[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 379. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

File: 18j1k32p4t8zpjpg.jpg (104KB, 800x1062px) Image search: [Google]
18j1k32p4t8zpjpg.jpg
104KB, 800x1062px
Is anyone working in high-end prothesis/Augs?
What path should i take to get there? I guess mechanical is the best major to take, but there are so many related to augs, like neuroscience and biomed.
4 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18650790
I took mechanical cos I was interested in this field. Still working my way thru the degree and might get a masters in biomed engineering
>>
>>18650790
get an engineering degree then go to med school. the kind of career you are talking about takes 20+ years of schooling to achieve.
>>
Mechatronics

File: Fucking satan.jpg (31KB, 365x434px) Image search: [Google]
Fucking satan.jpg
31KB, 365x434px
How do I deal with these little shits? Theyre raiding my house every day and Im getting tired of killing them one by one
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18650787
Google pest controll and call them that you need their services.

File: IMG_4527.jpg (58KB, 1600x900px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_4527.jpg
58KB, 1600x900px
How do I move to a big city from the middle of nowhere? I don't think doing it sensibly is possible can I just get on a greyhound and sell drugs or some shit

Being homeless is better than being here
5 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>Being homeless is better than being here

how can you be so certain
>>
>>18650780
Well there's no jobs except milking cows everything is like a 40-50 minute drive there and back and I have to drive that far with no car just to work part time and everything is low paying as fuck and there's nothing to do but work on a farm for nothing or cut trees neither of which I'm doing and the city has more drugs money and birches and I can go to college or pursue my music career
>>
>>18650773
Before you move like a retard, get a job first. No job, no moving there. FIRST GET A JOB!

https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html

File: 1503499621567.png (440KB, 956x657px) Image search: [Google]
1503499621567.png
440KB, 956x657px
How long should i chat with a girl on tinder to ask her for a date? I've been fooling around with one for almost 5 days now. How can i tell if she's ready?
6 posts and 3 images submitted.
>>
>>18650746
Preferably within 1 to 5 hours
>5 days
Never gonna make it
>>
File: sug of dick.png (596KB, 1765x1043px) Image search: [Google]
sug of dick.png
596KB, 1765x1043px
>>18650746
>>
File: mommy figure.jpg (178KB, 1080x1349px) Image search: [Google]
mommy figure.jpg
178KB, 1080x1349px
>>18650837
>killed a midged
10/10

>>18650746
Once you run out of topics to talk about, get their number. And then ask them on date. Preferably within first convo.

File: 1466739586104.gif (2MB, 500x335px) Image search: [Google]
1466739586104.gif
2MB, 500x335px
I talked to someone about an experience I had and they recommended I be checked for schizoid personality disorder. I looked it up and a lot of it seems like it could relate to me...

But I also think that it might just be bullshit. what do
9 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18650732
Are you in school? Do you have money for a psychiatrist? Definitely go and talk to someone. You can apply for disability which will pay for medication and even more.
>>
>>18650733
not in school, been a NEET for a year. I have the money for one. also I've heard that I should see a psychologist instead of a psychiatrist, not really interested in medicine
>>
>>18650737
I cant remember which is which. One has a medical degree while the other doesnt. Go to the one who needs a medical degree.

File: 1503395862431.jpg (39KB, 343x481px) Image search: [Google]
1503395862431.jpg
39KB, 343x481px
14 months ago i had a one night stand with a girl while i was on vacation.
I didnt use a condom because im retarded but she told me not to worry about it, even though she wasnt o the pill. I asked her name but never contacted her again.
I know from her instagram and fb that she didnt have babby. Now should i contact her?I feel guilty about it.
5 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18650719
Sounds like they're a 0.2% chance she even remembers you.
>>
>>18650727
First 6 months i was worried as fuck desu.
Wouldnt she remmeber me as the guy that made her buy a morning afterpill?
>>
>>18650731
Getting pregnant is actually really difficult. If she had recently had a period then its actually fairly impossible for her to get pregnant. Even if she was ovulating the vagina actively tries to kill sperm so only the strongest cells survive. You dont get pregnant every time. She could have just not have cared and done nothing about it. Especially if she is just a slut.

File: maxresdefault.jpg (123KB, 1533x961px) Image search: [Google]
maxresdefault.jpg
123KB, 1533x961px
Soooo I actually got a girls number about a week ago. Been texting each otherm, I think it's going good, but I am on 4chan so I might as well be fucking retarded. Anyways, We've been trading compliments and shit. Tried asking her meet and shit. However, the problem is shit don't work. She be comming up with excuses and shit, like - I'm hanging out with friends, I don't have money for cinema.
So /adv/ am I cucked? Should I send a dick pic to make sure?
8 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Don't send dick pic. Don't try and repair it. Be real and ask her if she actually wants to hang? If she doesn't, move on
>>
>>18650689

if a girl says she cant afford something the response is generally 'my treat'. this indicates its a date and if shes interested should go along. its not foolproof but its a step forward.

that being said, you are neither alpha nor beta. alpha and beta are the polar extremes, whereas most people live somewhere on the middle. its a spectrum.

the fact that you're asking instead of addressing your actual issues sounds like you swing closer to beta than alpha, but most of us are just barely outside of the very middle.
>>
How about posting the chat. Could be that she might be really busy or she is rejecting you soft. Usually girls make time for the guys they like.

File: pylot wallpaper.jpg (1MB, 2100x2100px) Image search: [Google]
pylot wallpaper.jpg
1MB, 2100x2100px
I dated my ex for almost 7 years, we started when we were both 18. This is our 4th time breaking up, the first two times I don't recall, the third was because I was 23 and wanted to see what other women were out there, but I came back to her.

This last time, I really fucked up. I got into a bit of a rut and lost confidence in myself. I projected my insecurities onto her, all the while she stood by me. Eventually though, a woman could only take so much and she broke up with me on bad terms. During this time, I avoided her but I'd see her at the gym, or reading a book outside the gym (it's at an outdoor mall area). This went on for about 2 months before I realized my fuck up.

I texted her apologizing, sent her flowers and a letter. Told her I wanted her back. She told me to move on, to work on myself, and that she can't tell the future. She said she needed time to be single and that I needed it too.

A few weeks had gone by and I was making a huge effort to improve myself, for myself. I came up with a plan to get her back. A really heartfelt, but clear letter. I was set to give it to her this Tuesday.

On the Saturday before the Tuesday of my plan, I ran into her at the store. We exchanged some small talk, and then I lost it. Told her I missed her. She awkwardly smiled and told me she doesnt know what to say that. I said "nothing to say" and said bye and left. I got home and proceeded to text her. I figured I might as well expedite my plan since I ran into her today. I thought I was being a man by committing to my plan but she saw it as a dick waving contest, me just trying to do this for my own pride. She told me to fuck off, leave her alone because she's never coming back, and to move on.

The next day, I went to the gym with a buddy and saw her on a date with some dude from Tinder. I know she had been on tinder for like 2 weeks or so, so I reckon this dude is pretty new.

The break up was in May, just to give a time frame.

Anyways, I'm pretty beat up... 1/2
3 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
Honestly dude,

Almost everyone is replacable; replace her.

Keep the "she's the one" bs to yourself.
Work on yourself as she said, without comming back to her.

Stop making a fool out of yourself.

Work out harder, meet new chicks and fuck other women
>>
File: GHOST_CRAB_2.jpg (2MB, 2444x1752px) Image search: [Google]
GHOST_CRAB_2.jpg
2MB, 2444x1752px
>>18650683
You're putting so much pressure on her you're pushing her away.

cut contact with her and work on yourself

I'm living with a guy that projects his insecurity onto me and I fucking hate it.


Sort yourself the fuck out man.

You didn't lose her when you broke up, you did it when you fucking tried to FORCE her to come back to you like a pathetic dog.

women want REAL men.

man up pussy

I made the same mistakes

Women want to feel you're PASSIONATE about them

You're coming off as OBSESSED

Bad! Learn the fucking difference give her a few months breather and see if you actually still want her at all


I know I wanted my ex for a few months after but I'm fucking glad I didn't go back to her.

File: 1436613301644.jpg (79KB, 640x566px) Image search: [Google]
1436613301644.jpg
79KB, 640x566px
What are some things I, or anyone, should know about moving out for the first time?

I currently live with my parents and pay all my bills except my phone bill. I've been working for a few months at a new place and can move out and pay for my bills comfortably. I'd probably move to a 1b/1b around $400-$800 range. I'm scared as fuck but I know I need to do it soon. My gf is losing her place at the end of the year and my parents are holding me back in life and driving me crazy.

Any useful information would help!
3 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Biggest one of all:

Work out your household budget. Work out what your outgoings are going to be, on average, so you know not to overspend.

This may not appeal to everyone, but I've arranged to have all of my bills happen on the same day. So my gas, electric, rent, etc. is all due at the same day of each month. I find this a lot easier to deal with. I basically pay all my bills once a month on the same day.

Have one day a week that you keep aside for chores ie. laundry day, cleaning day.

Have spare keys cut and give a trusted neighbour/gf/parents/friends a set so that if you ever get locked out you know where to go.

Keep a book where you keep all your online account usernames, telephone numbers, etc . When I need to call the utility companies I have a book that contains all the numbers I need to call, and my account number, etc.
>>
Almost never post (hardcore lurker) but as someone who moved out 4 years ago here is what I learned.

Dont move into black neighborhoods: Call me a /pol/ nazi if you want, but black neighborhoods are shit, you will hate every second of it and will get robbed. Just make sure you scope out the area your moving into, I made this mistake when I moved into my first apartment..... never again.

Plan your budget: For example my brother and I moved in together, for awhile I was the only one working and we spent $735 on a 2bed 2bath, around $300 for food, $100 for internet, and about $60-$70 on power, and $35 a month for the gym, anything after this was extra spending money.

GET RID OF YOUR SHIT NOW! You do not want boxes of crap in your apartment for years, we tried to save stuff we thought we might use (really old clothes, extra mattress, old school books, ect), lose literally all the shit you havnt touched in a year because odds are you wont touch it again, I cant stress this enough. (we ended up taking a full sized u-haul truck and making 2 trips to the dump to get rid of all the stuff we let sit around for 2 years)

Keep stuff clean: aka no fridgebro or you will get ants/fruit flies.

Honestly anon dont sweat it to much, its scary at first but after 1-2 months you will enjoy the freedom, wish you luck mate!

File: maxresdefault-1.jpg (182KB, 1280x720px) Image search: [Google]
maxresdefault-1.jpg
182KB, 1280x720px
>Girlfriend Was on Tinder texting 10+ Dudes
> Promised me it was all for attention, because we were going through rough patch
> Our friends confirmed she didn't see anyone
> Broke up with her anyway
> Friends confirm she went back on tinder right after we broke up.
>Been Six Months
>She still wants me back

Should I give it another shot?
13 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
This is your opportunity to move on, and see what else the world has to offer.
>>
Hell no, that's disgusting. At least you got out originally. Don't cuck yourself again
>>
>>18650631
That depends anon. Can you see it working out long term? Have both of you changed as people in some way after the break up?

Hey, so I've fucked up royally in college. Meaning I'm 24 and only in my second year.
Everyone I know had/has very high expectations of me because prior to that I was a high achiever.

This leads me to two related scenarios:

1. I had to take time off work to try and repeat part of my course (they failed me any way :') ) so everyone in work knows that. They ask me if it went well.

2. On dates people inevitably ask what I do in college, and I don't want to lie. But when I tell the truth it lets me down.

In both scenarios my problem is that I'll try to tell the truth in a relatively positive way. Then they'll poke and poke until they get to the truly negative underbelly truth and suddenly I'm like pouring my heart out explaining why I keep having to repeat.

This has both ruined dates, and lately made people in work kind of avoid me because they're afraid I'll like dump all my problems on them I suppose.

So what I want to know is how do I tell people the truth of the matter without the entire story unravelling or in a normie false positive way?

Or do normies just lie?

Pls halp.
Thanks you sweeties XxxxX
7 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
Sounds to me like you cant stop vomiting your sad backstory onto anyone wholl talk to you. I mean you dont have to say shit about the details you could literally just say oh im studying X at colleg ive got X time left looking forward to then haha. Like how fucking hard is it to spin that shit how you want, just downplay it like who really gives a fuck nibba. Get over youre inferiority complex theres plenty of fuckups worse than you who didnt even give it a second try
>>
>>18650638
Honestly I try but the thing is because I'm 24 they start asking questions.
I always just say as little as possible but they begin to ask more and more questions.
>>
You sound so much like me.

Face your shadows. Straight up admit you have a hard time with your studies. Seek student counseling.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=v0Qm8I2cCAE

File: IMG_4729.jpg (31KB, 640x608px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_4729.jpg
31KB, 640x608px
How do I encourage my boyfriend to lose 100 pounds when he doesn't care to?
9 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Find another bf
>>
>>18650599
Dumping him might help. He'll either lose the weight or kill himself.
>>
Information.
Why do you say he doesn't care to?
Does he even know this is an issue to you?
Is this a new development?

File: tumblr_otc89lIk951vxv9sbo1_540.png (275KB, 540x504px) Image search: [Google]
tumblr_otc89lIk951vxv9sbo1_540.png
275KB, 540x504px
Hey /adv/ femanon here, I'm an out of shape shit and I want to get healthy, but working out is the most soul crushingly boring thing I've ever done and it's super hard to get motivated when I'd rather watch paint dry than go to the gym for an hour and do monotonous tasks on the machines in silence.
I figure if I could get into a sport it might make exercising more fun at least.

The only catch is I have a deformity in my knees that keep me from anything that involves putting too much strain on them, very heavy lifting, long term running, and jumping are ill advised for me according to my doctor. I also figure I should try to stick to more "feminine" sports since A.) it's difficult to find coed teams and B.) guys tend to get too competitive for my taste anyway and I don't want to let them down lol.
I'm thinking Tennis, never played tennis before in my life though outside the unit in high school P.E.
I'm looking for something that can help me lose the most weight and be the most active but also fall within those set perimeters.

Or alternatively if you have any tips on making the gym more fun and interesting I'm all ears for that too. Other than just "change up ur routine"
5 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Cycling is fun.
>>
Listen to music or audiobooks
>>
>>18650577
Yeah I do that lol, I can't imagine what the hell you'd do at the gym if you didn't have an ipod or something. When I'm on the treadmill I have my tablet playing a tv show or something. But that's kinda boring to me too, my attention spans short for those kinds of things.
I've been trying to learn another language and usually use that time to do my duolingo app stuff but it's hard to hold a phone while bouncing around.

>>18650574
School is offering a couple free classes for the start of the semester, but I was looking for something that might be more of a game. Suppose you can race though. (And I won't lie, I would do good to meet some new people as will since all my friends have graduated already and left me behind)

File: IMG_0350.jpg (72KB, 720x701px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_0350.jpg
72KB, 720x701px
Where the lawyers at?
99 in a 70, in VA, driving back from jersey, first offense, didn't know it was such a serious offense in VA, in the military, I chose not to get them involved and handle this quietly, about to deploy, have a court date, should I get a lawyer?
5 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
There are road law specialists you can pay to make this shit go away. Usually cost around ~400$ I sideswiped some cunt on a dirt road and they whined to the cops to charge me with dangerous driving. Paid some traffic law company and they made it go away.
>>
>>18650562
I always want to know why someone is speeding? Is it because it's fun to go fast or were you hurrying somewhere?
>>
>>18650597
Both

File: amazon_logo_500500.png (14KB, 500x500px) Image search: [Google]
amazon_logo_500500.png
14KB, 500x500px
Guys I'm in a pickle

>Live in Italy
>Bought graphics card from amazon France
>Dies 8 months after purchase
>Contact Amazon France to make use of Warranty
>They give me a return label to place on the package and 2 commercial invoices to place inside the package
>Do the thing
>Go to the post office
>I'm told they need to apply their own label over my own
>Back off from sending it until I get more info from Amazon.fr
>I only get premade replies in broken engrish from their poo in the loo support

What am I supposed to do? I'm in a bind here.
3 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18650558
>>18650573
>>
>>18650605

But what if they need to cover the label on the larger box? It sounded like they wanted to hide the barcode because they had their own, but I don't know if amazon uses this barcode to recognize my refund request.

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [369] [370] [371] [372] [373] [374] [375] [376] [377] [378] [379] [380] [381] [382] [383] [384] [385] [386] [387] [388] [389] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.