals
>>18605426
But I haven't been working with any new ones? I work in a kitchen and we've always used the same cleaning products, I've only gotten this reaction recently. Is this one of those late-onset sensitivity things? If so, is there any way to ameliorate it because the raw skin is making it a lot more difficult to pick up hot stuff, and I can't use a knife very well wearing surgical gloves.
>be genuinely called genius by mostly black coworkers
>try doing the mensa workout
>can't even recognize a sequence of prime numbers
So why shouldn't I go be a HR manager in Montana?
A real genius doesn't care about race, and they're kind and open to their fellow man.
>So why shouldn't I go be a HR manager in Montana?
Because regular snow is not yellow.
>>18605697
True, but that doesn't mean you have to deny the existence of race or overlook the characteristics common to each.
I majored in Accounting after dropping comp sci because I was a giant pussy at the age of 19.
Now I hate my 9-5 job of two years and want a redo.
Is the path in the subject line somewhat sensible? I'm a garbage self-teacher and would do far better in a classroom setting.
I don't want to move data around in Excel for my whole life. I'd like to learn how to create useful programs and eventually make Vidya (please hold your laughter). I've matured since freshman year and think I could actually devote myself to studying.
Bad idea or no?
Should I move to the outskirts to grow and sell it?
> grow my own
> sell it
Nigger your going to go to prison
>>18605345
Wouldn't get prison. Just license taken away and maybe tax evasion.
>>18605338
Yea I would
I will recieve funding through college, trying to decide what to go for.
I was thinking Engineering, but the only Engineering option is Engineering Technology and that only makes you an Engineering Technologist in Canada. Which is lower than an engineer and pays less.
I thought about Business Management, but I heard that was a bad idea and everyone goes for it anyway.
Considering just getting a trade but I don't like labor.
Does anyone have any recommendations?
>>18605320
follow your dreams retard
>>18605388
Don't have any dreams, but money doesn't hurt.
>want to daytrade
>end up getting caught holding for 12+ hours
jfmsuf
I am currently studying computer science, physics and maths at college and I have to apply for university soon. I have considered taking a course in computer science and engineering but I have no clue since none of them interest me. Is there anyone that knows what its like working in these fields?
How do I find a goth girl in the Southern US?
Im really into the goth scene (I like the music, attitude, way they dress) and my last gf was goth and it was the best relationship I've been in.
Go to an ICP concert.
>>18605278
Get any gf and make her goth. You're forgetting that women have no taste of their own and just do what their boyfriends do.
How the hell do I motivate myself to try and better myself? I don't have any real "goals", just as long as I'm not starving to death and can enjoy the benefits of civilization.
You do not need to better yourself as long as you are happy.
I wanna join a Craft school and become like a plumber, electritian, or a construction worker, but my parents are basically forcing me out of it and want me to study high end stuff like medicine or law, but i live in pic related blue country and job isn't guaranteed even in those fields, how do I get them to let me study what I want?
>>18605264
how old are you? if you're old enough to work and pay for your own house and cook your own food then you're old enough to decide what to do with your future.
move out, I was forces to study law... still stydying, no real job perspectives mental breakdowns every now ant then... they still belive I will be succesful, though in 4 years I didnt even have a real job... just good grades, if I wasnt such a pussy I would have moved out long time ago... run while you still can
>>18605264
I suspect your parents would like you to have a portable career - Serbia has a nasty history - and lawyer and doctor can emigrate easily. But properly qualified plumbers can make a huge amount of money too. Did you think of welding - some specialized welders are very well paid.
So is it true that Serbians have the best swearwords in the world?
Hello /adv/
A couple of years ago I dated this shy-ish girl in highschool. We had been talking a lot before we even started dating (everyday for 2 months) and things were going at a good pace. I did like her very much and I guess she fell hard for me too, and this led to a sort of relationship (we never talked about a being boyfriend and girlfriend it sort of happened). However, after some months things became boring and I "broke up" with her, and went straight to another girl (didn't work out either).
Now, a couple of years later I've come into contact with the girl again, and I'm falling harder than ever for her. In the way we talk I don't really think she holds a grudge, and now I'm wondering if I have a healthy perspective here. Not that the following clears my name but if it would be of any reconcile it happened during highschool, where relationships form and fall easily, and I've never talked bad about her (unlike some of my friends).
I met her some days ago at a festival where she and her dad did volunteering. For most of the time she talked with me while she had to work saying its her break and its not busy, which gave me positive signals, and after that I even talked 30 minutes with her dad while he was on his break as wel.
I'm now wondering if I should ask her out once more, or if I'm being delusional. I'm also wondering if we connect again (which is kind off happening already) how possible it is to restart our relationship. Her dad is totally fine with me and she made more than sure I knew, her mother I don't know.
>>18605256
Alright so it sounds like you might ruin it soon I suggest that you wait a bit longer and make sure she is on a corresponding wave length to your feelings make signs that would be obvious but not too pushy so that she would be pushed away from your own feelings
Maybe she's acting like she holds no grudge so that you put your guard down and then she'll return you the favor
>>18605256
You once left her.
Now being obsessed is a great weakness. If this is your first time having such feelings, trust me its no biggie, you can stop thinking about her. If you do Not do so, and she rejects you, or even worse makes revenge. Then you will get fucked over, and the feelings will wanish when you decide to. I had such situation, didn't listen to advices of my close friends, and was only making fool of my self. It lasted 2 years untill I decided its over. Talk with other girls, have hobbies, do your self a favor and dont go trough shit i went trough. You will have more healthy thinking and next time it will be much easier to do the right thing, wether its giving your self more or moving on.
>be in a weird relationship with girl in HS
>on again off again dating
>basically each others best friends and then suddenly we wont talk for a month or two
>had been slightly sexual with each other and i was pretty obsessed with her
>the last time we ever saw each other was graduation and it was pretty frosty
>she removed me from her FB friends and blocked me for a solid 3 or 4 years
>unblocked me a couple years ago and sent me a friends request a few months back
>added her but havent talked
>not really interested in her anymore, but we WERE really close friends and shared with each other secrets we really never shared with anyone else
>sometimes have had dreams about her randomly, just her as who she is. me and her hanging out. nothing sexual or romantic
>ill wake up and have a desire to reach out to her to see if we couldn't be friends again
>never know what to say without being awkward as fuck as the last time we saw each other we were basically mortal enemies
so how the fuck do i do this adv
Watch way too much porn and Jack off way too much, I'm a 7/10 passive alpha, need to stop jacking off and I see the best way fit is to get a gf
passive alpha = beta
7/10 = you cannot accurately rate yourself
Piss off.
getting a girlfriend doesn't actually fix anything
>>18605239
This.
>>18605209
Op, you are a fagpai.