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You're on crack, OP. You need some rehab. It's okay, it's not your fault. You've been conditioned to think it's normal to behave like this, no different than anybody else.

Stopping this all is easy. All you have to do, is disconnect from the electronic world. From the world of vibrancy, and pretty colors. The world of instant gratification, and artificial pleasures. Embrace boredom, and acknowledge it. Boredom spurs action, and creativity. Purposeful action.

You acknowledge that in your ingestion of this media specifically tailored for you by the worlds largest corporation is the source of your complacency and lack of will. That the fads you see come to fruition and pass are controlled and moderated by large corporations to push their own agendas.

Recognize your own individuality, OP. Wake up, and lead your own life.

>>18649758
I’ll try, Anon.

>>18649758
It's not that the media is addicting, but that you're using the media to avoid writing the report.

I'm 100% sure you would be in the smae exact situation even without Netflix, Youtube, etc.

At the very least, you need to commit to completing small goals (Pomodoro technique, etc.)

>>18649744
Björk's album Vulnicura? Though that might make things worse.

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>>>/b/
either ask for an actual advice or follow pic related

>>18649744
Realize that depression isn't real.

https://youtu.be/eeWjzBHUdsI

>>18649743
lol pretty much

>>18649739
You're introverted.
Humans are social beings and crave the company of others.
Essentially you want attention, but in moderation to what you're comfortable with.

Its normal and happens to a lot of introverted people.

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>>18649715
Your mother has to be Jewish to become a Jew yourself, they are protective of their race. You cant join them, you have to be born into it

>>18649808
Not true.

Formal conversion requires meeting with and lessons from a rabbi.

But why do it formally? You can learn and adopt the ethical framework without formal conversion, and anyone is welcome to temple services if you like the rituals.

>>18649715
>How do I find someone to talk to about converting?
There are these things called synagogues where need congregate to worship, they organize in a thing called a congregation, typically led by someone called a rabbi, you talk to the rabbi about converting and they will provide you with options. You will have varying levels of success depending on how orthodox the congregation is.
>What do I read? I like their ethics and want to join the cabal
It's called the Torah, but considering the way you describe a congregation and your inability to use Google I think learning Hebrew is probably far beyond your mental capabilities.

Up

Uuuup

I totally know what you're saying man...

In the moment of things it's at best "decent", then afterwards it's just suffering.

They say love is comparable to a cocaine addiction.

Be glad you don't have to bear this huge fucking brunt of thinking about her all day and every moment is so ecstatic and blissful everything else loses its taste. Then she goes to fucking Panama and you lose her because of your adoration

>>18649681
That's normal. You're probably a depressed cuck and you're experiencing love and nostalgia at the same time.

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will last longer then any T series and is made out of magnesium alloy

>>18649687

Thanks, I had to do a little bit of research to find one that wasn't so long and expensive to ship (I'm in france), but I got one,

>>18649687
>longer then any T series
Proof?
>>18649654
>Battery life
X230 or X220 + 9 cell + battery slice + extra battery
You can get about 24+ hours depending on your usage and settings.

15' is big and weight a lot, so you better get X series, or get 14' T series.
And it's preferably to get something with 3rd gen CPU at least for better iGPU performance, or go for C2D for true freedom.

Try reading the thinkpad wiki on >>>/g/tpg/

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i want to just pin one of them down and take what I deserve as a hard working male

Pic related is what I see so often because the neighboring campus has a ton of Asians as well, so I have to see gorgeous Asian women as well constantly with such amazing fucking soft silky hair and shaved clean smooth pale legs that make me get a boner if I stare too long

We need Sharia law holy fuck

>>18649632

well the point of nofap is that it encourages you to have sex with these girls.

>>18649619

a lot of people make threads asking how to kill themselves.

as for your situation, consider going ot the bank and taking out a personal loan or line of credit. you can get 3000 even if you don't have any credit score, at least I was able to.

use that to room with someone in a shared room situation while you job hunt. then save up some money, then get your own room.

Which bank did you go to?

>>18649597
You are actually not alone, though few people react as you do. Half the teenage boys in the world think sex is something only guys want and girls have to be talked/conned into.

The only sure cure is to find a woman you know to be so strong that she could not be talked/conned into anything she didn't want, so that you had to believe that she was doing it because SHE wanted it. Show your girlfriend the respect of believing she is that woman.

>I tall to a therapist
>I prefer the inexperienced counselors of 4chan.

Stop.

It you actually made your gf cum you wouldn't be in doubt

The only difference is that they don't crave it as much as we do every short while if not provoked to. But if you private them from sex for a while and then tease them, they'll want it even more than we do, you're basically starving and waving flesh to a beast.

Yes, the withdrawal from oxycotin or whatever the hell it is will wear off. It varies for everyone.

I'm three months in, and it's getting better.

Buck up OP, you will survive.

>>18649593
It hurts but eventually the hormones in your brain that made you feel that way will wear off in the mean time i recommend picking up a hobby it helps fight the and will help keep her out of your thoughts

Keep yourself busy. This is the best time to focus on yourself and make yourself stronger.

>>18649584
My mom recently cut her finger about that bad. She should have gotten stitches, but she didn't want to be late for work. I think she just kept gauze and a topical antibiotic on it and it seems to be healing just fine. I think you will be, too. Gently clean it with warm water and anti-bacterial soap if you haven't already. S'bout it. Good luck, OP.

>>18649584
Can you extend your furthest thumb joint completely against resistance? If so, the tendons are fine.

Are there any patches of numbness or altered sensation around the tip of your thumb? If yes, then you've damaged a nerve. At that site, it's probably too small to repair anyway.

He looked like he was afraid of me. He probably was.

He'll forget about it. Next time if you wanna talk grown up do it in private.

>>18649604
Wish I would've. Been hard with the wife to even get her to talk period. Let alone in the same room together alone.

She hasn't tried to contact you so better start moving on.

Seems like her and her family might be trying to break off from their past. Is there something you're not telling us? Did you nail their gutted cat to the front door as a sign of affection?

>>18649560

>dating
>no phone numbers

why?

>>18649576
Their wifi is always been shit, so it would take a while for it so she could message me. The only thing that was bad is that our parents got into a argument that made me and her grow closer. They are constantly on the move and they have to deal with shitty hotel wifi. I tried contacting facebook, but it seems that they ha be no such thing with emails or the such, so me trying to contact them for my girlfriend's email seems pointless at this point.
Besides, she isn't one to disappear, she would have told me she wanted to break up, that's the type of girl she is.

>>18649547
Hey I work in a grocery store and we have a young cool boss too.

He's great because he's chill, easy to talk to, cares about his employees, but is also an effective manager and makes things run smoothly. I think the trick is to take your job seriously enough, but not too seriously. Don't be petty and be able to take suggestions from people under you and you're already in the top 1% of retail management. Some old people will just never respect a young manager. Fuck em. What they *will* respect is a competent and supportive leader, regardless of your age, so just focus on that, and don't take things personally. Respect often finds its way to those who deserve it.

>>18649547
Just don't be a fag

I'm in a similar situation, I've learned to just not give a fuck about wether or not they like me. Instead I focus on doing my job and running the store. I find its tougher with the ones I've started friendships with over 2 years but again if they don't respect me enough to not slack around while I'm managing then who needs them or cares?
As a female with 99% female coworkers and the ones my age (early 20s) loving to gossip, I've learnt to shrug my shoulders and move on. I get paid more and give them all the shit tasks if I really want too plus I'm getting my shit together and forming an independent life while they still rely on their parents to get to and from work.