Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 395. page

>>18646887
The process varies a lot from university to university. I'd suggest you contact the admissions office of the uni you're interested in, tell them what courses you've had, what subjects, how many hours you've amassed, and ask how to apply.

>>18646887
Are you failing your classes? You cant escape that if thats the case.
It will also cost a lot more to go to university.
I also hate online classes and cant absorb the information very well. My community college had in class courses though and its not that different at a university though the equipment is a lot better.

Drop the online classes and try going to class physically. It's a whole different environment. On top of that, you're likely still taking general education courses. It's probably going to feel stale for a while, lole highschool 2.0

>>18646873

Go out the house more, make friends, and get you own money.

A crappy home life is awful, it's awful to have the place you go to rest be the source of your problems. That's why you need to get money and get the hell out.

Meanwhile, surround yourself with good people and be strong.

>>18646872

What do you do during the day?

>>18646872
Alternate answers:

1. Some people are morning people and some are night people. It's something you live with

2. Some minor or major medical thing - a vitamin deficiency or something - might mean that you run out of steam in the course of a day, and fixing your chemistry could change it.

3. Maybe you just have a lousy, depressing day. Do you feel that way after happy days?

>>18646872
1. Cut your hair
2. Take a shower
3. Be confident

These issues will solve themselves if you do this.

>>18646850

Find a rhythm that works for the two of you. The only "right" and "wrong" here is what you both like and dislike.

>>18646838
You weren't clear, so how the fuck was he supposed to know?
Ok, he could have gone ahead anyway, giving you a false certainity... but that's not the kind of guy you're dating.

>>18646838
Essentially this >>18646880. What you're saying, even here in the this thread I'm not quite sure what you mean by being more affectionate. Typically in a relationship you're going to become more open as time goes on, that's a natural shift. Was this a question even worth proposing to him? You need to be more clear on what exactly you're asking of you're expecting a clear response

>>18646838
Am I the only one confused about spending two and half years in a relationship with someone and only just now opening up to them?

Just not something I could ever put up with nor understand why anyone would. Would be like two and a half years with a relative stranger.

>>18646820
You're joking, right?

>>18646820
You are paying for sex, not for them to like you or your body.

>>18646820
Yes dude, she's gonna be so disgusted she's not gonna take those $200 from you

Put your talents to use and drop the bass

>>18646807
no one lets me touch instruments any more after i broke my grandpa's accordion. it was super old and i said i didn't want to try it.

>but anon, you'll be sitting down and holding it in your lap! there's even a strap to loop around your back!

i truly hate my life

You get the money to go to a Dr somehow. Obviously it wasn't puberty but it could be something else. MRI your brain

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Call a local bee keeper and see if they'll take the bees for free or for a low price. They'll do it for cheaper than an exterminator and they will make good use of the beez.

NO
NOT THE BEEES

>>18646800
That's a good idea, thanks.
>>18646801
THEY'RE IN MY EYES

>>18646781
are both of you single?

I was really happy for her, they kept the place clean, and her boyfriend is, I think, a genuinely nice dude. Having spent a couple days with him, that's the conclusion I came to. The guy really dislikes druggies (even though he smokes hash every now and again), he's got a stable job, he had even created a business but it didn't really work out so he got another job but it goes to show that he's some sort of ambition.
Problem is while I was there I noticed she drank. A bit too much. I talked about it to her boyfriend and he told me he was worried because she's drinking a bottle of rosé wine per day. I was worried too so I talked to her about it and she said that it wasn't a big deal and that she could take care of herself. I didn't want her to be angry so I dropped the subject.
After that, I went abroad for a week and when I came back, I found out that she had left her boyfriend. I was confused, so I tried to contact my sister but she didn't have a phone so I called her now ex-boyfriend. He told me that she stopped going to work for two days and stayed at home, and the day after that, when he came home, he caught her smoking crack. They argued, then she left. It's been three weeks and she still hasn't contacted him again.
I'm still trying to catch her so we can have a discussion but she always slips away, she always has some place to be at, and from what her ex-boyfriend told me, I can't be too sure that she still goes to work. My plan is still the same, I'm going to catch her and tell her everything I know and ask her if it's true. I'd like her to understand that she can't keep behaving like a kid and doing drugs because she's essentially throwing her life away. She's almost 26 and she's still going from house to house to sleep.

I really love her and I can't just let her keep this up. Do you have any advice for me, or for her? Have you ever been in a similar situation? Please tell me.

I was on the opposite site of the story. I was an addict for about 5 years, whereas the last 2 years were the most severe. I didnt want to talk about it at all and I always told myself that I am able to handle it myself. I also told this everyone. The problem was that I believed it myself. It was not until my nearly collected 30 brakedowns on my way to university (crying, shuddering because of withdrawal, had to learn a fucking ton (med student here btw), diarrhea and so on) that I noticed it couldnt go on this way for any day. I visited a doctor by myself and forcibly (because I had no more drugs left) and he told me the same. I had to go to rehab. In hindsight I had to do this a lot earlier but youre always smarter afterwards.

What I want to tell you is this: A lot of drug addicts, including me, dont want to hear advice because they think they can clear the situation for themselves. It is not until they crash that they notice: I couldn't.
What I would want for myself or your sister is the following: Someone should have forced me to go to a rehab facility. I dont know where youre from but in my country it was basically for free. I had a lot of luck. It helped me beyond describing it. I still visit the staff from time to time to talk to them. They are dear to me. It sure hlped that I kind of realised it myself that I had to go there, but it wouldnt be more of a bad choice in hindsight if someone forced me to do it.
Depending on the circumstances (costs, time, your energy your willing to spend) this process varies a lot. But I think it will be worth it.
I changed. I can't explain it to you but im grateful that I did it. Otherwise I might have died or wouldnt be able to become a doctor on my own now. I firmly believe that she wants and needs help herself. She only doesnt recognize it because it is buried deep down in her.

If you have any questions I will come back to this thread from time to time.

>>18646811
Sorry, I didnt write a text in english language for a long time. Forgive me my mistakes

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Plan out your life here OP.

What are you gonna take as an associates, and what are you gonna take as a bachelor degree?


If your choice is nursing aid associate vs gender studies bachelor, I'd stick with the associated. If your choice is child development associate vs computer engineering bachelor, I'd go with the bachelor.

What are your interests?

>>18646734
I'm really into sports and I lift too. I was considering nutrition. Apart from that I don't really know. I still have some time and I'm thinking about it. My dream was to become a firefighter in California but it's really hard for non citizens

>>18646723
You can't do it.

To get a student visa you have to be accepted by the school first, and you can only stay as long as you're in school. And you can't work any more than part time, so you'd have to prove you have a source of income from abroad.

You lobby to have 4chan and anonymous message boards permanently shut down.

The founding concept of 4chan makes what you're describing virtually impossible without pulling the plug completely.

The internet and open access to "information" for the masses was a terrible and deadly mistake. This shit needs to stop.

>>18646716
fair enough.. so just keep to researching, and ignoring retards then:)...

>>18646759
If what you mean by "research" is make sweeping assumptions based off of nothing then yeah knock yourself out

Meme degree can still work.. A friend had a manger at Ruby Tuesday making 40k without an experience just cause she had a psychology degree. It will keep you from starving

>>18646698
Actually, humanities and social science degrees are better than STEM in this one way STEM grads can walk into jobs in their field, but only if there are any. Otherwise, they're not equipped to do anything else.

LA and Hum grads are seen by employers as generalists, equally adaptable to almost any non-tech field.

So apply for jobs in sales, marketing, management, retail, advertising, public relations, government, etc, etc etc

>>18646694
bump

>>18646694
bump

>>18646694
I imagine there will be opportunities after college, but there will be fierce competition and you will have to dedicate a significant amount of time outside of class, homework, and studying to develop relationships with the faculty, get internships, and get your foot in the door at the professional level for you to have a shot at them.

>>18646688
Tell him to go less deep and see if something changes.
It hurt me because my boyfriend hit my cervix.

>>18646691
He can only be in half way though and it'll hurt, which is why I'm so confused

>>18646688
Do you have dildo? Or just try cucumber or banana in condom. Get into position and experiment what is painful and what is not. Maybe you will discover what is wrong.

Also what about having sex in other positions? I mean you dont need to do ALL of them. And been to gyno yet?