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tinder is a very easy way to hook up. i strongly suggest getting on there, have friends edit your profile for you

keep your sex life and your social life totally separate, this is very important. as a college freshman your next relationship is unlikely to result in a lifelong partnership, so when it does end youll be fucked if you have the same social circle. i wish the drinking age was 18 (it makes sense that it really should be), because clubs are a great way to make friends. everyones drunk and happy to you're more likely to be received well. as for parties, look into fraternities. you may even want to consider rushing, normie as that is. just dont do any humiliating shit, its never worth it and theyll respect you for refusing. this sounds super creepy, but if you find out where the big party apartment complexes are and where the college row houses are, you can go by on a friday night round ten and just listen for music. if you see a big party spilling onto the lawn, feel free to join. they dont know half the people there anyway, and youll be able to make some friends. you can also join clubs and do volleyball, tons of girls there. just get involved in ANYTHING- even if its a robotics team, and youll make friends.

>i wish the drinking age was 18
But it is, Anon. Which third world country are you from?

>>18631711
USA

>>18631639

I'll tell you a secret, later in life the friends as you call them become a selfish birches ... why ?? Cuz that's the way life is

>>18631661
I figured a lot of people really just conform due to their own insecurities. Like how lonely people tend to find other lonely people, etc.
Shoving their own selfish desires onto other people.

Despite that, I still want to socialize.

>>18631684
Than don't make many friends
Make one Good friend

Was she flirty with you at all during the night (e.g., touching, being playful with you)?

I would try to ask her on an "actual" date (e.g., dinner) and see how that goes. It is def a good sign that she still wants to talk to you.

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>>18631582
Buy condoms. Walk her home. Flirt. Tell her how sexy she is. Touch her. Ask her if she will invite you over. Smile. Ask for netflix and chill. Attempt to kiss her. Smile like retard.

Tldr behave like horny male beast. You dont have to rape her or force your hand into her panties and grab her by pussy, but you still have to make some bold move.

Take note that you described yourself as kind boring guy, so she obviously isnt girl you should marry. But sex should be ok. Bring the condoms or you will be teen and pregnant.

Your first meta is kiss. Then cuddling. Then cuddling at her/your home on bed. After that it should be on autopilot.

>>18631593
Or this. Simply ask her on date.

>>18631593
Well its kinda hard to say since talking in a club basically requires you to go cheek to cheek with eachother anyway
But she is definitely comfortable around me, though she's not really the type of girl who would openly show affection I think, she's more like a tough tomboy-ish kinda deal

I did ask her if she'd like to see a movie sometime though and she said yes so there's that

>>18631508
I need more information anon, how close was your relationship with them?

>Sperg, social retard
>Thinking that girls find that attractive

>>18631469
Post your picture Zach.
If you are looking for a likeminded person on tender then you should just give up.
Try okc instead.

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>>18631469
cringed/10

Second-hand.

>>18631445
Build a desktop. Laptops are a meme.

"Gaming" laptops are a joke. Cheap hardware marked up far beyond it's value.

Don't be a lazy faggot and get good value for your money by building or asking someone else to build a desktop for you. Any mouthbreather with functioning hands and access to the internet can could do it following a Youtube tutorial. 1-2 hours tops for you first build. It's not hard.

Helpful links for dummies:
http://www.logicalincrements.com/
https://pcpartpicker.com/

>>18631389
Working on it. I"ll let you know if I ever get there, but I see potential.

You know that feeling when you are trying to learn something new and you're joking about wanting to be good at it, lets say piano. Every so often you sit down and bust a few scales always thinking "Nah I'm always going to be a person that doesn't know how to play piano" but then out of the blue you try to play Hey Jude and you have no issue and you think "huh, I can see how if I were to actually try at this I would know how to play piano".

I'm right there with living a healthy life. Every so often I've done spurts of attempting to get over my shit and it never did more than reassure me I wasnt a total helpless retard. Recently I've taken to cutting sugars, diary, and breads from my diet, adding a bit of movement to my daily routine, and got a healthier job - I can see how this might lead somewhere.

Give it a shot, what ya got to lose? Chase the things that make your body feel good. Maybe thats sex, maybe its drugs, maybe its dancing. Just do stuff that FEELS good and the rest will fall into place my homie

>>18631382
>None of these "side effects" left my system when the drugs did.

That's depression, you are simply not out of the woods just because you have quit medication.

>I've got permanent brain damage. What do?

No you don't, you are afraid, this is fear of powerlessness to change your outlook yourself, this is you fearing your own failure is insurmountable beyond your abilities, at the same time it is a convenient excuse to plead yourself blameless for failing to achieve what you want in life, it is a convenient externalized cause to blame your powerlessness and failure on.

Stop bullshitting yourself with this edgy defeatist bullshit and try again and again and again until you die, start small, start doing something, explore curiosities, break your habitualized behavior that keeps you stagnant, remove yourself from the comfortable environment that allows you to continue being comfortable with a situation you are not even happy with.

bump also I'm 18 (mistake)

bump again

>>18631319
OK so you're no good at those subjects. Not necessarily the end of the world. Find another field you are good at.

Don't worry about job prospects. It sounds like you're in the UK, and employers there are less interested in WHAT you studied than in THAT you studied and had the ability and discipline to get a degree. With a few technical exceptions you can legitimately apply for any job anywhere with any degree.

Alternatively, perhaps the academic/professional path is not for you. The world will always need plumbers. And electricians, bus drivers, barbers, cops, postmen, etc etc etc

>>18631295
Get up and walk the fuck up out of there in the middle of a meeting. Like, be listening to something and mentally just say "Yup, thats the last one" and walk the fuck out without saying a word to anyone. Dont respond to any phone calls. Use every time someone from the job tries to contact you as fuel to find your next gig.

I'm not one to look for work while currently with someone. This worked well enough for me.

>>18631295
Is it hourly or salary? My first job was shit tier. I asked to be put PT and used the extra offtime to find something else.

>>18631430
It's an hourly janitor job, I have a bachelors but I don't have much experience so job hunting is a pain. I feel like I'm playing with fire when I slack off

Are you the same guy who has posted this at least 3 times now? The answer is the same as before: most of what's in these contracts is not enforceable in court. So don't worry about it.

>>18631303
No, the contract issue only came up a few days ago and I haven't been on /adv/ in months. There's a possibility I asked about the long period of silence back in June, but I doubt it. How similar was their post?

>>18631283
Whoops meant to post on biz

>>18631274
EVERONE has a spare set of keys somewhere in their apartment. Phone/email him and ask where his is.

>>18631239
Skip it unless one of these is the case

1. You got some special experience there
2. You had an impressive title there
3. You might be using them as a reference
4. You might be using your current employer as a reference and they might mention the gap

>>18631239
On the other hand, if you could get away with this story - "Company A was promoting me to the higher job but there was an unavoidable 3 month gap, so I took the opportunity for a short-term closed-ended job at Company B" - it might present you as a real go-getter

go ask /g/, raj.

>>18631223
It's not hard mate, if you can't find this out on your own you don't stand a chance of becoming a good programmer.

>>18631223
http://www.geeksforgeeks.org/linked-list-set-1-introduction/