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> Statistically there are thousands of girls at least equally or more compatible with you than your ex girlfriend.

Why do people spout this fucking meme? Are they actually retarded?
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How is this a meme exactly?
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>>18659353
That actually lifted my mood up, thank you
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Seriously, how fucking stupid can people be?

It's millions

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>be me
>have trouble waking up in the morning, feel heavily sleepy, literally have trouble just opening my eyes
>can easily go back to deep sleep just seconds after waking up
>visit doc, tells me to go see psychiatrist asap, likely have depression
>do, taking antidepressants and anxiolytics since March
>meds have helped with mood and panic attacks overall but still can't sleep and wake up like a normal person
>this has been going on for about a year and a half every. Single. Day.

Is this part of the depression? I haven't seen anyone co plain about it before. I'm not overweight so it'd be weird for it to be sleep apnea.

Help me PLEASE. I can't deal with this any longer.
I don't care about the meaningless void I feel inside, I just want to be able to sleep and get my good mornings back. I wasn't able to attend morning classes last semester because of this shit. It's ruining my life and I can't help but wonder if this will continue on till the rest of my days. And if so, I might as well just an hero.

PLEASE HELP I CAN'T DEAL ANYMORE WHAT'S THE ANSWER
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Caffeine and vitamins will help. Take some Vitamin tablets and you'll feel the effects after 6 weeks. Drink energy drinks a couple of times a week. Oh and exercising will Definitely improve your sleeping habits.

I was in the same situation as you back in like 2010 and the doctor told me to do all those things (even the energy drinks) after about 3 months I was feel and it's possible you'll immediately effects.
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>>18659342
Didn't help with my fucking spelling though hahaha

*After about three months I was feeling better and it's possible you'll feel immediate effects
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Your medication for anxiety makes you relaxed. That is also going to play a large part in the morning, especially waking up

Can any of you anon explain wtf is this ALT RIGHT shit?'
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>>18659302
like regular republicans but with genocide.
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A myth conspired by the left to lump racists/nazis in with republicans.
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>>18659302
People who support traditional values without the religion

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i'm an 18 year old grill and i have a homozygous c677t MTHFR mutation.

before i begin, yes, it sounds like motherfucker

anyway, this mutation has caused numerous problems for me including severe anxiety disorders, major depression, chronic fatigue, andrenal fatigue, trouble conceiving, (i don't want kids but i've been told it will be hard to have kids/ i will miscarriage)
and the overall inability to remove heavy metals and toxins from my body

when researching this more, i found that taking birth control is terrible for your health if you have this. it apparently depletes folate levels even further.

i've been on the pill since 14 for cramps, acne, hormone balance and i don't see any problem with it

i asked my doctor if i should come off the pill because of the mutation and she had no idea what the fuck i was talking about

is anyone here familiar with the mutation and whether or not it's ok to take the pill with it?

a shot in the dark really but it doesn't hurt to try
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>>18659295
Afaik the Pill fucks with folates anyway.
You know, you could make a decision on your own, just come off the pill (and if you're sexually active get something non-hormonal like a IUD).
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>>18659301
Copper IUD

regular IUD still has hormones, copper does not.

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i am a western European guy and my hair looks a slav haircut and i hate it

any idea's to change my hair besides a haircut (I swallow medication for my heart and one of the side effects are that my hair grows way faster)

>pic kinda related, its typical slav hair
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Is it really that hard to just use product in your hair, if anything look up hair tutorials on how to use product.
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be proud, buy a tracksuit and learn russian

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>made a promotional video about a recent larp event for a larp guild
>put it on youtube but then people from the guild were worried about leaks and drama because of some things in the video
>no problem, just edit it a bit and upload it again
>video gets blocked fucking everywhere because of a song at the end
>ok just upload it a third time but with different settings
>still blocked
>try to upload it to vimeo
>only lets me upload 500 MB without paying (((them)))
>my video is around 750 MB

my question is, do you guys know any video hosting sites where i can post videos without worrying much about copyright? i just want these guys to have their video already

pic slightly related, it's from the larp in question
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>>18659275
Or you can just downgrade the video since you dont need 1080p larping.

I have hour long shows in 1080p that take up 600MB so you're obviously fucking something up. Maybe your fps settings aren't set to 24 to 30 fps?
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>>18659277
do you want me to just screenshot my settings?
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bump for attention

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4chan has unironically ruined my life. I found 4chan a few years ago when i was 16, i had friends, i was partying alot etc. I was the typical normalfag.

After a while i started staying home, choosing 4chan over socializing. The addiction is currently so bad i barely get any sleep because i can't leave this place.

I get that everyone who has successfully left this place for good can't even reply but i'm still giving it a shot. I want to become a normie.
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>>18659273
Actually 4chan hasnt done anything you have.

As soon as you accept that you can start changing yourself.
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>>18659273
Try only browsing it occasionally on a (don't kill me) cell phone when you're on public transportation or in line or something. I can't say to quit it entirely, that would be hypocritical of me
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>>18659278
This. Nobody is coming to save you op. Accept your responsibility to yourself.

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Whats the best place to cam girl for?
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Shameless self bump
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20:35

What is considered wealthy? And is it realistic to aim to become a millionaire before the age of 30?

I am slightly above average in intelligence if academics are anything to go by
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>>18659261
Your questions are too vague to be answered accurately without further information regarding yourself.

Do you have any skills or talents that you could make a living off of? Are you physically attractive? What ethnicity are you? How old are you? Where do you live? What does your employment history look like?

You can get rich doing anything, as long as you're good enough at it. I'd say for the average person, it's unlikely to ever become a millionaire, though it's certainly an attainable goal with the proper motivation and suitable skillset.
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>>18659284
I'm a compsci graduate, not physically attractive, white, early twenties, I don't live anywhere longer than a few months as I travel around from country to country a lot, living off of savings for a year

I've only ever worked minimum wage jobs
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>>18659294
Then unless you get hit by a google car, yeah it's pretty unrealistic.

It's unrealistic for most people to be millionaires by 90

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off

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Girls, do you keep a collection of pics of cute/handsome guys like some of us do?

(specially with Instagram's "save" feature)
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>>18659269
I have a few pics saved, mostly of guys I dated in the past and such.
I don't keep photos of cute strangers tho and never save pics of people on Instagram. My Instagram saves are all Korean skincare products.
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Hey girls is it true that anything above 7 inches is where things start to get uncomfortable? I've had exes complain that I hurt them often without knowing before.

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Long story short, I've been in a relationship for six years, my first everything and have fallen in love with someone I haven't even met. Seriously contemplating breaking it off with my partner for this other person, but current partner is happy in relationship and would be shocked.
Do I cut contact with this new person and see if my feelings change or do I break it off now because I'm feeling like if it was true love I wouldn't fall for someone else.
The new person is also a downgrade in every way. Why do I feel like this.
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>>18659218
"True love" in the sense you never ever feel anything for anyone else doesn't exist.
Relationship are a choice. If you want to be with your SO, be with them. Put effort in your relationship, make them happy, spend time together. Otherwise, break it off and be ready to go through this in a few years from now with your new SO.
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>>18659218
Ill tell you what i tell all "first everythings". If you love her still after that long this is as good as it gets, and outside temptations will always fuck with you.

i have this best friend ive always been into. Weve fucked before but nothing ever came of us. I still have feelings for her and probably always will.

Now i also have this fiancée who i love very much and im happy with. Have never cheated and dont plan on it because i know how useless it is. But i still talk to the other girl (no lines crossed in conversation we talk like friends.)

If i talk to her every single day, i notice i start feeling stronger for her and i start getting annoyed and angry with my girlfriend over dumb shit (that seem unrelated but im sure it is) and i start resenting her and our sex stops.

Then if i stop talking to the other friend.. Even for like 2 days, everything goes back to normal and im in blissful love land again. Once i found the pattern i limited my talk with her. Now its all good.
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>>18659251
>get ready to go through this again in a few years
Ouch, but it's so true. I feel like I want to be single so I can talk to this new person guilt free. At the moment we have acknowledged our feelings for each other but aren't going any further.
Like the other poster said, when I talk to this person I get angry over every little thing my SO does and it's like I'm waiting for an excuse to break up with them, and I find myself thinking back over the years over terrible things they've done and that I should've ended it then, although we've gotten over those issues now. I think I will cut down on contact with this other person.

hinking about changing uni majors next year, looking at going into Bachelor of Information Technology or Bachelor of Science (major in Software Technology). Leaning toward doing the major in software technology but i'm not that good at maths. So my question is if i was to do the major in Software Technology is maths a major part and if so can it easily be learnt? Also what's the main difference between the 2 Bachelor degrees? And what do you think i should take
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IT if you're weak in math.

But generally both major are not math intensive. People often mistaken that you'll be learning how to do the calculations but its not, you actually learn how to make the machine calculates. Its a big difference.
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>>18659231
Do you touch on any programming in IT tho just the thought of programming intrigues me
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>>18659244
Yes, you can't avoid programming in both majors and it can get pretty heavy.
Just so you know, both major are mostly interchangeable when you're looking for work.

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Write letters, vent your frustrations, confess your sins, let it all out /adv/...
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Long Story short, I met this Girl at work a few months ago.
She was very nice and kind, and we started chatting.
I added her on Facebook to get advice for my job, how to do things better, faster, etc.
After a while we start talking and I start to develop emotions for her.
Little bit later I tell her, she tells me that she isn't ready for a relationship and that she isn't rejecting me.
After a while I hit a pretty bad depression and she asks what is up, so I tell her my situation and what not and I wanted to know how she really felt about me (I was losing trust in people at this stage of my depression.)
She said a few years ago at this thing I used to go to that she also went to, she found me unique, interesting, cute, and not like the other guys there.

Anyway fast forward to start of August.
She becomes really busy, and she stops talking to me, responding rather.
I couldn't hang out with her outside of work before because of how busy she was, so facebook was the only way of talking to her outside of work (btw at this stage I quit my Job, it was way too stressful and screwing me up in other factors)

So I started to get said, but then my paranoia strikes in and the situation started to look like the time my friend backstabbed me.
She stopped talking to me, she gets mad at me, she says she is my friend but doesn't act like it.

Same thing my friend did last year.

So I bring this up, she get's really upset.
The friendship kinda ends there for a bit.
Fast forward a week later I try to make it up to her, and she says she doesn't think the friendship is over and apologises for not talking to me a lot.

But then, it starts all over again.
She stops talking to me.
I get it, she is actually really busy, I know this.
But what am I supposed to do?
How can I be her friend if I can't even talk to her?

This is really fucking me up, and since I have feelings for her, it's making me feel even worse.
I just don't know what to do.
All I care about is being her friend now.
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Probably my closest friend, a girl I've known for 13 years or so and whom I also love (which she knows) but will never marry. She's in such a bad situation right now, has deleted fb and stopped using her phone. Because I can't get near her or know what she's doing or how she's feeling I am so worried. She's recently quit her weed addiction and was quitting cigarettes too, I was so happy for her she was doing so well, I'm afraid she's going back to smoking again and I'm stuck here at home not able to do anything about it. I wish I could do more to protect her, I wish I could convince her to live with me. Not so I can pursue a relationship, but just so I can keep watch over what she's doing and point her in the right direction. God knows what will have happened when she re-surfaces again, I fear the worst.

I can't get near her, and I'm worried sick.
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>>18659198
Outta luck, outta money, outta time ...

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How do I overcome phobias? I have a phobia of smelling bad and I'm conscious about it. I have an exaggerated sense of hygiene, I shower 2 times a day every day, change clothes even 3 times a day, bring spare clothes with me everywhere. I use a lot of expensive hygiene products and everyone tells me I smell very good, even random people on the street. I'm not fat or big, in fact I'm skinny as hell. It's starting to affect me because I already have too many clothes, sometimes I wear a shirt only once for a couple hours before having to change and wash it.
I'm extremely obsessed with this and spend hours a day cleaning and washing stuff, YET I still feel that I smell very bad.

I don't think it's a serious enough problem to require medication or a psychologist (not about to take a fistful of meds a day because I wash too much) but I need solace in my mind that I'm clean and smell nice. I'm very paranoid that everyone is telling me I smell nice but talk behind my back or something. It's negatively affecting my life, I have a hard time approaching people or have people close to me. I feel uncomfortable when someone tries to hug me and make excuses. I'm lonely and feel lonely.

Anyone else managed to get over phobias and paranoid thoughts? I feel like those anorexic people that insist they are actually obese.
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>>18659192
Psycholog with cbt.

There are no pills for phobia, only few methods how to help you. Seek psycholog and try it.

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I had regular sex for 2 weeks with a very good female friend, lets call her Jennifer, but we stopped and promised to keep it a secret and never do it again for reasons.

Would Jennifer be mad if I would have sex with her best female friend Stacy?
Stacy is also a very good friend of mine, we all see each other quite often.

For the record,
Stacy doesn't know that me and Jennifer had sex.
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>>18659188
I mean, you and Jennifer weren't exclusive to any extent from what I understand, which means she would really have no right to be upset about it.

However, considering you're all three close to each other, it could potentially cause some drama down the road.
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Does it really matter?
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>>18659188
If you make the same agreement with Stacey to keep her mouth shut and you Stacey and Jennifer never talk but that is not reality. One of you will talk and it will blow the fuck up. Fuck all the girls you want but fuck girls that do not know each other.

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