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I just broke down in front of customers and coworkers and I don't know what I'm going to do. How am I supposed to show up to work tomorrow knowing everyone there has seen me this way? They were always extremely critical of me to begin with. My homeboard doesn't care but I just need some support.
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>>18616657
More details, please. What exactly happened when you broke down? If you didn't do anything that could get you fired you shouldn't worry at all, go to your job like any other day. Everyone breaks down at some point, you just happened to do it in front of your co-workers, that's all. As I said, unless what happened could get you fired then their opinions are irrelevant.
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>>18616657
ive cried in front of coworkers two times before, its not a big deal, if they didnt care about you before they wouldnt care after
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>>18616711
I just started crying and hyperventilating. The customer I was tending to thought I was crazy. She flagged down an associate who got a supervisor, call more attention to me. The supervisor got me off the register and I went to search for the manager, who was my only way out of this place. She was nowhere to be found. I ended up punching a shopping cart and screaming. Eventually I found her and she gave me the go ahead to leave early.

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How do you know if you ugly?
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>>18616649
You're not ugly brah :)
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Post and be judged is the easiest way
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>>18616661
>Implying people are honest even on an anonymous image board

I need to know if I'm ugly. I just want to know where I stand, and I don't see anything wrong with that.

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i am sick of my mother disreapecring me but she will never learn so what do i do
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>>18616633
Stand up to her and don't take any shit
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>>18616635
This
Also move out first
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>>18616635
i do that and she just dimisses me or lol

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I feel like my friend wants to have sex with me just cause his gf wont do it. What makes me baffled is that he knows Ive had strong feelings for him. He never forces me into sex. Tho. Plus I do share the fault letting him have his way with me since I find him so attactive. We talk a lot and share lots of things in common but I still feel like shit for getting involve in an affair. I actually dont know if hes happy in his relationship right now but I just wanna be able to move on from him and see him as a friend. Hes helped me get back on my feet and with money without asking anything in return. What do I do about him
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>>18616595
You man or woman?
Stop fucking him? Be emotional support or lend a hand when needed.
Why are you fucking someone who is in a relationship? Kinda messed up
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>>18616609
I forgot to mention I stopped sleeping with him already. But I'm still emotionally hurt is all (I'm a woman)

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>going in year 2 of a major I'm not thrilled over
>can't see myself doing anything else though

Fuck me I hate school!
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Take time off school and work and think about what you DO want to do then.
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You have your years to decide what you want. Dont waste your time doing something you dont want. Not to mention money.
It could help to take your general education classes now so you get them out of the way and maybe find something that interests you.

If you take a break on school, dont get married or have kids, its so much harder to finish or go back
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>>18616614
If nothing else, take your break when you have your associates so you have something to show for your time

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I'm not asexual. But I really hate sex. I feel like sex is a power exchange, and that if I have sex with someone it means I'm basically letting them win. How do I get over this mindset? It's making relationships impossible.
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>>18616582
Date other asexuals
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I'm assuming girl
On an animalistic level you are right, but people (usually) are above animals and do It for love and pleasure not counting dom or bondage or whatever
Just turm your brain off and enjoy the peepee vagina yourself
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>>18616587
I'm a guy. But that makes sense.

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I lost a bet on the Broncos vs. Bears game and have to eat dog feces. The silver lining is that I get to prepare it however I want. Any recommendations on masking the taste and mitigating sickness?
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>>18616580
run away lol
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>>18616580
Consider killing yourself for making such a childish bet seriously.

Blend it into a smoothy with a super strong ingredient (like a fuckton of ginger). Obv you'll still get sick but you'll get it down the hatch. Or you'll think about eating literal shit too much and puke halfway, either way your "friends" will be satisfied.
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You'll get sick purely from the bacteria from feces.

Back out and pay the guy money.

Also grow up.

i have a good life, but i can't stop hurting the people i love with my negativity and aggressivity
what can i do?
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>>18616571
Meditate. Force yourself to count your blessings. And most of all, to the people you're closest to, admit openly that you have a problem and ask for their help to call you out when you're not acting like you should.
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Just stop. There's no trick or magic off switch. Just stop doing shitty things. Take five second before you say or do anything and ask yourself "Would a normal person want to literally choke the life out of me for being an insufferable cunt?" If the answer to that is 'yes', don't do it. If the answer to that is 'no', ask yourself again. If the answer is still 'no', then you're good to go.
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>>18616571

Smoke marijuana.

If anyone has had success beating depression with meds or otherwise or is bipolar, please reply to this thread.

I'm 24 and I've been depressed since I was 12 years old. Sometimes it can be on and off, but for the majority of the time I feel depressed. When I'm not depressed I stop overthinking and I can connect with people and feel happy.

I've had a long history of taking meds, it started when I was 15 years old. For some reason instead of putting me on an anti-depressant, 2 different psychiatrist put me on anti-psychotics when I wasn't diagnosed bipolar or schizophrenic. I ended up having my first manic episode when I was 20 years old and ended up being Bipolar type 1, though.

Currently my psychiatrist has me on 2 MG Rexulti (anti-psychotic), 1600 MG Neurontin (anti-convulsant used to "treat anxiety" - it doesn't do shit) and 600 MG trileptal (mood stabilizer, doesn't do shit). She basically told me there was nothing she could do to help me last time I saw her and that I don't even need to be on meds, but I am severely depressed 80% of my life.

I had a prescription for a benzodiazepine called Klonopin for a bit and I never felt so right in my entire life, but I was taken off of it when I switched psychiatrists. The only time I've ever felt consistently good in my life was when I was having a manic episode or on a benzo, which is sad I realize.

I've tried exercise (I do this every day of the week currently), diet, meditation, therapy: none of it has helped my horrible depression. For a long time I've hated taking the pills, so I started tapering off of them recently. I got off risperidone, but at this point I realize my depression is likely here to stay and if there's any meds I can take as a bipolar person to treat the depression and anxiety side of the mental illness I'm fine with it.

Every day I suffer through depression is a day of my life I have lost.
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I feel you, buddy. I have Bipolar disorder as well and things do get better once you know what medications and activities work for you.

I am taking 2 mg Rexulti as well and it works pretty well for me, adjunct to 50 mg Seroquel. Though Seroquel is known for making people really sleepy. I take Seroquel at night and Rexulti in the morning.

To be perfectly honest, I have started feeling much more stable since I started smoking weed. I feel more a lot more rational and calm if I smoke (sativa) every so often.

I hope things get better for you, bud.
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>>18616627

Hey thanks man. Glad things are working for you and hopefully I can say the same for myself soon

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y are positive people so dililtional
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So i lost my virginity to a drunk woman and now she's going around telling everyone that I took advantage of her.

I mean, I've never been a big drinker so I guess my question is does alcohol really make one lose as much control as they say or is it just a scapegoat and a way to avoid responsibility and consequences? I just wanted some human connection like everyone else..
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I think this is something where you'll get a lot of different opinions and you have to wind up personally justifying or condemning your own actions

That said, I have never lost control drinking, though I've known people who have drank a lot, done stupid things (like try to get people to sleep with them (or sometimes try to sleep with me)) then claim to have been blacked out. Every time I encounter this scenario the drunk person looks and acts completely lucid, so I would personally be inclined to say the "doing stuff while blacked out" thing is bull. However, since they still seem lucid, you can't really be put at fault. Assuming you didn't fuck someone sleeping from drinking too much I would say that you are dealing with a bitch who wants society to justify her choices by clearing her of responsibility.
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Being drunk is a matter of degree. If she was drunk and you were not (and it sounds like you weren't), then there is certainly a chance that you did take advantage of her, especially if you saw it as an easy opportunity to lose your virginity because she was drunk.
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Hey, at least you were able to be around someone willing to get drunk around you. And not only that, you also had sex! Here I am, a 24 yo virgin that can't even convince a girl to want to be around me outside of work.

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I hate myself and everyone else and want to be isolated, how do I break up with my girlfriend in the least douchey way
I know that sounds unintuitive but the only reason I'm giving it any sort of thought is that she is extremely fragile
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>>18616534
go reaaaaaaaaal slow,also try to write about life goals and objectives and that this is just a merely wall between her and her dreams

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I just realized I haven't left my state in 10 years. Last time I went anywhere out of state was when I was a senior in high school. This has never really felt weird to me but I was thinking that everyone I know travels places several times a year. Am I weird for pretty much never leaving my city? Do I need to get out more?
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>Be me
>Friends tell me 6/10 girl likes me
>Not really into her, hell we had only spoken once, but a dates a date
>Ask 6/10 out
>Politely declines saying that it was just her friend trying to hook her up with somebody
>2 weeks later half of my grade goes on trip to D.C
>End up sitting with her and mutual friend on bus ride
>Me and 6/10 immediately hit it off
>End up spending most of the trip with her
>Fall head over heels in love with her
>Convinces me to join our schools production of Peter Pan when we get back
>Spend whole goddamn summer doing this play and only see her once or twice a week
>Fast forward to our latest rehearsal
>Get stuck waiting 40 minutes after rehearsal for my friend to pick me up
>At the end of her rehearsal she comes out and we start talking
>Has to leave because she has a cast party for another show shes doing
>Here here say "Wish me luck with Jimmy!" to one of her friends
>Ask her who Jimmy is
>Tells me that it'a just some kid she's doing the other play with

Should I be worried about this Jimmy kid?
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>>18616529
>Convinces me to join our schools production of Peter Pan when we get back
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>>18616529
kek
god bless ya OP
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>"I've got a crow!"

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Recently I was thinking about being a very feminine man because I hate what I look like and want to escape my horrible and boring life.
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Well, the only answer is to cease living, Caesar-sama.
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Please do not put me on a pedestal I want brutal honesty
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