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So
I've recently been listening to podcasts like they aregoingoutnof style. And honestly I'm kinda bored with some of the super popular stuff(yeah I know I sound hipster).
I stumbled on to this podcast cause it's local to me.
>pic related
Got any other podcast that are funny or interesting
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>>18621617
I enjoy those guys https://thefpl.us/ but I don't know if they're too popular for you or your type if not, but I guess trying doesn't hurt

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Hey /adv/
I went through a really shitty patch last year into this year, broke up with the love of my life 4 months ago
Figured I might write a letter to her
Don't know what she's doing

Her last message was "I'll still love you"

Do it? Or just kill myself?

>Dear <name>,

>I hope this letter finds you well. My calendar says you might be in Japan, if I'm reading it correctly.
>If you are, I hope your trip is going well and you've been learning more of the language, it's a fantastic skill to have and you showed a real talent for it.

>As for me, I'm on the road to recovery. I have passed my medical so I am cleared to return to training when they have a space, and my therapist is happy with my progress over the past few months, and with my plan to continue. Life has been up and down, and I've
taken up some part time courier work for a friend's engineering company to keep myself busy.

>I'm writing to ask, as old fashioned as this is, if you would consider giving things a second chance. I've made a series of bad choices in my life, and breaking up with you was the biggest yet, and one I regret daily. I really do miss you, and I'd like to at least apologise for my conduct in all this.

>If you have moved on and do not wish to hear from me again, please let me know, and I will put this chapter of my life aside forever.

>My kindest regards,
Anon

She already knows my powerlevel, this isn't going to be an autistic surprise
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She literally doesn't give a fuck about you, or she wouldn't have broken up with you

She'll get the letter and read it with Chad while laughing.

Not being mean, just trying to temper your ridiculous expectations
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>>18621616
Don't send the letter
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>>18621674
Why anon? Or just no

>>18621616
I say send it, what's the worst that can happen? "No I'm seeing chad now, he's so much better"? At least you'd have closure

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So im talking to this girl recently, she txts me things like "goodnight loser :)" or "hey loser".

From how she talks and responded to me flirting i assumed obvs single. Now she mentions being taken when i asked.

Is she just seeking attention??

Literally, i asked for her number too and she readily gave me it.

Bitches be trippen wtf?
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Yes.
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>>18621612
>calls you a loser

She just wants a toilet to shit on. Of course she is an attention whore.
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Id rather she just not be interested but to be chatting her up for days to find out shes taken pisses me off. Why not say sorry i have a bf???

I'm going to forget about her but fucking playing with my emotions, hate women.

I am 24 and totally lost.

Without boasting I am of average or better looks, way above average intelligence and come from a wealthy enough country.

I am a very capable person but I have nothing to show for it and very little drive to do anything in particular.

What I want to know is what would you do in my shoes?
I want to hear from older people especially.

If you were 24 and could kind of do anything (within reason; astronaut might be off the cards) what WOULD you do?

Please. I need some kind of direction before my life slips away.

Thankyou
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>without boasting
>boasts
weak bait. sage.
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Don't boast. To me, it seems you're just another lazy piece of shit with an oversized ego for how worthless you really are. I r8 this b8 0/8.
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>>18621584
>>18621590
I mean that I'm not boasting because it's fact and I'm not like...exaggerating.
And the point is just to try and establish the idea in your head that I can accomplish things so please tell me what you would do if you had my youth on your side again.

Guys, srsly, I'm not being a dick here and I don't have a large ego. I realise that potential is utterly worthless without the drive and desire to accomplish anything and it deeply deeply infuriates me that I don't have any.
That's why I want your help.

I understand it's hard to want to help somebody who isn't coming at it from the usual angle of "I'm shit at everything but I work reli hard :("
But I am worthy of help too because there is almost nothing worse in the world than actually being capable of achieving things and just...not.

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So I have a question about Tinder and the distance between matches. This girl I have been seeing is 35 miles away from me. It literally never changes. However when I drive to my work it says 40 miles away and when I am at her place it says she is 2 miles away. Her distance has never changed for over two months now from the distance from my house. It also doesn't change when she goes to work.

Does that mean she simply does not log in anymore?
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One of these i think:
1. You are correct.
2. She is home doing nothing all day
3. He doesnt use Tinder anymore.
4. She doesnt connect to internet AND/OR turn on location setting on mobile anymore (to update tinder)

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I need to buy a laptop and would like some advice / recommendations
° ~£300
° 8/12 gb ram
° quad core
thank you
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>>18621536

get a mac
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>>18621536
Acer Aspire E 15 E5-575G-57D4 15.6-Inches Full HD Notebook (i5-7200U, 8GB DDR4 SDRAM, 256GB SSD, Windows 10 Home), Obsidian Black
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>>18621536
Used ThinkPad or Dell Latitude from eBay

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I'm dropping out of uni.

I failed a module and didn't do the retake so they're pretty upset with me. However I've never liked education/university, I really don't want to go for another year anyway. The degree I'm doing sucks anyway. I'm thinking of working in construction, any job I would get with my degree would be earning the same money anyway.

Trouble is the whole thing makes me pretty nervous. My family will probably think I'm a loser, and I'm not even sure if I'll be able to get a job in construction.

What should I do?
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>>18621476
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>>18621479
Literally why I'm going into construction though lol

I think it's not as bad as being a waiter full time.

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Is it possible for someone to find a random iPhone and be able to break into it?
>go out to bars and get really drunk
>phone is missing
>off so no find my iPhone
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>may or may not have questionable images of girls on there

What do? Pic related, its me right now
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>>18621462
even if almost everyone has porn stacked on their smartphones so don't sweat it OP
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>>18621465
They may or may not be under the age of 18 :/
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>>18621465
>>18621477
As in yeah they're definitely not 18 I just don't want to go to jail

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So I posted on craigslist about how I want to watch people get down and dirty (with their knowledge/permission), without actually getting physically involved.

Guy in the next town contacts me and says he has a GF who's into exhibitionism and he's up this idea, but he wants me to trail them both for a while, take some creep shots, then follow GF into an alley where she'll do filthy things with my penis, and give me her panties. Then more creep shots, then I go home. No names, no strings.

That escalated quickly.

So I need advice on a) small camera that's good for creep shots, please and b) any tips on handling this whole scenario.
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>Inb4 OP gets robbed in an alley.
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>>18621459
/thread
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I'll keep you posted. I won't be carrying anything of value, aside from the camera.

I've never been severely depressed in my life until the past week. I mean, everyone feels "depressed" from time to time and even though I could be considered a "normie". In the past week or so, I've been hearing this ringing sound coming from my ear. I think I have permanent tinnitus, and this ringing is ruining my life. I mean imagine never being able to have peace of mind, to have a constant sound in your head that WON'T GO AWAY. It sucks. I use to be really happy and loved life, I have close friends, a goal, and feel loved. However, despite being only 19 I think that my times of happiness in this world is coming to an end.

Because of this ringing, I can't concentrate and can't continue to be a writer. I don't feel joy when hanging out with friends. I've can't sleep because the ringing is too damn loud. Overall, I'm just depressed, and have honestly been considering suicide. I mean the point of life is to be happy, right? If this noise caused me to lose my ability to be happy, should I just end it? I've just lost all my will to live and I don't know what to do.
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Go to the doctor
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>>18621444
are you a fucking idiot? do >>18621445

Jesus christ how retarded can you be? you might have a infection in your ear that might leave you deaf on one ear, or making the ringing permanent.

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When it comes to success, successful people always say you need to love what you do.

But what do you do if you hate what you do and can't find anything you actually love to do?

The only thing that comes to mind is to get myself to love the things that I currently hate. It is possible and I have done it with very little things in the past. But when you are supposed to work your ass off on something when you are a lazy fuck and hate working, how do you get yourself to love working?

I have everything going for myself except myself. I am lazy and constantly ruin all the opportunities I have. But I can only change this if I stop hating work.
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>>18621440
I think this is one of those things you'll have to work out for yourself.

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Give me reasons why I should continue smoking.
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>weight loss
>another way to slowly kill yourself
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>>18621434
...why?
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Smoking makes you cool.

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Is it unreasonable to break up with someone you've been dating for 2 years because they drink/smoke and go out with friends at night?
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No if you're considering breaking up over somethings it's a valid reason to break up.
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>>18621427
how often do they go out? is it interrupting your time with them? we need more info
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>>18621427
imagine being this much of an autist wow

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I've been dating/sleeping around with girls like any 20something does. Sure.

Recently a couple girls say that I'm "kind" and a "good soul". Some girl said I'm a gentle giant (I'm 6'2 and /fit/) Is this some "nice guy" Beta bullshit? Because that's the last thing I want to be seen as, as some duplicating chum nice guy m'lady faggot who does favors in exchange for attention and "respect"

Do I need to start calling these girls sluts witches and whores or something? I'm not a fucking pushover
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>>18621411
You're having sex with different girls and therefore are not a beta.
Relax. Girls dig men who can be dangerous but are kind to them. There is no glory in kindness if it's all you can be. When it's a choice it's a beautiful character trait.
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>hurr girls who fuck me tell me I am a good person
>ego is so bruised

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I have zero sexual interest in people unless I'm really having feelings for them, which has happened only twice in the last 12 years. I'm trying to date and it happens quite often that a date tries to get me to stay over at their place/have sex and I usually tell them I need more time. I just don't want to have sex with someone I have only met five-six evenings in my life even if they're nice people and I enjoy their company. I generally tell them that flat out. I have broken stuff off once they start pushing for sex, because I feel obliged to at least make out, and that ruins any desire to see them. Especially if they send allusions to sex or start pushing for nudes or something like that. It makes me feel like a prude or like I better get to a nunnery.

An SJW friend of mine said that's "demisexual" but I don't want to use a snowflake label.

What do?
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>>18621317
well whats your relationship to sex? do enjoy it? are you ashamed for your kinks/fantasies? If not that has nothing to do with prudence, but how you are wired as a person.
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Keep doing what you're doing until you find someone who works for you?
There's nothing wrong, in fact you should try to get with, a partner who shares your view on sex.
Most guys do expect to get at least some action by the third date but if you don't feel comfortable doing that then that's their problem.
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You probably just place value on your body and don't want to be promiscuous which is a fine stance.

And/or, you may be depressed. Do you struggle with it? Self esteem issues? These can dampen your sexuality.

I don't like having sex with anyone unless I am serious about them. But I love flirting. That energy goes down if I am in a down period.

There's nothing wrong with what you're doing and your sjw friend is a delusional psychotic living in a land of make believe.

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