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>See girl I know from High-school on Tinder
>We matched
>She's 19 right now
>Thinking about asking her for nudes, but scared I might never get to touch her if I do this prematurely
>We've barely talked at all on top of this
What should I do?
How frequently do people send naked pictures of themselves to people they know?
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>>18655176
Why do you assume nudes. Have you talked about that?
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You're a permavirgin if you ask for nudes right off the bat.
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>>18655179
No, but I want to get some nudes.
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To keep it short, I just need some questions answered please:
>I'm losing my driver's license because of narcolepsy. Should I just sell my car now?
>I'm losing my job because of narcolepsy and generalized anxiety. How can I pay my bills/find a job?
I am taking meds for these and no amount of therapy, meditation, breathing, etc. has helped.
>I want to avoid getting disability checks. But if it comes down to it, would it likely be enough to support me?
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>>18655165
Search up what other people with the same condition do. It migh..... zzzzz
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>>18655178
>It migh..... zzzzz
It would have been more realistic it you ended it avb ggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn n
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>>18655207
Are you guys making fun of mmmmmmmjjjjjjjhjjjjjhhhhhhhhgggggg
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It's 8PM on a Thursday in Chicago and I'm a 26 year old virgin playing with Legos.
I want to end this nightmare. How can I lick a woman's butt by the end of the night?
Please note: If I had money, I wouldn't be playing with Legos.
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>>18655153
How about stop playing with fucking Legos and do more productive shit? Take a shower. Get on some nice cloths go to some bars or dance clubs. Start talking to girls. Talk about anything and makes jokes.
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>>18655161
No, I refuse to do all that. Tell me how to lick a butt without nebulously bathing and wearing a sporty jean-jacket and aimlessly walking around town until women sexually assault me. I've tried all that and still here I am with the legos. Your shower'n'clothes plan of action is bunk.
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>>18655177
You're an inept retard. Go find a hobo and lick his ass.
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How do you take your relatives up on job leads/contacts without seeming selfish?
Last week there was a family party where some of my cousins and uncles gave me their business cards and talked to me about work because I finished college a week ago. I still feel weird as hell asking them for things. I don't know why I feel this way.
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>>18655149
Get over yourself and take the opportunities handed to you.
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University application advice 2017-08-25 12:49:01 Post No.18655127
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University application advice
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Anybody know any good scholarship programs for a western STEM guy to go to uni for free? I was looking at a South Korean uni and they seem ok
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oh btw, I've already done 2 years in thee UK but wanna transfer cos I'm a poorfag and cant afford it
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i want to contact anonymous and be a part of them how do i do so
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>>18655110
Kys then your spirit will travel to anonymous head quarters.
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>>18655110
Fuck you they are a bunch of liberal jewish sympathisers.
They say are for the freedom of people but they support commies and kikes.
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>>18655110
You don't contact us. We contact you.
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How do I get a girlfriend who likes the same things I do?
My past gfs have just been popular, hedonistic party girls who try to date me because they think I'm some dark mysterious outsider, but once I open up to them they realize I'm a dork loser and they get bored and cheat on me. How do I find someone like me, someone who won't get bored of me?
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>>18655081
Go to places were you find like minded people.
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Just how often are women approached by men? 2017-08-25 12:22:07 Post No.18655072
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Just how often are women approached by men?
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I hate being ignorant but I always wonder.. just how inundated are women by men? IN my life, as a man, I feel that its pretty much void in terms of women coming up to me or saying much of anything to me. I am 27 and I like to think I make myself approachable but obviously our society teaches us that men should be the aggressor(its fucking stupid and archaic).
Anyway, from a womans perspective, just how often are men approaching you are attempting to get a date with you? I feel like a womans self esteem is like in perpetual boost because it so common for women to be approached.
If you are a dude and you aren't being approached by women OR getting positive returns from approaching women, your self esteem will be dog shit.
Dating as a male is so one dimensional when it comes to actually TRYING to get a date. All it seems anyone does is just non stop approach women until one says yes. Just non stop dice rolling. I hate that concept so much.
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>just how often are men approaching you are attempting to get a date with you?
Literally never.
>I feel like a womans self esteem is like in perpetual boost because it so common for women to be approached.
No, my self esteem is boosted because I'm a decent person and I know I have value as a person. I contribute to society and make the most of what I have and work towards what I don't have. I don't sit around waiting for a pity party.
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>>18655072
1. Women aren't a species of Pokemon. Their experiences with men are often drastically different. If you ever hope to become any kind of reasonable person you should spend your time actually talking to women and listening to their experiences instead of asking a bunch of virgins online what they think womens' experiences are.
2. Constantly being hit on and propositioned for sex is not the "perpetual boost" you think it is. Perhaps to you it would feel good for people to not give a shit about who you are as a person and only interact with you because they want to use your sex parts and high five their friends about it later but for a lot of women who want to be valued for their minds and taken seriously its often very very frustrating.
3. Women are not responsible for your self-esteem. If you can't find a way to value yourself outside of how often strange women want to fuck you then you've developed a very flimsy sense of self and its really nobody's fault but your own. Additionally, its a very unfair thing to expect any reasonable woman to find a man who NEEDS her validation desirable. Reasonable women typically look for partners to share their lives with, not to serve as a crutch for an emotionally underdeveloped man who needs her validation to feel good about himself. Desperation is never a good look, anon.
4. Being an animal is unfair. If you live your life on this planet with food, water, shelter, disposable income and an internet connection and the biggest complaint you have is that you are occasionally required to have enough spine to pursue a person or thing you desire then you're doing pretty well. Hate it or not, the concept that you need balls to get what you want in life isn't going anywhere.
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6.5/7 here, I get about 8 messages a day on social media from dudes who want to "get to know me better"
I've been told im a solid 8.5, but this is also by people who I assume want to bang me.
It gets annoying, but I cant say I hate it. Hope that helps.
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what gives you purpose or drives you everyday /adv/?
i have no desire to do anything. im 27. i have a college degree but im unemployed, coming in on 2 years now. haven't done a productive thing since graduating college. tried the job application thing but ive completely given up 6 months ago. I don't even want a job at this point anymore. I have a girlfriend but I don't want one. I'm unhappy but completely without goals, drive, purpose, or motivation. I wake up and spend most my day on 4chan. I have no will or motivation to do anything. I don't really have any goals or hobbies. I don't even have motivation to work out or excercise. Most days I barely have enough motivation to leave my bed to eat. I eat one meal and stay up till the sun rises. I even skip on doing simple things to take care of myself like eating. Most days I'm not unhappy or particularly happy. I use the internet to escape my daily worries. My family and the people around me are all worried. I'd just like to lay down and die.?
I don't know what to do /adv/, what do you do when you have no will to do anything and no goals? I'm miserable.
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Either find motivation (literally anything) or lay down and die. It's up to you to find that drive.
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>>18655083
How do you find it?
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Some vague combination of appreciating very simple things the very poor do not experience.
The haunting notion that my parents would be very upset if I quit.
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Alone af. What to do? 2017-08-25 12:01:04 Post No.18655015
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Only true friend I ever had I had to ditch two months ago because I was in love with her and she never could've reciprocate my feelings. I'm sociable with a lots of people but it just doesn't click. I wouldn't text them to go out with me because I know that I wouldn't have a good time. It was even since I was in an elementary school. Always had the most fun with a classmate at school but whenever we would hang outside just the two of us, it was most times boring. I didn't mind boring when I feel good with the other person, but I came to understanding that I'm an empathic person and can feel when someone ain't right.
Same was with the only friend I had in high school. Never was a nerd or anything like that, I just didn't want to socialize with people I knew of that wasn't down my alley. Nobody ever had trouble talking with me or I had with the other person. Never was ashamed of talking to girls because I was always above the thing. Shit happens.
But the girl I cut contacts with I always felt happy having her by my side. In every situation and I know that she felt the same about it. I'm 21, don't live at my parents for a while and I go out almost every night. Everybody seems to like me but at the end of it I don't feel nothing. I don't feel that I am connected to anyone. Only thing I feel is the void that is growing bigger and bigger everyday in my heart. I don't know if you understand what I'm trying to say here, but it's like I'm extroverted enough to be with people but on the otherside too withdrawn to actually be with them.
These lonely nights when just an alcohol is my trusty fellow are slowely killing me. People might say that keeping your mind busy with hobbies and what not keeps you away of these feelings but ultimately you end up in your bed, insomniac, shameful of your life anyway. I really don't see any point of living currently. I've only ever did feel like it was worth living when there was someone with who I could've share my life with.
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>>18655015
What are your interests?
Try and join a group of people with similar interests where you'll be forced to meet people and get outside your comfort zone.
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>>18655040
I work at a music bar. It's a small cozy place and I get to meet new people every know and then. The kind of music that's playing in there is one of my interests. I know that this ain't saying nothing but over the summer I accepted about twenty friend requests on facebook and all of the people who sent the request I spend atleast one night of active talk. I know that this is a stupid example but with none of them I feel like I could be really friends with.
People around me just feel like stuff that's keeping me less alone, but ultimately I stay alone with noone that really cares about me or I care about. I don't even seem to grasp the process of making friends, I just can't be friends with anyone like everyone else seems to do.
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You a shotgun.
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Job Interview in an hour. 2017-08-24 11:58:44 Post No.18655009
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Job Interview in an hour.
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Applied for this Chuck E' Cheese's style place. My interview is in an hour. Any advice to give?
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Well it's Chuck e cheese so try to be a person who could gel well with kids and also their parents
Being nice, friendly , helping, etc.
Have that attitude during the interview and the manager will prob see nothing wrong w you
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>>18655009
Act like this guy:
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>>18655009
Tell them your a pedophile.
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My brother's gf just forced him to cut contact with his family 2017-08-24 11:53:01 Post No.18654996
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My brother's gf just forced him to cut contact with his family
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>have brother
>he's been struggling with addiction and inbetween jobs most of his adult life
>was diagnosed as bipolar at age 9
>bros dad died when he was 4
>my mom and grandparents have been nothing but supportive of him even when he struggled with addiction
>he started dating girl about a year ago
>we really liked her, she seemed to have a good head on her shoulders, finished college, kept my brother in check
>they recently moved out together
>goes from keeping my brother in check, to completely controlling every single thing he does
>ignores him for days if he leaves a spoon in the sink
>convinced him all of us hate her
>whenever we see her we just chat and be normal and nice
>she'd go home and tell my bro we treated her like shit
>be a few days ago
>bro's gf told him he can't have a phone
>bro's gf calls my mom and tells us all conversations my brother has must be through her phone, with her in the room on speaker phone
>bro's gf proceeds to insult my mom, telling my mom that she is the only person my brother needs
>brother is in the back being a pussy whipped faggot saying "Yea, she's the only person I need to talk to" sounding completely fucking defeated
>mom is confused, so angry she is shedding tears, says she's fine with him moving out and all, but she cares and is still his mom, just wants to see how he's doing and chat
>bro's gf gets angry, throws insults, and hangs up on my mom
>be yesterday
>my brother calls mom from a pay phone
>frantically telling my mom that he can't talk to her anymore and gf won't allow it
>"I know your number, if anything I'll call you i have to go now"
>hangs up
I am so pissed I am tempted to call her up and see what the fuck is going on. This isn't even some form of babying, my brother was the last to move out of our siblings, but all of us keep fairly regular contact with our mom. She's not intrusive, just checks in (probably has empty nest) and harmless chatting.
What the fuck does one even do in a situation like this?
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>>18654996
This is his choice. I mean, obviously its the wrong choice, but it is still his choice to make. You already know he has an addictive personality, is this truely that surprising?
Anyways, you do the only thing you can: try to be in his life. That means you are going to have to swallow a lot of shit from the gf. Don't push her because she will just push back and apparently she has all the power (over your bro) right now. Call her up somettime after a few days, be nonchal;ant, and say you wanna talk to your bro and invite him out to get a few beers. Don't let on that its strange that you have to call her to talk to him, just be natural with it. Jump through whatever hoops she puts in front of you.
Assuming she lets him go out with you, don't just lay into him. JUst talk about mundane shit (jobs, sports, whatever) and let him come around to talking about it on his own.
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>>18655080
Yea, I mean, he has done "extreme" things in the past, but it never involved cutting us out.
Honestly, my brother and I talk but we haven't actually hung out in years unless its with family. Honestly, his addictions and actions during addictions pushed us as siblings quite far away from "friend" level. He hasn't used in about 1.5 years though, but between work and everything we don't hang out often.
The closest event is my birthday and we usually all go out for dinner. I guess I'll just call to invite him when it comes closer.
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How do I date this high up? 2017-08-24 11:49:38 Post No.18654982
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How do I date this high up?
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With these kind of girls (cute social media/model/soft science types) I can't seem to stop saying something that immediately loses their interest. Girls like these don't care about intelligence but I have no idea how not dumb down what I'm saying to get anywhere I want to. Looks and money aside, what can I learn to stop sounding like some science dork?
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>>18654982
>what can I learn to stop sounding like some science dork?
How about you stop talking about 'intellectual' shit in the first place?
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>>18654982
post another girl
it's likely she's just too attractive for you
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>>18654982
Once upon a time there was this gross greasy middle aged black dude. I don't remember his name, but let's call him Reggie...
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fuck the bad vibes and sob stories, post things youre happy and proud about and put youself in a positive space
>asked out two girls at school this year
>both sad no
>it sucked, but it didnt kill me and wasnt all that bad
>I promised myself I would put myself out there more and I did
its nothing special but it feels good and thats enough for me
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My oneitis smiled at me yesterday. She's got such a beautiful, innocent pin-ball smile.
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I got the highest marks of the whole of my year for all three of my case studies/essays. Very happy and proud.
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>>18654978
congrats bro
cant share anything really but keep your mentality up and ur gonna go far
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How do I develop a personality and charisma?
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With intense practice and many defeats.
books and shit help too.
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>>18654973
what kind of books and what kind of shit
I want to learn
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Experience, reflection, and exposure.