How do you get a bf?
>>18729013
Is there an invasion from an anime board or something going on right now?
Be in London and post a pic of yourself on 4chan
>>18729013
I can be your bf owo
A guy made me fall in love with him and now I regret it.
This is hard to explain, but it all started with him making a simple comment to me and the next day complementing me. This I understood, he was just flirting. The next day him and I were in class and he just kept staring into my eyes, in a odd way. He did this for a whole 2 hours, then the next day he did it again. I ended up falling in love with him. He now is ignoring me. I don't understand the whole purpose of him charming me then just, leaving. I have no experience with any of this and how to deal with the situation, and I've been having serious anxious feelings the minute he started to ignore me. I don't know what to do.
>>18728991
pls shradhda
>>18728991
Sounds like a puppy crush. Don't worry about it, he probably noticed you staring and got weirded out by it. Just realize that falling in love feeling is the best in the world and move on with your life.
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>>18728975
I also know that feel.
it'll get better anon
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it hurts
Do I have diabetes?
It seems stupid because I live an active lifestyle (on average walking 6 miles a day with my medium sized laptop in my bag), am not overweight, and no one in my family has had it, But I've been hella thirsty these last couple of weeks, and sometimes have pissed 15+ times in a day. My vision suddenly became nearsighted 2 days ago and I went to the optometrist to get glasses (since everyone in my family wears glasses).
I know self diagnosing is pretty dumb, but this is really weird. Right now I'm so tired I could barely get out of bed to walk down the street for groceries, and when I got back it felt like I had walked 100 miles.
I know I should go to a doctor but I'm literally too busy to go this week...
>>18728964
Go to a fucking doctor instead of asking a chinese cartoon website you moron
>>18728971
Someone should make a bot that posts "Go to a fucking doctor" in every thread that has the name of any illness or psychiatric condition in the OP. And then another that posts "Grow a pair of balls and stop crying because a girl doesn't like you" in all the other threads. Board solved.
>>18728964
You can get type 1 diabetes with a active lifestyle.
I did , the symptoms sound like it.
Go do a blood sugar tests ASAP or you could die.
Meanwhile drink lots of water and dont eat any carbohydrates ( sugars )
>Have 130 IQ (professionally tested)
>Competent programmer and Linux sysadmin, but no degree/certs
>Apply for Dominoes, Walmart, fast-food/retail places
>Don't have any work experience or references (at 22 years old)
>Can't get job; not worthy enough
Society obviously doesn't want me to work, it's telling me I'm not needed.
Then you would complain if I get welfare.
I'm honestly thinking about going to a psychologist and pretending to be mentally ill for disability checks.
Get an internship/go to a job shop/ask the government for work.
>>18728915
>Get an internship
No one wants me even for literal slave labor.
>go to a job shop
I don't have a car or any money to get there.
>ask the government for work
I live in the US, government jobs aren't easy to get at all.
140iq here
Give me 50 pushups
Why do people feel like two months is a long time to be hanging out/dating? Like you should be together/exclusive after the third date. Is this something that has always been, and my perception of time/relationships is warped?
Also, what's with people saying things like "there's a connection" "that doesn't happen often". Are these people even living life? I have a very limited social life, plus i'm introverted, and i still meet people daily who i have at least somewhat of a connection with, who I think I would have a great relationship with. And that's not saying because it's not rare that it's not special. Each connection is different in its own way. So, why do people treat having feelings for someone as a once in a lifetime event?
not sure if you are saying this is too early or too long of a timeframe
anyways, you must consider that extroverts naturally have many, many shallow friendships and hook ups. for them s deeper connection really is something rare
>>18728919
yeah I was saying that it's too short of a timeframe, and I get what you said about extroverts, I'm an introvert and always seem to find that deeper level of connection with people, and I think they sensed that from me, because i'm one of those people who everyone seems to open up to.
Get over yourself. The reason people move fast is because they habe relationship experience and know what to look for. If you can't tell if someone is worth having a relationship within a few months then you're slow or autistic.
That doesn't mean you meed to have anal ot fuck daily. People just want something a nit substansive after investing a few months. You only get around 800 months in your life usually and maybe 200 of those as a young adult dating. 3 months is a segnificant dent.
If you stock woth them you'll have ages to get to know them and you can always just leave if it doesn't workout.
What defines romantic love and differentiates it from a good friendship?
At which point are two people who like each other a lot, are physically intimate and want to have sex with each other cross the line?
>>18728901
>baby don't hurt me
Love is pretty much liking someone SO MUCH that it cannot be classified as liking them anymore.
You like someone that way and do romantic shit and have sex with them it is romantic love.
You like someone that way and are just friends with no romance or sex then it is platonic love.
>>18728931
And where does a relationship fall where you agreed not to have sex or do romantic shit because you like each other so much that you don't want to hurt them again? Where you want to have sex and do romantic things but the voice of reason tells you not to?
So I've been dating this girl for a month now, we made out a few times, she's smart and does my college work for me.
But since I'm bi I just want to leave her for this cute guy I know. Although I kinda need her for my math homework.
Should I even end it, she's not ugly but it's how she acts she's such a good girl and I think she's Muslim too so that's a no no for me. I'm trying to weigh the cons and pros
Pros I get my shit done by her, and she gets me food
Cons her existence pisses me off because she's a Muslim
Just enjoy the ride op
>I just want to leave her for this cute guy
you're fucking gay dude
are you a guy or girl OP, cause if your a girl wouldnt that make the ''muslim'' a lesbian?
I've got a broken fridge in my garage, and I was told to get rid of it, I don't have a truck to move it, are there any services that can pick it up for free?
or is there another good way to get rid of it?
Thanks
Criagslist Ad in the "free" section
>>18728850
There are tonnes of people who will take a fridge for free. There are salvageable parts in there a junkyard will pay decent money for.
So post on kijiji that you have a fridge, itll be gone in a day. Promise.
Or you can do you research and get a bit of rainy day money. Up to you.
>>18728850
Use it to store shit inside
My wife and I are getting older. She'll be 36 this year. She told me she doesn't want children for a variety of reasons fr career to age to state of society. I sort of want kids but not yet ,mainly for passing on Gene's but my brother already had three so I don't feel so much pressure anymore. Since my wife may be too old I was thinking of donating to a sperm bank. How does this work? How can I ensure my sperm get selected to live on in someone else's child?
If you donate to a sperm bank you cannot ensure that your sperm is used. Both for this reason and for you saying you want kids "mainly" for passing on genes, I'd suggest looking into donating sperm to a lesbian couple and being a distant father figure. Then you both know for sure that it's used, and you can see who your child grows into somewhat, be a positive influence depending on the couple's wishes etc.
Or you could do what I did and get yourself some stripper babies, just make sure they don't find out your last name- T Nigger
I will have a psychodiagnosis four days from now. What should I expect?
I talked with the psychologist on the phone. She seems a bitter old lady.
>>18728823
>what should i expect
to waste your money. there's better ways to use your money. like burning it.
>>18728829
It was my psychiatrist decision. She will use it to determine the meds she will prescribe to me.
>>18728841
good goy. take the happy pills and fill their pockets with cash.
How do I stop being needy? I have a small circle of very nice friends that I enjoy spending time with, but if I'm without their attention for even short stretches of time I get very lonely and find no joy in solitary activities. I used to have solitary hobbies I enjoyed but now nothing I do on my own is enjoyable. I don't want to bother my friends and I want to enjoy having time to myself again. What do?
Maybe you're more extroverted than you think, or you have become more extroverted.
I used to belive that i was an introvert, but in reality, i get bored easily when im not around friends, and i really do not enjoy time alone.
I relax best when im togheter with someone.
I might be socially inept, but im not introverted, far from it.
All neediness comes from, well needing something. There are only to ways to change the issue find a way to cope / fill the void. Or find what it is and com to terms with it slowly and try to ease off of what the specific need is and rehabilitate. Neediness can be for anything,l. So while it's not Mich to go off of it's a start.
I don't know why, but I feel empty and sad; like I'm stuck in a rut.
I have a job, meeting new people.
I don't live with my parents anymore.
I'm trying to get /fit/, and I have a clear plan for my future; but something just feels wrong.
I get up every morning with this nagging feeling in my gut, like something is missing.
>>18728795
Here's what I've been doing for the past month that an old friend from HS told me.
"Start your day off with 20 minutes of what you love. Create weekly, monthly, quarterly goals. Envision the life you want to live and put it everywhere to remind yourself of it, your phone background, your closet, the wall behind your mirror. Everywhere."
>>18728813
That doesn't sound too bad actually
>>18728813
terrible advice. that would only serve to make me sad
Dating a girl.
She wants something serious, wish to get married soon.
I don't.
She has been used before.
She's 8.5/10 body and I'd like to use her as well.
Basically this kind of girl that goes from teen/college slut to wife mode at certain age.
She literally begs me to not come out as an asshole.
I am asshole, I'm already dating chicks on side anyways.
What do?
>>18728786
Do you think she'll kill you? If not, tell her you just want her for the sex. It's your call to decide whether you tell her before or after.
>>18728798
Yup, but I'm starting to feel bad for her.
I hate this feeling, trying to repress it.
Honestly OP if you have any shred of conscience just break it off now. Tell her you think you're after different things, I wouldn't tell her you just want to fuck her or anything because then she's just gonna feel used again.
Just say you've grown apart and don't think you're a good fit.
>have childhood friend
>chubby girl with blonde curls
>grew apart after she kissed me in the 5th grade.
>see eachother here and there, never really hang out
>bump into eachother
>Shes a plump, gnomish looking, blonde curls.
>ask her to get coffee
>go to starbucks together
>then get frozen yogurt
>then fuck in the lady's room of the frozen yogurt place
>then go to a park
>then fuck in the bathroom to the park.
>Go back to her place.
>Eat some popsicles
>Anal sex on her couch.
she hasn't texted in 3 days. I think shes ghosting me... what happened? what did I do wrong? I thought things were going great.
Did you text her first?
>>18728774
I've texted her a couple of times
Anal sex on a first date, sounds like a classy girl. And you're bothered by the fact that she's ghosting you now? Lmao, I'd be more worried if she wanted to date