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Please tell me if it's just a panic attack, o have to sleep and I just felt a slight pain on the left side of my chest

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I'm still trying to fall asleep without dying

>>18622477
Go to a hospital?
or
you're just imagining things/it's nothing serious and you should just go to sleep?

This sounds like a scene out of a romcom.
If he's bipolar shouldn't that explain his actions?

>>18622454
With hipster fucks coming into the retro scene, common games are now getting ridiculously expensive.

>>18622471
Yup, I agree. He's just kind of acting out. He always blames people yet never completed a thing in his life. My wife is really tired of his BS as well.
>>18622520
Well, he is just that, a hipster fuck. Granted he is just that. But he is my brother so it's complicated.

>>18622373
if nothing else imagine your friends finding out or your family

>>18622373
please don't spread your genes

>>18622376
And that'll do it, thank you anon

>>18622361
As a Linux user I'd advise you against using elementaryOS. Pantheon DE is unstable and the whole OS is shit. Just use MacOS or something with GNOME if you're into that UI.
Arch is for hobbyists and powerusers, don't use it either. Manjaro would be your best bet for an Arch-base distro.

Ubuntu GNOME, Kubuntu, Xubuntu or Mint Cinnamon are the least painful systems to use. OpenSUSE, Gecko and Fedora are nice too.

And yes, MacOS+Linux is a good combination.

>using PC to describe a windows PC
PC = personal computer. It's a device independent of your OS. As in, anything running a desktop oriented Windows/Mac/GNU is a PC.

>>18622357
Either your signifant other is a liar and did something to fuck themselves while in the military, or their S-1 is very lazy. Literally getting new RFO shouldn't take more than 3-5 business days.

>>18622356
I just started Adderall again and it isn't as effective as it used to be years ago and I have to wait three more weeks to talk to him fuck.

I strongly recommend eating something light before taking it because it curbs your appetite and you're going to not want to eat at all. Also I take weekends off from Adderall when I'm just relaxing. There's no need for it and it'll help with tolerance.

I've been on extended release for about 7 years now. And also I'm on a generic version.
I frankly believe this drug saved my life, made me able to pass school and therefore cleared up my depression (since the cause of it was the thought that I was worthless to society and would never get a decent paying job since I could never pay attention long enough to get through lectures in school).

I will say though, after 7 years I am a tad concerned about being addicted to it/now it's just a crutch. Like before I was on the drug, I had an attention span of like, 5 minutes. With the drug, I have a normal attention span. But after being on it for many years, if I miss a day, I can only focus on something for 30 seconds. I feel like a zombie with no direction when I'm off my meds. (I hope this is only temporary though, as I'm planning to wean off it in a few years once I finish college.)

Otherwise though, I haven't noticed anything else in terms of side effects. My sex drive is shit, which I do know some people on adderall say happens, but I'm also on birth control and other meds that can lower my sex drive so I cannot pin point that as being the exact cause. I also occasionally get the heart racing problem, and it's mildly annoying sometimes makes me feel sick, but nothing that doesn't pass within an hour.

My advice is to just be very vocal with your doctor while you're starting. Tell them everything you're feeling, you may need a different dose or even a different type of drug. (like ridalin or concerta or whatever)

>>18622356
>>18622395
Oh and also if this applies to you at all, with adderall in specific be careful about traveling out of country with it, make sure you look up the laws.
The US and Canada are the only 2 countries to legally prescribe it. It's illegal in every other country. A lot don't care if you have a small personal amount as a tourist so long as you have a copy of the script (I've been to the UK, France, Germany, and Jamaica now with no issue) but others such as Japan will arrest you on the spot for even a single pill, regardless of your circumstances.
Just play it safe when traveling if you think you'd ever be a traveler.

Part of the reason I'm going off it is because I want to work in Japan lol.

>sexy single dad
Kek, so you have proven you are stupid enough to not wear a condom and not responsible enough to make it work with the mother and are subjecting your child to a shitty broken split family. You are also proving that the mother of your child is just as stupid and immature, and will likely pull every catty girl bullshit on the new woman, making her life hell and using the kid as a weapon.

Not sure how you make that sexy. Guess you just have to go for single moms, raise each other's bastards at this point.

1. be sexy
2. be single
3. be a dad
4. never post again

>>18622363
Well maybe my wife died.

Roasties deserve no less, you did the right thing. Honestly if it were me I'd take it a step further and follow her home

That's some would class autism you got. I would try to contain that unless you relish the idea if prison life

>>18622368
Already doing that, I'm driving to her right now, I'm two cars behind her, she has no clue.

>>18622338
Aspergers or B8. Hard to tell. Need more info.

>>18622338
Its hard to really relate to how someone is feeling at any given time, and its not even sensible. Being empathetic just involves understanding, and even if you cant feel their emotions directly man, Its not an issue. You arent missing emotions, you just haven't experienced them.

[spoiler]You were sad when Mitty died weren't you?[/spoiler]

>>18622488
>You aren't missing emotions, you just haven't experienced them.
I'm in situations where I know I should feel a certain way but end up feeling nothing.
>you were sad when Mitty died weren't you?
Again, not really sad, more surprised if anything
>>18622486
fuck off to neogaf namefag

>>18622308
>My uncle teached me
>teached
Taught.

The more you practice and on your own in a parking lot with someone watching will give you more confidence.

>>18622308
Driving is easy and all about confidence. Just keep practicing till you feel good about it

18 too here mate

Passed first time and apparently I show real talent for driving. At first I was scared shitless too.

Listen, learning with your uncle won't do shit.
Go take official driving lessons. Only they can help you.

Then, get yourself a small car, they're easier to drive and park, so you'll be less worried of fucking up


Hope this helps. You'll get the hang of it

Personally, I've found online classes to be easier. Idk if it's that teachers are more lenient on online classes, that it's just better for my personal learning style, or what but I've taken classes in person with a teacher, and then took the same teacher online and shit he would have knocked me on in the in person class he overlooked online.

I digress. The only thing I gotta say about online classes is what everyone says about them, you have a LOT more responsibility to keep yourself on track. You don't have the teacher to remind you in class about due dates and shit, you just have to be super organized.

The other thing I got on online classes is that a lot of online classes are far more likely to let you work ahead than in person classes, take advantage of that if you're given the opportunity. Do everything you can handle in one sitting, not just what's due next. You'll thank yourself later when your other life's duties get in the way and you got a little breathing room since you did that weeks shit beforehand.

>>18622316
>>18622299
Oh, and since you said you're out in the middle of nowhere, be VERY careful about your internet cutting out and shit. If your speed/connection is crap, all the more reason to make sure you NEVER do anything last minute.

I've never had a teacher to ever accept late shit due to technical problems. The answer you always get was "you shouldn't have waited until the last minute, then you wouldn't have had technical problems"

You look like a pretentious fag.

>>18622295
How do I change that.
Please tell me what I can change.

>>18622289
Someone liked you enough to take a picture of you.

Eh it's subjective.

Me personally, the goal should be to NOT communicate via text/online, ergo you should be talking far more in person than anything else.
But if you can only arrange meetings that far out, yes you'll want to talk to 1 make things less awkward when you do meet and 2 just build up the relationship period.

But, you shouldn't force texts. If all you have to say is "Hey whats up" that's a boring conversation that will fizzle quickly and be forgotten. You want to have something significant to talk about that will result in a decent length conversation, same as if you were talking irl.

Also you should keep in mind her circumstances and personality. Some girls just hate texting. I'm one of them, it's just a placeholder for real conversation to me. I'd rather not text unless it's something significant or important, if the goal is JUST "to keep things fresh" then I'd rather you just waited till we met in person. That's me though. So if the girl doesn't respond quickly, or responds in short messages, it might just be that she doesn't like to talk that way. Don't give up too quickly and assume disinterest.
She could also just plain be busy. If she had to schedule a week in advance, this seems likely. She's got shit to do and doesn't have the time to hold a conversation via text.

Just some things to consider.

You think God is in the ocean?

>>18622303
maybe, just a feeling.

>>18622330
Listen to yourself my man. You sound crazy.
If you never fail at anything, how will you improve yourself?
If you fail at ANYTHING you're going to get on a boat and kill yourself? killing yourself is the ultimate failure!