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How do I make friends in class when I kind of don't want to? I'm really only interested in people that are similar to myself and I'm fucking weird.

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Im wondering what dating is like with self harm scars. does it make a big difference, and do people care? is there a difference between how guys react vs girls?

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Purchased my first car with my own cash just over two weeks ago. Last Monday, while travelling around a traffic circle, an idiot in a Hilux decides that he wants to now turn left from the inner lane, regardless of what cars are around him. He smacked into the back of my car, which only has 1200km/750miles on the clock. I didn't know what to feel.

I refuse to claim from my insurance because (a) HE is the guilty party in this case and (b) my excess plus additional fees for claiming in the first two months are just outrageous. He claims the car is a business vehicle and is insured.

> Call his office the following day.
> "That specific vehicle is not insured".
> I don't give a single fuck. That's their problem.
> Send them 3 panelbeating quotes (averaging $4000), the police report (which very clearly indicates that he was in the wrong), and a letter from my insurance stating that the company's insurance is responsible for damages.

So I call to find confirm that they received the mail and he informs me that he is now seeking legal advise (or in other words is in no way prepared to own up to his fuck up and pay out).

>Advice needed/TLDR: How do I come out on top and make sure this guy/his company pays out and fixes my brand new car?

Thanks in advance!

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>be me 15, 10th grade
>don't give a fuck about school
>decide to waste my time playing csgo rack up 2200 hours in one year
> fail geometry, not stupid just didn't try at ALL
>go places during the summer and get a life
>regret my whole 10th grade year
>mfw
what do i do, how screwed am I?

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about a year ago I met this girl and we quickly became friends and eventually ended up asking her out and she replied with "just friends for now". I'm then fine with it cause realise I cba with a relationship and turns out neither can she. Fast forward to this summer, be away with friends she gets super clingy whilst drunk makes out with me. this happened again when she came round my house, but we doubt she was that drunk.. But a couple of days ago she stays over at my house, talking at 5 am quite pissed, she pulls me into a kiss and we end up fucking (best thing that ever happened to me ). she says we should put it behind us and move on as friends. she's leaving in a few days and i love her more than anything desu i can let her go but is it worth trying again in a few years when we both have sorted our shit out and are ready for a relationship, would she ever love me ? :(

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Can I masturbate while I have a UTI?

I am currently on antibiotics and I want to masturbate because I'm worried I'll get blue balls. It happens often if I don't masturbate for too long and starts to really hurt from not cumming.

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There used to be a girl that went to my gym, she was friends with my friends but i never talked to her. I often ignored her because i thought she ignored me. I even see her sometimes in the mall.

She stopped going but a year later my friend who was close with her said she had a big crush on me which is why she never talked/looked to me.

So today my friend who was close with her told me she had a big crush on me, i was literally shook by this. All this time i was rude to a girl that liked me because i didnt notice.

How many girls have liked me but i was rude because they seemed rude to me??? I actually felt offended because she talked to my friends but not me, yet it was cause she had a crush on me....

Sorry for this ramble but i feel a bit shook and sad about this. What to do now...

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I recently figured out I'm the backup/backburner to my female friend who I like. It makes me uneasy to a huge degree. I don't want to be second fiddle to anyone.

She's always been a remarkabley sweet girl and showed me a kindness you can't get from anyone else. Of course, I fell for her. She started acting differently these past two months when I started dating other girls and stopped acting like a submissive Beta towards her.

I started acting in a more dominant/Alpha manner to her and she adjusted her attitude as to not turn me away completely. She dropped very unsubtle hints as to her breaking up with her boyfriend recently and I need some help.

How do I totally ensure I appear as a Priority and not a 2nd Option? She respects me now more than ever and I want to know what steps can be taken. Is there anyone with similar experiences to mine?

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Social media keeps telling me things about my crush, it's telling me to organize an event for her birthday, it keeps telling me the places she's been, it lists her at the beginning of any list that she is a part of. How did this happen? I've only even looked at her profile a couple of times but I talk to my friends about her over FB chat. How do I get it to stop? Do you think that it shows a disproportionate amount of my information to her?

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GF is highly suicidal. Talks about it every day. Want to help her but feel like it's getting more and more hopeless. She told me meeting me stopped her from doing it in the first place, as she was going to do it within two months of us meeting had I not come into her life.

Now she is losing that will to live, but says that she's not seeking ways to do it actively anymore, just that if such a way came along that she'd be ok with she'd likely take it.

I feel like if I walk away from her, which I don't want to do anyway, she'll do it. Also feel like I'll be blamed by people.

How can I help her? How can I make life worth living? She has it so good. She has money, she has a nice family, she has our relationship... she has so much going for her.

She complains about being worthless- that if she died people wouldn't really be impacted because no one /needs/ her or /relies/ on her. She then doesn't take more steps to become invaluable. It annoys me. It's wearing me down. I want to help her. She's my best friend.

What should I do?

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tl;dr:
>be me
>be 21
>no gf
>no driver license
>living with parents and younger brother
>live in europistan
>studying compsci
>about to fail second exam session miserably

pretty sure that if I fail, an hero will ensue, because little to no drive to do anythin one would consider healthy (getting a mcjob, etc)
How do I motivate myself to do something, instead of an hero?

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Hello /adv/ this is the second time I'm posting here ever, hoping to get legitimate life advice.

My life is a complete mess and not in the sense you'd usually hear. I live with my parents who are by the way amazing people and small brother and sister. My parents have good income and I live in really good conditions and have basically everything I need.

But. I have no direction in life. Everything I was ever interested in, I dropped because it got boring. I even lost interest in my only hobby which was vidya. I either get bored or have fun but because I'm such a compettiive retard I get mad real fast if I lose once, even if I'm generally a good player.

I'm telling my parents that I'm going to take a test that will determine wether I could study the profession I """want""" but secretely I know I'll fail because I can't even study the boring shit I am forced to for this test. I know it is time for me to progress and find my so called profession or goal in life but I have none. My father always told me to study and do what I want but there is no such thing. Every single subject in every univesity that I have searched so far doesn't speak to me, at all. I don't want anything specific either. It is time for me to move on especially since I'm 22 already and 3 of those years were stolen by the government due to mandatory military service.

So /adv/ I'm coming to you today in hopes of an advice to how I can find what I'm looking for. Most people have the dream to get rich, live life the best way and do what they enjoy for the rest of their lives but even if I get rich I won't be enjoying anything anyway, I think.

All advice and criticism welcome.

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Long story short, I want to apply at PSU as an adult student. PSU is the most convenient place for me to attend as multiple campuses in driving distance of me. Unfortunately, I dropped out of school in like 10th/11th grade and had failing grades; I did obtain my GED as soon as I turned 18 and had really high scores.

Is there even a point for me to try to apply as an adult student? I was studying for the SAT to make it look better on me when I apply, but from what I understand it might not even be a factor for adult students. (I asked, but they didn't bother to even reply.)

I'm really good at writing out my thoughts, so I don't think any of the application essays would stump me at all. I'm just not sure if my high school grades would bar me from entry completely. Does anybody here know what the criteria is?

I talked to them like a year ago and got this response, but I don't know if it really means much.

"Admitting adult students requires more art than science sometimes. Our basic philosophy is to try to give a person a chance if at all possible and then let their productivity in our classes determine their path.
The application process will include sending you final HS transcript but also your official GED scores to the University Park campus where they are assembled and shared with our campus. Of course an application will need to be filled out as well."

When I talked to them recently, they responded to my first email, but didn't reply to my follow up question; I'd call them, but I don't want to seem annoying (it's only been 48 hours since the follow up question)

TL;DR - Does an adult student have a chance of getting into PSU with low high school scores but a high GED score?

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Hi, /adv/, im kinda lost right now, bc of this
(im not sure if i can post this here, so forgive me if i shouldnt, im new in this board) :

>me in 2012 - 2013
>met a girl in school, older than me by 2 years
>we dated for some time
>cheats on me with her ex, she was just using me to bring him back, but still tells me she loves me
>says ''i loved you, but i couldnt give you what you wanted''
>im really hurt by what she did
>i became a hikki for 5 years
>lost all my best friends, except for 2
>never talked with other people in that time
>decide to end it for good last year
>change myself as a person
>still afraid of everything, of getting hurt, but decide to do it anyway
>2017
>know friend for 8 years
>same age
>last year he had a gf younger than us
>he loved her, but NTR'd her with the love of his life
>they break up
>added her when they used to date, i always do that with his ex because i like to annoy him
>like her photos on facebook from time to time
>she also likes mine
>time has passed
>tell my friend is weird to like her ex posts and pics
>tells me i should become friends with her
>she barely has friends, only dated twice, family isnt the best around and dont have money, she worked to pay her own school
>''i guess ill talk to her''
>about to message her on FB when she messages me instead, by error
>we chat that day
>and we continued chtting for some time
>we meet IRL
>tells me she cant give me anything at that moment
>tell her i dont mind, as long as im with her
>funny enough, we became a pair two days later
>everything was going fine, some downs here and there

im not sure if i should continue...

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>went over for drinks to 55yo neighbour's house who is shooting blanks, 3 dogs to compensate for kids,
>started randomly going crazy and telling me to join the army
>told me im a loser and asked how the fk I got girls?!
>kept yelling and telling me to join the army (im at uni)
>told me my family (who were coming down to try and claim a share of my dads house, he passed away) are going to rip me limb by limb when my mother passes
wtf is wrong with this guy? my head feels pretty jangled