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Pent Up Rage and an Inconsiderate GF 2017-08-23 08:48:39 Post No.18651178
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Pent Up Rage and an Inconsiderate GF
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I am angry person ever since I quit smoking the ganj. Now I'm left with the emotions that I didn't deal with from my parent's divorce. To make matters worse, I'm currently dating an inconsiderate GF that gave me chlamydia at the beginning of the relationship. We just saw the guy that gave it to her today and she bitched him out in front of me and I feel incredibly embarrassed and even though he was respectful about it in that moment I was ready to murder him and leave my girlfriend. I don't know how to deal with the hideous rage that dwells in my heart. I try working out but I just get bigger stronger and even more testosterone filled. How would you have dealt with the situation? I expressed my displeasure with my girlfriend's actions, but she thinks she was in the right "for embarrassing him".
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>he has a life
well you know, you can always become emo
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How long ago did you quit smoking weed? I know plenty of people that baked almost 24/7, and when they stopped they became seriously irritable and moody. It took them a while to adjust, but they eventually did.
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>>18651218
I had a brownie yesterday but it's not like smoking IMO, makes me paranoid and I don't get the relief from my emotions. But yeah I can completely relate considering *on some level* I want to murder someone right now. Granted I wouldn't, but the anger is so intense it's hard to stifle.
How do you tell if a girl is just being friendly or if there's something more
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw
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>>18651175
Ask her on a date and flirt with her,
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Hey /adv/,
I am thinking about just walking out on my job as a Contact Center Agent at a Credit Union and chasing my dream of becoming an actor. I wouldn't normally think about walking out, but because of odd circumstances, I was hired back with the expectation that I would stay for a long time, but I feel like my soul is being sucked from my body doing meaningless work 8 hours a days with an hour and a half commute. I plan on finding some part-time job to pay the bills while I peruse my passion.
What are your thoughts on this? Should I give two weeks knowing that my boss will upset since I was hired on with the expectation to stay employed for a long period of time? Should I just walk out and find a part-time job while working on my dream? Every single day I stay is hell knowing I am not doing what I aspire to do, but I am also scared because I'll be violating the condition that got me hired in the first place.
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Don't quit your day job senpai
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Do it as a side shtick, keep a cash flow
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>>18651154
How do we know you're not acting now?
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>20 years old
>Decided to go ahead and lose virginity
>Hooked up with some girl on Tinder
>Got cold sore from herpes I could've only contracted from that girl
Does anyone here know how to deal with herpes?
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>>18651136
Yeah. You go to a medical professional.
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>>18651136
You have it the rest of your life.
Congratz!
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>>18651136
Contact her and then go to the doctor. Also if she knew you can probably sue her, save any text you had.
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how to keep friendships afloat? 2017-08-23 08:30:05 Post No.18651133
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how to keep friendships afloat?
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hi yall,
so i entered college 3 years ago as a shy, self loathing dude. Despite that i forced myself to be extra sociable in the first days and actually managed to meet people. Eventually over the semesters we grew in a tightly knit group of friends. Some new people came in, some went away but this group kinda stayed the same. In these 3 years I became more and more social and actually enjoyed each day.
But now we're at a point on our cursus where we're either in internships or abroad. And my old habits came again. It's been 2 months since I saw them irl, and it made me feel real lonely. That in turn pushes me to isolate myself and being mostly silent in the different group chats. It's the usual cycle, you isolate yourself and you get upset cause you're lonely (fucking dumb, right). Anyway as time passes I feel as if I'm drifting away from them and it's more and more difficult to talk to them. It seems kinda out of place to just come back out of the blue an tell them "I was doubting your friendship and didn't talk to you but what's up!". Feels cringy and selfish.
Sorry for the long text, but i needed to vent somewhere.
tl;dr : i used to be surrounded by friends and now feel disconnected.
What are your advices for dealing with loneliness/keeping contact with friends?
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hahah same here bro
You are right, it is kinda cringy and selfish.
But I think, or I want to think that all that sense comes front the same idea of self-isolation, the reality might be different from "you doubting their friendship". It´s kinda hard to just ignore someone who was your friend for 3 years. But I really ask myself why they dont send a message of "Hello" or something one of these days, if someone is going to call first it'll be me and that just makes it very annoying again.
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Alright /adv/,
so I'm not gonna break the mould here but appreciate any insight you can offer.
>go to local stores.
>see cute cashier.
>have to contain the Spagetti.
>still manage a pleasant interaction (smiles, long eye contact).
>saw her a few more times, always the same.
>tired of creeping around, not making a move.
I'm normally not that awkward, I've had girlfriends before, but those I met at social situations. Something about THIS situation is blocking me.
I feel like there is mutual sympathy (see above) and she always straightens her hair when she sees me in line. So unless I am completely off, my chances are not that bad. (I look average to decent, have a good job, many friends, etc. ) But I feel like I can't play to my strengths with her.
Social interaction wasn't that hard for me since my early school days.
What should I do? How should I go about it?
I'd also take general advice. Thanks
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>confusing her flirting with her doing her job
Wew lad. Not worth it.
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>>18651124
Don't listen to that guy. What he says is true, only if you're instantly wanting sex with the girl. Which is usually very likely to make you give off creepy/needy vibes. If she's good looking and you like her appearance, as in she matches your taste, then you're actually interested in her as a person. That's how I like to think of it. And at the end of the day, you're just a person interested in another person. Hence why there is nothing abnormal about it. Unless she has a boyfriend, she is likely to be very flattered.
Just act like you're interested and appreciate her. Say hi, ask her how she is. Small talk. After the ice is broken you can continue onto asking her out some other day.
Good luck.
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>>18651124
I don't think my social compass is that fucked. I know friendly and "friendly".
Other cashieresses (is that a word?) don't give me the same vibe, even if they are friendly.
>>18651134
Thanks.
Well I'm not gonna lie and say I didn't have sexual thoughts about her, but she's very cute and I am firstly concerned of getting to know her.
What you say makes a lot of sense,
Just a bit thrown by the different circumstances.
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Is there something that makes a person the antithesis of girls? I'm a guy, very smart, good looking, have a good job and life overall. I also have a lot of friends I do stuff with, going to lots of vacations and doing a lot of cool crazy shit. I can say I have a relatively awesome life, but for the life of me, I can't get a gf. No, wait, I can probably bullshit a girl to get with me but it usually ends within the month.
In the meanwhile I'm very sociable and funny and I make friends everywhere I go. Am I too much of a friend material? How do I improve on my sex appeal/make girls fall in love with me beyond friend shit?
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You recognize a tree by the fruit it bears. One of the things you believe about yourself must come across differently; see to it and fix it.
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Is it weird to prefer in person college classes as opposed to online?
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It would be weirder to prefer online. Interacting with real human beings isn't weird.
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Everyone's different, it also depends on your profs, size of class, h much feed back you get etc. Sometimes online is better because you get more 1 on 1 feedback
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>>18651087
Depends on if you want social interaction or if you prefer to learn alone.
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I recently met a new group of people.
They're very cool and friendly. They've been very understanding with all my anxiety and insecurity issues. They're very good people
However, in the background, part of me doesn't stop screaming to just cut contact and get away from them. Even when they're really understanding, I feel like a burden by my sheer presence alone.
What stops me is the thought that I'll leave behind a horrible image of me in their minds. They'll keep talking about this weird guy who behaved very weirdly and just disappeared one day for years to come. But then again maybe it will be better than the stress of being in company with other people.
Why do I always fuck up. Why. Why do I always let people down. Fuck. I hate this.
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>>18651074
You're letting your self down, not really them. Friends grow together if they are true. Overtime you will feel you fit in more.
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Is a GED actually useful outside of trades? 2017-08-23 07:39:18 Post No.18651049
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Is a GED actually useful outside of trades?
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Or should I just give up and finally kill myself.
In Canada, btw.
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I'm sure it's somewhat useful. I would imagine that having a GED doesn't make your job application absolutely void because I would literally just shred anyone's application that lack even that.
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Well, yeah, I mean it's obviously more useful than nothing.
I guess what I'm really asking is, is it even worth trying to move on when I'll always have doors closed for me by having a GED and not a diploma?
I really feel like I should just end it, rather than pointlessly trying to salvage what I can.
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>>18651086
>doors closed for me by having a GED and not a diploma?
Not sure about Canada, but I feel like in the U.S. GED and diploma's are the same in that they both don't get you jack shit. If you don't have some sort of bachelor's or any kind of degree or any kind you're fucked royally whether you have a GED or a actual diploma alone.
>is it even worth trying to move on
Move on to what?. If you plan on entering and racing past someone or even competing with someone that has some kind of degree I would say yeah, don't waste your time. You might have to something more realistic and get a menial job that is physically demaning or retail. You do have opportunities but not the kind people who have degrees have.
I wouldn't sweat it. People with degrees will get paid a lot but they got debts too and even when they do get their jobs they're still going to be expendable and still have to fight tooth and nail to keep their positions against everyone else that is there also.
>I really feel like I should just end it, rather than pointlessly trying to salvage what I can.
I wouldn't end it for that. I work retail and my life has been great. I am happy with the car I own and the place I live at. I don't need three vacations a year on a cruise or to the Bahamas.
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>have friends since highschool
>they were just guys I used to hang out with
>one of them started to be a really good friend
>did my first parties with them
>start to get a "ghost" reputation because I hated these parties, I just wanted to see my one good friend
>each time I try to make efforts to like them as a whole I end up hating it because I'm not myself with them
>my good friend is pissed off because I say no when he asks to see me, because I know he's never alone, even though I told him I don't really like the others
>good friend starts to be annoying (I hate being invited in the last moment, I always ask my friend to warn me a few days before, and even though I told this friend many times he kept doing that, this is just an exemple of course, there were a lot of other reasons)
>this good friend now doesn't talk to me anymore while the others still do from time to time
Should I let it go? These friends are the only one that actually go out, I have another very good friend but he's not social at all.
If I leave them I will feel relieved as I've never felt myself with them, but my social life will go to zero.
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Kinda of in the same situation except my best friend was never really my friend and decided he doesn't want to hang out with me anymore, kinda fucked me up because we're both part of me only group of friends. No idea what to do either.
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Hey /adv/, I need some help. My girlfriend and I seem to be polar opposites on certain things
>she likes things one way
>I like them another
I don't have too much of an issue with that, but she can't stand it. How do I cope/deal with it?
>tl;dr help anon figure out the female brain
>pic related, it's her
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Get a new gf, she ugly af
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>>18651021
get a girl that goes to college instead
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OP here
Sound advice, but she's helped me through one of the toughest times in my life:my father passed away 2 months after my grandmother (his mother) passed away.
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>girl wants a simple tattoo
>needs tattoo artist recommended
How do I block out retarded people from making me want to /facepalm through my skull daily?
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Oh and to add: this isn't a Facebook friend, just a city group I'm in.
I find this stupidity everywhere.
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you would have to block out 95% of all people
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>>18651010
In the group settings there should be a way to change when you receive notifications, if not there then when you receive one there should be a ball next to the text with settings
Ok, so i'm actually very shy talking to girls or even giving them EYE CONTACT for 3 seconds. I'm introvert and if I meet a new person, I have nothing to say to keep the chat going or atleast not look akward. I actually dont give a shit about my social life really but, I'm actually decent looking (but kinda slim ) so I actually tell myself sometimes it's actually a waste to try to find a girlfriend while i actually have a good appearance but, again I really get nervous when it comes around females from my age (19). I literally have nothing interesting to say to a girl or keep up a conversation.
I'd really appreciate it if you guys/girls give me tips on keeping a convo up or overcome being shy(socially)
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>>18650991
Lmao, Zaine?
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Practice. That's all there is to it. Also, alcohol.
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>>18650991
It is not the same being shy or introvert.
Yes, practice is the secret. Be very patient, each one of us is different and girls are very very different. They are always "feeling" and at one moment they feel good and at the next they feel bad and break contact.
Act like a man. They usually appreciate that you are making an effort to court them, to overcome your fears. Learn from your mistakes, a failure is not such if you learn something, you are simply paying your tuition fee. In the end you will realize what kind of girl you get easier along with.
Be always polite, they appreciate that you are emotionally sound, and not a hysterical child.
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Is there any way to get a board-specific ban on 4chan?
I'd like to get a permaban on /int/ but still be able to browse the rest
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Kindly ask a mod?
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>>18650987
nope. you can try to break a rule specific to that board and if you're lucky they'll ban you from that board, but its only 3 days usually. anything that warrants a longer ban tends to be a universal one.
try just not going to /int/
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Even if you get banned you can still browse