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>>18631961
Theirs always community college

Either pay for school yourself, or don't go.

>>18631966
I went to CC for 2 years, and they were really friendly on the funds. However, now that im out with a perfect 4.0, ive been accepted to my dream school. Was considering a GoFundMe page but im unsure if that will do any good...

In last year I went through serious betaization process and I was beta even before. I met girl on dating site and I fell in love with her when we first met.

She was the most narcistic, selfish, manipulative, false, lying person I've ever met. Yet, even all the shit she's done to me, I continued to chase her. When we were together, she just used me, in the name of the family life, proper partner should take care of his dear (by buying shoes, clothes, paying trips, paying everything). She is also sociopath, fears facing other people. In the beginning of our pseudo-relationship, she found every flaw in me that wasn't consistent with her view of ideal "family type" partner. Instead of valuing myself and saying "well, it's me, you have to accept it", I was changing views, chaning my lifestyle, just to appeal her. True beta. According to her, I should have no friends or activities not involving my girlfriend, we should just have each other and nobody else, friends are just lying cockroaches who want to use me.

Example: After we first met, I was going home in train and some drunk guy annoyed young girl on seats beside me. I was full of fresh ideas from her (you don't care about other people). All I had in my mind was how lucky I am! But old part me was kinda uneasy seeing that young girl getting harassed (yeah, in the end he touched her on legs). I had the perfect plan. I'll pretend I'm her friend and lure her out. She was dumb, she could just politely apologize and change seat. But in the end I didn't do anything, and I was happy wit myself. I mailed to my new love and she replied that she had several similar experiences. After that, I realized what kind of asshole I am, and wrote her, that on second thought, I should have helped that girl. She got pissed, that she writes me about herself and I immediately start thinking about other women. I tried to explain her my intentions for week or more but it eventually died out.

>>18631916
while still communicating with her everyday. we're both socially isolated virgins*

meant to put a period there, the sentence looks very strange without it

>>18631916
When making decisions, you should always consider what your endgame is. What you expect, or hope, could come of this. So you confess, but admit you can't be together - the most you're hoping for is some sort of catharsis. I'll tell you right now that catharsis is something you should learn to find on your own, because the world will rarely give you the closure that you need, and relying on it from external sources is going to leave you angry, frustrated, and unfulfilled.
You should really focus on improving your situation beyond being a socially isolated virgin. Being in love with someone is useless unless you can share it with them; unrequited or unfulfilled love is the worst. Especially if you see her moving on without you and you're still alone. Fix your shit first, then worry about love later

If she does reciprocate then why couldn't you be together?

ONLY 4 sandwiches?

>>18631957
yes and offcourse water with a taste

>>18631908
>women
>''thinking'' over stuff
Well.

Propose to her.

>>18631946
''This could be us but you keep distancing yourself''

>>18631904
Just buy it faggot it helps Microsoft cuck more people

>>18631904
did you upgrade to windows 10?
check the bottom, do you have a sticker with a cd key? you can install operating systems via flash drive, check out unetbootin

visit this one if you have windows 7 key on the bottom of your laptop
https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/software-download/windows7

and this one if it's windows 10
https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/software-download/windows10

Most laptops automatically activate your windows if you install the the right one

windows 10 works with older keys too most times

Was it insured?

Be yourself, be nice.

>>18631892
https://youtu.be/b5mFl7ov5xk
Go OP

>>18631888
>but I'd be just be burning more calories than I have

Can you not afford to eat a bit more? If not there are a lot of activities to still get you out of the house.

>>18631997
No source of income, can barely cook. Unless microwaving and making pasta counts.
What kinda suggestions you have for activities?

>>18632014
Activities:
Learn to cook
Read/Write
Draw/Paint
Hiking
Learn to play an instrument
learn to code
Take an online course in something you find interesting
Give your time to charity

if you're tight on money maybe consider giving some of the time you waste online to getting a job or part-time.

>>18631874
download airbnb on your phone or visit their website instead of staying at motels. might be cheaper in your area. in orlando I can stay at someones room for $20-40 per night whereas the cheapest motel is $70/night

Hey OP, talk to us about your work experience and qualifications.

>>18631889
I have worked painting homes for a year before I came to california. that is all the work experience I have. however I am a fast learner and I am good at art ...

Have you look at payscales for the specific job you're looking into? Do you plan on moving or being stationary? Did you look at the job boards and see what is described?

Your 5, 10, 20 year goals?

>>18631820
No employer is going to give a shit what your minors are. Also communications is a meme degree. You don't need a degree for entry level police or prison/jail work and they'll pay for any degrees that further your career with them.

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Ladies, whether you're a long time poster, newfag or a lurker, take note.

Cute always beats sexy. ALWAYS.

All the girls that I've ever fallen for, they've been cute, not sexy.
>yes handsome man, but men have different tastes, not all men lol xd
I'm willing to bet that every guy browsing this place has only fallen in love with women who were cute and not particularly sexy.

Even Chad Chadson XI falls for the cute Staceys.

Cute>>>>>sexy - if you want to attract a long term partner, hell, even ons.

The very attractive Alison Brie is a superb example of this. Her trying to be sexy is just cringe, but she is arguably the cutest woman on televison and every guy who as ever seen her, want her.

A woman being cute is also very very sexy, so there is that.

Being cute is an asset.

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>>18631862
You're an idiot who has confused being lewd for sexy and cute for moderately sexy. Pic related are cute. Adult Women however are rarely cute, and what you consider cuteness in a Woman are in fact all the things that would indicate that she would produce healthy children, such as excessively feminine features for fertility, which are of course sexual in nature.

>>18631802
The thing is, it's easier to do it than to explain it. I was taught to do it like this back when I was a toddler:

1) Pucker up
2) Try to make the hole between your lips as small as possible
3) Blow air gently

You'll probably need a lot of tries to get to the point where it sounds like you're actually whistling instead of trying to blow on food, but with enough practice you'll get there.

whats it called when you make a whistle-like noise by putting the tongue on the roof of your mouth and only closing your mouth slightly and blowing?

I know it's not a real whistle because my lips aren't closed and it sounds much weaker than a normal whistle but it does make a whistle-like sound.

>>18631756
Well let's start simple:
>0) How old are you two?
>1) Do you like her enough to compensate for any unsavory qualities she possesses, and vice versa?
>2) How long have you been dating?

>>18631762


>>0) How old are you two?
I'm 18 and she's 17.
>>1) Do you like her enough to compensate for any unsavory qualities she possesses, and vice versa?
I loved her before getting to know her more, but she started liking me after getting to know me. Basically I didn't know what I was getting into, but that doesn't mean it's negative.
>>2) How long have you been dating?
We've been dating for 5 months now.

>>18631801
Pros so far
You're super young
You'll probably break up anyways
You haven't been dating long enough to even be past infatuation and at real love
You do have any attachments like house or kids

Cons so far
You would be lonely for a little bit until you found a new girl which depending on how easy it is for you to pick girls up might be a bit

Have you talked about any serious life stuff like kids, house, money, jobs, where you want to live etc?

Its a highschool fling and it only lasted less than half a year. If you're having doubts now just end it trust me.

You are her backup got in case that one don't work out.

She sounds like a real cunt OP.

>>18631731
Backup guy*