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I really want to save money, but only got this.
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There's a shit ton of hair cut tutorials on YouTube. Just follow one of those. Do a 5 on top 1 on the sides. That gets the ladies going.
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>>18632364
Yeah, my dad used to do it all the time. You're gonna need a good mirror to get a good view of your head though, it'd be embarrassing to miss a spot.
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I give myself a buzzcut with that every couple of weeks, sometimes in the morning before work.

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Does weed affect your social skills?

If it does how long until your social skills go back to normal?
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>>18632363
Yeah actually, believe it or not, it does. It shortens your entire knowledge of the English language into:
>DUDE
>WEED
>LMAO
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>>18632363
Ever since I started smoking everyday my social skills have improved x100
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>>18632363
All drugs affect all people differently, and will have different effects based on your SET and SETTING. Also different strains will do different things. Some weed gets ya up and chatting, sone shuts you up and zones you out.

Garunteed to improve social skills is work on improving social skills. Use drugs as you want, but any improvement or regression will be due to your own ethic

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My ex was abusive and I have ptsd partly due to him. I never went to the police because I don't believe they help people. I work at a school and he has recently began to volunteer there (our kids attend) I can't be around him randomly with no notice and time to psych myself up for it. Should I go to the school director and tell her TMI? I'm private. I had a panic attack after finding out he would be there this week. I'm good at hiding it. I don't know what to do.
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"I never went to the police because I don't believe they help people"

Sage.

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I'm a 19 year old dude that's looking to improve his odds of getting laid down the road, say 3 to 5 years from now on. Aside from lifting, which I already do, is there any other thing I should be doing? I'm currently undergoing college, and one thing that worries me is that I have no real hobbies aside from lifting and playing videogames. Should I drop the games in favor of something more socially interesting like sports?

I don't do clubbing (yet) and don't really 'get out there'. Say I'm in a 'coccoon' mode looking solely for self improvement before I start trying my luck. What would you guys and girls recommend?
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maybe get a part time job, that'll mean you'll play games less, have more money and have something to complain about at least
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>>18632328

>Aside from lifting, which I already do, is there any other thing I should be doing?

Yes. Focus on being smart, funny and empathetic. The world is full of guys who think their muscles, hobbies and nice clothes entitle them to sex. They're generally unimaginative, boring and in plentiful supply.

Be a good person. Be someone who people like to spend time with. If you truly stop giving a shit about impressing people the world of women will blossom for you, anon. A guy who lifts and clubs is not unique or interesting. A humble, light hearted guy who doesn't take himself too seriously and treats people with respect is.
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>>18632370

I'm aware muscle and everything else won't entitle me to shit. I'm just trying to improve anything I can, and I think fitness is attractive. I'm not exactly humble, though, and I have no clue how to change that, since it's something much deeper than looks or whatever. But thanks for the insight, I'll work on that.

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All of a sudden.
ALL OF A FUCKING SUDDEN
I feel like living.
I still feel like absolute shit.
I know my future is still fucked.
I'm still a shit human being.
But I want to live anyway.
Why?
Why now?
I had my suicide planned, I was gonna get a cab to a motel and hang myself on a live stream so that some sick fucks could get some entertainment out of it.
All of a sudden, I feel like living.
Six fucking years of feeling like shit, I've almost killed myself twice, and now I give a shit about dying?
Fuck.
Have any of you felt like this?
What causes this?
How do I get rid of it?
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Post your inspirational sob story on reddit.

Is it easy to go through a job interview? I've never been through one before so I'm extremely anxious for it, especially since I've heard they can last for a while. Any dress tips, etc. for a a MALE is appreciated. (I'm 17)
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>17
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underage ban

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>had a great life until 22
>confident, outgoing, popular, studying
>found a cute gf that was the love of my life
>turn 23, diagnosed with chronic illness, almost die at the hospital
>within the next 3 months my uncle has a heart attack and my grandmother dies, my other uncle is diagnosed with cancer
>severe depression
>drop out of high school, can't find any job, become a complete shut-in
>gf stays with me anyway
>2 years of recovery
>then life starts looking up again
>move to a new country, find a good job
>within 6 months end up in the hospital again
>severe depression again
>by now I've become a shell of my former self
>after 1 year of recovery gf can't take it any more
>broke up with me a month ago

fuck my life, everything was amazing until I got this fucking disease, and she even stuck around with me through the hard times, but I just never managed to get back on my feet whilst I was together with her

now that we broke up I'm trying to turn my life around, I've started going to the gym, I'm seeing a nutritionist, I'm seeing a therapist, I'm trying to figure out what I want to do with my life

it's still hard as fuck, every day I wish she could believe that I have the capacity to change, but I know that she got exhausted and has moved on

>life's a bitch and then you die
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>>18632257
What disease?
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>>18632257
What's the illness? Don't just say shit then not explain it fully.
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>>18632296
>>18632282
>diagnosed

Probably some bullshit like "depression".

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I'm 23, graduated with my BA in psych in June, surprised to find I'm burning out in my work. I work as a behavioral therapist for autistic kids (and kids with other mental disorders). I've been working in this field since I was 20; I love working with the kids, I love the hours, I love the field. I got a big raise ($17/hr to $22/hr) just with the BA and I also get to work with home-cases.

But I'm burning out. It's as if after I got my degree, I just lost my desire to work. I feel empty. For the first time in my life (I've been working since I was 15) I go to work and then home and then I have nothing to do.

Should I go back to school, get my masters?

Should I get a hobby?
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>>18632249
Get a hobby or join the fucking Marines and stop bitching.
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>>18632249
You have to set yourself a new goal. Also how long and expensive was schooling? Thinking about getting in the same field.
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>>18632264
No, I like working with kids.

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Realistically, what's the average time it takes for the average dude or gal to find a new partner? Is it true you should be able to find a new partner within a month or else you're fucked in the head (aka incel)?

I'm looking for general insight on the matter so that I can sort my shit out.
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>>18632227
You can't put a time limit on it. It could be a week or years to find someone you can connect with.
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>find a partner within a month or youre fucked in the head
I dont know where you picked this bullshit up but if you buy into it you are fucked in the head
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>>18632227
There is no average time for anyone to find a new partner. What is average? everyone is different and so is everyone perspective on what is average.

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I'm majoring in mathematics, tell me what this experience will be like, what potential careers are for this major, and other majors which could be good alternatives or double major

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You've already decided to major in math but have no idea where you could go with it?
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>>18632205
I don't really have a clue what I'm doing, I chose math because i'm alright at it and the idea of doing research in mathematics (which specific field I can't tell, topology or number theory would be a start) seems like a good way to find a purpose that is fulfilling
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>>18632222
>30 minutes no more posts
Well hey at least I got quads

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Is it ok to touch your dick if you have warts on your hand? Will it spread to your dick? Tried googling but didn't find much....
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>>18632189
Googled "what causes warts"
"If you have any type of skin wart, it means that you came in contact with a wart-causing virus sometime in the past, though it could have been months ago. The most common way is direct skin-to-skin contact."
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>>18632207
Yeah but does the hand strain of the virus transfer to dick
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>>18632220
Skin is skin.
Use a disposable rubber glove if you're so worried.

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And now I regret it. I've thought about it and realized I want her back. How do I let her know? Just text her that I messed up? What's the best way?
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If you broke up, 99% chance it won't work out again if you two get back together. Learn from your mistakes and move on.
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BE CASUAL. Say something along the lines of, "hey, hope things are going well. hope we can stay in touch"
Of course, maybe not those exact words.
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>>18632173
Yeah that's really it. Not really any other way to go about it. Maybe say hello and talk to her normally for a bit, catch up so you don't look like you expect anything from her.

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>>18621977

OK this is about the above thread I started the other day where at the end I retracted my position.

I just wanted to say that I am going to get out of here if they let me out and then go outside the city and cool off a bit and relax and everything and think straight etc and then come back and talk to them if I haven't first and then attack them like my parents first and then my younger brother but together at once. And that is my goal. So yeah
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Fuck you all who were saying it wasn't a good idea... it was a great idea and is a great idea.. I am going ahead with my plan and idea... screw you
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>>18632170
>>18632275

We have no clue who you are or what you're talking about and, more importantly, we don't give a shit.
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>>18632170
man you're a fucking wacko, I hope they keep you locked up for years.

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I act like I'm a normal personal and that seems to fool some people.

If I act normal for long enough, will that stop me being abnormal?
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>>18632169
Nope, you'll end up having a psychotic break.
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>>18632169
Everybody puts on an act in public, most of the time.

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Alright so here's the deal, I jerk off to some weird stuff and I want to stop however the problem is I go to jerk off to normal stuff and nothing, it's just not as exciting for me and doesn't do the trick like the weird stuff I've jerked off to.

Have you guys ever had this problem? I don't want to stop jerking off cause it's not something I do that's unhealthy, not jerking it 12 times a day but once a day or every other day. Just want to not have the urges to jerk off to the weird stuff honestly.

Anyway here's a meme for your troubles.
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>I jerk off to some weird stuff
Like what?
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>>18632133
anime pomf pomf kimochi
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>>18632133
Scat mainly, I had avoided it cause it was gross but watched a video once or twice to gross myself out, sort of like watching those rekt threads but I just ended up enjoying it yet it disgusts me at the same time, once I'm climaxed I feel disgusted with myself as well.

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