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>>18628860
Every single day I see this same fucking photo on clickbait ads.

>>18628860
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>>18628860
Just ask your mom to introduce you to one of her co-workers

>>18628848
Married 9 years. Together for 14.

>How did you meet?
Highschool
>When did you realize that you love them?
Couple years into it, she was supposed to just be a rebound. But liked her more than I thought I would.
>Can you describe the feeling?
No. She is my best friend, and I have no desire to see anyone other than her.
>What advice can you give others to achieve the same thing?
Have as much in common as possible. Doing things together is the only way to make it work long term. And there is no "spark" or any other horseshit hollywood sells. It takes time to be in love. Not something that just happens.

>>18628848
>How did you meet?
On 4-fucking-chan.

>When did you realize that you love them?
My dad was in hospital doing chemo. I spent all day taking care of him. I was exhausted, frustrated, emotionally devastated because my dad had cancer. I came home and found my boyfriend there, with pizza and a beer. He did my laundry and grocery shopping.
We sat on the floor, laughed all night and I went to bed happy.
I remember laying there and thinking "shit, I really fucking love this dude".

>Can you describe the feeling?
I felt like he was worth fighting for. Like I wanted him, with all his flaws, and all his shit - and being next to him for the rest of my life was essential for my well being.
It felt accepted and understood for the first time in my life, too. Like I could be unapologetically myself and he'd like what I was. I felt like getting to a place I never knew but always belonged to.

>What advice can you give others to achieve the same thing?
Talk. Show love. Be genuine.

Together five years. Met in highschool when I was 13, her 15. Obsessed with her and finally won her over when I was 16. Moved in together after six months. Lots of ups and downs but ultimately happily in love. Communication is KEY.

By acknowledging first of all, that it's impossible to have thoughts completely devoid of emotion.

>>18628847
Study the axioms, rules of inference and simple theorems of different logics then apply them to your conversations whenever you can. You know, the same strategy you would use when learning a new language, and then learning to think in it.

She's fucking without you anon. Or she's not attracted to you. Either way huge red flag

>>18628833
well last night she was telling me that she is just really scared about it hurting

>>18628835
So she's a virgin?

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>>18628823
I'm 20 yo and I'm still dreaming about a girl that I liked when I was 10. So I guess you're not alone.

you'll be fine

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuIDh4XIzxU

>How can i stop it from affecting me so adversely?

>I cant stop thinking about her

First of all, I know it's hard but you have to stop obsessing over her. Your desiring and wanting and hoping is NOT bringing you happiness, as you can observe first hand.

What can you do? Well, you can worry about more important things. You can distract yourself. Or you can learn to relax and quiet the mind... because if you don't work this out, you will have plenty of sleepless nights.

I've definitely been there.

>>18628803
Similar to you?
Don't fuck your cousin/sister
And if you mean like personality and interests
You should do it, that's the whole purpose of dating someone, to find interests and likings between each other

>>18628818
Yes, personality wise.

We are EXTREMELY similar.
Same upbringing, same views, same sense of humour, same interests.
But also very similar personality flaws and issues.

>>18628820
Then just date her

>>18628787
>How do I focus on building my career up and stop finding for a girlfriend?

Start focusing on building your career up and stop finding for a girlfriend.

>>18628789
Yeah I know that's what I should do but did you even completely read my post?

>>18628770
I'm tired of you insecure little crybabies
just go buff up your body with steroids and go to the gym and get some muscles
and you're done
go fuck all the chicks you want
you meathead

>>18628770
Is that your face?

Long term it might be better to just see a psychologist these kinds of things can be fixed

>>18628777
you're probably right, is a behavior therapist the best person to talk to about this?

>>18628783
I think so. If not they'll refer you to someone else.

>>18628743
U cant. Just play with locals at a card shop

>>18628743
Video gamers tend to be more open.

Generally, the more laid back type tend to be open for the idea, especially 'ex-gamers' who likely played in the old days because of the social aspect, and now wants to recapture that spark. So essentially anyone that used to play WoW. Even if they never play games anymore.

wow glad i don't have a bunch of basic normie idiots for friends

>>18628739
how much is it going to cost you, what are the job prospects, how much is the average salary, where do companies that employ you reside?

Please provide me this info and I will tell you my opinion.

Figure out what you want to do with your life first IMO. Find a job/career you like, apply for it, figure out what qualifications you need and then go and get them. Don't just get some random ass qualifications and hope there is a job out there right for you.

>>18628749
I would be attending SDSU and I have FAFSA and a scholarship so the cost wont be much, also a Microbiologist earns a median salary of $65,000 a year and a food Science major earns $ 50,000.
As a microbiologist it would be mostly lab work , which i like.As a food and nutrition major i would be more related to food, think quality control.

>>18628705
First of all, biology
You are a living fucking chunk of flesh that it's only purpose is to reproduce
That's why you get a boner
Back in the day everyone raped each other and had babies
Just stop thinking about her and try to beat your meat more often, it looks like you have some kind of "seuxal tension"

>>18628721
thats not even it, in my job i talk with a lot of beautiful women, like that should blow my dick straight off if i'd get a glance at her in lingerie but i dont get like that with themgot laid yesterday twice, beat it today already and still sexual tension? i mean im usually hungry but this would be a bit extreme

>>18628731
You're a human being
Get used to it faggot
You can't do anything about it
Just don't think about them
Just try to stay dead inside

>>18628660
>how do talk to girls?

You mean flirting, right? Or you are unable to talk to them at all?

>>18628660
You're a fucking faggot
First of all you need to get the idea that there is no god and we don't have meaning
And then you need to get the idea that we're just living bacteria but more intelligent
Stop caring about these shits like "Is she gonna like me?" or anything like that
Just man up go to her and talk to her like she's your grandma
Discuss topics and things you like just don't go too much weird
Just discuss about topics you find interestting
I don't get why people find it so fucking hard to talk to a piece of living chunk of flesh, meat and bones

Hey [X], you're pretty cute.
Want to grab some coffee?


Short. Blunt. To the point. Set a date. Don't pussyfoot. Boom, you're ahead of 70% of your competition just from doing those things.

>>18628638

Crushes are a sign of loneliness. Do you feel lonely? Do you have many friends? Do you have at least some female friends?

Have you even talked to this girls? Interacted with her in some way?

invite her out

>>18628632
tineye should still find it