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I have about an hour to kill in a small city. What are some activities thqt most small cities offer. Alternatively how do I strike up a conversation with a stranger?
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>>18608022
Kill yourself?
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>>18608022
An hour between trains or planes or something is nothing at all. You'd have to get back early to be sure of not missing your connection. You might as well just hang around the station. Have a snack.

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How do you become happy or content?

For example, if life is always about living in the moment then i should just shoot heroin or bang hookers all day. On the other hand, I dont see how id be an happier if my career takes off and i had millions of dollars, a house, etc. I also dont find much joy in the in between journey either since im result oriented.

Im thoroughly depressed but suicide is not an option. How do i become happy?
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>>18608001
>How do you become happy or content?

Find what makes you happy. You want results? Understand that you can easily score small victories or work hard towards significant ones. Keep a varied rooster of both, and do what you enjoy.
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>>18608001
Try random things and do them again if you liked them.

Try to avoid unsustainable (e.g. heroin, costs too much money and health, unsteady supply, probably illegal where you live) or hurtful to others things.
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>>18608001
>For example, if life is always about living in the moment then i should just shoot heroin or bang hookers all day.
Yeah man, just like all the asian monks do

Interview Q, pls help
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>>18607994
You DECISIVELY pressed "order" and swiftly entered payment details. Closing the deal.

Yes, I was thinking I'd take it easy but I guess I am available as a member of the board or as your boss if you pay enough.
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>>18607994
Just make something up on the spot.

An experience from the past, twist the nouns to make it more job orient.

I.E. I was 'tanking' in a 'raid', and one of the 'raid members' managed to get bite off a lot more than we could chew, so I had to manage and mitigate my tasks at hand in an effort to save the team from being over burdened, and we were able to make it through and see the end of the project.
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>>18607994
Dissatisfied customer was getting angry and loud. Rather than argue back you quickly decided to agree with him/her to calm him/her down and then calmly explained the limits of what you could do for him/her and she accepted what you offered, which was what she could have gotten in the first place if she had been calmer

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So I've got Adhd, anybody got any tips for working with it, I've got a backlog on assignments, and I'm already on medication. Also general work/ study tips please.
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do things that you enjoy and keep your mind busy. Excersicing for example helps me a lot.
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buy a fidget spinner.

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My co-worker took a 2 hour long break when it should be only a half hour on a day when my boss was off. He editted his time card saying he forgot to punch back in even though that was a lie because he was gone for two hours. When my boss came back the next day I told him and showed him the video footage to prove I was telling the truth and he thanked me and said he would "look into the matter". The next day my boss gave him a warning but he also told him I'm the one who told him and now every time I go to work he's trying to intimidate me by saying it's none of my business what he does but it is my business because we work in the same job and he shouldn't be lying.

I'm debating whether or not to tell my boss about his threats because I don't want this to escalate but I am also concerned for my safety. What would you do?
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>>18607927
> it's none of your business
> threat
Nigger wut
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>>18607934
It's a threat, plain and simple. His body language was displayed in an aggressive manner. He's trying to intimidate me because he's angry I told on him. He looks like a junkie with an anger problem.
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>>18607927
Report him, but in the context of telling your boss you don't want him to do anything about it. Don't tell him this, but what you're doing is establishing a record, so that if the guy escalates, the boss will see it as a pattern and not a one-off.

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I'm really attracted to MILFS and I notice they're attracted to me too but I'm afraid to approach because it's not socially acceptable.

What do I do to lay a MILF?
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>>18607923
Stay away from milfs. They're golddiggers going through a midlife crisis.
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>>18607923
Just approach them. Socially "acceptable" is good for what anyhow. If its not illegal or really problematic in an immediate sense, just do it.
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>>18607961
And you are a inexperienced mentally and financially unstable kid or an old fart in declining health. Or a spoiled richfag parent's brat. With that attitude, everyone isn't right.

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So I was gunning for this one girl at work, until I found out she had a boyfriend.

I didn't exactly change the way I talked to her, but I definitely put her as an idea on the backburner, and started talking to a different girl at work.

Well I hooked up with the other girl, and I guess she must have told people, because now Girl 1 is acting different. She's been texting me, sending me Instagram DMs of funny pics and inside jokes we had, and so on.

Did I stumble upon some secret about women accidentally?

Did hooking up with Girl 2 change the way Girl 1 thinks about me?

Should I take this as a sign that I should start gunning for Girl 1 again, or is she just looking for attention?
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Is it normal for a 24 year old male to have sex with 50+ women?

There's the stigma of women being broken sluts for having high partner counts but does the emotional damage apply to men as well, at a certain point? Like theoretically if a woman's "damaged goods" breaking point is at say 10 men, would a man's be 20 women?
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In your case I would be worrying about STDs. Not social pressure. Also, no. Clearly it's not the same.
Men go out, approach women and work to get laid. Women choose who they let themselves get fucked by. Rightfully so men are studs and women are cheap sluts for having a high number count. But if a woman would be grossed out by your number count I wouldn't blame her.
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it shows that you don't value the intimacy part of sex. which is a red flag for either gender if you are in it for a serious relationship.
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>>18607872
Biologically, yup. We fuck all.

Socially? Everything might be wrong to some retards except virtually same age.

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21 year old dude here and wondering what I should do. I have had unprotected sex for about 3 years now with multiple partners and recently I've started getting night sweats and a very irritating rash on my back and hips. What should I do? I'm not the type to go and see a doctor or haven't really got any people to talk with except some former hook ups.
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>>18607835
You don't have to be any "type" to see a doctor.

And apart from the health risk and discomfort to yourself (you know, some of these don't go away without therapy or only an order of magnitude slower), spreading contagious illnesses is often an actual crime or at least a legal liability, so if you want to keep fucking people you better get that checked out.
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>>18607835
sounds like you need to become the 'type' to see a doctor bucko
>>18607922 raises an excellent point, nobody wants your disgusting diseases spread everywhere and you have an obligation to fix it.

TL;DR - Should I kiss my childhood crush, even if all we can have is a brief summer fling?

I'm 24, female. I am back at my parents place for the summer. I'll go back to my town (2 hours away by car) in 3 weeks.

There's a guy who lives across the street. We grew up together and had quite a crush on each other for years.
We used to kiss and cuddle whenever we were alone together, but we never actually dated because we were autistic. We eventually went to high school and moved on with our lives. I was obsessed with him for 2 years, tho.

He had a car accident last week - broke an arm, has lots of (infected) scratches on his legs and face.
His parents are out of town for the rest of the month, so I've been going over to help him out (bring him food, help him clean, wash his hair, help him bathe, medicate his wounds).
I've been staying over almost every night and we got a lot of chemistry still.

He tried to kiss me and told me he'd like to go out with me.
Should I go for it and enjoy a small summer fling? Or the risk of developing feelings is too big?
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>>18607826
>Oh no, anything but a 2 hour car ride to see someone i clearly have feelings for! Whatever will i do? Its not like he expressly showed interest in me to the point of trying to kiss me and asked for a date, and we are childhood soulmates.

Whats the harm even if it is a summer fling, do you have someone else lined up? Maybe chad?
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Just go for it

Even if there are feelings it will still be fun

You can talk about what to do once summer is over

If you don't you'll keep wondering what if

I say, never piss away good chemistry
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So I am on a cruise right now and long story short, apparently I got banned from using the internet (bought a 250MB flat), probably because of me downloading pornography. Another explanation would be me having entered the wrong pin three times but that's unlikely I think. When I asked them what happened, they told me "I used up all of my data" even though that can't be. Bought anothet cheap flat afterwards.
My question now is, do you think I might get in trouble for having downloaded a few (censored) loli pictures? I'm kinda freaking out here
Pic related, one of them
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how dense can one be?
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>>18607853
What do you mean?
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>>18607825
250MB is shit. You can burn through that in one low quality video.

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33 and her being 27, we've been married for almost 10 years and now this gook bitch is going behind my back and sexting some guy.
She doesn't know that I found out but ever since I found out about a month ago I've made logs of what she has been talking about with him. Every time she laughs at my jokes I just want to fuck her up even more. How do I go about and make her suffer for what she's done?
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>>18607796
How about be an adult. You must be one of those people I see on the news who kills there wives. Confront her then divorce her ass. Stop acting like a little fucking kid.
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>>18607796
Married for 4 years and known her for about 10 years. Im a bit drunk now or a lot drunk maybe
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why the fuck would you marry a 17yo?
also, she's a hoe, sure. but chances are you're not very sane either. how about couples therapy?

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I will try to make this as short as possible.

So i'm currently 20 years old and want to become successful in life.
Success for me is earning lots of money and living a happy life with my future wife that will love me, and i will love her.

My main question is, how do i get to this point?


Also another question, are playing games for entertainment fucking retarded? Right now i want to begin playing Starcraft II and i will obviously not get pro in that game. Should i start playing it because it might be fun or should i just don't bother wasting 100's or 1000's of hours. Right now all i do in my spare time is sitting home browsing 4chan, reddit, watching latest Youtube videos of my subs, skyping and playing Rainbow Six Siege with my friend. I feel like i should do something else with my time, like living my life or something? Remember i'm 20 years, aren't the 20's the time where everyone is "Living their lives"?

I also want to learn Korean, how hard will it be to learn this on my own?
If you are wondering the reason to learn the language this is the following: Kpop, Kdramas, interesting culture, Korean E-sports are great. Might want to move to Korea in the future? I guess i should start learning the language instead of doing what the paragraph above is about.

Last question: On the part about earning lots of money, i currently saved up 25K USD. What are some smart things i can do with this money to make more? I have no idea how investing works.


Please help me, any answer is appreciated.
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Don't have the mindset you should be making the same as people who have been doing it for years , be prepared to start at the bottom and work your way up
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>>18607802
Good advice, and it's an important mindset to have.
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>>18607786
Is watching sports a waste of time? I just don't want to waste 100 or 1000s of hours drinking beer or being entertained

Dude people have been entertaining themselves for year. Some people build/collect things. Others get competitive in sports or games.

Just because something is modern doesn't mean it's bad or childish. Is it any better to waste your time buying a motercycle and riding it around the country. You'll have a good time but in the end all you gained is a memory and the joy that came with it.

Not everybody is cut out for hobbies that turn into life skills. We all can't build cars for fun and sell them for spare cash.

But sure dude, play a game. You might not even like it! There's nothing wrong with trying something new. Unless it's hardcore drugs

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Can you fap yourself into asexuality? I completely feel devoid of all sexual lust until I actually have an erection and am master bating
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>>18607752
Stop masterbateing for a month to let your body reset.

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Seriously considering an escort lads

>haven't had much dating experience (been trying online, few responses here and there)
>last date was a few years ago at university
>Housemate's managed to sneak them into the house a few times now
>sorely tempted to go for the same just to get it out of my system

Should I keep trying my luck with regular women or just skip the middleman and get it out of my system?
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>>18607742
If you want sex go with escorts. If you want a relationship that will go long term get actual gf.

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