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who the fuck wants white spots where warts used to be id rather just have the fucking warts. sorry i am just not happy right now...

>>18630515
It will go away, quicker than the warts would have if you left them without treatment anway, so don't worry buddy

>>18630515
the skin usually needs one month to fully regenerate

>>18630500

do charity. if you've already experienced all the good, then why not pay that forward so people down on their luck can experience that good as well? who knows along the way you might even begin to enjoy things again. until then, why not just help people?

give it at least 5 years of volunteering to pay back for your good fortune and if you're still depressed, end it then.

>>18630500
Where you found of studying? Maybe try to pick up a subject and learn.
Following a philosophy course might be helpful
Or you could research about religion, it might give you the purpose you need.

Or do like>>18630508 said, helping others is a great way to feel better.

>>18630500
Travel or invest in the hapiness of your friends.
And as the others said, volunteer (combined with travel)

>>18630492
Yeah, you should probably get that checked.

>>18630467
States with mm have doctors who basically exist just to hand out green cards
that being said weed is unhealthy as fuck, don't do it

>>18630484

What's so unhealthy about it?

>>18630484

Thats what I figured / hoped

>>18630495

From my regular use the last couple years; only cons I can list are

>Getting Arrested
>Getting Tickets
>Slight Lung Damage
>Cardiovascular system will drop without steady exercise
>Paranoia (which would cease to exist if I was a fully realized in motion adult)

Can't think of anything else besides the $

Please ignore this shill thread

No. The people the media are calling nazis are not nazis.

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>>18630485
>the self-identified nazis the media is calling nazis are not nazis

Only if you're doing it to make her jealous or get back at her somehow.

>>18630440
No I'm not doing it with that in mind. "Hanging out" meaning going to a bar, or going out on a trip with other mutual friends. Nothing sexual, in any way. Nothing for my ex to find out later and get jealous about. Just hanging out.

>>18630424
what do you mean 'around you'? you don't care about others or their actions?

>>18630429
i don't care about my body

>>18630371
What the fuck? If you ever came up to me and randomly kissed my palms I would just slap you in the face as hard as I can.

>>18630394
this a recurring fantasy of women, attempting to start voilence but stopped by strong men and getting forcefully fucked which she resist first to avoid seen as a whore but comes during intercourse

>>18630371
How about talking to her like a normal person and being interested in her life without daydreaming your future marriage, careers, kids, and retirement every 3 minutes.

>>18630335
Well, try to do some sports and find what makes you angry and why because these things have a deeper root in you and the other thing is you get mad for a reason find that reason and think of a solution. On the other hand, it's okay to get mad sometimes, but if you are constantly frustrated, then the first half of the advice is for you.

>>18630335
You're compensating for something. When I was younger and still in high school, I would get mad whenever people make little mistakes because I thought it would make me look smarter, but it just made me look annoying.

>>18630335
What the fuck you mean by that? You wanna fight?

>>18630334

No it's not weird. As long as you're not out during any protest you'll likely be fine.

A tiny minority of people are killed by terrorists, far-right, islamic or otherwise

If I were you, i'd cut the toxic guy out of my life and be done with it. but you aren't me and probably have some weird reason why you'd rather stay with some guy that is ruining your life.

I dont have problems cutting people out of my life, whether it be my abusive mother or brother (which they are). and I dont give two shits if I never see them again

Break up with him. Love is overrated and delusional. What you need in a relationship is stability, peace, trust, and respect. Love comes naturally from that. If all our medical science can't fix it, you can't either. Stop trying.

To bolster my point, I have been with my partner for 4 years, married two, known for 2 years prior to dating. We both agree on these things and we have 0 relationship issues even with us both dealing with major depressive disorder and several other individual issues.

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Does he take meds?

You're self aware of the issue, which is great, but if he does not get treatment, or the treatment isn't working, I'm sorry, but this isn't going to change.

You're probably going to disregard this advice, but the reason why people stay in abusive relationships is because they hold on to a strand of unreasonable hope that the relationship will go back to normal. But it won't. He's comfortable with you now. This is your life forever if you choose to stay.

If you disregard this advice, and have kids with this man, think of the emotional trauma your children will have. As much as I resent my father, I hated my mother for putting us in this situation. Whenever he would be destructive, he would end up leaving. The problem, was that he would be welcomed with open arms by my mother when he chose to return a few months later. She didn't depend on anything from him, infact, he was more dependent on her. She could have stopped it. She didn't.

History repeats itself. You know there's a problem, we're telling you it's unfixable.

Whatever you get hereonout, you deserve.

The biggest thing that stands out to me is
>when im alone in my house all i can think of is die young die young die young and youre such a loser and on and on
This is referred to as a type of "self-talk." Some people practice positive self-talk which is a way for a person to reassure him or herself of his or her ability to succeed and raises self-esteem. However, some people practice negative self-talk, which lowers how well you think of yourself. It can come from depression as well as contribute to worsening the depression. It would be worth it to see a mental health counselor if only to get the ideas out of your head and maybe get some fresh perspective on them. Many schools offer counseling at a Student Health office at no charge beyond what you paid for tuition at the beginning of the semester.

>>18630441
Thats the thing, i dont think i have low self esteem i mean i know what im good at and in what ways im better than most people, i know im not ugly but when i say loser i say it because i dont feel the same things everybody feels and i cant do the same thing everybody does, im more outgoing but im still that weird kid, i cant have feelings for people and if i manage to develop i get stuck in my neurosis and self hatred that i end up losing everything, ive been to a lot of job interviews and i never pass the first test, what i mean is i know theres something wrong with me but i dont know what and i cant change it and thats what i mean when i say im a loser because i just cant do the things everybody does

To give you some perspective i was born with my umbilical chord strapped around my neck so i was born with a lack of oxygen in the brain, the doctor told my parents that i was going to struggle my whole life academically and i had to go to therapy to develop my motor skills, etc when i started applying to college my school psychologist told my parents to look for other options because i might never make it so i guess i have low iq and i hate when my mother tells me im smart, i know im not, im used to losing and sometimes i think im destined to it

>>18631270
>thats what i mean when i say im a loser because i just cant do the things everybody does
>i hate when my mother tells me im smart, i know im not
>im used to losing and sometimes i think im destined to it
That's pretty much the description of low self-esteem, even if you have other thoughts that you feel balance out the negative self-talk. It would be good for you to visit a psychological counselor. If you don't know how to begin talking to him or her, just express some of the doubts you have about your ability to succeed in specific areas. Counselors are typically good about picking up on what would be important to talk about.

Fuck off Chad

>>18630261
Kill yourself.

>>18630261
Break up with 2-3 of them? This seems kinda obvious.

If he's old let him do it. The KKK isn't good by any stretch but things are fucked right now in this country and somebody needs to get in peoples faces and start shit.

Let it be cool old dudes. Nowadays they will smear your name and ruin your future for opposing the elite but if you're an old dude who gives a fuck.

Tell him he either stops or you marry a negro, his choice.

What the fuck, man. I would cut relations with my father if this happened.

If you have the liberty, try talking him out of it. If making him see that racism is fucked up, at least try to convince him that times have changed and that he'll end up in jail.

I am normally against being a rat but losing your job has a real affect on your life. Rat him out, but you better hope that allows you to keep the job.