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A little while ago I asked you guys how to get full time, fast and easy. The unamimous answer was to go to my county vocational services.
My question now is what am I to do with this? I have no disabilities at all. I think they were suggesting I fake depression, but I'm not certain of how to get a diagnosis, nor do I have health insurance right now (recently struck out on my own, no parents insurance). Teach me, /adv/!
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how do I stop smoking weed if I have no friends? 2017-08-10 10:37:26 Post No.18609225
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how do I stop smoking weed if I have no friends?
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I'm pretty sure i'm going schizophrenic because of the weed but what do I do if I have nothing to replace weed with?
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get a hobby or just browse 4chan all day like the rest of us
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Go to an NA meeting, boom you can make friends there and get off weed at the same time. Plus the program has an incredible amount to offer in terms of self help if you work the steps with a sponsor.
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Damn you sound just like me lol, I stopped smoking weed yesterday after a year of doing it everyday
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How/when do I break up with my gf 2017-08-10 10:30:46 Post No.18609211
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How/when do I break up with my gf
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OK so I've got a gf of 2 years who I thought I was going to marry one day but this last 6 or so months has really sucked. Not just because of her, but she hasn't helped.
I've only just started to notice how sensitive she is and how the slightest comment from anyone can put her in a shitty mood. She also suffers from anxiety and depression, both of which I've had problems with myself so I know how tough it is, but at the same time I feel like I have to baby her constantly and her anxiety gets in the way of so many things, even getting a bus can take a Herculean effort.
She's also obsessed with doing stuff with her family, who a for the most part are nice, but I also sense the dad could snap at any moment. I don't have anything in common with any of them so the meetings are awkward.
Then there's the constant whinging that she thinks I'm going to leave her for someone 'better' This seems to be a running theme in my relationship and holy shit is it frustrating. I only get in relationships I feel like I can 100% commit to so when I'm constantly having to reassure her than no I'm not going to run off with a more attractive girl at the first opportunity
We don't have much in common interests wise, but we do have similar beliefs and feelings about the important stuff I guess.
But now that stuff seems trivial and I'm miserable and want out. The only problem is it's her birthday in a fortnight. I dunno what the fuck to do because if I end it before I look like the worst guy ever, especially as we're doing a big family thing for it. But even if I wait it's going to suck for her with her current anxiety and low mood. What the fuck do I do?
also I've never properly broken up with someone before. What should I actually say when the act actually happens?
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Have you actually talked to her about things you said here or you just keep it inside until you get to the point of nuclear meltdown?
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No idea about what to say but if you simply can't handle this weakling faggotry anymore then you definitely need to break up with her ASAP. She'll either kys or grow the fuck up and choosing between these is needed.
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This is the problem because with some things she's really good, like she'll admit she can be too sensitive and needy but with other things like her pushing me away with the 'You're gonna meet someone else' shit.. it's the same response every time which is basically 'I don't feel on your level, loads of other girls like you and I'm just average.. blah blah'
She's a girl with low-self esteem, super sensitive and has an anxiety disorder and bouts of depression. It's such a frustrating mix because there's times my heart breaks for her, but other times I want to shout at her and tell her to pull herself together.
I've gone from really like how she makes me feel and I've changed so much for the better since getting with her but slowly overtime she's kinda dragged me down with her and now I'm nearly always irritable and going to bed in bad moods and having to send her mountains of text to cheer her up on an almost daily basis.
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Hi /adv/, may I have advice on the following situation;
Met a girl (will be referred as 1). We clicked, I didn't fall in love tho, but met each other some more, kissed. Everything was going fine.
Met another girl (will be referred as 2). I've known her since I was like 16. Didn't see each other for a long time, met again, reconnected. Always had this.. tension between us.
We met sometimes, I've told her about 1. She told me some nasty things about 1. She also said shit like she'd be my wingman whenever, she was sad that I had gotten with someone like her etc. I've distanced myself a bit, but decided to confront her about it. She was really calm about it and answered every truthful in my oppinion, which I liked. We had a good evening.
Yesterday I've met 2. We were the three of us, her, me and a school friend of hers. Got drunk. She had to go home, so I walked home with her schoolfriend. I didn't behave that evening, was drunk, did stupid shit, she was worried and tried to call me like 4 times and sent me messages, asking if I was ok. Her friend then told her I was. Everything fine. Today i got up and excused myself for my behaviour. She questioned the evening. Apparently I've told her schoolfriend something wich upset her, and she wanted an explanation. Unfortunately I don't know what I may have asked or said. So we talk a bit back and forth. She also asks me what happened between me and 1 that night, because I've told her that I met her. So I explained, that I've met her, discussed with her, was happy with what she said. She replies really cold.. ? and then follows up with the remark that she doesn't understand then why I've told whatever I did to her schoolfriend. I asked her what did I tell him then; She didn't reply. So i called her, said she wants to go sleep. I let her and then she just said "Why don't you go ask 1 if you want to talk".
But all the time talking about friendship and bla.
Am I fucking blind?
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I've tried to work out some sense out of that last chunk of text, but it's seemingly impossible for me. Can you rephrase the whole situation?
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Ofcourse.
Like I said, I've met Girl 2 yesterday, alongside with a schoolfriend of hers. We got drunk and at some point she had to go home. I did some stupid shit that night and got both of them worried. So when she went home, she was trying to call me / text me, asking if I was fine, telling me she felt horrible for not staying longer. Since I was walking home alongside with her school friend, he told her I was fine. Apparently I've asked her school friend a question or said something about her. I don't what.
Today I wrote her, excusing myself. She wanted an explanation for the following things:
- I've told her yesterday that I saw Girl 1, but not what we did. So she wanted to know what happened I guess..
- Why I did that stupid shit.
- Why I said or asked that thing which I don't remember anymore to her friend.
So I explained to her and excused myself, again.
I explained why I did that stupid stuff, I was drunk.
I explained what I discussed with Girl 1. After this explanation, she replied really cold, with a follow up "I still don't understand then what you told my friend!"
I asked what I told him and she didn't reply, so I called her. Before hanging up she tells me "Why don't you ask Girl 1 if you want to talk?" and hangs up.
Yes, I know it's confusing, sorry.
English isn't my native language.
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>20 years old
>Totally isolated from opposite sex at my job
>Can feel when a girl is attracted to me
>Turned off when they're overt about it
>Met a cute girl that was 16-18 years old
>Realize she might've been attracted to me
>Thinking about going back to where she works and hitting on her
>Don't know if she just needs time to grow-up though
She works at a sno-cone stand, but I wonder if it'd be upsetting for me to do that.
I've got no experience with the opposite sex, and it's only recently that I've unlocked empathy skills to look beyond what people say.
Is there anything about this that would be considered socially alarming, or is it normal to do such a thing? I've been a shut-in since I was 13.
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Go for it, might as well try something new and at the very least get some experience or a mere kick out of it. You've literally got nothing to lose. I've never been with a girl younger than me, as I consider that against my morals (but that's just me), so I can't really tell you from personal experience. Have fun and good luck!
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I think it'd be alright.
I don't have enough experience to even say something like "I don't date younger girls" because I've never dated before, and I really don't know enough about girls to even have a general idea of what a young girl thinks like.
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>Moving into college tommorow
>Feel so nervous I am literally shaking and might be sick
>Haven't spoken to someone my age since May and haven't had friends for a few years
How do I calm down?
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>>18609164
sage or holy wood.
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>>18609178
from the way you describe it you probably have social anxiety
You need to see a therapist/doctor about that.
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I was looking online to find a place to get a security guard license. I found a decent looking site that offered the necessary training for the security guard license but then also offered a private investigator course. What's being a private investigator like? Is it easy to get a job? Does it pay well?
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What's it mean when the qt at work hasn't been wearing makeup the past few weeks when I worked with her?
does that mean I don't have a chance anymore?
she does look better without it (I think most girls do) but does that mean she doesn't give af about looking her best around me
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She's trying to say this is my ugly face. Accept me.
Same as when a girl drops in the I have kid in a conversation. Accept me.
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Or maybe she's just comfortable enough around you that she doesn't feel the need to show off
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>>18609113
Guarantee you she is wearing makeup, just not as much or going for a more natural look
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My libido is zero and has been the case for years. I think Im asexual. Thing is I would very much like a girlfriend but that simply isnt gonna happen if you cant have sex (can't get it up). I have to learn to live with the fact that I wont have a lovelife in this lifetime. To accept this is not an easy thing at all. I still feel attracted to girls not sexually however and I still fall in love with them. Sometimes they even like me back but it has no future cause of my condition.
How can I accept this fact? Any tips on dealing with this.
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You might be gay maybe? Just a thought.
More likely you suffer from low testosterone production or another key hormone or protein. No joke, go ask your physician for a blood test to see what levels you are at. It could be very treatable
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>>18609180
I used to fap to traps but that does nothing for me now neither. Ive never felt attracted to a man.
I checked my testosterone and it wad healthy
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You ar overthinking this. Get a girlfriend start makeing out with her and let the nature work. If you can't get it up then go to the professional and get help. If you worry alot your libido suffers, being stressed out doesnt help either. You can have a romantic love even with erectile dysfunction, get good in oral sex. Anyway the most important thing for you should be to get comfortable with a girl and it takes time. I have my girlfriend and We have a lot of sex few times a day, but i am not sure if I could get it up immediately with some random hooker with breast implants. In some people libido connets with emotions and there is nothing wrong about it. On the other hand you not thinking about a sex with every single woman is a good thing. Just try to find the right one, the one who will make you feel comfortable.
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Dorming this Fall at a University 2017-08-10 09:54:47 Post No.18609106
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Dorming this Fall at a University
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How does one get laid in the dorms? What is the meta? How do I convince my roommate to let me borrow the room for a second without coming off as a prick? Or do I just bring a piece of tail over and bang her right next to him, while hes playing vidya?
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give him 20$ tell him to come back in an hour. its not hard bro.
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I can't believe I never even thought of that!
Let's hope I don't get a steady fuck buddy or fwb coz that will break the bank
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as a general rule you make an agreement that you can lock each other out for say, an hour, in order to have sex. sock on door. return the favor of course, that way you're not just kicking him out, you're both able to get kicked out.
as a general rule, if you can do it, schedule it around a time you know he has a class or events. Dorms have common areas so he wont be just locked out with no where to go but to sit on the grass.
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Just got fired today. I saw it coming since the place was abusive as hell to their workers and poorly managed but I don't really know what to do now. It was the only place to ever offer me anything and I've been applying to things for years. Only good thing to come of this is I know I never wanna work with food again.
How does a nerd recluse go about getting a new job? Do I have to tell my new job I was fired? If they ask do I just dodge around it or something? I can give more details if anyone wants.
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In a perfect world you would think a question requires an honest answer, but that isn't the case. Learn how to interview. The job you get hinges on the answers you give and how you look while giving them.
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What was their reason for firing you?
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Called in sick. That was it. I was late 4 times in the entire time I've worked there, all of which I called about. She brought those up when I called out and got all pissy saying I needed to come in cuz I'm one of the only people they have left (literally everyone is quitting. Someone quit just yesterday cuz they scheduled her when she wasn't available and the manager yelled at her for telling her.) The place was a fucking mess. Apparently the best thing to do with the guy you need most is fire him.
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So I've been reading a lot of dating advice lately and I read things like:
>Be a good listener, she'll love it
And this seems like the kind of thing that just lands you a friend, not a gf.
>Talk to her normally like you don't want to have sex with her
And then some lines below it says shit like
>Signal that you're interested
This just reads like "the world is a just place and there is somebody for everyone jsut bee ureself" garbage. Where do I find good dating advice? Is the red pill shit true?
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I haven't slept in two days. This morning I sent this girl I've been eyeing three terrible jokes out of the blue. In my mentally unstable state, I thought they'd be good icebreakers, since they're about books and she's a writer, but they're sooooo baaaaad. I'm cringing. She hasn't seen them yet though. I want to send another message apologizing for being so cringe, but the text ratio is already 0:5. Should I just go for it, or am I fucked?
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Apologising would be way worse, if she ever does reply just say sorry I totally forgot I sent those I was high af, they're pretty funny though
Then you look cool cause drugs are cool
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play it off. everyone makes terrible jokes and then pretends like it was on purpose. its less cringe to just leave it there.
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>>18609076
Can you tell us that jokes anon?
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i quit my job and cant find another one. its been almost 2 months. should i just kms?
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Enjoy the NEET lifestyle, better yourself, read, exercise. not like you have anything else to do mate.
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=temp+agency
their job is literally to find employees for employers.
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Any medic/dentologist here? This has been bothering me for a while. Since I was around ten, I discovered this white spot above my tooth, it only appeared after the original fell off. I remember the first one wouldn't fall off so I had basically two teeth in the same place thus I really needed to pull my original tooth I somehow did but eversince the second tooth grew I had a white spot above it on the red area of my inner mouth. What is it?
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Pic is unrelated, not my mouth.
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>What is it?
Without a picture, how the fuck would we know.
Go to a dentist.