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>>18620927
I don't.

That's why I'm here.

Been meaning to get uppers, or modafinil, but haven't done so.

https://tomato-timer.com/

Reset the timer and do 3 push ups whenever you get distracted.
Take a long break after 3-4 sessions.

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>>18620929
>3 push ups

No one cares that you're disabled.

>>18620914
Me and my mother saw some midget drive around in a wheelchair and she said that one should be grateful for what one have because some people have it way worse.

How rude is this? Do you ever hear people say stuff like this while thinking that you're out of earshot?

>>18621014
You don't need to be disabled to know that's rude to imply disabled people have shit lives, even if they kinda do.

>>18620911
take off her pants and jacket

Let her take a nap and then eat her out

>>18620911
Magic wand

>>18620898
Most people, male and female, have bodies that respond best to one particular set of sensations - touch points, speed, pressure, rhythm, etc. Any deviation from that focus is likely to make them lose the build-up they've developed and have to start all over.

>>18620886
How do you know she has feelings for you, did she tell you or is it conjecture?

Here's a warning you will not heed. She still has this ex in her head and heart. She might even hate him and never want to be his again but he takes up so much space she has very little to give you or anyone.

Wait till you find a girl that is not carrying an ex around with her.

>>18620886

Being "traumatized" by previous relationships means she is probably (secretly) batshit crazy.

General rule "Do not stick your dick in crazy" applies here.

>>18620900
Might as well greentext..

>Be me
>Absent to class one day
>me and this girl have the same circle of friends whom im very close with
>they decide to have some kind of modified truth or dare
>fate smiles
>its her turn
>she chooses truth
>"Do you have feelings for anon?"
Dont know what she said exactly, all that i know was summarized in the op
>The next day
>friends tell me about what happened the previous day
>heart is confused

>>18620904
I know (and i cant emphasize enough on how much i know) she isnt crazy.
And something else i know is that her previous relationships DID really leave her hurt.


She means so much to me. But i also want whats best for her even if it means being a cuck.

You have to be 18 to post on this site.

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Have you tried sitting down with him like a reasonable human being and telling him that you don't appreciate the bragging?

Loss never goes away, you need to accept it.

And you shouldn't blame yourself for your words, yes it was a shitty thing to do but he did some questionable things to cause you two to drift apart, which caused your anger in the last call. And there's no way you could have known this was gonna be the last, people who really intend to kill themselves don't let anybody know beforehand, and since he made some calls to try and clear things up he was probably set on it too. You being nice on the phone wouldn't have changed that.

>>18620882
Speaking as someone else who's still dealing with the aftermath of a sucide from 4 months ago, my only hope is that after 4 years it doesn't feel as fresh. I don't think you ever fully get over it, and will always kind of replay what you could have done differently and if it would change anything.

I will tell you that I honestly believe that even if you had told him you forgiven him, he likely still would have elected to end his life. You were one part of something much larger for him, and even if you and told him it was all ok there were likely other demons pushing him to do so.

In my case it was my father who took his own life, and despite seeing that he was planning for months to end his life I still wonder if the last day I saw him if I could have said anything different to change his mind. I hate how casual our final conversation was and that it ended with "I love you. See you later" despite him knowing we would never see each other again. I think death always leaves a scar but there is just something haunting about suicide

>>18620876
Don't go there, she's not worth your ruined psyche.

>>18620876
Went mad about what?

>>18620879
I ignored her for two days and she went crazy.

>>18620862
>How do people go around having sex with strangers?
Alcohol, low self esteem, poor decision making and poor impulse control
>Is the risk of getting something overblown
No. You will catch something, especially with what this girl is asking for.

>What do?
Stop thinking with your dick, masturbate and move the fuck on.

>>18620862
Its pretty nasty OP I agree but thats why we have drugs and alcohol

>>18620862

Considering that most girls don't even know how to properly wipe themselves after pooping and how popular eating out pussies is, it doesn't really matter if you eat her out from the front or form behind.

Go to bed earlier again and stick to routine. Like, go at 1 or 2 am, force yourself, few weeks of that and you will be fine again

>>18620846
I always solved all my sleep problems by skipping one night and then forcing myself to stay awake no matter what until the preferable sleep hour happened.

Worth a try? Coffe?

Alcohol

>>18620830
Stop thinking about it and you'll start "feeling" things you want to feel... eventually

its because you are an underaged virgin who wants attention and wont get any

You are probably depressed. When I had been depressed for a while, I didn't feel suicidal or sad. I just felt everything was ok but never really felt happy. I might have laughed at some funny things but didn't really get excited or truly happy about anything.

Try to change your life a bit. Don't do the same things every day.

you try a vibrator?

the trope is that a lot of girls can't get off to penetration.

truthfully, I wouldn't know, never had a vagina.

>>18620828
I have a stupid question:
Why take birth control when sex doesnt give you anything you enjoy? Maybe that will improve your libido (or worsen periods pain).

Anyway time to buy the most powerful thing there is: magic wand. If this cant buzz you to orgasm, nothing will.

>nature is cruel, girls dont need orgasm to procreate, so maybe in future all girls will be orgasm and love free and marriage+sex will be pure transaction

I take birth control to help with period issues, but I want to stay on it anyway just to have peace of mind.

And I haven't tried the magic wand- i have tried other vibrators.

When you bought your car you never transfered the title into your name? Go to the DMV, bring your title and put the car into your name. You will likely need proof of insurance. You probably will get your plates immediately. When you move go to that areas DMV to get a new drivers license. You may have to retake the written test and your car might have to take an emissions test. I can't think of much else you would have to do.

>>18620751
Don't contact her before she contacts you, that will give you the slightest chance to continue the relationship if she realises she misses you. Most of the time when women want to "take a break" it ends in a break up later.

>>18620778
I know this, but how to proceed with the wedding?
I am planning to reignite some sparks there.

>>18620778
This guy is right. Also, as a reminder, women usually run away from relationship before they explicitly state it to you. By those behaviours going cold, distant, and so forth, your relationship is practically in danger.

Confront her about it.

OP here,

Also want to know how to keep my skin acne-free. I shower every 2nd/3rd day minimum and scrub my skin with a coarse cloth. The acne is especially persistent on my legs and upper arms.

Speak slowly and have confidence, only kids make fun of others who stutter, most (adult) people don't even think much about that. Stuttering can be prevented by trying to speak slowly. Consult a speech therapist, it's easy to rid oneself of stuttering.