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Why does obsession over the opposite sex usually kick in when depression or a depressive episode is currently running? And over random people you probably haven't seen or heard of in eons?
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Y'know if you're trying to have some existential blundering, this board is the last place to ask.
Fuck, it's even a terrible place to come to for advice at this point.
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Because it's an escapist fantasy. I'm struggling to make myself more dateable and I keep finding that I get the strongest feelings from the most unrealistic scenarios. When I'm levelheaded and meet a girl I might work well with I'm usually indifferent. The worse my mental state the more emotionally desperate I get. I just need to learn to bond with people even when I feel no need to do so.
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My boyfriend just admitted that he wants to make me fatter. He has a fat fetish.
I'm 350lbs now. Isn't that enough?
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He's going to slowly degrade your health and shorten your life for the sake of his sexual fetishes. Think about that for a bit.
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>making you uglier and modifying your body for his own personal pleasure
dump him right now.
also, great blog
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>be 350 pounds
>surprised to discover your bf has a fat fetish
Why else would he be with you if he wasn't attracted to fat girls? But on the off chance this isn't bait heres what I would do tell him you're not comfortable intentionally gaining weight because of health concerns, but to compromise once a week (or so) you can do a role-play session about it where he gets to stuff you and fuck you while you talk about how much you love being fat and how you can't wait to get even fatter. But he has to understand it's only a fantasy and it can't take over your sex life. That seem reasonable to you?
Btw I'm a whale hunter too, so I get your bf's kink.
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sometimes I struggle to let me jaw rest naturally especially if I think about it. help me
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>>18635795
and now, you are breathing conciously.
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>>18635795
Meditate to slow down an overactive mind
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Pushing your tongue into the roof of your mouth to fix that
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Has anyone else been scammed hard by Irs impersonators. Almost gave them money they seemed legit.
Been getting recorded calls from a Pennsylvania phone number claiming to be the Irs and that I have four federal charges against me. Called them back at ...
Cont'd after enough reply
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Been getting recorded calls from a Halifax PA phone number claiming to be the IRS and that I have four federal charges against me. Called them back at 7178966719 and guy Kept saying if I hung up or was disconnected my file would be sent to the courts and I would be arrested. Kept asking how much money I had. Eventually sent my case to the head investigator. Said I was facing 3-5 years in prison.
Kept asking how much money I had and if it was cash or debit. I kept saying I'd have to borrow the money and they would repeat "do you have the money". And I would repeat I would have to borrow it. She asked if My address was my old one from before I moved six years ago. I said no and gave her my zip code. Eventually the head director got frustrated and asked if I thought this was a joke. That if I didn't have the money she would have to send it to court. I finally just said yeah I have the money which I don't. I have like a hundred dollars. She wanted me to drive to target and get a prepaid gift card worth 1000 dollars. That's where I drew the line and said just arrest me and hung up. They called back but twice but didn't answer.
Anyone else experience this ? What happened
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Bump for interest
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>>18635798
A scam happened? What are you confused about?
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Been talking to this girl through WA, i really like her, but, she always responds "yes, no, wow, oh. I know what are her interests: politics, astronomy, etc. I love politics and astronomy. Tried to talk to her about these. Today I asked her about what happened in Virginia, she said "no", did not even asked about it. How do I make her talk to me in a more fluid way.
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She's probably not interested, sorry buddy.
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>>18635793
Yea, being a Beta sucks
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>>18635793
Not even talking, holy shit, I must suck. She doesn't even want to talk. Are you kidding me??
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I am really bothered by certain outlooks I have on life.
For example, I hate babies. Like a lot. I am 26 and I just can't stop hating babies. I hate the idea of losing the entirety of my freedom because some bag of shit wants to scream and yell and be needy. I am intensely bothered by the thought of babies.
Next, I am really bothered by the idea of marriage. I don't mind monogamy.. but this weird "pact of monogamy" makes me feel odd. Like how can you ONE HUNDRED percent trust this person not to fuck you over in a divorce or something? You legit can't... To me, marriage is not a death sentence but it could end so horribly that you might wish you were dead from all the divorce stories I have heard.
Next, I am bothered by younger people getting married AND OR having kids. I remember about 3 years a ago, a friend told me he was getting married and he was like 21. It seemed so foolish to me that I had to feign happiness when he told me.
Why does all this stuff bother me? I feel like I am the only person who is seeing the underbelly of all this shit. On the surface, people think marriage and having kids is cool and all fun and games and shit.. but in reality, its a compelte shit show and the people who look the most happy, are usually just holding on by a thread to their sanity.
what is living? Am I even fucking living my life? All I do is work, gym, and play video games or jerk off. To me, my life seems infinitely better compared to that of a life of a married person or person with kids.
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I am divorced. I wish I was dead.
You are 100% right, OP. Just keep jerking off and playing vidya. The occasional hooker will take the edge off. Best of luck bro.
When you off yourself, can I have your game console? Mine broke.
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>>18635778
Just dont marry and wear protection. Simple shit
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but oddly enough, not marrying and not having kids seems fucked up. Or at least not having kids. I literally don't know how to feel about any of this.
I have never met anyone my age who has said "Yeah, I chose to have my kid DELIBERATELY". I am actually thinking that most people my age with kids.. had them on accident but won't admit it.
This world is fucked up man. I really wish marriage wasn't so wide spread because people like me feel weird for not doing it but also would feel weird because logically, marriage just makes no fucking sense. I just can't put so much blind trust in another human who has what I call "The free will factor". The woman you love could totally fucking destroy you. or vice versa.
How can you 100 percent trust anyone? I don't mind trusting.. but to put ONE HUNDRED PERCENT trust into someone is suicide.
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Posting for a girl who's kik is all over 4chan
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A girl who is 15 (you may have seen her kik multiple times if you've been on /b/ or /soc/) has asked me how she could go about making money, what do you think? She's in the UK
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school
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>>18635763
Talk about shit on Youtube.
Monetize
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Profit!>>18635770
How would an 18 year old with no debt who just graduated high school and has two years of college done go about pursuing a rural perma-culture life in Europe?
Would it be easier done in Asia?
I have no legal claim to any European citizenship, but two of my grandparents were from England.
I'm currently enrolled to a community college to finish some credits, but I'm hesitant to go into debt for a university degree if I don't need one.
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you don't, it's a fantasy unless you have money. varg has money both from burzum and probably french welfare. I imagine immigration to a rural country in Asia like kazkstan or mongolia would be tough because they would probably only want skilled immigrants. The former you may not even like because the population in most of kazkstan and most of central asia is islamic
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I suppose. I figure I could go somewhere like Central Asia or Eastern Europe after saving up a lot of money though.
My current plan is to pursue a masters in teaching English as a foreign language so I can try to establish myself and gain citizenship somewhere, while saving up for the property.
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I've been looking at various religions but I feel insecure about which one I belong to.
white paganism seems like a joke and it just seems like if you took Skyrim and tried to make a religion out of it. It doesn't seem appealing to me at all beyond live action roleplaying.
While I like some parts of Christianity, I do not agree with parts of its theology at all. I do not believe God is in three parts. I believe that God is a being that transcends time and space, I also do not like how the message of God in Christianity has been streamlined to appeal to western culture by doing everything from incorporating pagan traditions, which makes me really uncomfortable as I assume God would get mad at something like that happening, to incoporating rock music in some Portestant sects. To an outsider, it feels hollow and like it's more based on expansion rather than theological development.
islam's version of god seems ok theologically, but the religion in actual practice is in complete chaos and many people within it are violent, it also seems to suffer the expansionist problem that Christianity has
Judaism, so far, is the one I agree with the most on a theological level. I also agree with several aspects of their culture with how every man should be as educated as possible and should spend time connecting with God, but there are no temples near me, and everybody else hates Judaism.
Help me, /adv/. I just want God. I don't care about politics or race at this point, I just want to be a servant of God and be with a tribe.
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God is for beta cucks.
Become enlightened. It's liberating, really.
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>>18635759
How do i become enlightened?
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>>18635756
>everybody else hates Judaism.
Stop going to /pol/
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Convince me to get off porn for good.
It's boring and unfulfilling to me, but I can't seem to get off the stuff. I'm noticing it's sucking time out of my day, and I'm concerned that pornography is damaging me in ways even I'm not aware of.
I've been actively watching porn since my youth, and I just turned 20.
I'm sick of it, and I'm ready to develop actual intimate relationships with human beings.
pic sorta related
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shameless self bump
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No wonder you can't stop masturbating. It's pleasurable. It's great. It lets you release tension.
It sounds you are using porn as a scapegoat for your life problems.
Take a porn addiction assessment. If the result is positive, use any substance codependency toolkit to reduce your porn consumption.
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Will do, thanks for the insight.
I just want to know what's wrong with me, and something tells me eliminating porn might help me zero in on my faults
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>tfw you have no idea what it's like to be really good at something
these 25 years have been a waste
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same boat
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>>18635700
sucks. hate my life
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in the end, it doesn't even matter.
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About 6 months ago while browsing through /b/ and found a thread containing furry porn. Damn that shit made me rock hard. I've now collected 10GB of the shit. I am totally addicted and it has consumed my life how do I escape this degeneracy.
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You don't.
You simply enjoy it as a fetish and not as a hobby that you need to share with the world.
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>>18635655
please just please don't go and show it to the world.
keep it as your dirty little secret..
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Don't fight your fetishes, OP. It will make you miserable.
Try to balance your porn intake with regular porn so it doesn't become boring and you can have relationships with vainilla normies.
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I'm socially awkward but I make an effort to talk to girls and I try to be sexually active. The girls I talk to feel boring and dumb but I still try to fuck or get nudes regardless. A lot of the time when I'm drunk or high I get hit with a feeling of pointlessness and just shut down to people that I feel don't know me well. I think there's a part of me that doesn't want to fuck random people I don't have a personal connection with and that comes out more when I'm intoxicated.
When I talk to girls (especially when I've invited them over to try to fuck) I get pretty bad anxiety and focus excessively on goals in my head (sex, escape, making conversation). I'll laugh and make small talk but I can feel the un-genuine vibes I'm putting out. I feel like I'm not myself but then I'm awkward as hell around my male friends too, I try to be nice and amiable but I only put forth conversation material if I find myself unusually interested (something I lose the capacity to be when I'm anxious). I feel like it would take a woman with an unusual amount of patience to put up with me, so much so that I've only felt at ease and friendly with a couple women in my life and I tend to become overly obsessed with them and fixate on getting them to like me.
My friend lectured me saying that it's best to make friends with women first, fuck them and then cut them off afterwards. I think that would probably be more successful and be perceived as less weird but I don't think I have it in me. For me it takes a massive effort to build a bond of friendship and having sex as the main goal would make me feel guilty and manipulative, also pathetic if she rejected my advances in the end. I prefer one night stands because the manipulation is quick and the tension is resolved quickly whether she'll fuck you or not.
Sometimes I wonder if I'd be better of celibate but I find myself so restless and sad when I have no contact with the opposite sex, no matter how dysfunctional my interactions are.
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Man, reading back on what I just wrote. It sounds like I need to just relax and maybe be a little more open about my intentions with women, regardless of whether I want to date them or fuck them
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I have grown horribly lazy. 2017-08-19 12:07:32 Post No.18635640
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I have grown horribly lazy.
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I have grown horribly lazy /adv/. I don't have the will power to do much of anything anymore. I contemplate calling out of work sick every morning because when I wake up, I just feel like such shit. I just want to sleep and even though I get 7-8 hours of sleep, I still feel tired when I wake up and I feel like just calling my job and telling them to fuck off.
I don't make my bed or eat breakfast in the morning because I just mentally cannot do it. Making break fast for myself is impossible. I sleep until like the last minute before I have to get up and go to work.
I spend like 30 mins jacking off before I get up too. I basically can't get up unless I jack off.
I need help but I don't know what is fucking me over. I use to be quite happy when I was kind of dating a woman. Then she friend zoned me and I had to cut contact. Just when I was feeling good about myself.
Now I am stuck in this shit show and I feel like I can't make it better. Help me.
Every sunday I tell myself "I am going to go out and do something fun!" and that never happens. I always end up just laying in bed and jerking off and falling in and out of sleep.
I have not gone to the gym in months. I use to go very regularly and then that whole friend zone debacle happened and I just like lost my will to do anything. Why do anything when everything is just going to shit all over you anyway?
I think my issue is that I am so desperate to meet a woman who actually likes me that if I do something with no intention on meeting a woman.. my brain doesn't like it. For example, I want to go see a movie soon... whats the point though when I know I will end up going solo and then just coming home to sleep?
Everything seems hideously pointless and I hate that feeling. Like right now, Its 8pm my time and I usually go to bed at 12am. I am doing nothing right now but just sitting here. I can't muster up the strength to even play a video game.
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Okay first of all, tl;dr.
Second, sounds like a testosterone problem. There are things you can do to help that.
I'd suggest going to /fit/ and just lurk for a while, Google estrogen reducing foods and testosterone boosting foods. Also tap water is nasty too get a Brita filter if you can, there's all sorts of estrogen in that.
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>>18635640
Everything you're doing right now is counterproductive to your goals. You say you want a woman, but you have stopped working out and you masturbate excessively. Women don't want to be with guys who don't have anything going on. Also, the boost in energy and motivation you get when you're in the early dating stages doesn't last forever. You need to get back to loving yourself man. Start working out again and stop robbing yourself of energy by wanking every morning. You'll feel more energized and more confident about your life which will attract people to you.
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>>18635640
This may be caused by depression
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I am very social and many people seem to like me, some of them a lot, but I can't take it from there and become friends with them. By friends I mean people you go out with during the weekend or invite to do stuff outside class/training.
I fear rejection and I almost never take the first step. I think it could be that. Also only two years ago I became a pleasant person that people want to have around, so I don't have a strong network of friends that can introduce me to other people.
What is wrong with me?
Please help me, /adv/. I feel that every day I become more grumpy, and I'm tempted to give up and stay at home.
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>>18635635
>I fear rejection and I almost never take the first step.
Sorry to be a cunt but it sounds like you already know what to do.