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Slowest fucking board on 4chan.

Anyway I will try my own idea, to try to cold approach at least one woman every day.

>>18730682
Kinda normal really. Sounds more like a form of social anxiety. If you feel more comfortable doing it face to face then do so.

For example if you go on a night out and there's a girl who takes interest. Try and stick with her towards then end when it gets quieter. That will give you an opportunity to just talk more and that's all you need to do. Talk.

You don't need to be direct. Simply sit near the counter or order something. Get chatting to this individual and then just say "i enjoyed talking to you, any way for us to talk some more?"

Or just go in for a few days in a row and then ask.

>>18730682
Okay, first you should never assume people who are getting to be nice to you like you. That is just a terrible assumption

help

No, that makes absolutely no sense. Either you're not seeing what you think you're seeing (i.e. there's some kind of visual trick that's making you think 50% didn't grow back) or you simply haven't waited long enough. Follicles grow hair at different rates, and cycle through periods of active growth and "rest," so you can't expect all your hair to grow back fully at the same time.

Shaving/trimming has no effect on the follicle and cannot have possibly affected the growth of your hair.

>>18730683
I can take a pic but it's really how I said, would rather not though.

It's like before I had normal male leg hair, then I shaved it to a few millimeters long, now some have grown back to normal and the others stayed... Maybe in time the rest will grow but it's been 4 weeks.

I would try both a spread sheet and a ms word file where you make a header on each page for each year.
Maybe a time line ?

For me, the best way to make large concepts and build ideas is to write everything down by hand into a book. I write down everything that comes to my mind, make small graphs or sketches. Referencing back and forth to previous notes is also quite important to keep older thoughts fresh.
Maybe it's just me, but I remember handwritten stuff much better than things typed on the computer. Probably some muscle-memory thing related to learning or I don't know.

Good luck with your endeavour OP.

>>18730514
>I didn't actually cause any physical harm to anything, but i did throw a flare at someone
No shit, that's what reckless endangerment means, you moron. And talk to a fucking lawyer.

>>18730517
well i guess it's worse if you actually cause harm. idk.

>>18730533
It's obviously still a crime to be reckless about causing harm, you fuckwit.

>>18730413
Please respond.

Get your high school equivalency? I'm Australian and did that after leaving high school then I did a meme degree now I'm doing a meme job, have a meme fiance and have a meme baby. Life is a meme.

>>18730537
>meme baby
I spit my drink

Just leave her already, from the sounds of it neither of you want to be with each other anymore. The sooner you break up the faster you can get over her and get on with your life.

Write her and say the exact same thing you said here. The most important part is that she no longer seems to care about you. If this is true, it's time to part ways and move on.

I divorced my ex for 39k so I could vote for Donald Trump.
>don't let it get that far.
Just make certain you can both move out to new apts.
GOING TO NEED MONEY!

>>18730379

It's probably got more to do with how people got to do things the first time when they were teenager. It's easier to feel like the first fumble with a girl or the first drink of alcohol was "wild" when it was the first time and everything was exciting and new. By your 20s you're fairly used to it and it all stops seeming so wild and fascinating if you started early. They don't miss being a teenager as much as feel nostalgic about how it made them feel.

I guess there's a sensation of total freedom that only comes from breaking the rules.
That's kind of paradoxical but when you are actually free of doing whatever you want, you don't FEEL as free as you do when you disobey authority.

That plus nostalgia.

>>18730390
Hmm, as someone who only got to do those things in their twenties, they didn't seem all that exhilarating even though they were the first time

>>18730337
Do people ever stop feeling sorry for themselves on this board?

>>18730337
>What's the best way to be happy alone in life?

Focus on learning whatever inspires you

>>18730337
I would say try to seek like minded people but is hard , just try and have fun , I am 31 and have few fr8ends but feel complete , I am working my dream job and consider the other people I work with friends . my girlfriend of 5 years is my best friend . my dad has few friends to but is social , same as you ,

>>18730347
pretty true , learn about stuff on youtube and try it out if you like it, find a hobby for yourself but don't expect to automatically click with people that are into the same thing , it often works out the other way but ........shiiiiiiieet I wish I was 21 . don't do drugs either . losers ruin X4

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>falling for the vaginal jew

I have nothing to ask taken people, and no one who is taken is going to be asking the questions, or at least in the minority

any time I ever see a couple, or a girl wearing an engagement ring, I think of how fucking middle class and affluent and easy their life is. and it's true. or a guy wearing a ring. they're always the same sort of milquetoast middle class reddit-browsing life casual, normie as fuck I hate them. And I have to wear a mask and be polite/professsional. engaged couples are so fucking annoying to be around.

>>18730297
What do you think when you see a couple who is clearly white trash then?

What have you tried doing to fix it before now?

>>18730263
You know the answer.

Step away from the computer. Go outside. Engage with the real world and real live people.

>>18730205
Did you go and strike up a conversation with any women whilst you were there?

>>18730205
Unless you get super lucky, you're gonna have to start the convos yourself. I used to be super intimidated by girls until I got lucky and a girl started a convo with me. It gave me confidence to start convos with other girls. Just realize that 9/10 times, girls are going to wait for you to approach them.

>>18730205
You may be unconsciously broadcasting "I'm a loser. Don't waste time with me" vibes in your stance, expression or behavior.

>>18729900
thats not how married people act, i think that husband has controlling issues, she should try to find someone else, because she cant live her life like that.

>>18729900
She's probably a masochist and enjoys it.
You see the reverse happen all the time with genders switched as well, most pussy-whipped guys are also masochists. Don't get involved, it's simply part of their dynamic. If she hated it so much she would leave.

>>18729906
Abused people usually have trouble leaving an abusive relationship. But it's something she has to do. So stay out of it OP but maybe stop seeing them.

>>18728211
Just post a picture of your homework.

Don't you remember the formulas to covert real numbers to imaginary and back?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysVcAYo7UPI&list=PLGR_7q6BJHQGo3lIEUzEWrCLFleDRzvVM

One of these videos should help you

>>18728211
Replace both zs with a+bi.

Make denominator of fraction a real number. You should already know how to do this.

. . . the rest should be trivial.

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>>18728221
Here's a picture, it's exercise 5
I do understand how powers of i work, but I don't see how that's supposed to help me here.

>>18728246
I did that, but you end up with a denominator that's four terms long and simplifies nothing

Don't hold your breath that this is going to go anywhere

I'm not an expert at this but if she is still talking a lot to you, she might have just not wanted to go out in the rain.

I think the best way to respond to this has nothing to do with decreasing response time. Instead keep talking normally and be chill. Wait a bit and hit her up again casually for another date. Make sure your intentions are clear again and if she bails on that one then defenitly give up.

I mean would it really hurt you to ask one more time? If you have the confidence to ask the first time, then I think you will be fine asking the second.

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>>18727474
Any particular thing which makes you think that?
I am torn about giving her the benefit of the doubt.

>>18727484
It isn't about courage, but about what is more advantageous.
Decreasing response time is obviously to send her the signal it's her turn to act.

I prefer not to be the one hitting her up - she is the one who flaked.

cont.

And desu with you, i wouldnt mind running back to her, not just as a rebound but as a long term relationship. ne of the things about her is that she glowed up. She went from a 6/10 to a 9/10. But the problem is that shes dating a 10/10 chad with a white mustang, perfect abs, nice hair, and like 6 foot five.I dont honestly know why she would ever leave him for someone like me. And wat also sucks is that y current gfs and y schedules are so intertwined and i think she might make false rpe allegations if i break up with her
any help?

>>18730519
Honestly I think you should go to an abuse shelter with some of this and break up with her from there. They have resources that can be helpful for this kind of thing. You have to be very careful as a guy breaking up with a girl like that these days.

As for the other girl it's really up to her who she wants to be with isn't it? If she is willing to break up with her guy for you then cool. Why not? If she's just going to cheat then you want nothing to do with her.