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>>18648067
get an SO or date or get hookers

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>>18648063
Yes. Took it for severe cystic acne around 3 or so years ago. Acne came back recently, but much less severe now. Considering going back again for a low dose. Had the typical side effects with dry eyes and dry lips. Skin completely dried out too (in a good way) and pores were 100% clear while on Accutane. My eyes and lips are still slightly dry, but not horribly so. Also, developed eczema which I never had before. I also have depression, the biological kind. Accutane didn't worsen it. I wouldn't tell your dermatologist to be honest, he might not prescribe it for you then. For me, it was worth it, even with the permanent stuff, but my acne was quite severe.

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took it for two months and it changed my fucking life, its so good not worrying about my face all day and even my scars are beginning to fade, its nice.

everything is dry as fuck though i gotta moisturize daily and use wet wipes on my ass, but it was worth it imo.

depression set in during that third month so they took me off of it, but it had already done so much good for me that im pretty happy.

>>18648420
>have worse acne than this
>haven't been able to get a derm to prescribe me accutane
Fucking hell

Pic related because she kinda looks like Kirsten Dunst

>>18648006

How old are you OP? Atleast 21 I guess? How old is she?

Basically, you could look at it as you fucked things up, or that she just has ridiculous expectations for a man, or a date (most westernized, feminized women do). Essentially, if shes not trying to initiate contact with you anymore, just cut sling (let her ass go).

Id say don't text her anymore.

Don't let yourself care about what women think of you, either they like you or they don't, plus the more you cultivate your "Zero fucks left to give" attitude, the more bitches will want you.

>>18648018

I'm 23 and she's the same age.

>>18647999
A few different ways.

The most surefire way, is to get fit, and learn to fight, either with a weapon or your bare hands. If you're a dude, work on your back, chest and arm muscles, don't forget your legs. If you a thot, do the same until you start to get uncomfortable with your image, then dress to hide the muscles you don't like.

For both sexes, an easy, and maybe fun/uncomfortable way to boost your confidence is to make solid unflinching eye contact with random ass people. If they look away first, you "win", if you look away first, you "lose". Its an intimidation thing, animals and humans both have this behavior. Give it a try

>>18647999

confidence is the belief in the truth of something. so self confidence is simply the belief in the truth of your self. you need a truth in order to be confident. Attractive men are confident because they know they are attractive. When a fat ugly guy tries to act confident hes laughed at cuz all hes doing is being arrogant.

but those are two different ends to a spectrum. most people are somewhere in the middle, and most of those people in the middle have confidence in the idea that their looks arent the end all be all, that while they may not be super hot, they arent ugly, so they can be confident in knowing that all other 'mildly attractive women' in the same league as them are more interested in finding someone who matches with them on a personality level.

>>18648028
This. Also don't blink

>>18647998
seems like a win-win situation to me

it benefits you because: get to "practice" sex skills, picking up girls skills, social skills, etc to prepare you for when you find a girl you actually like a lot

it benefits her because: she may not get much sex otherwise if she is too ugly for most guys

just make sure its obvious that you're only fucking them and not looking to start a relationship

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>>18647998
1. 5/10 isnt ugly, it is called average.
2. Using x/10 rating suggest how immature you are, consider stopping it.
3. Casual sex is casual sex. Nothibg spectacular. Ever had gf you loved? Try that instead.
4. Why are you doing something you feel bad about aftetwards? Stupid?
5. It will have no consequences provided you wont tell about your sexual history to your wife. Almost nobody wants to do anything with slut (both male and female)
6. Get tested?
7. Nice humble brag.

>>18647998
Aren't 5s and 6s average? There is nothing wrong with an average chick. Now if you think some huge fatty is a 5 or 6, there is something wrong with you.

why are you socially stunted anon

>>18647991
Your generation is clinically retarded.
To heal just go back to your roots.
This is why nationalism will inevitably will come back worldwide. Nations can't survive without it as long as generations are raised to be autistic.
Just think of yourself through the eyes of society: could you do what your ancestors, or parents did? Work, have a family, build things, be meaningful? If yes, do that. If no, fix yourself.

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>>18648013
I wasted my years of early youth holed up in my house, afraid of interacting with other kids / teens. At around age 17, I conquered my social anxiety and stopped wasting my life on vidya and other pointless shit.
Doesn't change the fact that I'm leagues behind others my own age. I want to do all the stuff I never got the chance to do, but I'm afraid I might look silly doing it.
I always wanted to learn and do board sports. By that I mean surfing, snowboarding, and skateboarding / longboarding. I've been saving up and putting aside money from wagecucking to get the gear and equipment so I can practice at it. Also guitar. I always wanted to learn guitar.
In about two years, I'm planning on enlisting with the US Army because even though I could get into college if I wanted, I don't want to drop 80k on a degree that could get me nowhere. I want to be a journalist / writer, so I'm planning on entering the military as MOS 46Q which is essentially a military journalist. I might do the GI Bill, but I've heard that the experience you gain from working in the military is good enough on its own to net you a job when you leave. Especially a job as a journalist, where degrees have started to drop off in employment value.
I want to know if I still have time to be youthful, still have time to learn all the things, skills, abilities, and talents I never got to learn.

>>18647984
You need god

>>18647984
>a 0.05% chance

So you admit there's a chance? Thats all you need fag

>>18647984
Ya I spent my middle school and high school life dead inside with no emotions. Your doing what I did. "I have to be successful or kill myself there's no choice" there are an infinite amount of other choices. Stop pushing your self so hard and stop over complicating you situation. Life can be fun, relaxing and rewarding. But your perception is seriously twisted.

Supposedly, but does not work for everyone.
Never did for me at least. I've been doing regular exercise for years and the only thing I've ever felt while doing it is miserable, tired, and sweaty.

>>18647978
Yes, exercise improves your mental health 100%. Just go on jogs, do pushups, crunches, etc.

Exercise and fitness does improve mental wellbeing. It will boost your confidence and contribute to a positive perception of yourself.

As for frequency, 30 minutes a day, 3-5 days a week of moderately intense exercise is a good starting point. Add more time per day for less intense workouts. Ideally you should do a mix of cardio and strength training. Go out and run and pick up heavy things. Google bodyweight work outs you can do at home.

Or just take a shower and cut your hair

>>18647974
Look people in the eyes when speaking to them.

Stand up straight.

Talk from your diaphragm.

Think thoughts that make you feel confident.

Stop thinking thoughts that make you feel unconfident.

>>18647974
Just be yourself, but pretend that you look like someone extremely confident

>>18647973
She's framing the situation into that you ignored her, while you say you honestly didn't. By you accepting you fucked up, you're now begging, letting her have more power in the relationship dynamics.

You should reframe it to that she's overreacting and say that you were busy.

Either way, you both should have productive lives outside of the relationship, y'know?

>>18647983
its not about the productive life, but about that I said I will never ignore her and I did. I didnt want to ignore her but I did it unintentionally

>>18647989
What happened? How did you ignore her?

how hard were you going god damn

>>18647956
Damn wish I got head from you holy shit

But really you're probably fine so long he didn't have any std

Jesus Christ was he slamming your head between the wall and his power thrust?

>>18647942
bump

Probs amazon

>>18647942
Check your school library for the book. If they dont have it they may be able to request it from another one that does. Been doing this the past couple years and has worked for me.

>>18647926
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assassination_of_Andrei_Karlov

next time if you feel industrious you can take the picture in to paint, crop it so it's just the guy on the left, save the file, and then do an image search on the internet

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I forgot sorry

He's probably more than willing to help you. Unless he's talking about negative things, you're fine.

Gym instructors are ridiculously nice and tolerant.

t.6 years as gym receptionist

>>18647897
The instructor's main concern here is making sure he doesn't tell you to do something that's going to cause you injury. He was probably taking with the other instructor about possible alternatives to squats which won't aggravate your foot problem.

>>18647890

probably just overstimulated. go camping in the woods for a few days and turn your phone off. this will help reset your brain./

I went on a camping trip before the summer ended, I liked it but I can't help but feel loneliness

>>18647890
find a hobby, go to the gym, try a new TV show or movie, get out of your normal cycle

also >that image