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Hey anons. I used to be a cheerful fag but now I always feel empty. I'm planning to decide how I should live my life and wanted your opinion.
Should I live my life in ignorance and bliss or search for the truth no matter how hard and lonely it is.

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what happened to you anon
do whatever you feel you need to do. life doesn't make sense, so make up some objectives and stick to them
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search for the truth no matter how hard

anything worth getting is worth working for. living in ignorance makes you Homer Simpson.
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>>18656008
I thought he was asking if he should get red pilled or blue pilled.

>>18655695
Which is it OP?

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So /adv/ I plan on joining the Natl Guard while in college. Drill is only once a month for a few days, usually with a urine analysis at the end. I love smoking weed and it keeps me really centered and its my meditation in all honesty, plus I enjoy sparking up with friends and such and being at college and all I want to be able to smoke weed at parties and all. Can I get away with it? Tips for flushing it out of my system?
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>fighting for israel
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>>18655680

I went to a military school where many people did smoke weed.

You need to keep your body fat low, and abstain from times when you think a test might be around the corner. That's pretty much it.

If they catch you once you just get in a little trouble, but if they catch you a 2nd time you will be kicked out.
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>>18655687
go back to /pol/ queer

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Hey advice.

Heavy shut in bound.
Since i got kicked from the military 4 months ago. i have been at my parent/step moms. At first it was okay, but over time it ways on them, which makes me feel less like shit. Today i got wasted and loaded everything into my van. My bio father caught me, guns in hand loading shit into my van to leave. Like a good father (why does he care so much about a fuck up like me?) He stops me and holds me down till i started crying ( tfw ptsd kicked in, remembering step father rape shit, along with war tragadies, more vivid than an acid trip)

How can a 22 ex army handle being unemployed, not on benefits, and a drain on parents without being suicidal?
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Your dad sounds like a great person and dad. Have you tried opening up to him and asking him for help? I imagine he'd be more help than any of us could be.

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Need rules for my little slut

Like humiliation
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>>18655645
These people exist.
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>>18655645
Throat spray?
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>>18655681
It's to numb the throat for bjs I believe unless OP is talking about something else.

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>Want to do things for people
>Help them out/give them money/listen and give advice/etc
>Always feel like I'm just being taken advantage of

Am I doomed to just feel that way or feel bad from not giving anyone anything?
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>>18655603
Your a giver. But not a disciplined one. Also it sounds like you have no sense of identity.
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>>18655603
i had the same problem as you up until recently. my best advice is: learn to say no. just start saying no to people and it'll progressively get easier.

once you're more comfortable, then you can start being selective.

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>only luck I've ever had with girls is making them laugh

How can I put this to work?
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For the record, they weren't laughing at me.
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>>18655588
Keep making them laugh....

don't pussy out when opportunities arise
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>>18655588
You're going to make them laugh even more when you tell them "I came..."

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Okay so, I'm 23. I haven't watched porn in months, I'm very athletic, Olympic weightlifting paired with cardio vascular training 5 days a week, my diet is usually impeccable, tons of fruit and vegetables I juice daily and eat clean. I don't get night time erections, don't get morning ones, and don't get random ones. Wtf is going on? I've been dating a new girl for about month and we've had sex a few times but that's only after I've furiously beat my meat for minutes to get it to a slight chub and by that time I'm close to climax. Shit is embarrassing. I haven't always been this way. But I'm about to buy some Viagra online and I don't even know if that will help and it's expensive as fuck. Idk. Asking for help.
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>>18655553
>Viagra online
Where tho
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>>18655553

See a doctor.

Also read a book on ED.

You could have a blood flow issue in your body that is preventing adequate blood from getting into the cock.

I wouldn't go Viagra until you get your body checked.

As an example a broken hip can lead to broken blood vessels that effect blood flow to the cock. Lots of stuff can be going on down there that u dont know about.
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>>18655553

psychological. bite the bullet and do some painful introspection.

t. former psychological ED sufferer

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I used to be horrifically depressed, lost, hated life, and actually tried to commit suicide when I was 16.

Fast forward to today, and I am blazing a trail to the life I want with hard work, motivation, and unshakable confidence.

If your having a hard time struggling with everything, perhaps I can discuss or answer questions and give you practicle and tangible advice to get you onto the same track. Wadda you say...?
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>>18655545
Im a NEET who dropped out of college to basically persue nothing. My parents have given up on me and my younger brother is sick so they are concerned with medical bills rather than where my future is headed. I know I should be a man by now (21) but shit I was the fist born idiot lol

I don't really know what to do. If I go back to college it would be way too big of a burden plus its not like Im getting a 4.0 since I dropped before and left a bad record even if I do try.

Dying would make things wore too
>tfw no way to run now
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>>18655545
I have:
>High paying job that I like
>Work out, am fit
>Decent social circle
>Plenty of matches on Tinder

Yet my life feels empty, what do?
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I want to get a cute asian gf. I've never gotten a girlfriend before but I would like to have one. I refuse to settle as that feels like it defeats what I feel what I want from a gf. I realise I have set the bar retardedly bullshittingly R I G G E D-tier high, but I don't know how to deal with that. I feel more and more depressed getting rejected multiple times after coming back to college. can you help me in my pursuit of a cute asian girlfriend or to cope with the fact that it's going to be a fucking terrible long road to something maybe happening some year in the future?

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What am i lacking?
>19 years old
>have a few close supporting friends >have a scholarship and a lot of career related networking
>great parents
>not even close to rich, but no financial problems
>living with my parents, planning to move out eventually
>used to swam competitively, now i only swim to stay in shape

i have potential, yet i find myself to be unmotivated and indifferent towards life in general. Im studying engenieering, and even though im not great at maths, i enjoy it.
I play the guitar and im learning violin
I dont really have a big social circle, im not a virgin but i've never had a gf.
I always think that having a gf will make me happier but i know that's not true. I've been looking for a epiphany for over a year now, but its always the same.
I want to be a happier person, i want to make my family and friends proud and to be more social.

what can i do? am i overthinking everything? i feel so lost and confused, and i dont really know why
thanks for reading
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>>18655527
You need to grow your interests.
Go to more social events, go outside more.
Play sports, join a club, get into something

If you develop yourself, people will just notice you. IF you are just looking for someone you'll pick the wrong person. If you are always just out there women will come to you, and/or you will find someone you really want to pursue
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>>18655538
how can i develop myself? i often go out, but i dont have a huge social circle. Im into music and trying to record some stuff with a friend.
i feel empty, and i lack the motivation to actually make a change.
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>>18655527
>My blood valentine
Fuck off with that shit /mu/ vacuum-core hipster garbage you fucking teenage Mexican piece of shit.

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How do you find more depth in life than booze, drugs, sex, fame, money, celebs, cars, etc?
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Philosophy. Personal happiness. Meditation. All those things you've listed are physical. Life really is that shallow.

You can begin researching a cure for cancer. There you go pal the skies the limit.
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I like my family, my friends, books, and video games

That's enough for me
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to start, you can find out how to get them

So I'm in a long distance relationship... and that blows.
I'm only in it because this is a quality girl, but there is no end in sight.. which is very concerning.

Briefly. I graduated and got a job as an overworked underpaid scientist on the opposite coast. i hate my job, my boss is an asshole and I'm continuously applying for better jobs.. but as a scientist, those jobs are all over the continent, and in short supply.
She has a decent job and wants to get an MBA despite not having any prior education. Her job promised for 1.5 years to promote her to a well paid marketing coordinator position (80K a year). I knew they wouldn't and told her so as they have a history of delaying and making false promises.

Anyways, long story short, they fucked her over, they are eliminating the position and relegating her back to a lower position once her 1 year contract is up (pay cut down to < 40k)

So the problem is, she promised to move out and live with me if they fucked her over. Now that they have, she says she "doesn't want to work at MacDonalds the rest of her life" and won't move until she has a decent job where I am. Somehow she has it in her mind she'll ruin her career that hasn't started.


So my questions is... what do I do? Do I break up with her? do I ruin my career as a scientist so she can potentially start one in business management in 5 years or so? Do I painfully stay in a long-distance relationship for years to come until we miraculously end up in the same city?
This is depressing.
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>>18655477
Leave.

She is not special. Nobody is. There is probably an equivalent of her within 50 miles of where you live.
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>>18655546
fuck.... you're probably correct
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just break it off anon and find someone who will be able to make you happy

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Just had a baby with my boyfriend and we all just moved in together finally. We've always had problems in his relationship over his ex girlfriend. I go on his laptop right now and look at his photos, there's a bunch of photos of his ex and him (kissing, fucking and just her straight up open ass and vagina) I'm feeling super disrespected and pissed cause I told him to delete them many times before. Ready to break his fuckin laptop for being stupid and shady.
BUT
Should I just take it upon myself and delete the photos?
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>>18655463
Post them here OP
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>>18655463

This is what happens when you fuck Chadvontae, bitch.

PAY. THE. TOLL.
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Well, I guess you'll get to find out first hand what it's like to be a single mother. Good luck!

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i am a gay asshole and shit is gonna be put up my ass
what is a good amazon prime lube
not water based i dont wanna fuckin be in pain
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>>18655428
Spit.
Cum.
Actually all bodily fluids, which isn't really all that surprising.

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Is Psychopathy a degenerative disease?

I think a friend of mine is suffering from it. She's a bit of a poorfag, and so am I, so i'm not sure how she could get it diagnosed and treated if she does have it.

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>>18655413
No, no cells die off in psychopathy. The person can lead a perfectly healthy life, there is absolutely no degeneration of any tissue whatsoever.
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>>18655419
Oh, that's good, or well, better. At least it isn't a race against time like other illnesses.
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>>18655422
Furthermore it is more likely to be sociopathy rather than psychopathy. Also Hollywood has completely warped the image of psychopathy, not all are murderers who wear your skin to experience being you. The vast majority are "normal" people, they tend to be assholes because they simply don't give a fuck about you, they tend to do extremely well in highly ambitious fields in which unethical and unscrupulous behavior is rewarded (like for instance banking).

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Up until today I wake up at 5 am for a 9 am job, spend ten dollars a day getting back and forth, have to cross a dangerous highway, and wait outside of work for an 1hr 30min every day. I live an hour away from work btw.

Today I struck a deal with a coworker that eases said burdens. Riding with him means I get two hours of extra sleep daily, save $15 a week on transportation, don't have to cross an extremely busy highway, and arrive to work on time instead of ridiculously early. However, my 18 y/o sister rides the bus with me to get to university. Problem is my coworker only leaves in enough time to get to work and dropping my sister off would inconvenience him. I don't want to be too demanding because I haven't even known the guy for a full two weeks yet.

My mother tells me to "be a man" and to continue riding the bus in the mornings so that I can accompany my sister. My relationship with my sister isn't particularly strong and it was her own poor decision-making that led to her not having money for room & board on campus. And she isn't exactly the most pleasant person to work with. I'm not getting enough sleep as it is and I struggle to stay awake at work. Those extra two hours of sleep sound really enticing. It's a nice job I landed after months of searching and it pays well. Am I being selfish for wanting to take my coworker up on his offer?
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>>18655400
Do whatever represents who you are. I'll tell you what represents me, something that doesn't matters, be a man and don't let your sister go alone, that shouldn't even be a question
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>>18655400
Let your sister be her own woman and do what keeps you healthy. You'll die an early death from either suicide or simply getting sick from lack of sleep and overwork.
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>>18655423
>simply getting sick from lack of sleep and overwork
I think I'm already getting symptoms. Felt like my body was trying to force itself to sleep at work the other day and today I felt physically ill. Really concerning to say the least.

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