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>>18632832
you can scream in your sleep and not wake up.. sounds like you have sleep issues. it's possible that before you jumped out of bed, you were lucid dreaming. ever had sleep paralysis?

You were abducted.

>>18632832
People talk in their sleep and don't wake themselves up. Why do you find it so hard to believe you screamed in your sleep?

bump. somebody help me.

ask >>>/g/

Root the fucking thing and either delete those bloatware apps or install a custom firmware on it that isn't a privacy hog

>>18632774
>I'm getting older
>I'm 22

If it matters this happened yesterday.

>>18632768
When a female says they're bored it's not good.

Try different things with her, experience new things with her.

Women run on emotions and very little logic. So do things that appeal to her emotions.

>>18632867
>Women run on emotions and very little logic. So do things that appeal to her emotions.
It's 2017 bro you can't say that shit....

What the hell were you doing driving around at 4AM OP? Don't tell me you were literally just driving around, because if that wasn't her idea then that's why she was bored. It was obviously not something she wanted to do, and you picked something boring. So yeah try something else more entertaining then just driving next time... And why the hell were you up at 4AM? There's like a few things to do at that time like get home from a bar, be fucking someone, doing drugs, or waking up for work. Ya'll shoulda been fucking in some risky place or something.

>>18632766
>I've never done this before and I've only has sex with one other person

don't do it. why? because:

>he just wants to fuck. i am just lonely

you are setting yourself up for emotional disaster.

find someone special that likes you, not one that is just horny and wants to fuck(you).

>>18633063
this

Don't. Fucking. Do it. Tell him you changed your mind. You're in it for very different reasons and you WILL regret it later, probably when you're in a relationship you're happy with.

If you have any plans to be in a stable relationship (which is a much better cure for loneliness than casual sex) built on a good foundation of honesty and mutual respect, don't do it. Having a fuck buddy makes you less respectable, and explaining to someone you love that you used to be into that is embarrassing and you'll have to spend a lot of time convincing them you're not a slut.

>>18632755
nothing for the first month because it doesn't do anything until 1-3 months, unless it happens to cause any negative side effects like diarrhea before then.

>>18632755
Antidepressants typically take 2-6 weeks before the users start actually noticing a change in mood. The anxiety will likely be helped sooner.

It's hard to say what you can expect because every patient is different

I used to be on and off of antidepressants including zoloft, when I first started taking them after not taking them for a while my mental health would get significantly worse, kinda like having PMS if you know what that does to you, they also make you gain weight most of the time, you might not actually feel good, just not bad, kinda in the middle/numb

Is the other guy still going to be in her life?

>>18632761
Yeah.

>>18632763
You're fine then. She has her legal father that's taking care of her so you're fine. You should befriend her and be her cool dad that does cool shit with her.

So just me, then?

Its possible that you think of them more than they think of you, but be careful with that line of thought as it can lead to resentment of your friends. Furthermore, everyone interacts with others in their own unique way and mamy people are inherently selfish, but this doesnt mean you should judge them as lesser than yourself; a better way to go about it would be to accept that your friends aren't capable of showing they care for you in the way you care for them.

>>18632750

everyones a little different. i do this a little bit and ill send pictures. my friend on the other hand won't let me know about it. His girlfriend tells me how he doesn't stop talking about me like they'll be at a store and pick something up and be like 'i wonder if anon would like one of these' that sort of thing. other people probably dont have you pop into their mind much at all. everyones different.

>>18633072

>so just me, then?

just say 'bump' next time instead of sounding like a twat. this is a slow board, it can take a while for anyone to respond to anything and your post wasn't particularly interesting or dire. you know its not 'just you then', its just that people didn't respond.

next time just say 'bump'

>>18632748
Just find an awkward person and start a conversation with them. Or you could join a club or sport (job works too) and talk to people there who like doing the same thing you're doing.

It's not hard..

>>18632995
/thread
OP, you have everything going for you, quit acting like you have a retarded social disability and JUST>>18632995

Watch movies and videos and see what sparks your interest. Go outside and observe people. Dress abnormallly and put on crazy makeup. Talk insanely in front of the public and watch their reactions. Keep yourself busy with your own mind. It's quite simple. Just do and don't think.

>>18632708
VPN...........or just don't loiter around a Whole Foods for the WiFi

>>18632683
If you can't find the motivation yourself, what makes you think others will find it for you? Especially when you're already completely aware of your bad habits?

>>18632683
Duude im also in med school and repeated a year. I do well now but i sure as hell dont study 14 hours a day dude. I just study 2 hrs a day and a month before exams i block with block site, youtube , 4chan and twitter. I suffer a little on those days i block those sites but it works and i dont break my rules of studying and blocking addictive sites and videogames

>>18632689
OP BTW are u from south america? If you are u know why am asking ;)

>>18632649
It's probably your piss stupid when I don't drink enough my piss smells like a dumpster also when I cum I piss after maybe start doing that

>>18632649
You should wash it after masturbation. And change underwear. That ll fix it.

>>18632645
Hold this L for not ramming his car off the road

>>18632645
Damn I know where your pic was taken. I've speeded down that stretch of 35 so many times. Weird seeing it on 4chan.

>>18632645
Go to the local doa and ask them to narrow down the car based on its make and model with it's partail plate. May cost 20 bucks. Find out where he lives and go use a bat on the vehicle.

I would have broken it off way before we got engaged, but she has no friends, her family doesn't live anywhere near us and her and her family are really poor so she depends on me a lot financially. She also depends on me a lot emotionally since she has no friends. She's got anxiety, an eating disorder, and is really depressed and has tried to commit suicide in the past. I technically have broken it off before. Last year, we broke up for a few months and during that time she became extremely depressed and talked about ending her life because she said it wasn't worth living anymore (I later learned she was planning to kill herself if we didn't get back together). I got back together with her because I was scared for her and felt it was the right thing to do anyway. She's been so happy since we got back together and then got engaged. Calling off the wedding and breaking up with her wouldn't just make her unhappy, she'd probably try to kill herself. I don't hate her or anything, she's a good person. The last thing I want is for her to commit suicide.
I feel like such a horrible person for not wanting to be with this girl. I've tried being happy about the marriage, I've tried to only focus on the good things I have with her, but I just keep coming back to wanting to be by myself. When I do get time to myself, I usually try to savor it by watching tv shows I don't normally get to watch or playing video games and then dreading her coming back and losing my freedom to spend my time how I please. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to be alone forever. If we were both in our 30's I feel like I would act differently about this. I'm afraid it's too late since both of our families and all our friends are coming to this, everyone is so excited for us, we've already paid for a lot of the wedding; I would be ruining all of my family and friends' expectations for my own selfish wants. Still, I just don't see how I'm supposed to get married when I'm so unhappy about it. (2/3)

Should I stop whining about this and just be happy I'm marrying someone who's a good person, or should I break up with her anyway? And if I should break up with her, how do I keep her from killing herself? (3/3)

Sounds like there's some aspects of your relationship that you need to work out, such as how much alone time you need.

Alone time is a valid claim, but you can only have so much of it (otherwise you're not really in a relationship), and your partner needs to know that it's not because you're mad at them or don't like them anymore.

The most logical solution would be to sit down and talk these things over with your fiancee, and she will probably understand as long as you word it nicely. It's good to air these things out now before the pressure of being a "just-married" perfect couple settles in.

If you wanted to be single so you could see other people that would be problem, but it seems like you just need more time to dick around and do your own thing.

On the other hand, if you really really really don't want to get married, call it off. Swallow your pride and call it off. The gradual deterioration and divorce years down the line will be worse than the short-term embarrassment. However, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons, and not just because you want more time to play video games.