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How do i become passionate about some hobby? It seems everything i deeply enjoy isnt something you can tell people is your hobby. Like talking, meeting people, helping people, videogames, watching movies, being depressed.

If i tell anyone those are my passionate hobbies ill get instantly dismissed as boring and shallow. But i cant find anything else. Music is too hard for me, im shit at drawing even though i enjoy it, cant do anything without giving up and feeling miserable though, graphic design is fun and i like designing logos and other stuff for kicks around friends, but im no competition to even the most unexperienced actual designers. Im a pansy, dont really see how people get passionate about gym work. I dont really go out much. Im socially inept

Help. I know im being whiny but i have no idea where to go, it seems like everything i want to enjoy more is hidden inside a 3 meter layer of thick shit. Im just a boring person

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>you've never stayed in touch with anyone after breaking up
>maybe it's normal for them
>and things are good right now
>but it's considered "not so serious" and pretty clearly not going to last forever

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Vent, confess, project, etc, do it here.

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I'm getting really fucking frustrated. I bought a vape two days ago and was enjoying it a lot, but now I gotta refill the shit, and when I went to open the cap, boom. Child resistant lock taking me for a fool. I tried pushing down regularly, and when that didn't help, I tried doing it harder and then more gentle. But nothing fucking works. I can't open this shit. What the hell do I do?

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I work 20 hours a week and play video games literally every other hour. I'm 19 and I live at home. I'm lazy as hell and I don't know what to do about it. I've completely disregarded college and convinced myself a 4 year degree is too common and not worth the debt. I want to be able to work hard and I want to make my girlfriend and my family proud of me. How do I start?

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So I did it- I managed to secure a FWB. I've had this friend for about half a year now and it was pretty obvious there was a lot of sexual tension from the beginning, but about a week ago she just became very forward and we started exchanging nudes, videos, and roleplay. Yet it was obvious neither of us want a relationship or to ruin the great friendship we have. But here's the problem, we're both heavily into Dom/Sub play (myself being dominant) and she said she wants to try it out irl. I've only lost my virginity to one girl who was really pure and prude and didn't want to try anything. But I feel like in roleplay I may have hyped myself up as some kind of Dom sex god because I got so into it but never done it. Should I just go for it and try not to fuck up and risk messing this up by not being that good/inexperienced or is there another way?

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-seem so much more attractive to me? Is it because they are not, by a definition, basic bitches? (Using 4chan and all) which makes them seem more unique and in turn more attractive?

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Basically just wanna know how long people usually keep boning their Tinder matches and how long someone can keep boning their Tinder match before it moves into 'relationship' territory.

Because, basically, I met this tinder girl and she's crazy sweet. She had me pretty smitten when she played hard to get too. Moreso, she's my first in a loooooong time unwanted by women.

And so this is where the problem lies(It's a small one). I still think she's really sweet and fairly pretty but I can't help feeling like I wouldn't want to enter a relationship with her, namely because she's 18 and I'm 21. That just feels off to me as an age difference.

How many times would you lot say it's fair for me to sleep with her before I should cut it off?

I'm hella inexperienced btw, so sorry if these questions come across as autistic.

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So I see this girl every day at work, and she's pretty good looking in my opinion, funny and generally very nice. So, naturally I'm attracted to her. But I don't want a relationship right now. With anyone.

Anyway, I feel like I'm giving off the impression that I'm interested in her and accidentally leading her on. It's making my work life a little uncomfortable and I also don't want her to think I'm some creep that's afraid of her.

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Whats a fun hobby to pick up where i have the opportunity to meet more people? Preferably working with my hands but any ideas accepted.
I have the patience to get good at anything and i kind of ran out of ideas. I'm half decent at programming, computer repair and car repair and i need something to do during the semester because my comp sci major is kinda easy for me. Pls nothing too competitive like athletics.

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All throughout my first two years of high school I was a dweeb, until my last years. I was the nice guy who worked to get the girl I liked sports shoes so she could join a team(to later hit on another guy). I bought another girl a DS,etc. I was a complete cuck, sucks that nice guys get labeled this now days. Fast forward 8 years, business owner have a girlfriend for 7 years. Set up for success. The girl I use to like in hs is now my assistant, I hang out with girls half of the time and my bros the rest . Now that I am in a relationship , the strangest thing is that I have at least 4-5 girls at my call who would do whatever I want. I try to play it innocently but I've asked them to kiss each other for my friends,etc.It feels like a harem, but the bad part is that I am living a double life. I haven't slept with any of these girls or did anything romantic but they want to. I have developed some kind of complex to where even if they have partners, They confide in me, and they even put in comments of us being together to the point where I think that I would do a better job and since I can't I'd give them to my friends and try to hook them up seeing their boyfriends as unfit. I encourage break ups when the activity gets to the cheating point.

It feels kinda scummy to think about it, kinda scummy to my girlfriend, to the girls and to myself.

when i think of it as a man , it seems great.
When I think of it as a person with opportunity, and being able to read/understand these girls it feels like I am doing them a service.
When I think of it as a human being, it feels shitty.


Not sure what the right answer is .

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I need some /adv/ice and it's pretty petty

So let me give a quick run down on my situation.
Several years ago I had decided to take a break from anime hoping that new series would have popped up by now, but here we are today and I can't even watch some of these because it's either some highschool drama that's like 10 episodes or generic shounen that never ends and I have no idea what to do. I find it hard to believe that nothing interesting has popped up since 2010. Has my taste been destroyed? should I just move on with my life? Wat do

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I'm 19 and I'm dating a 17 year old girl I met over the summer. I'm going to college out of state and she wants to do long distance, however I don't really have much interest in doing so, as I have done it before and it did not work out.

I imagined our relationship being more of a summer fling but she kind of forced me into making it a relationship.

Lately I've been meeting people from my uni (including girls), that I've talked with. I feel really guilty about talking with other girls (even in a non flirtatious way) while currently still in a relationship, even if it most likely will not last.

I am worried however about the age of consent laws given that I live in a state where the age of consent is 18. My biggest fear is that she will do something out of spite like report me if I were to break up with her. Now that would be out of character and I realize I am most likely being extremely paranoid, but I don't know how to proceed.

I do really like her but I don't believe there is a future there as we are both so young and our futures are going in different places. I just don't want to miss on opportunities because I am in a dead end relationship.

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How can I make some without arousing suspicion? I plan on getting an actual job soon but I want some now to put towards my savings. My mother took the last bit I had so I'm getting worried.

I also have social anxiety so perhaps something that doesn't require too much interaction?

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My younger brother has had issues with substance abuse in the past. He was addicted to weed and alcohol by his own admission then my parents made him go to rehab and he quit apparently after a couple psychotic episodes on synthetic weed or something

He now seems to be addicted to buying Pokemon card packs and getting the adrenaline rush of wondering whether you're going to "pull" a good card. He's wasting his hard earned money (he only makes minimum wage) on these cards. How do I tell him to stop without offending him, he says "it's my hobby" come on these cards end up sitting in the closet doing nothing once he opens them...