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Getting over not being my lover's first 2017-08-19 12:07:47 Post No.18637099
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Getting over not being my lover's first
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2017-08-19 12:07:47
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She's the loveliest fucking thing. I'm not gonna go list off all the qualities that make her one of the best damn things in my life. Just trust that she is. I don't have a wandering eye, not looking to find an excuse to stray. I just want to stop getting hung up that I wasn't her first and she was mine. We perform roleplays where I am her first, initiated by her no less, and it's fucking amazing. But it only furthers my feeling hours later that I wasn't her first.
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People have lives outside of their relationships. I'm sure you've liked other girls in the past.
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>>18637107
>hurr durr women can be whores they can make their own decisions
You can go fuck yourself.
>>18637099
Depends on how many dicks she's had. If its like 10 just let her go OP. If its like 1 or 2 then try to get over it if you can.
Pissed me off that my gf had a few more than me when we first met so I fucked a few other girls to even the score. You should do the same but it might piss her off.
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>Pissed me off that my gf had a few more than me when we first met so I fucked a few other girls to even the score.
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Good Saturday afternoon everyone (Belgiumfag).
Here I lie in my sofa, my gf just got up and went back to bed. There was a thing in our past where she cheated on me and is trying to make up for it.
Although lately I lost the spark I had for her. She gets mad all the time for shit like "leaving the toothpaste tube on the sink instead of placing it back in the cupboard".
I'm bored and I don't want to be with her anymore.
Any ideas on how to quit this relationship without looking like an asshole too much?
>talk to her
No, I'm too much of a pussy, I just want her to end it
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>>18637068
I do realise this must be the worst kind of request for advice.
I just want peace and I know if I bring it up to break up, she will raise hell (because she was trying so hard for 'us')
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>>18637075
so, what do you guys have in common to make it more interesting again maybe?
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>>18637135
I cannot shake the thought of her cheating on me. That was the point where we ended in my eyes
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So the local tag office in my city (the place where you renew your vehicle registration) charges $5 cash to everyone they serve for a notary fee... like actually cash, they even have an ATM in the building. Is this legit? This seems super sketchy to me, they've got to be serving at least 20 people an hour so this $5 is going to add up. And it's all cash so it could be under the table. Is there anything I can do to look into this further.. or should it be looked into at all?
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>>18637060
The receipt doesn't even include this fee by default, they add it to the receipt in pen.
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Videogames make me happy. Why do women expect I give up what makes me happy and become miserable to cater to their wishes?
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Find a different woman ya idiot
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>>18637055
Because enjoyment of vidya like the beauty of women degrades over time.
Women want you to give up vidya so you can appreciate their beauty, while they still have it, so when they turn ugly you will be nostalgic over how beautiful they once were and hopefully for them stay in relationship because of that nostalgia. Kind of like some people are still stuck playing vidya out of nostalgia even though they dont enjoy it much anymore.
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>>18637070
I am still enjoying vidya and I will be enjoying vidya in my old age. I like it and I don't want to be deprived of it.
>Women want you to give up vidya so you can appreciate their beauty
I don't want a woman who is so fucking selfish she wants to deprive me of what makes me happy just so she can feed her shitty narcissism.
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Should I work when studying towards a bachelor's degree?
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I'd recommend working at the start, and once you reach the stage where you can't feel like you can balance both, I'd drop the job. Thats what I did anyway and it seemed to have work for me, dropped my job at the start of the final year.
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Where do I get a qt asexual gf?
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>>18637021
Online dating.
And they are as rare as unicorns. Mostly made by vaginism, molested as child and rape aka damaged goods.
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>>18637021
So wouldn't that just be a female friend?
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>>18637021
probably nowhere. my experience has been that girls are obsessed with sex
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How to not be normie? 2017-08-19 11:31:58 Post No.18637015
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How to not be normie?
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2017-08-19 11:31:58
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New here, how do I not be a normie
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>>18637015
There is nothing wrong with being normie (somebody has to pay taxes and make future workers after all). Never admit you are new, discard trip and enjoy your stay here. You are here forever.
>bonus tip
Never go to /b and always question everything you see. Dont fall for cheap memes and remember what satire and trolling is. The moment when you believe it all is the moment when you lose your soul.
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if you want to become the lowest of the low possibly imaginable start taking /r9k/ seriously.
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>>18637015
very easy, my dude.
Educate yourself on /tv/, /pol/, /r9k/ and if youre feeling brave on /b/. Then try to share that experience and knowledge with your friends, peers & loved ones. You'll be one of us in no time..
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Just another typical weekend coming up
>wake up and clean room and go to gym (weak due to coffee ruining sleep) and eat
>drink coffee at my favourite train station while browsing 4chan and feeling sad about life
>go to a museum and feel like a fraud at how I'm going for the pseudointellectual cred
>feel awful after seeing 50 attractive women who consider me a disgusting beta while they have 5000 tinder matches with Chads
>go to my second favourite station to drink coffee, repeat
>go home and waste all my time on the internet or read some books I only read for the pseud cred
>go to sleep
>sunday passes with even less happening but with museums closed so I feel locked out the social sphere and have a vague sense that I should have woken up early on Saturday to make the most of it
>coffee ruined sleep too much to make the gym worthwhile but I'll give it up after Monday...
>would feel sad about going to work on Monday but I barely work
Background:
>aged 26
>no friends or social life since 18
>no female attention ever
>went through university with zero social experiences
>became the loner nobody talks to within two days of my current job
>never been to pub, club, or party
>missed out on all the 16 - 22 formative social experiences that people look back on fondly (teen crushes, school prom, school dances, university fresher's week, any sort of relationships at all)
>know that women all have 5000 tinder matches and think the average male is ugly
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>>18637000
>stupid frog poster
Next time ask a question if you want advice.
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How do I get pussy?
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dunno
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your local shelter is a safe bet, they probably have strays up for adoption
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>>18637004
my city doesn't whore our homeless out like that, might make em some money though, so it's not a terrible idea
I tend to lose motivation whenever I encounter a hindrance. I can't really put up with hardships, I tend to take the least resistance path whenever possible.
I'm currently attending a high school that only accepts top %0,7 students, I could only get in because I somehow motivated/forced myself into studying back in time.
The thing is, I can't really do that anymore. I can't force myself into studying. My question is, how can I put up with hardships when I am used to slacking off most of the time?
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Sorry man, but it just takes practice and "doing it." "Motivation" is a myth that people stop believing in and chasing after eventually. Routine and hard work gets you anywhere, especially if you're a smart fuck, because smart people are the ones that can get the laziest and most complacent
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Motivating yourself is easier when you got something to loose. Try studying a little every day, make it a routine and try to not break it. After studying for 30+ days you'll probably not want to break the streak. The hardest part is really to get started. Try to Japanese 1-minute method. Study for one minute. See if you can't prolong that to five, if not. Fine. At least you didn't break your streak. But actually showing up and trying is the real key here. If you don't even try, you won't make it at all.
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>>18636993
What you're lacking in is discipline, not motivation.
Motivation is fleeting. It might come to you every day, every week, or maybe just once every few months. But it doesn't last. Ride those waves of motivation, like you have in the past, whenever they show up. But when they die down you really only have your discipline to carry you until the next wave of motivation hits. Your discipline will keep you moving forward but it's the motivation that will give you boosts and momentum along the way.
As for how to GET discipline? That's harder, and I don't really have a perfect answer for you. It's definitely more of a skill tied with your mental fortitude. It's like a muscle. The more discipline you apply to certain areas of your life, the easier it will become to continue doing so and the stronger that discipline will be over time.
Develop a routine or a schedule. Set clearly defined goals and break them down into small, bite-sized, EASY steps that you can do one at a time. That will get the ball rolling and it will make some big, daunting tasks easier to tackle.
Hang in their anon, you got this.
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I need some relationship advice: So I've been dating 4 girls for a while now and now the two of them I like most both want to be exclusive.
Girl 1 is really attractive, competes in pageants and has worked as a ring girl, studies Social Science for a degree, has great morals and is intelligent. I look slightly above average but I'm ripped, I feel like I punched above my weight with her and I'm not sure I could land someone that attractive again.
Girl 2 is overweight but still kinda chubby cute. She studies computer science for degree and most of our hanging out has just been cuddling together and watching anime. I think she views me in the same way I view girl 1 in terms of punching above their weight. She's just a really bubbly person to be around and I can just describe it as wholesome, the sex is pretty bad though(girl 1 is way better). I think that if I didn't go with her it would hurt her a lot
and that might be affecting my thought process.
I don't know what to do and would welcome advice.
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plz help, bump
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There are worse problems to have I guess
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Bumping for interest
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Long distance relationship 2017-08-19 10:53:44 Post No.18636961
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Long distance relationship
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Hi /adv/. So, im in a LDR with a girl I met online and we cant meet soon because of circumstances. How do I keep the relationship going? Because sometimes we dont have much to say to each other and it gets boring especially when we are from different countries.
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>>18636961
Watch films together
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You have a girl friend, not a girlfriend
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First of all, if you haven't met and had sex, she's not your girlfriend. Second, once you turn 18, arrange to meet in real life.
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>live with GF in a not-so-nice area
>neighbors recently had a break-in attempt; someone climbing into their balcony
>thinking about buying a gun
>gf probably wouldn't be okay with it; have asked her in past if she'd be interested in going to a shooting range with me, she wouldn't
>have hinted at idea of having gun in house, she's still obviously not on board
Well, what should I do? Worst case scenario, she straight-up says no. And I don't feel safe without a gun in house. What then?
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just buy the gun anyway, its not like she can do anything about it
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>>18636953
MOVE.
Not kidding, even if you and your gf were ok and knew your shit around a firearm it doesn't mean you would be successful in stopping someone coming into your home. I believe you have a right to defend yourself, with a firearm, in your own home but there are too many things that can go wrong.
Save your money and get the fuck out of there and don't tell me you cannot. Your own safety is at risk.
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I started talking with a girl in OKC, and when planning what to do when going out she suggested going to a club party pretty fast. In her okc questions (not her profile) it looks like she's interested in casual sex, so maybe she just wants no-bullshit hookups, which would be great for me.
But I'm weirded out because I can only see a pic of her, and for whatever reason I'm suspicious of her being a transexual, transvestite or something. The website is filled with them and sometimes they say straight up that they are, or they just mark themselves as women.
>this is her pic, added the eyes thing for a tiny bit of anonimity, i dont like posting people's faces online
i think its mainly because of the jaw... so what do you guys think, is there an elegant way of knowing she's one or not before meeting?
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>>18636940
She looks like a girl to me, theres gonna be no way of knowing until in person
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>>18636940
I can see why you think it might be a transvestite on the face, but dont delude yourself.
You should be looking at the neck and especially the hands instead.
If you can post pictures of these I'd be happy to help
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>>18636940
You're a shitlord
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It's possible to have serious relationship with a woman if i have no job?
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>>18636878
Sure if you have money despite being jobless
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>>18636881
i have some money. not much. but money are so important?
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>>18636884
Yes, financial stability is important
How old are you OP?