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>be me
>everytime change opinion/mood depending on the hours/day.
>don't get along with people irl or ivl, always want to break the 'bonds' that you create with people quickly before they do it first .
>leave them around thousand of messages while they are away
>attaching to them to quickly and trusting them too much even thought you aren't 'naive' and is someone with a pessimistic point of view.
>almost fall in love with them
>block/ignore them , then try to contact them again
>block/ignore them AGAIN then feels bad
>pretends its trolling to yourself.
>regret .
>stalking your 'friends' all the time because you are curious, you want to know who are 'they' and what they think of 'you' .
>struggle to stop hourly stalking
>paranoid af about 'someone' find out about 'something', about your life, your hobbies and everything. You don't want anyone to know these
>suicide thoughts and threats
>your dream is to stop talking with people and continue talking with yourself because you are a coward.
>want to remove your empathy this way you won't feel the need of being with someone else .
>people already told me that i was 'very weird' and now someone told me here that i might have 'BPD' from reading my message which i don't think is true,think of it as barnum effect and i'm a male so there is less chance i might have it
>got another friend and i'm already planning on stop talking to him because he is my 'weakness' and because of unknown reasons (i can't find the answers to them)
Be honest, what might i have ? I think i'm just someone who his a giant faggot because never had any friends
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Are you me?
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I feel a round mass on my front upper left part under the rib cage. Could it be cancer?
Sometimes I feel an annoyance there. It's where spleen is supposed to be.
I am so scared to go to the doctor. I am terrified.
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Go to the doctor, it's logical. If it is cancer you'll catch it early and stop it
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Why the fuck do people stil seek medical advice on 4chan? Is health care in burgerland that shitth?
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>>18659158
Yes, most docs just believe everyones fat. After some blood work they'll tell you to come back a month later to just check you blood pressure
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How do I wake up and think
>wee this is a new day to try and experience something new and find something or someone to make me happy
Instead of
>fuck I'm awake I just wanna go back to sleep there's nothing to do I just wanna get high im gonna die alone no matter what I do?
I always feel like the former before I go to bed but when I wake up I'm always the latter it makes me scared to sleep
Maybe I'm just using all my positive energy and wasting it staying up I don't know
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>>18659091
I found out the secret awhile ago.
Ready?
[spoiler]Stop browsing 4chan[/spoiler].
Or limit yourself to like 15 minutes a day.
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Any other chemicals besides minoxidil (rogaine) that can help you grow a beard?
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I spent $2000 getting my facial hair lasered off so I can't help sorry.
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How do I get better at comforting someone? My girlfriend has depression and is pretty much sad 50% of the time when we are together. I don't mind it but it feels really awkward just sitting there silently
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>>18659079
bump
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>>18659079
Be as kind as possible without being too smothering
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I'm pretty sure that one ain't said enough, so- empathy all the way!
When dealing with depression (or reallimy, any mental problem for that matter), you have to be not pitying or condescending, but you need to put yourself in their shoes andbunderstand their feelings and logics fully. Try to learn what your girlfriend is thinking and why, then you will have enough data to help her.
Tho if it's a full blown depression ya ain't gonna spawn a therapist diploma, if it's out of your level don't hesitate to point out specialists.
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>ordered a replacement debit card three weeks ago as mine was going to expire
>3 weeks later, it still has not arrived, which probably means the postal service lost it
>bank says they cant do anything except send out a new card which will probably take another 2 weeks
>also says there is no way for me to withdraw my money unless i transfer it to another bank's account
>would take another 2 weeks to get a debit card from another bank
>cant get my money out to buy food and pay bills
>all my friends who live near me say they have no money or arent replying to my messages
>friends in other states want to help but are nowhere near me to lend me physical cash
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>>18659076
why dont you ask to transfer money to their account and let them withdraw it then give it to you
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>>18659087
"their" - Who exactly?
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>>18659092
Your friends who claim to have no money as if that's some sort of excuse, obviously. Not only that, but you can also go to the bank in person (a foreign concept these days, I know) and withdraw money if you have ID.
Also who pays bills in cash anymore?
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Friends, I'm tired. I'm tired of the same shit. I'm tired of making mistakes. I'm tired of being fucking tired.
Is there a way out? If I just dropped all tech and tried to live in the woods how would I do? I have above average survival skills due to a military career. I want out of society and to hide from the normality of everyday life.
Help me, please.
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>>18659013
Life is what you make it. Do what makes you happy for sure, but find a way to be happy doing what needs to be done. You don't get to opt out of the greatest achievement of nature, meaning civilization. Make it work, keep your chin up, and remember that unless you're being tortured that happiness is a choice.
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>>18659018
That doesn't make any sense. How can life be what I make it if I want to make it a solitary thing yet you say I'm not allowed to make it that?
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>>18659023
I believe that a man has a responsibility to his neighbor to pull his own weight in society.
Happiness is a choice. Look at it this way, we live in the best civilization, culture, and conditions in human history. I believe that you'll fine life on your own substantially harder than where you are now that you have others to lean on and to help you. Perhaps it's that you don't ever ask for help, or it's your attitude, but if you can't be happy with this luxurious life we live anymore then the problem lies within. I used to be the same way as you, and then I changed my philosophy on life. Now I choose to look for the good in my life. I decide to focus on what makes my life great, because lets be honest, we are afforded a ton of luxuries in this day and age that ROYALTY of the past couldn't even dream up. It's all about your perspective, whether you believe in yourself, or you beat yourself up with doubt.
In short, life is what you make it, or make OF it in this case.
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I can only get hard sitting down. If I try to get something going while laying down I get a weak half boner. If I start out hard and stand up or lay down I go limp. The fuck is going on?
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Did you unconsciously learn to lose your boner when you have to stand up in class? I know I did.
> be pure white
> have nigger lips for some reason. both parents dont have.
> never really made out with a girl, worried im slobbering all her face. only ever given pecks.
> i want to learn /adv/. please teach me.
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>>18658990
>be white
this isn't a bragging right. lol
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Thick lips are better than thin ones, and the real reason you would fuck up is because you are an inept sperg. You are the type to make threads like
>why am I still a virgin at 21?
>how to get a gf?
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>>18658990
>> be pure white> have nigger lips for some reason
I've got some bad news for you.
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My bf has been with 100 people
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So me and my bf of about a month were talking about how many people we have been with, I've been with 3. He says that he's been with 102 different girls. Obviously I didn't believe him and then he said he believes in being upfront and just showed me selfies/pictures of him hugging and making out with 100 or so different women. I mean he's really good in bed so that lends credibility to it. He's 21 and he also says he's never had a real relationship it was all just casual hookups or fwb.
I have no idea how to react to this? What do I do? He's pretty great and seems like a genuine person. But how will our relationship be different because of it? I have no idea if this is a dealbreaker for an otherwise great guy.
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>>18658967
well i have a friend thats like that he kissed with abt 100 girla but only had likr 3 gfs and he dosent cheat so if this guy of yours dosebt have a gistory of cheating it might be ok
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The difference between you and me is that I'm allowed and you're not. I'm not kidding. What nature meant by this, I don't know, but it is what it is.
I personally don't care.
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>>18658975
I don't get what you mean?
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How do I break internet/4chan addiction
All I do is lift and shitpost
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>>18658956
kill yourself
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>>18658956
Get a job motherfucker.
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>>18658956
Try writing.
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I've been through quite the psychological journey here, and I can't take this anymore. I need help.
There is this girl that I met two years back during my sophomore year of high school. We were very close to each other, we shared memes all the time, spent late nights texting each other, and went to how many football games we could. She was the one for me. I know it may seem too late to feel love for the first time, but she was literally the first person I've ever loved, so I did not know what to do then. She gave me a shit ton of hints, as in watching movies at her house, putting her head on my shoulder, wearing my hoodies, etc. But for how fucking stupid I am, I felt I was trapped. I felt that she was the most precious thing in my life, and I did not want to skrew things up and have her to go away. Months later, I think she felt I was not into her in that sort of way, and she went with some other guy.
Fast forward two years. She broke up with two guys, including the one previously mentioned, and I believe she is with somebody else. We haven't talked to each other in two years. We don't hate each other of course, but we share brief awkward stares sometimes in the hallways. Through her breakups, she created new Facebook accounts, and she always friends me. I try to move on, and see her only as a friend, but I start hurting again soon after, and I secretly remove her from my friends list to censor the feeling away from me. I'm afraid that she might of caught on to this, and think that I hate her.
It's my senior year now, and I really want to express my feelings, but I don't want to be selfish. She is probably in a relationship, and I don't want to affect it in any way for my own cause. I don't want to part ways with her without saying anything for closure, either. I need some help. Please.
Help.
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Making a bump. Sorry.
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>>18658953
Just be an adult and tell her how you feel, if she doesn't feel the same way you need to move past this, there's so many other women out there and probably plenty better than her.
There is no point in lingering on the past, it hurts but people don't linger on things like you do, hell, I still do it too, but the past stays in the past, think about where you two stand currently, what's there to be ventured?
Be honest and don't beg, if she's with someone than see yourself out of her life and start enjoying yourself.
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>>18658953
you are one stupid fucker. she obviously likes you. thats why she always kept you in her friends circle even though you didn't talk for two years. just go up to her and say how you feel. it shouldn't be awkward because you were already friends with her.
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This doesn't deserve its own thread, but there isn't a catch-all thread for things that don't deserve its own thread.
The feeling of depression is starting to feel overwhelming. My chest hurts, I feel like I'm not getting enough oxygen when I breathe in. It feels like the light inside is fading. I really, really want to kill myself. It feels like no amount of talking about "permanent solutions to temporary problems" or my family is going to talk me down off the ledge this time.
They always say you should call a hotline or check yourself into the hospital, and I thought about doing so, but wouldn't doing either of those things mean you don't actually intend to do anything? If you're calling the prevention hotline, that means you want them to prevent you from harming yourself, which means you probably weren't going to harm yourself. So that must mean that if I'm thinking up the phone, then there's inherently no reason to.
I started dry heaving midway through typing, and now my clavicles hurt. I feel like I'm suffocating or drowning. This feeling is oppressive.
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The purpose of talking to someone else with depression in mind is to get some outside perspective on it. Getting a second perspective on your misery, lack of ambition, or other self doubt can help you come to understand your thoughts in another way, which can open new pathways in your own behavior.
What responses did you expect to see, when starting this thread?
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>>18658941
So you want to want to no kill yourself? It is up to you to find meaning in your life. We aren't born with a purpose, we make one for ourselves.
I think this is the problem with young people in our culture. People have been taught for decades that if they whine hard enough somebody will fix it for them. What happens when everybody is whining? You are indolant in your personal progress, that is the problem. Nobody is coming to save you because you are fully capable of saving yourself. Volunteer for a cause you believe in (animal shelter, soup kitchen, etc.). Strength comes from within, not without, and you have plenty.
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Hey i want to make a magwell for a bersa thunder pro. The thing is i would like to do it on a 3d printer with the negative size of the scanned magazine well of the pistol and then file that piece untill it gets close to somewat competition speed reload magwell.
Can i posibly do it?
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>>18658924
Something like this
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>>18658925
Yes but i dont think k faggs know something about 3d but you might
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What's considered the "average" amount of times per month for a girl to give her boyfriend a blowjob?
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>>18658918
I would expect 3-4 a week., thought I had a gf who gave me one every morning and it was pretty awesome. Depends on your bf's sex drive.
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I'm married and it's basically never
My dick is too big to really fit in her mouth
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>>18658932
that is unless I didn't mind the feeling of teeth
This is what I get for dating a small girl