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I've been really wanting to get into coding as a future career, it's just that, I don't know if I'd be stuck at some boring desk job. I've heard coding is a good skill to have and everything, but I'm terrified of having to sit at an office all day. Can anyone share their experiences?
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I had sex for the first time two weeks ago and I'm 25, I was so anxious and nervous I could not get hard, the girl was nice ad carring enough to say it was ok, and that she wanted to spend time with me anyway, she gave me a massage, hugs, kisses and we just talked for a little bit, afther I a while I got confortable enough arround her to actually do it, she said I was great, and called me hot a couple times, we spent the rest of the night together cuddling.
I don't feel any less like a piece of shit, I don't have the intention to see her again, I felt as dull as I feel spending the whole weekend watching TV alone. How do I fix myself?
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Nofap should help
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that girl sounds nice. What's you relation to her?
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this shit is so retarded. if OP he is really low test he should get blood-tested, get a script for testosterone, and then jerk off as much as he damned well wants to (which will be more if he's taking test)
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Hello 4chan. I have an cousin, let's call her Sharol, Sharol has shown clear signs of being fucked in the head in the past two days. Sharol has called me at late hours and repeatedly asked me if I'm asleep, if I hear "the clicking", where I am, etc. The dead give away was when she called to make sure her visit won't be an intervention. I am almost sure she is a meth head. Let's say I have previously planned with her a get-together where she stays at my house and meets my family. What do I do, cancel the trip? Refuse to let her stay? I don't want her to steal my shit for meth.
Btw She has already bought a plane ticket and is on the way.
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What is the opinion on modular homes? I am considering getting one instead of a home to save price.
Link to home I am considering
http://oakcreekhomes.com/find-your-new-home/floorplans/#/rifleman-3240
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Looks good enough compared to a wooden house (both are one step above a mud hut).
Can't you just resell your house to regain the value though? assuming the market is ok.
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yeah, OP a house and property both hold value pretty well. sometimes the value even goes up.
>In the Army
>Going to do some field training for 2 weeks
>my FWB is acting like its a really big deal
>wanted to spend the ENTIRE weekend together
>I said I was down for a night but wanted a night off too
>FWB freaks out so I just agree to the entire weekend because >beta
>last night
>stuck at work late loading everything up for monday
>told we have to come in today
>THIS drama happens
>dont feel like dealing with it so just NOPE out
Was I in the wrong here?
I really dont think i was really in the wrong that much
This convo is from yesterday
pt two in a second
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No "in the wrong" here if work got in the way. She's being bitchy and needy for little reason, unless she caught the feels and thinks she's about to lose you.
I would take a stand and just remind her that it's either see each other for a few hours or not at all.
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Well she already broke up with you then you tried to guilt trip. So, I would just say get over it and go do your training.
If she wants you back she'll come back, if not oh well.
Also, if she was able to clear her week why couldn't you?
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Ay yall, this is probably super racist or ignorant or both, but that's why i'm asking for help. I'd like to stop being so narrow minded when it comes to race, and culture.
There have been a lot of foreigners moving to my area and I want to be the token local boy in a group of immigrants. I want friends where there is a real thick language barrier but still do shit together. Though, I don't really know how to go about it, most of the time I see groups from another country they are very clique-y and give this look that I can only equate to students avoiding a teacher who's trying too hard to be cool.
There's no hate for people from other countries and cultures, I love learning about other peoples lives and how they were brought up, but am super uncomfortable sharing my culture because I was brought up to basically isolate myself from other cultures, watch Hollywood, and consume American made.
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By hanging out with them
I grew up in a highly multicultural area. Shits normal to me, and theyre exactly the same as us in every way. Including the whole some are shitty fucked up violent people. Its just media bias and protectionist movement shove those particular ones in your face constantly..
>cliquey
Yup, everyones like that and they like many americans want to be around their own culture. Theyre also pretty closed off cause of the racism and all.
But you can break through you just need one friend and let him introduce you.
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>>18616151
Don't just don't
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learn telepathy
you can think at people and they understand you without talking
holy shit does it get annoying
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Hey /adv/ got a problem
>be me
>just graduated
>poorfag can't do college, need work
>apply to a shitload of places in a plaza down the street like nearly 17 wagecuck jobs
>only get a callback from 4 and only get two interviews
>been 3 weeks since last interview and still nothing
I'm not even sure what the fuck it is I'm doing wrong, I mean I go into the places wearing nice normie clothes and I act supernice to the interviewer. Any tips or tricks on how to get work guys?
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I push people away, people who loves me and are trying to help me or giving me some love, I literally push them away with aggressive behavior.
I had 7/8 "serious" relationships in the last seven years.
Three of them (the most important for me let's say.) For three times I had this kind of behavior.
It only happened when I felt a strong sentimental attraction to these three girls. With the others it did not happen, because I was not mentally involved.
At the beginning, I play all quiet and mysterious, keeping my distance and don't revealing nothing about me. Because I'm scared actually, I don't know of what I'm scared.
They are attracted to this kind of behavior and
they try to approach me, trying to figure out what i'm hiding or what's wrong with me.
After some months more or less, I begin to take distance, pushing them away, saying that I do not care about them, that I do not need help or love. The more they approach me and the more I get aggressive, to the point of hurting them (Not physically, but psychologically)
It's like love remind me how fucking empty i'm inside.
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After all this drama by me, they simply left, they surrender. Wounded, stricken, people who have tried to give me so much good.
In return by my side there is nothing, bad behaviors. Many times they told me that I'm good at hurting people with words and fucking with their minds.
After they run away from me. I notice what I've done and sadness takes over me, I literally start crying like a baby, hating myself. Because in truth the love that they gave me, I needed it. I always wanted it. Let's say life has never been kind to me and to face it I hardened my shell a bit too much. I never knew or felt what love is, not even with my family.
I beg them to not leave, to wait until I get my shit together, that I know i'm wrong. Most of the time all of them came back, to try again, but it fails again after some months.
I tried to seek medical help, I sort found the root of the problem after a year with a psycotherapist.
I'm 25 now, my past is just filled with this shit. All of them remember me for the good sex and all the bad shit I did, I really did a lot of bad shit, because after they leave (for the second or third time). I start acting up and going mad. They start to be afraid of me.
The only thing is that, this kind of behavior by me it start like a fire only when i'm totally involded with the girl. One little side of my brain or heart, trully care and loves them, what they are and what they are doing for me, but is a really tiny piece of me, hidden beneath my skin.
I'm sorry if my english is terrible, thanks to everyone who will spend some minutes to read this shitfest.
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>talking to cutie
>ask if she wants to go on a date tomorrow
>says she's doing shrooms with her friends and cant
This fucking happens so God damn often. I live in Colorado, so everyone's a faggot stoner, and I tolerate it as much as I'm against drugs (not religious, long story) but christ.
Do I literally just need to start going to church or some shit to find girls that aren't doing drugs and drinking constantly? Like honestly
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if you don't like it leave
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If you are 100% against any drug use, bring it up early on. It won't just save you energy but is also more fair to the people you're dating. You could've been ten dates in by the time you found out she once did shrooms.
This applies to any instant dealbreaker that is relatively common, for future reference.
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What happens when your friend's ex girlfriend sleeps with another one of your friends and kisses another separate friend two weeks after their breakup? I'm conflicted about how I should go about maneuvering around this.
Buddy is obviously super upset about what happened, and I was there for him and basically said "Yeah she's a bitch and those two friends of your obviously weren't your friends, I'm never going to speak to them again" to make him feel better but on the other hand I'm still on relatively good terms with those people, including the ex girlfriend of his. I like hanging out with everybody but it's become so fractured I feel like I'm almost being pressured to take a side, but nobody is really telling me to since this is literally a 24 hour development. I haven't spoken to the 2 friends who fooled about with friend's ex, and I'm seriously not sure if I should or not.
Basically everything is fucked and I feel like I'm supposed to take sides despite not wanting to really take anyone's side. I don't think it should really matter, but I've been good friends with the guy since elementary school but I don't believe in seniority, but also feel like I'm somehow honour-bound. Maybe some of you have been in this position, I don't know. Just wanna know what you did and why.
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Protip: if you don't want to pick sides, don't tell someone that you won't ever speak to people again, and especially don't volunteer this info.
Your friend could have been bummed out if you had continued to interact with these people, but there was also a chance that he understood. Now that you have flat out told him that you're on his side and you will freeze them out, don't expect him to feel anything other than betrayed when he finds out you don't actually want to follow up on that.
Basically only continue hanging out with them if you're willing to lose the burned friend over this, at this point.
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>Protip: if you don't want to pick sides, don't tell someone that you won't ever speak to people again, and especially don't volunteer this info.
I was trying to make him feel better and didn't see any point in turning it into a possible confrontation about my feelings vs his feelings.
In the moment you say things, I think you'd be able to understand that.
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There's a difference between generally saying something without thinking and then dealing with it, or saying something without thinking then getting all upset that you have raised expectations by making promises. I am responding less to the fact that you said this to begin with, than that you show zero responsibility throughout the post for single-handedly picking a side before anyone asked you to. It is also the most important part because as I said, backtracking on a promise is altogether very different from never picking sides to begin with.
All you can really do if you are still unsatisfied with the options I gave is tell your friend that you empathized with him and said it out of sympathy, later realizing that actually you do not feel like picking sides at all and enjoy hanging out with these people. Still the damage will almost certanly be done and I do not recommend going with this strategy.
I was on skype with my two childhood best friends. I went away for about 2 mins to the bathroom and came back to hear them talking about how they wanted to fuck my gf, they don't know I heard that. How should I feel about this?
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Just forget about it and be glad you got a good looking gf. They're guys after all, no surprise they fantasize about having sex
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I just wish they would be more loyal since they are my best friends. It kind of makes me sad that they would fuck her if they had to regardless of my feelings.
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if they could*
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Hi /adv/, this might be a bit long so i hope you'll bare with me
A couple of years ago i fell in love for the first time. It was with someone i'd known for just over a year by that point, regularly interacting but never becoming real friends until we "clicked". Became *very* good friends fast and started spending a lot more time together. Eventually realized i'd never had as good a friend and shortly after started to fall in love and eventually considered if i'd met my "soulmate" and blah blah... either way the time never felt right (worst excuse) to tell this person and we remained intimate friends for the next few months while i tried to keep my affection hidden, assuming upfront that the "romantic" love wasn't consensual.
There were some complications in between but about 3 months later a (former) friend blabbered stuff he shouldn't have and as a result the person i'd fallen for found out and i just slowly started to distance myself eventually erasing all contact and it's been troubling me since to various degrees.
Have been with other people since but i think i always felt that those relationships weren't formed to last or fulfill in ways other than mostly sexual so they just ended up as flings.
So i guess I'm trying to make up my mind as to whether i should face my past and try to reconcile before it's too late or just let it fade into memory?
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Get This Boy Outside
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Kill yourself
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>prostitution becomes legal in leafland
>decided to try it out
>find a very attractive and thicc black woman
>fuck her
>first time with a black lady
>become a race fetishist after that
>fucked a bunch of black whores after that (always with a condom)
>now on multiple dating sites trying my darnedest to get into an IR relationship
>realize that I might be the worst partner for someone unlesa they're into IR sex as a fetish
>don't know of any place that isn't fetlife where it's possible to exclusively look for black ladies that want white men
>also have an impreg/breeding fetish and would nut the very hardest if we were trying to make babies and we made that into a kinky night
Help. I know I'm probably terrible, but if I could meet a lady who gets off on my skin colour, I'd be down with that.
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>prostitution becomes legal in leafland
assisted suicide is still illegal, fuck Trudeau
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Why do special snowflakes think scientists are these cold emotionless machines?
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>>18616167
It was generated by that meme making robot.
>>18616124
Better than the helmet hair.
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Sup /adv/
So I probably handled this quite badly, but I'm not sure how I should have handled it?
I've been dating this girl for over a year. Everything was great for the first few months. But as of the beginning of this year she has basically been living with me, most of our friends have all graduated and we have very few friends left in our small student town. We spend a lot of time together and so far everything has gone okay I guess.
It's just sex, as of late has been bothering me. Perhaps I dealt with this in a childish manner? I don't know. She's the second girl I've ever slept with. Everything was great for most of our relationship, both of us are fit and we have sex on the daily. Slowed down a little bit as the relationship progressed which is expected I guess. The last few times we've had sex or tried to she hasn't been getting wet. This never used to be an issue. I tried to brush it off the first time it happened, like shit like that happens I guess. But now she's been on her period so we haven't had sex for a week and her period just ended. Happened to be when we planned a date night. I made her dinner and took her out to see the meteors that came past tonight. We were having a pretty good night and we got home, had a bit of wine and again she couldn't get wet. So obviously this is a bit of a knock to my ego, so I just lay there with her, she says sorry she doesn't know what's going on, I say cool its fine and get up to go brush my teeth. Climb into bed, roll over, shit is a bit awkward and I tell her maybe we need some space. In my head I thought we were perhaps seeing each other too much and she was just so used to having me around and such that that might be influencing it, I don't know. So I packed my stuff to leave and she was extremely pissed with me and didn't even want to talk things out. She came back to my place so she could pick up some of her essentials so she can function for the next few days without seeing me.
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I don't know how I should have acted? She seemed pissed that I wanted space, like that "oh you want space?! I'll give you space!" type of thing