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I need some help. I have been in love with a girl I have never met for the last year and a half. She is in and out of my life (as much as someone who you haven't met can be) pretty much since the beginning. I love her so fucking much but we are both now in separate relationships. I got with a girl who, even though she is lovely, I am simply not in love with. But I always find my mind drifting back to the first girl. Never even fucking met her and she is all I think about. I am sure she loves me and isn't just saying it, which she has so many times. We tell each other all the time. Our relationship is fucking stupid but it's all I want and I know she feels the same.
The only problem is the distance and its a pretty fucking unsolvable problem as we are both broke college students and she is 5000 miles away. I also don't know what to do about my girlfriend, as I really don't want to hurt her again. This situation has happened before, with the same two girls. Help me, please.
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HELP
My whore mother just got these strange red spots in her fucking face and she is fucking desperate because she's always taking care of her face and doesn't even know what the fuck they are.
She is fucking panicking, somebody please just tell me what the fuck this is.
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The common sense in me wants to say a mild allergic reaction.
But i'm calling it now. Syphilis.
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>>18638898
look like broken blood vessels. has she been working out/ was she sick or vomiting?
if not then mild rosacea or dermatitis
don't call your mom a whore
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Am I a push over or the ideal employee?
>new at job since july 1st
>warehouse type job
>lots of lifting, processing boxes, carts and pallets
>managers and co workers love my work ethic
>i put in long hours, usually skip my breaks and help everyone
heres my dilemma though
>if anyone asks for help i drop what im doing and help
>managers call me the night before and ask if i can come earlier
>i always say yes and its happened like 5 times now
>never deny extra shifts, shift changes or new tasks
>managers make me take on tasks most others dont do
>literally today
>manager asks if i can come take in truck tomorrow
>i say yes immediately
>"Do you ever say no anon?"
>i just shrug with a smile
So am I just like a push over that does what everyone tells him?
Or is this the perfect work ethic to have?
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You should ask for a raise then.
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it's the work ethic employers dream of and humanity benefits from because it gets shit done. it has great value. know your value.
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>>18638906
Seeing as I just started in july 1st, so 50ish days, i can't complain about the hours.
I was hired as part time. Started out with a few 4 hour shifts, random as fuck. Like one morning, the next close, 2 days off, then a mid day 4 hour shift or whatever.
Schedule for this week is M-F, 9-5.
So i'm very appreciative for that already.
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How do I stop caring about a girl who wronged me so much? 2017-08-20 02:23:07 Post No.18638875
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So I've dated this girl who, suffice to say, was not girlfriend material for about 2 years. We were on a long distance relationship and saw each other once every month. During that time I caught her sexting other guys a few times and she even showed her tits to one of them on Skype. she even went as far as kissing a guy on the bus after one of her trips to my place. Yet I forgave her every single time because I was a weak-minded fool who thought about the goods of our relationship and her crying would always work on me despite me knowing it was only a question of time before she fucked up again. And of course I'm not mentioning the verbal and physical abuse I had to endure from her.
One day I eventually got fed up and broke up with her for good (or so I thought). I blocked her on everything and was able to avoid her for about two months. Then she made a fake Facebook account and reached out to me.
Being the dumbass that I am, I think to myself that in the span of those two months, she could have fixed her shit so I decide to give her another chance.
Of course, the relationship eventually goes to shit and she dumps me for another guy.
Now why the fuck do I miss a girl who made my life hell for two years so damn much and how do I get my shit together before I take her back once he finds out she cheated on him with his best friend?
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I just read you subject.
tl;dr Zen Buddhism
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Replace her.
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you can get better than her. agree or disagree? you deserve better than her. agree or disagree? all that crap didn't happen because you suck, it happened because she sucks and made selfish shit decisions. this is a reflection of herself, not of you. don't accept less than you deserve; don't expect more than you've earned. and that bar is not set by her. it's set by you. simple as that.
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Education, trades, and careers advice 2017-08-20 02:19:20 Post No.18638868
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Education, trades, and careers advice
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Great success in last thread. Let's help those that are younger than us (or older trying to make a change) choose their careers or give general advice to those that are unsure and trying to find their path in life or generally get one another into positions to better their lives and those around them.
Let's talk options and advice on
>Universities and college (Bachelor's, masters, and PhDs) life and experiences
>Medical careers
>Law careers
>Trades
>Military careers
>Agriculture and forestry
>Minimum wagecucks
>Government (local and national)
>Police and firefighting
>Freight (train, ship, aircraft, or truck)
>Transportation (pilots)
>Stock market careers
>Freelance work or writing
>Self employment/business owners
>Those that don't want to be NEETs anymore
Help your fellow anons out.
Let's do some good and help each other on to the right paths for us.
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What can you do with an information science degree from a good state university that isn't IT cuck drivel
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I'm thinking about majoring in electrical engineering and minoring in math general is this a good idea for somone who just wants to get a decent engineering job?
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Boyfriend is into rough, violent like sex 2017-08-20 02:14:33 Post No.18638859
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Hey all,
So basically I am in a relationship with a guy ive known forever, and have known for a long time that hes super kinky. And im super into it.
Hes ashamed of it though, because its boarderline rape-ish (the porn he watches anyway) and the only other gf hes been able to live that fantasy through was with a bootycall relationship a year-ish or so out of highschool where he and the girl basically had hate-sex of which she would go out of her way to piss him off and get him to do it.
Now ive been with him for a little over a year and hes talked about it before, but he feels that what we have is too 'lovey' and that im too nice and that hed feel bad afterwards if he totally let loose.
But holy shit do I w a n t it. But i also dont know if i can be mean enough to him without being ingenuine. I just want to love and cherish him, while having him violently force himself onto me. To put it in perspective, my first boyfriend i had when i was 16 asked me what my fetish was, and i literally told him id want him to roleplay a burglar and have violent bondage sex. He, uh, didnt like that. And i think it takes people by suprise because i come off as a loving vanilla gf, this applies to my bf now too.
I feel like its something that i will have to bring out in him slowly during sex, and its been working at an easing pace for the past few weeks.
But, TL;DR
The advice I need is from people who are into really rough, rapey sex
What are some turn ons that you think could trigger bringing out his drive, over time maybe. I dont want to have him let loose and feel awful after. Do you have any tips or fantasies that may match up with this? Just so i can get a few ideas in my noggin.
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My best guess is to introduce lewd texting that leads to what ever you want out of this. It might be an easier transition.
I mean, you could just talk about it in person, but you haven't done that already
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I have though, i asked him for tips based on the bootycall chick and that i wanted it, but he kinda looked at me and was like ". . .no" and told me the above reasons.
I just want things that i can say or do dyring the act that may spark something
Like, just today i got him going enough to where he rammed my ass over the bed, whereas normally he would ask and ease his way in. Im also trying to get him to throat fuck me, but i need to practice that a bit more based on my performance last time
I'll definitely try the texting thing, probably sext him rough sex lines?
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I just want to push him a liiiitle bit
To show that i actually enjoy what he fantasizes about, and to ease him into feeling okay about doing it with me
His previous relationships aside from the booty call all turned this down and were totally uninterested, so hes not used to someone not judging him for it i think
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What condoms should i have 2017-08-20 02:06:35 Post No.18638841
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What condoms should i have
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Long story short, i am a college student that has a gf who is horny as fuck at the moment.
My penis is about 6.2 inches but I dont know it that really helps. There is a wallgreens near me if that helps in anyway too. She is asian and and she is relatively short, not midget tier ofcourse.
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generic 'regular' size condoms
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>>18638841
skyn, or anything else made from polyisoprene feels way better than latex
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Alright, ill get a pack this Sunday, thanks man
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dont wanna get clothes under bed cuse theres bugs under there afraid wat do
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how do i get over fear of bugs
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>>18638831
Kill yourself. It solves all problems. Once.
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>>18638837
jumping spiders
seriously. i'm still afraid of bugs (will legit scream and run if a butterfly comes at me lel) but i don't see many of the little cunts anymore because i stopped being afraid of spiders and just let 'em be now and name them dave and bob and they nom on all the bugs
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How do I stop getting friend zoned? 2017-08-20 01:59:31 Post No.18638829
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> Be me, twenty year old college student, not bad looking and have a pretty good friend network of both women and men and involved in a bunch of clubs
> Work a lot on my appearance, get down to a better weight and dress more stylishly
> Get laid once thanks to tinder, but still have never had a girlfriend
> Start to want a deeper relationship and desire a girlfriend
> be good at normal conversations but shit at flirting, female friends don't bat an eye anyway
> None of my female friends who I could hypothetically date have any interest in me
Frankly I think it might be a race thing because I'm black and literally all of my friends are white but I'm still feeling down about the entire situation
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>How do I stop getting friend zoned?
Create a power dynamic. As a general rule, women date "across and down" financially (they prefer rich men) and "across and up" physically (age, looks, dominance). Just act more dominant and don't let them boss you around. Give the illusion of wealth. Try to make conservations more intimate.
>Frankly I think it might be a race thing because I'm black and literally all of my friends are white
Depends where you live. Most women are fine fucking black guys, but not dating them.
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steer every conversation topic towards your dick. you must make your intentions clear: you want to fuck. hiding your intentions is how you get friend zoned, and all the sneaky underhanded shit guys do while trying to get out of the friend zone is how you get labelled a creep.
you have to be bold enough to be overtly sexual while also being attractive enough to get away with it.
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>>18638829
https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
Read this, helped me a lot. Not only with women but life in general.
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Recently I started having sexual encounters with a girl who I'd been friends with previously for a few years.
We really enjoy one anothers company, find each other very attractive and get along pretty well, but I noticed the second time we went to get physical, it took a long time for me to get hard.
We started making out and touching, I touched her breasts and everything and nope nothing, I even went down on her and still nothing. After she touched it for a while, it got there, but once we went to have sex, I couldn't stay hard for long (I think the condom probably had a bit to do with that).
What the fuck am I supposed to do. This isn't the first time. When I was in Hong Kong drunk off my face I couldn't get hard, and a few weeks ago I fucked a girl and couldn't stay hard then either.
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This is easy. Just find the stone mask and use it.
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>>18638827
Doyou have any problems getting and maintaining an erection when you're alone? Or is it just with women?
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Is this normal?
I am feeling lonely and wished for a partner in life forever, always wanted a relationship but once someone makes a move on me or when I have to getting to know them, to hangout and spending time with them, to know what they like, what they hate, to get involved with their family I started feeling tired and empty. I also feel uneasy and no point of doing all those stuff. Hard to explain how I feel but I can tell it's not something I want to do.
What's wrong with me? Am I incapable of love?
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I have the same problem. Waiting for you to get an answer si bad...
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sounds like unrealistic expectations of what most people are like
something probably happened in your childhood
see a specialist
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sounds like you've built it up in your head beforehand and then either finding that reality isn't delivering, i.e. she isn't what you thought she'd be, or fearing that you'll do something to fuck it up yourself at some point and so bowing out early to avoid that possibility coming to fruition. dunno about normal or abnormal but it's common enough.
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I know college is not for me. I need some ideas on what I can do to make money without college. I like advertising and Im big into art. Id like to maybe find a small company to design stuff for. How can I do this?
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You can't dumbass
Get used to sucking dicks for money or eating rice and spam every day for the rest of your life
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Maybe create a fiver account, make money doing small artsy projects, maybe small time ads for business. The best part is you can do this for anyone world wide. Make a video for a catchy ad then sell it, and then put that on your resume and apply for positions at places that you would fall into comfortably. Everyone loves a self starter with a history of learning curves, and of course the confidence to do it the way you always imagined to be done.
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freelancing. put together a portfolio of your work. seek out smaller companies who are just getting going and doing all they can to minimize costs, and offer your services for free. add to portfolio. repeat. once you've built up a handful of these that potential clients can reference to see that your work is legit and you can be depended on to deliver, you can start trying to do it for a fee and actually get hired on as a contractor, whether temporarily or ongoing for steady work. don't forget to get yourself licensed to operate as a business when you're ready to start doing so, and keep track of every relevant transaction for accounting purposes.
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how to date older men 2017-08-20 01:47:01 Post No.18638810
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i'm a 19 year old girl in college pursuing a pharmaceutical degree
long story short i really really like men in their 40s-50s. it's not really a sexual fetish, just my personal preference. my parents know i like older guys and they're creeped out by it especially my dad but i can't help it. i've been like this since i was 10.
recently i've been talking to a sliver fox type actor in california and he's in his 50s. i live in the midwest so it would be near impossible to have a relationship with him and i don't want to end up in a tabloid magazine about how i'm with this older guy. don't want to ruin his career or taint mine. i'm of legal age obviously but the age gap is still huge.
i've used tinder but it's usually a bunch of fucking weirdos or frat chads bc i live in a college town.
where can i go to find older men? no neck beard live in moms basement type shit i'm trying to find an educated guy preferably with no kids. idc about divorces. i'm really small and look 16 years old so also hopefully someone who doesn't just fantasize about fucking underage children and actually wants a relationship
is this whole thing a bad idea? should i just date my own age group or say fuck it and try to find an older guy?
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Suggardaddy? Really?
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i'm not even in it financially
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Do whatever you want anon, it's your life.
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How to date a rocker / emo girl?
I need a tutorial.
I will do EVERYTHING in the tutorial, just do something right and I promise to follow. And I will relate the experience here.
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Go to where they are and ask them out. Otherwise your question is how to date girls in general, in which case I'll have to escalate the ticket.
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Step 1: Dress in a similar manner.
Step 2: Go places they go.
Step 3: Ask them out.
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Do girls keep this style after 18? Otherwise Idk why you want to date a sub 18 unless you are under 18 too, but this site is 18+ so I'd assume you are 18+.
I wish I had advice. All I know is that they all like the same bands. If they like one they like the rest. This stereotype is real. Or at least it was 2 or 3 years ago, I haven't talked to any emo girl after that. The bands were Sleeping with Sirens, Pierce The Veil, Asking Alexandria, Black Veil Brides, Suicide Silence, Paramore, etc. Learn the acronyms btw (PTV, BVB, etc.). Like these bands.
That's all I know, I never dated an emo girl of course. Also I learned that they are often grumpy and serious and don't tolerate arguing. They get mad easily. Even complimenting them is hard (I like to compliment people in general and it was hard to get emo girls to take things the wrong way).
Like I said I noticed they all have pretty much the same stereotypical personality, they aren't terribly unique, like their style takes away their uniqueness as a person.
Anyway, good luck.
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im pretty sure this question gets asked a lot
but how do I write a resume for a job?
how do I find jobs that I can apply for?
what are some tips for getting a job/writing a resume if I dont really have experience?
im 18 years old, no job experience, and only really have my diploma
I have to get a job so I can pay for college later down the line(I have a bit of money so I am fine right now) and because I want to go to a wedding of a friend in april, but I need money for a plane, hotel, and a suit
I just dont even know where to start, its all a bit overwhelming
Thanks for helping me
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Bumping because I am also interested.
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>but how do I write a resume for a job?
Use a template you can find off Google
>how do I find jobs that I can apply for?
Advertisements, websites, going and talking to store managers, asking friends and family. And stop being so picky about where you work
>what are some tips for getting a job/writing a resume if I dont really have experience?
Put what you can. Education, achievements, hobbies and interests.
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Whenever you do apply I would highly recommend calling them after about a week if you don't hear back to show your interest.