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What's going on here? 2017-08-23 09:34:18 Post No.18651295
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I've been good friends with a classmate for about a year and they can't seem to let our friendship be. It's a tad difficult to explain but I'll do my best.
For example, just today she and I were bantering and the image above happened. What is she trying to tell me here? It's kind of making me uncomfortable. What should I do?
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>What's going on here?
Good fucking question.
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>It's a tad difficult to explain but I'll do my best.
>provides absolutely no explanation
I have no idea what the fuck you're talking about and what that conversation is supposed to mean
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>>18651295
Shes keeping u when shell need u, ur a tool 4 her
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So there was a party the last Friday and Saturday in the town where me and my gf live.
We generally don't see each other while going out, and that's good because I want to have time to hang out with my homies.
On Friday she got left alone because her friend was having a date with a guy and she asked me if she could come hang out with me.
I told her sure, even though I had to be next to her the whole evening so that she wouldn't be alone. I even slept at her place that night.
On Saturday we didn't see each other and I obviously didn't have a problem with that.
Now yesterday we were talking over the phone for a bit, I asked her how Saturday was, she said she was pretty damn drunk.
She told me about how she got a lot of drinks paid by guys, wich I really don't care about because I would do the same, and she even got me a whole cigarette pack on Friday by just flirting a bit with a guy.
But then she tells me that while she was waiting for a drink some guy approached her and asked for her number.
She told me she gave it to him, "because she was drunk", she said.
She says she doesn0t even know his name anymore but he is still texting her very often.
I initially didn't say anything but I told her today that I want to meet up with her tomorrow and talk to her in person.
She started asking me why, if something is wrong and that I shouldn't scare her, she seemed pretty baffled about me wanting to talk to her in person.
Should I be angry about her giving out her number?
I'm gonna tell her that it's really weird to do that especially because she clarified to me in the start of the relationship that she wanted something serious, and no "fuckboy".
What would you guys do? Dump her? Forgive her? Or just tell her that if I find out that something more happened that I will dump her and beat up that little fuckboy at the bar?
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Are you retarded? Obviously this isn't a good sign. She's using her drunkenness as an excuse. She's seeing how far she can test the waters with you. Dump her.
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>>18651155
>she said she was pretty damn drunk.
>she got a lot of drinks paid by guys
>got me a whole cigarette pack on Friday by just flirting a bit with a guy.
>gave out her number
Sorry, fella.
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>>18651155
>relationship
>partying/clubbing
Pick one.
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Hoo boy this is awkward to type out but I need some advice. I recently found out that my bf is really into incest porn. Shouldn't be a big deal but I was involved in incest rape when I was younger, multiple times for years, so I'm having a hard time. I only looked at his porn stash (lots of brother/sister dad/daughter porn) because a search for young nude girls came up on my computer and I thought he was into children. (I would have immediately broken up with him if that was the case) We live together and talk about getting married and having kids, but now im uneasy about having kids with him. The only literotica link I clicked (brother&sister) had heavy descriptions of a girl just having hit puberty and growing breasts and hips etc. I feel like if we had a daughter he would fantasize about her constantly. I told him I found his porn and told him about my past, he said it's just the taboo he likes and doesn't picture his actual family, and that after hearing about my past he wouldn't be able to watch it anymore. But you can't just shut off a fetish. I know he still pictures me as his sister every time we have sex because he's still trying to get me to buy the exact lingerie described in that story I clicked on. I haven't brought it up because the conversations we've already had were awkward enough. So I know this sounds crazy but how do I detach my past from my sex life? I'm sure he would be so excited if I role played as his sister during sex. I've tried reading things on literotica and at first I get the taboo of it but then I am crushed with horrible memories and flashbacks. I just don't know if I can do it. But being in a relationship where your significant other is repulsed by your fetish sounds awful. I feel like our relationship is doomed and it depresses me. Besides this one thing our relationship is the best thing that's ever happened to me, and I don't want to let it fall apart without trying.
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Also sorry for the giant wall o text. Should have broken it up into smaller paragraphs or something.
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Trying to turn your traumatic sexual abuse into a sexual fetish is going to fuck you up. I applaud your effort to satisfy him or at least come to a compromise, but a taboo sexual fantasy can just remain a taboo sexual fantasy. It does not need to be explored or come to fruition to have a healthy relationship.
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>>18651141
I'm sorry, OP. This is a difficult situation, and I think it's one of these rare cases when one partner's fetish is an issue so big that it can slowly destroy the relationship. It's up to you whether you give it a chance or not, but I would walk away.
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How does someone go about being a kind and helpful person? Pic semi related.
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>>18650901
>Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
Keep that ever present in your mind as you go about your day. When ever you are about to "act," always consult the mantra first
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>>18650904
Thank you, I'll keep that in mind.
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>>18650951
Do what that anon said, and take responsibility for your actions. If you hurt someone apologize and try to make it right. Another thing to remember, in action can be as bad as a bad action.
will I be fine without any friends?
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>>18650842
you'll become lonely, which in turn will change your mind and how you see things.
friends are of help.
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>>18650842
If you are huge introvert, you will be fine for few years and then you will suicide.
If you are extrovert, you wont survive even 48 hours without social interactions.
And now the real question: do you have gf?
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>>18650842
Yes. There's a difference between feeling lonely and being alone
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My girlfriend's lack of trust 2017-08-23 04:19:06 Post No.18650622
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My girlfriend's lack of trust
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Is driving me fucking crazy. Yes, I have cheated on her in the past and we've already worked through those issues, but every chance she gets, she will literally look through EVERYTHING on my phone, she somehow has gotten access to even my google search history, looks through ALL my forum posts/threads. And frankly, i'm fucking disgusted by it. Do all girls become private investigators like this? Btw, before you anonfags lay down the hammer of justice on me for cheating, this issue has been resolved for a VERY long time already. like 3 years ago. I feel like i have 0 privacy and it's driving me fucking crazy.
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That's what you get for cheating you fucking cunt. She should be doing worse
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>>18650622
Set a password on your phone. 8 numbers long. No fucking way she will break that.
Set a password on your PC. 15 signs long, letters and numbers. She's Jesus if she breaks that one.
Always lock your phone or PC when you're done using it.
Learn to type your passwords fast as fuck.
Don't make the passwords related to anything. Especially not to something she might know.
Use incognito on your phone when you want to do some weird shit.
There, you're safe.
If she has a problem with it, tell her to quite literally fuck off.
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>>18650622
it sounds like you guys should have broken up when this happened. has this been going on for the entire three years? you need to have a conversation about it and ask her if she thinks she can ever trust you (do you deserve to be trusted? has anything happened to cause her to question your trustworthiness between three years ago and now?), because you can't carry on in life with no privacy at all. it can't be good for her either since it seems like she still seems to actively thinks you might cheat on her.
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Is refusing drinking alcohol awkward? 2017-08-23 04:15:02 Post No.18650610
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Is refusing drinking alcohol awkward?
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2017-08-23 04:15:02
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I'm 21 and I dont drink any alc and dont want to to be honest. Even the doctor giggled a bit and said "You must be a well behaved person".
What should I say when I'm out with friends who drink and ask me?
I hate my life...
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>>18650610
Im in the opposite boat where I'm the only one in my group that drinks, usually I'll get tipsy if I hang out with friends, and yes it is awkward to be the only one drinking or vice versa.
Just make yourself DD and your friends will love you
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Fuck your doctor. Find a new one.
When your out with friends just tell them that you don't fucking drink. Own that shit and be a man. They will respect you 100% more when they try to temp you and you hold your ground.
Don't hate your life over this. Drinking is a curse for man people. My best friend is an alcoholic. I used to binge drink and make bad decisions (spend too much money, break stuff, say hurtful things, get into fights, etc).
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You're... joking, right?
You're 21, dude. You really hate your life over this stupid shit?
I don't drink or smoke myself. While it is annoying to have the docs give you the look of doubt, it's an extremely insignificant part of the day.
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What should I do on a 15 hour flight?
What can I put on a phone to occupy me for hours on end? Battery life won't be an issue.
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Play hearthstone or read a real book for once you degenerate.
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>>18650601
>play hearthstone
no wifi
>read a real book
Is that comfortable on a phone? I don't have a tablet or kindle yet.
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Drink lots of alcohol and watch movies on the in-flight screen.
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>24yo khv
"Anon, you're just trying too hard."
>don't try at all to get gf
"LOL obviously you don't have a gf, you don't even try."
>ask out girls, only get rejection
"Anon you should just be yourself."
Ffs how do you actually get a gf?
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What have you actually done to get a gf? You're just spouting memes.
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>>18650471
Well, I work out, wear nice clothes (streetwear fanatic), groom etc. etc.
I lack the balls to ask a girl out in person but I got many dates from texting. Don't use online dating because I don't want to date hamplanets as a 6'4" muscular dude, also I'm not photogenic (i.e. ugly).
So I know how to get a date sometimes, but never with quality girls.
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>>18650459
Odds are you are completely oblivious to the fact that you are a walking disaster. You're probably ugly, out-of-shape, short, have terrible hygiene, poor fashion sense, terrible interpersonal skills, and no job/live with your parents.
Unfuck your life before you expect anyone else to want to be a part of it.
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How do I make due with $60/month for food?
Every little bit helps!
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Very interesting. Really explains my childhood, and I was unaware all the time. I thought I was nice.
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rice motherfucker
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Multi-vitamin
Lentils/beans
Rice
Frozen veggies
Frozen ground meat
Meat is a luxury, really. Don't need it.
If you pick up some flour, you can make tortillas, and bread and shit. Something like $5 for 10lbs? That's like 20 loaves of bread, or god only knows how many tortillas. Nice thing with tortillas is that you can pretty much just shove whatever the hell you want in them.
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how do i reconcile wanting to be with my partner while also wanting to fuck other people?
I just want to fuck other people but I don't want to break up. I feel immense guilt. My partner wouldn't be okay with it. I know it's immoral and wrong. I know it would hurt them if they ever found out. But I...almost can't resist. I have a lot of trouble being faithful. My partner is completely loyal and I know this which adds to the guilt.
What do you do when you're faced with such a moral dilemma?
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How would you feel if your partner wanted to do the same?
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>>18649913
Life isnt a disney movie. You have weird instincts. Ill tl;dr the science.
Humans are both serial monogamous and totally not at the same time. Its because evolutions a jerk. Staying with a partner exclusively and raising your kids and keeping other suitors away had evolutionary advantages. So did fucking everything. Ya got both instincts in your head.
Accept it, dont feel guilty, be good to your partner, and the desire to fuck others comes and goes. It will pass. Try not to feed it with too much porn or too much contact with women youre attracted to.
Reality is a bitch aint she.
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>>18649913
You tell them you want a open relationship.
Now if you're not cool with them fucking other people then you're a hypocrite and deserve nothing.
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My gfs best friend wants me, I can tell.
>Waiting for gf to shower for our date
>gfs BFF comes into dorm with me
>BFF somehow starts conversation about how happy I make her best friend
>BFF compliments how long I can last
>BFF won't stop talking about sex
>My dick gets hard under sweat pants
>BFF notices I'm fidgeting trying to hide it
>BFF comes to gfs bed laughing hard about stupid joke I made
>BFF falls on me like joke was too much to bear
>BFF can feel my boner on chest
>Big tits makes pulse faster
>Can hear gf coming down dorm hall
>BFF gets up and looks at me
>BFF looks right into my soul
>She knows I wouldn't be able to resist
What the fuck man was it a trap?
I've always imagined pic related happening with the both of them.
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Could be testing you to see if you'd cheat on her.
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>>18649871
Fucking Men, asshole
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I didn't even read your post.
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>cute guy at work
>hit on him
>find out some common interests
>he is mildly interested but wants to take things slow and get to know each other
>week and a half later ask him on date
>he just started seeing someone else so no
>she was in the picture way before me I 100% guarantee it
>act as if nothing happened and keep being his friend
>2 other guys at work like me, but I don't return it
>crush starts shooting daggers at/giving cold shoulder to one I hung out with
>sat next to me when I was talking to the other one
>as soon as that one dropped a hint that he likes me, crush's tone got ice cold and snarky
>shot him daggers too
>crush is getting more smiley and cute with me
>has a certain look of enchantment in his eyes
What the fuck is this. Everyone is telling me that he likes me but the "seeing someone else" thing he told me 3 weeks ago is stopping me.
I really like him a fuck ton. But I'm not sure what to do.
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He likes the attention and ego boost you looking him gives him so he still feels threatened by the other guys
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>>18649868
Liking, not looking
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>>18649868
See that's weird because he is a really nice person and doesn't seem like the type to just take an ego boost. If he was that kind of guy he probably would have tried to take advantage of me by now.
>see qt on dating site
>send her a message
>see that she viewed my profile and read my message
>no response
everytime. i think im going to give up, this shit is too heartbreaking for me ;_;
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Online dating is a fucking joke.
Either find girls in person or stay blueballs.
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>he hasn't seen the tinder experiments revealing what women look for on a dating app
you poor soul
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>>18649622
w-what? you mean the ones where the model tier guy says hes a serial rapist and girls still wanna fuck?
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Is it cucked to date a woman with kids? 2017-08-23 06:38:56 Post No.18649607
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Is it cucked to date a woman with kids?
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>be 19
>the women I think are hot reject me and then go fuck chad
>fast forward 5 years
>I finish my finance degree and get a following for my music
>every single hot girl I know got knocked up and is now a single mother
>all of them have denounced their degenerate ways and become "Christians"
>nearly every single one has private messaged me wanting to hang out
>all of them are just as hot as they were in high school, except they have kids
Does dating a single mother make you a cuckhold? I want to reject them, but one in particular is so hot she almost looks cartoonish
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honestly, yes
you are young, not every women gets knocked up by that age and at 24 you can easily be the one that knocks up
fuck them and disgrace them though, just dont date
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>>18649628
Women never learn. NEVER.
She is gonna marry you, use your money to get a good life but fuck the mail man behind your back.
Then she is gonna divorce you for a back guy with an 18 inch cock and get half your shit.
Don't ever trust women who still made poor choices after 20.
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>>18649607
>Dating
Yes
>Fucking
No
Time to pump and dump like a mad man.