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>>18625176
make sure the girl is honest and that she says if she didn't like it? or do you just care for yourself, not not about it being not pleasing?

Self confidence and self respect are earned. You have to successfully please women in bed a few times before you'll get over it.

>>18625193

>To get over your anxiety, you have to get over your anxiety

Fucking thanks

>>18624951
It's coincidence that all these examples were sex related. There's many other things that make me feel life is fake, such as:
>Who really am I? I first existed as an unborn baby, I became a female with male genitals and puberty made me more masculine. Everyone is a female by default but testosterone and other hormones make us more male (females can literally turn male if they abuse testosterone...)

I can't list everything, try not to be hateful in replies.

>>18624951
Basically, to quote Trump, the problem is that we are too politically correct.
It's just how society works, people like you are the minority that get crushed by the rest of society.

>>18624960
I could be wrong though, idk anything for certain... Just that the world seems fake and can't be real... It's so fake

Most people hate saying no or letting another person down so they wait for the least stressful avenue to express their feelings.

Sorry about your situation

>>18624927
I promise you women will find you more attractive if you stop browsing Reddit

>>18624941
Thanks I understand that, yet why do they take the presents? A polite 'no thank you'would be fine.
I mean it really is quite crass because it just comes across as taking free stuff from naively hopeful ugly lonely people.

>>18624947
Huh?

Germanon here, it's beautiful here, just don't go into big cities as they are infected with ideologies and some of them are just not clean.

>>18624882
I've always wanted to visit Germany and see everything there, and it's always been a contender for me to move to due to my genetics and shit, the only thing I'm concerned about are all the refugees. Frankly I don't really give a shit about refugees on a whole, but I've heard about a lot of vi9lence in Germany caused and started by the refugees against the Germans
>why go to a country if you're going to be a dick to everyone who has more of a right to be there than you
Is that something I would have to worry about? Or is everything I'm seeing blown out of proportion

>>18624890
A lot of Germany is quiet so you won't be seeing many people anyways, let alone illegal immigrants (let's call them what they are).

It is true that a lot of crimes are started by them, but it's not like they all rape or anything, a lot of small crimes too. The problem is that they often get ignored by news and people in general.. because they're scared of "racism".

It's not as bad as Sweden though, and you won't notice it as long as you don't live near a shelter or in a major city.

You could still take the train to the cities if you wanted to go shopping or see attractions. I'm sure not every city is that bad though, I just know how it is in Berlin.

The streets tend to be a bit dirtier in the major cities too, especially if you live in an area that has cheap apartments.

South-Germany has a lot of mountains while you don't have any in the north. You also tend to get paid more for simple and productive jobs in smaller cities while big cities give you more career choices.

>>18624586
>what is google.com

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>>18624586
Death grip will cause you unable to enjoy and cum from pure pussy stimulation. Even worse if you are cut.

Too much porn will give you erectile disfunction because average girl wont be sexy to you anymore.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/

Tldr fap once per day before sleep via tender up and down moves with your eyes closed.

>>18624624
thanks

can you write?
>>yes
then what the fuck is the problem

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>>18624431

>>18624431
when i was 8 i was diagnosed with a kind of motor dysfunction that basically means i write very slowly cuz theres a disconnect between my brain and my hand, i dont know if this has anything to do with it but hey if fixing this will fix it i would be willing to try

>>18624396
What was her pain like?

>>18624404
Well I don't really know obviously, but she described it as a burning sensation.
It even came back later that night, I'm a bit worried

She's probably pregnant OP congrats man, it's because you masturbated too close to when you fingered her

>>18624330
>Sorry, Chad, but it turns out I don't have too much time for intercourse right now.

>choses chads
>surprised chad is chad irl

some women are not fit to live without a guardian

>>18624330
>go to a fuck app to find people to fuck
>selects one of the dicks on the shelf based on her tastes
>surprised when he wants to fuck

???

>>18624241
No, on the contrary, you should be giving her your blessings.

t. 21 year old.

>>18624251
> t.daughter's boyfriend

>>18624241
You can and should stop that shit right now. You are letting some 21 year old pound the shit out of a teen that can just barely drive.

>>18623971
any hentai reading site should be good enough

>>18623971
>go to pornsite
>click random tags
>explore
>profit???
My turn ons (2d only) are lolis bdsm exhibitionism and asphyxia If you want to try some out otherwise can't help you much more

>>18623978
>asphyxia
wew

Why would you make such a shitty thread?

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Over time you will have less heat against you.

I suggest deleting all social media and contacting your close friends saying that they should contact you by phone for now.

Don't leave the house too much for a few weeks and keep on you any weapons you can legally use. Make sure all of your locks are secure.

If your job or future career finds out (Or cares), deny your participation and claim you don't know what happened. If there's a clear picture of your face and somehow it's tied to you for your job and you're questioned for it, continue to deny it or just accept what's going to happen and try to make your reasoning seem logical and collected.

Do not hesitate to call the police on anybody that threatens you. This will deter hatera in the long run.

Eventually this will pass and you'll be in the clear. Just worry about your physical safety for now and everything will be okay. You did the right thing.

>>18624009
should i go and live with other family members on a different state for a while?

>>18623961
7cups of tea.

try reading books, googling anxiety issues 1000 different ways, and generally whatever you can think of to try before getting a therapist, because your gut instinct is right and it's a bad idea.

You don't have to mention your career or shooting hobby.

I'm pretty sure it's illegal for psychologists to reveal personal information about their patients in almost all first world countries

>>18623961
go see a competent therapist. not sure of the fact uou attend therapy can be used against you for work or guns, maybe some other yank can weigh in, but it would be the smart thing to do if you're getting worse.

also, give one of these audio courses a shot: http://www.effectivelearning.com/shop/category/anxiety/

>>18623959
By having this goal consistently: "Be better today than I was yesterday." Reading philosophy also helps. Shit like Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics and Plato's Five Dialogues.

>>18623959
When your conscience is clear.

You may be weighed down by guilt. but as long as you have not acted out of spite and/or selfishness, you'll be okay.

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Start as a good boy,
Proceed to a super good boy.
Reach level 35 and don't press B to cancel the animation.

also, animals may inadvertently make you a better human.

>>18623923
Kill myself again.

Get kidnapped by the government and experimented on for the advancement of humanity.

>>18623923
the major whole in this thread's premise is that it fails to account for anon's who are 21 or below 21. unless the implication is for such people to GTFO

>>18623534
>first time that we have sex
>without her being disgusted
you don't

>>18623534
keep your fetish in check man..... just give her normal sex and work towards it.

>>18623543
>>18623548
To be fair, I am a year older than her and quite a bit more attractive objectively (though I still find her gorgeous), so it stands to reason that she should realize I am superior to her and should give me some leeway.