I'm a first year medical student. In the last month or so I've been looking at all these great people like Elon Musk, Steve Jobs, Steve Woz, Zuckerberg and so on... I really can't seem to get over the thought that they were the same age as me when they started their "Big thing". I really want to study, become a doctor, go into oncology maybe, cause my mom died to cancer 2 years ago, but I really struggle with the motivation to write some of the BS exams we have to do. I'd really like to do something meaningful, not just memorize dull stuff and do exam after exam.
I really don't know what to do.
Every advice helps.
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>>18658345
You're being driven by your ego. You may or may not want to even be in the medical field deep down. Zuckerburg and Musk probably LOVED what they were doing in school. It's not just latent talent. Just be sure your path is really yours, not just your egos.
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>>18658345
You are going to waste an opportunity, med school is my life's dream.
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>>18658398
Won't let it happen. No way. Thanks dude.
Why can't you follow your dream thou? Money, health?
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>Be me
>Eat intensely spicy buldak
>After I finish buldak my girlfriend wants to have sex
>Start eating her out
>Don't realize what I've done until it's too late
How do I apologize for this?
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>>18658335
headspin into flying dogeza
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>>18658335
OP IVE BEEN KEKKING FOR SO LONG
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Get her butt too
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I just got a email from a job i interviewed for saying that while they found no problem with my technical skills or expertise, that I lack the social and communication skills needed to be a Linux sysadmin.
So what job can I get? My background is college dropout and 3 years Linux sysadmin experience. Anyone have any ideas?
I feel like I'm completely unemployable here...
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>>18658325
You can develop your social and communication skills.
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Its a test. Tell them their email must be a joke, and they are missing out on your valuable experience if they choose not to hire you.
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>>18658328
I've made an effort at it and they've gotten much better, but I'm not really sure where to go from here.
How does one go about developing these skills?
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Dating fuck aps or sites.
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Any other dating websites or apps out there besides pof or Okcupid? Looking for older women. You lads know any?
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Nobody?
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>>18658468
you mean looking for a cougar?
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>>18658483
I guess so.
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is it normal to spend your entire summer in total isolation doing nothing but smoking 4 bowls of weed a day and doing art while browsing 4chan while combating constant introspective and social turmoil?
I have no friends
literally none
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It's the weed that makes you like this, anon, and you know it. Cut it back and see how you change.
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>>18658316
I have aspergers and adhd
I'm high when i'm sober with a dash of psychosis and made up of literally nothing but beliefs that are the direct opposite of every society stands for.
weed changes your perspective for a bief moment
in a universe where everything is just perspectives on constructs, it makes it something I never want to give up on.
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>>18658309
To be blunt, fuck no it's not normal. That said, deep down you probably don't want to be normal anyway. Everyone knows what it takes to be normal. Work out, get girls, talk about girls with the bros, blah blah blah.
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A lot of the people I talk to have said that Im either weird or stuck up or annoying, when in reality they seem like the stuck up ones. How can I avoid these kinds of people that talk behind your back? How can I better my personality? I dont intend to seem stuck up, I always listen to people and say Hi how are you and etc
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>>18658299
Ask your true friends what they think of your personality if you need assurance, you don't seem very close to these "people" based on how you talk about them.
How the blazing fuck can I grow a beard without having the genetics to do so?
Can I soak or rub my face in something regularly to stimulate the hair follicles?
I know beard transplants are a thing now but I'm treating it as a last resort for now.
Please, I need a beard. I have the facial structure of Amy Schumer crossed with Leonardo DeCaprio and it's not okay, mainly because of the Schumer.
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>>18658283
Play the hand youre dealt anon.
At least you got a quality a lot of women are fine with and cut one chore out of your life.
I have a beard. If i dont maintain every other day i look homeless. I have seriously overheard people on the bus debate about whether or not im a serial killer when im scraggly.
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So ive become fit and im quite attractive but idk how to initiate conversation with seeming akward as hell any advice?
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Edit: im talking about women i cant talk to women
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I figured it out by just talking to them despite being akward. Messed up a few times but much better at it now. Good luck anon!
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>>18658300
Thanks dood
I have an implanon (the rod) in my arm as a form of birth control, so my boyfriend and I don't use condoms. We have both had sexual health checks etc. Whenever we have sex a few days in a row I get cramps and start bleeding (like a period, yes, but even if I have just finished a oeriod it will happen again). I know the rod can throw off your hormones a bit but I have had it for a good 9 months and my cycle has seemed to regulate itself. I'm just wondering if because he cums inside of me, there is a chance I may be getting pregnant and then losing it? I only say this because (sorry about graphic detail) the blood is like a dirty old colour and the pains I experience are horrible. Any ideas or is it just the rod throwing my hormones off balance?
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>>18658273
Sounds like you need to talk to your doctor...
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>>18658296
Just hoping to get an opinion here first because I don't want to tell the doc I'm having unprotected sex and I also don't want a pap smear of any of that shit.
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>>18658273
Bump.
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My friend is gay and likes me 2017-08-26 03:48:35 Post No.18658272
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My friend is gay and likes me
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A friend who I thought was straight told me he liked me a few days ago. Since then he has been oddly physical, I've been shoving him away and telling him to stop but he keeps doing it. Starting to get freaked out. What do.
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tell him hes making you feel uncomfortable and politely ask him to stop
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The same way he was honest about his feelings towards you. Be the same way back and tell him that you're not attracted to him at all, and if he cares for the friendship, he needs to stop being oddly physical.
Also check yourself it might be just you being paranoid about it and just reaching now that you're conscious about it how he feels.
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There has to be more to life than trying to be the best you can be and still living in someones shadow right? I feel like ive hit rock bottom and people keep telling me how to not be a loser (working out, getting girls, blah blah blah) but does anyone else feel like it's all in vain? I mean people already see me as a loser, so what's the point in working that hard to achieve what everyone else has achieved. I want to make my own path and inspire people to follow, not follow someone else's footsteps. I thought that was the point of "just bee urself"
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>>18658263
Yes.
Youve already defeated yourself; youve created a negative feedback loop where you set your standards based on others limits over your own and judge yourself by them thereby invalidating any past or future efforts.
I was in this rut and I got out by realizing yes I am just a zergling, but the battle is not won without critical mass of zerglings so yes each and every ling matters.
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Need some help here, don't know what do. This one needs a bit of backstory.
2 years ago I was in a fucked up relationship with a girl who i had been friends with for a couple years before dating her. When we started dating I quickly learned she was overly controlling, manipulative and had serious anxiety issues, which began to rub off on me. After 4 months I'd had enough and decided to kill it. Never wanted to have gf again because last time was fucking horrible.
Met qt couple months ago, hit it off pretty quickly. Just friends at first, but after a while she starts getting flirty. Not really sure I'm ready for another gf, so I don't ask her out. She gets sick of waiting for me to ask her so she asks me, I say yes partly b/c I don't want to hurt her and partly because I like her. We go on a date and I can't even work up the nerve to touch her b/c of what happened with last gf.
She wants to go out again, but last time I dated a friend it went badly. Do I try to end it? If so how do I do that without hurting her?
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bruh they aren't the same people just see how it goes then decide if u want to "kill it"
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>talk to girl on tinder
>she's actually rly cool
>offer date and give her my #
>gives me her #
Wat do now
Honestly I never really thought I would get this far. When should I text her? Should I try and text her before the date or just try and set up the date over text?
Pls help, I'm useless
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If she like you then you should be able to communicate and get along like real human peoples. It shouldn't be fragile, if it is then she may be a serial killer, I guess.
Don't try to be too cool, you risk being weird.
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>>18658204
Yes. You are useless. All of things will be answered on your first date. Do what you think is best. you will probably fail. But failing and owning up to it is what will get her coming back, or will bring the next gal.
Being so afraid to make a mistake and hoping that other people will be able to protect you from it with basic advice is whats going to scare everyone away always.
GL homie get it
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>>18658204
Just do what got you into the dance in the first place. Don't think to much bout it just be you.
You already did the hard part.
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Why is everything so wretched?
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>>18658195
Drink another bottle itll b k
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Because living is inherently struggling to survive and our species' desire for meaning forces us to actually think about it.
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>>18658255
You ever think about just how many people are so obese they can't climb stairs?
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Is dropping out of a decent paying career to pursue a Ph.D in economics retarded?
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Depends what your reasoning is and what your plans are. People do lots of things in life. You can go do an economics PhD, I can go sip cocktails on a beach for 6 months.
How do you drop out of a career? when you're done you just go back. That's kind of the idea of having a career, that you can just pick a job of your profession and get to it.
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How much are you currently earning? <$100k? Because with a PhD level of economics knowledge you can easily make much more than that.
On the other hand you could just work your way up in finance studying economics on the side.