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>2 years ago
>just got out of high school
>have first job
>best friends gf shows up at my work
>she's pregnant and he won't talk to her she says
>cried and shit
>take her side since friend is acting unusually immature and back then I considered myself a "take the high road" type
>shit goes down for a few months
>I just ignore my friend and talk to the pregnant gf whenever she wants
>she came by my house like everyday
>after a few months she dumps my exfriend but we keep hanging out
>I make a move on her since her being single plus around me all the time are like all the requirements of a desperate loser nice guy
>she's into me too, she says, but two weeks of awkward making out and she goes back to my old friend
>shamefully I immediately go on the defensive trying to explain myself to friends and even try to fix relationship with my old friend.
>and I do, everything goes back to normal in a couple months, but people seem to have a little less respect for me, and I have a lot less respect for myself at this point
>stop hitting people up to chill, tell people to stop texting me, start working a lot more.

6 months ago I realized I had become just like that picture of the sad guy and the 20 y/o birthday cake. I told myself I was gonna turn things around.
>new job, very demanding in people skills
>slowly rebuilding my personality, can make people laugh again
>get back in touch with some old friends
>genuinely enjoy being around them too
>been getting interest from a female, just told her last night I'd text her this weekend to hangout

It's really all going great when I write it out, but my emotional state has still never been good since that situation with my best friends girl. I feel so much shame, so much hate for myself as a person because of this.

Right now I am frozen in fear. I'm terribly sad and lonely and have no idea how long I'll manage it, thoughts of suicide have been the daily for years, but I'm so afraid I'll fuck my life up again somehow.

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Any of you got any cheating experiences? Good or bad or indifferent.

There's a milf that has been working on me for a long time and I think I might cave....need /ad/

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I'm a 23 year old virgin. I need guidance so I don't fuck this one up

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When a guy you're trying to get romantically involved with asks you for time, does it ever end well?

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A girl keeps calling me buddy yet have strong signs of interest in me, should I go for it?

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So a couple of years ago, I dated for almost a year and a half a girl who was an absolute mess and left me fucked up emotionally, scared of people and emotional proximity in general and with some signs of PTSD, according to my psychiatrist.
For a while I haven't really been able to get close to someone, but recently I met this 8/10 cutie that's very nice to me, fun, and has been flirting and leaving hints that she wouldn't mind being in a relationship with me.
How the fuck do I relearn to trust people and love again?

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Hi /adv/, this is my first post on this board. Just wanted to share my situation with you guys and see what you think of it. I'm afraid that I might fuck up and do something stupid on my own. Sorry about the wall o' text.

>be 18, in year 13 (12th grade)
>be friends with guy (let's call him A) for 6 years
>A has sister, two years younger (let's call her B)
>A says B is autistic, think she might just be weird
>transferred to different school after end of first year at secondary school
>eventually started becoming actual friends with B and getting feelings for her
>went to sleepover at A's and B's house
>B does really intimate things during the sleepover (holding hands, resting her head on my lap, hugging me from behind, getting really close for no apparent reason)
>assume it's just her being autistic but start to think it's something else; start getting hopes up thinking she likes me
>few days later, she starts talking about how much she likes this guy that A and I are friends with (let's call him C)
>says that she stalks him and gives him presents, finds his personality attractive, but thinks she fucked up their relationship too much for it to go beyond just jokes
>ask C about it, says that he doesn't know B well, is just creeped out by her obsession and that she does it to get attention from the "older boys"
>try to forget about it and act normal
>every time we meet up, B always does the same kinds of things and even escalates it to touching her face against mine when she's showing me something etc, and talks about her boobs in private messages
>still talks about C
>things get to the point where I start feeling misled and can't tell what her intentions are
>start thinking about confessing and telling her everything, laying all the cards on the table, even if it doesn't give me the outcome I want

What should I do? Should I tell her, or do I talk to her brother about it and hope he can help me? I don't want to lose my best friend over a grill

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I want to start thinking with my dick first. I want to change my current behavior where i wake up in the morning and first thing release sexual urges through masturbation or occasional girlfriend use. O want to be utterly promiscuous.

I feel two roadblocks, speedbumps, holding me back for the time being.

1. I want to make a girl cheat. I want to come in between a toxic relationship and give the woman what her partner is not providing. All the men in my life have reinforced that thats a shitty thing to do to a guy, even if hes a stranger. Bro code or some shit. Im tired of watching shitty men hold their women back, but i havent found the strength to fight their fragile egos, or i have found the strength but not the weapon.

2. I have never lived a life like this, and i do not know how to process when someone calls me out for trying to be something i have not been. Ive changed plenty -lost weight, moved industries, moved to new cities - but bringing my sexual desires up on my priority list feels somehow wrong.

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Ex lied and cheated, blocked her on everything, I don't want anything to do with her,but I'm very angry at her, how do I let go, I no longer want her to have any input or control in my life anymore.

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please give me your opinions anons

is telling someone you like them selfish when you know you two can't be together anyway? ://

okay so here is the story
>be me f, 20
>be bored and friendless
>go on different discords
>make friends with many people
>make friends with a very cool dude
>start talking in pms and connect
>develop feelings
>i don't know if he likes me
>we are from different places
>he is more busy with work and studies
>no future for us basically even if he likes me
>but I want to get it off my chest and tell him

we're both single so it's not like I would be messing up his love life or something.... but I don't know if it's a good idea ://

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Does anyone have anyexperience with cougars? I'm 19 years old and dating a 35-year-old woman. We're going out this upcoming weekend and I'm hoping to sleep with her for the first time. Any advice?

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I've got indefinite leave to remain in the UK since I was 6 (2003).. now trying to get work and I have a letter to prove my status (issued 2003).. however potential employers won't accept this as proof.

Scoured the internet starting to lose my mind chasing down dead ends for info. I can't afford legal advice and I can't get work this is a fricken nightmare.. has anybody experienced this problem and found a way to settle it?

HELP!!!

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This happens when I log in.I even made a new one and still happens. What do I do /adv/. Im lost

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Alright 4chan.
I am in need of some real help.
Not long ago my girl got a lap top for college.
And I am almost positive that's not "all" she is using it for.
When I am over her place, she acts so weird if I get even the bit close to the thing.
In years past, I have caught her with secret fake tumblr accounts, secret e-mails (At least 9), and secret facebooks.
Mainly because she would leave them logged in when she let me use her Ipad for something.
But I am really worried now.
I've been with her for six years and don't want to be wasting my time with someone who is probably cheating on me.
This is why I am in such dire need for help.
I don't want to waste my life with someone who is keeping secrets and cheating on me.
Lately it's been causing some pretty crazy headaches when I think about it.
Can anyone help me with getting a keylogger onto her laptop?
A remote install one would be my best bet.
I have no clue how I could get one on there without it being one that is installed remotely.
If you have any ideas on how I would even come close to manually installing it, let me know.
I hope you can pull through for me guys.