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I've fallen into an unproductive slump. My sleep schedule is messed. I have work to do, but have no motivation to get it done. This is not my typical self -- I used to have no problem just a few months ago studying 8 hours a day, but now I'm having a hard time focusing for 30 minutes.
How do I snap out of it?
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methylphenidate or modafinil
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vitamin D3.
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So the guy on the left posts that status after a fight with the jacked up guy on the right.
What does that make you think of the guy on the left? Is he a badass?
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>>18661806
depends on the context. Could come across different ways to different people.
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I think both of you are fucking faggots, for posting selfies of your fight and for fishing for comments about what people think about the selfies of your fight
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No because both of them most likely have the intelligence of a fruit fly
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I have a dumb problem - looking for advice. Tl;dr is I felt awesome quitting pot cold turkey but 6+ months later I feel awful.
In 2016 (age 21) I smoked pot for the first time. I lived in WA so it was legal. Going to school, had a job, all was well. I began to smoke habitually - daily for about 5 months. I'll admit I wasn't the most productive but I had lasting effects afterwards.
For 6+ months after I quit (cold turkey) I genuinely loved nature and was fascinated by everything. I loved going for walks, talking to people, got straight A's for first time in my life, loved thinking about things from new pov's, everything. Began eating wayyyy better and working out. Felt amazing.
Suddenly now I feel awful. Nature is uninteresting, I hate walking or working out, I feel anxious around people, eating more junk food, etc. No motivation to do anything.
I don't want to smoke now because it's illegal where I live, my career field requires regular drug testing, and I don't want to convince myself pot fixes everything.
Has anyone else experienced this type of feeling? I really want to get out of this loop.
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This is a bait thread right
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>>18661805
Honestly no. I just feel like crap after having been doing/feeling my best. I don't really want to smoke anymore but I haven't felt this low ever.
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>>18661808
Well in that case then, start tracking your progress at the gym. Weightloss, gainz? This way you'll stop hating it and be more motivated to go. With at least this one thing constantly on your mind you won't feel the need to smoke more plus this makes you more healthy and happy overall a better lifestyle ok 10/10 advice you're welcome
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First time poster here. I need advice.
There's this crazy woman threatening to hurt/run over a person I know. She is very willing to hurt this person because she's the ex of this person's boyfriend.
She has hurt her ex before and has hit this person's car. I'm at loss of what to do. All I know is that she lives within range and her instagram account. She is an unstable jealous woman and I'm afraid she might seriously hurt my acquaintance. I'm not sure if authorities would help because she hasn't done something more drastic...yet. I want to protect my dear acquaintance and prevent any tragic events from happening.
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Call the police. Threats are illegal, especially considering this person has a history with violence.
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>>18661782
>She has hurt her ex before and has hit this person's car.
And no one's gone to the police...?
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Do you have picture or audio evidence of her threats? If so then get the a authorities involved but be mature about it or else you look like a retard as well.
And if not then unless she's stalking you and your friend, ignore her
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Where do I find prostitutes. There is no brothel here. It's illegal. I'm fucking desperate! pls!
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Ask random girls on a streets / internets for fun for money. You will get lucky.
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Go to a country where brothels are legal.
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>here
at least say where you live idiot
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I don't feel like I'll ever be happy with my life, no matter what I choose to do career wise or whatever I can't think of anything that could make me happy. It's eating away at me and idk what to do. I've felt like this on/off for years but I always told myself I'd figure it out later, but I just graduated high school recently and need to figure out my life. I'm good at like IT shit and stuff but I know just doing that day in and day out wouldn't make me happy. Hell, even if I somehow got rich and didn't need a job and could do whatever I would feel this way, and would probably just end up doing a ton of drugs to feel anything. I don't know what to do.
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>>18661764
That feeling doesn't get better. Just try to focus on things that give you a sense of satisfaction or worth in the moment. If you're okay moment to moment, then you're probably on the right track.
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...ha
I just graduated high school as well and decided to go for a computer science degree but I find no interest and have no motivation to go to school. Every time I have to deal with college I freak out and consider blowing it off. I'm an artist but art doesn't make money. I'm really torn here;_;
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Seems like depression. Goggle it. See a doctor.
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How do I tell my friend/crush that I like her?
Some context. I'm 95% sure that my feelings are unrequited, that's not really my concern. I need to tell her because it's torture hanging out with her, having her touch me, catching her glances, ffs we fell asleep drunk cuddling the other night and it's too much for me.
Both of us have recently finished with 5+ year relationships, I'm not interested in dating and she's way out of my league anyways.
Anyways I want to bring this up in such a way that 1) is relatively comfortable for her to deal with in the moment 2) leaves open the possibility of friendship afterwards.
I'm pretty socially awkward, especially in these high pressure situations. Please give tips.
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Desperation bump. Do I meet up with her specifically to tell her? Wait for a normal time during a normal day? Do I do it when we're drunk and loose or sober and collected? Help, good anons.
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Her place/place of her choosing that she can easily escape if she feels the need.
I really value your advice and I'm having a problem I was hoping you could help me with (something to this effect). There's this girl I'm crazy about and blah blah blah... What do you think I should do?
You allow her to control pretty much everything possible about the response and situation meaning if there's any chance she still wants to be friends after asking her, she can choose to take that path. If not, then you were fucked anyway.
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Should I really pull the whole fake-out thing like that? It seems cute but not sure if it's a good strat
Is making friends even worth it? I show no interest in 95% of the people I meet and even those remaining 5% always end up being dicks or unstable after I get to know them. Additionally, when I do things with people I always feel like I wasted my time afterwards. I feel kind of lonely but don't know how much of that is just due to other's expectations since I generally feel like I enjoy my time alone over being around people I don't like (everyone).
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They are if you can find the right ones.
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I guess it is but it's really hard to find good ones so don't get too frustrated if you don't get them fast. I've had times when I had no friends and I was as suicidal as I am now. I have friends now but I don't trust them, I feel it's safer to not trust anyone given my life experience.
The pros of having friends is that you can be busy and have stuff to do that may or may not be enjoyable.
The cons are that they may require you to do stuff you don't want to do and put a social pressure on you. Some people like me and maybe you are loners by nature.
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I can't trust my girlfriend at the moment as much as i try..
We were in a relationship for 5 months before her's ended and now we are at 9 months. Every time she is on her phone with it pointed away from me I just assume she's texting a new me and I just can't get over it at the moment. I guess we just need time?
I doubt Ill get much advice other than break up (no) but I'll give it a shot
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Also I didn't make it entirely clear that she was cheating on her boyfriend to be with me for 5 months
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If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you
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Your girlfriend cheated on her boyfriend with you, and you wonder why you can't trust her? Why the fuck would you expect loyalty from a girl like that? Also you really do deserve to be cheated on since you were such a willing participant in her cheating.
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I need advice on a little high school drama
>Senior in high school
I've been talking to a girl that has had a crush on me for almost a year
> i didn't know it until a couple months ago
We've just started talking and are constantly sending little cutesy flirt message shit to eachother so the feelings are obviously there.
If any of you saw a thread Title "So there's this new girl" this is OP. But ive caught feelings for this new girl and would much rather pursue something with her than this other girl.
We haven't really talked in the past couples days due to my not responding, and im thinking of just not responding and hope she'll get the hint, but i'd feel like a dick afterwards.
What should i do?
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Bump
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I started to skim the post then saw this part:
>pic not related
And decided to not even try take your high school b.s. of a post even somewhat seriously and declare you a fool instead
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>>18661809
for saying the pic is not related?
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is it possible for my advisor to get me back in my classes? long story short, I fucked up and didn't pay my fee causing them to drop my classes off. worse part is when i tried to re-register the classes online and it said they are closed.
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Considering the present economic situation, it's very much possible. Send your advisor a mail and he'll forward it to admin. Then just wait and pray.
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>>18661732
Put it this way. You have no chance if you don't ask.
Go directly to the dean of your college. Have a good explanation/excuse. Rules are rules, particularly involving money, but you might get them to bend a bit.
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I want to go to rehab but my dad said he doesn't have the money. Our insurance switches from his old job to new job in a number of months. I insisted we discuss it again when the insurance changes and we can check the cost and know for sure. I assume insurance from a federal job is pretty good. He thinks it will be thousands and it's just some "new age woo" place where they only do stuff like place hot stones on your back. I want *this* particular rehab because it's better than my last rehab where all we did was fill out packets and go to AA meetings. This one addresses the nuances of bipolar disorder, trauma, suicidality, etc
I need the help they offer.
I tried to kill myself not long ago.
I don't know how else I would pay for it. I'm not relevant enough for crowdfunding and don't want to make a spectacle of myself. I don't think they offer special grants for it either. It's not like applying for a college.
It's the Life Healing Center in Santa Fe.
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Doesn't COBRA guarantee that he remains covered by insurance during the change of jobs?
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I'm not happy but I'm not sad either I'm just in this state that I really don't care about most things, I even signed up for the army in the hopes of feel scared but nothing, am I depressed?
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>>18661722
You are depressed for several years , where the depression made you loose all your emotions
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It sounds like you feel bothered by your lack of feeling. So there's that.
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So my assumptions of my dad cheating on my mom with his office employee were correct. I found a few photos as well. When I found them, I was angry but I don't do what to do now?
I am 21 and should I consider telling this to mom? If I tell mom, I'll be de-railling their marriage so I'm very clue less now. Help me /adv/.
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It depends, if they are over 60 don't tell your mom, but tell your dad to stop doing that shit. If they are under 60, tell your mom so she can leave that cheating bastard.
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>>18661757
Why not tell them if she's over 60?
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If she doesn't have to depend on him to live and you don't have to depend on your parents being together then yes. If they're pretty old though don't do this. Id confront dad first though and see if you can talk him out of it.
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I love giving advice and I am here for your problems if you want.
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I know this sounds dumb but I signed paperwork to join the navy just to see If I would feel scsred; but nothing, I haven't felt anything in months
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>>18661725
I don't think that alone would make you feel scared. You should just go tho dude. Like if you don't feel anything maybe you will when you are surrounded by all these people. And if not, at least you'll know you are fighting for freedom and add purpose to your life. And hey, you are gonna go to new places and explore interesting things. Look at it this way, you either die after going to brand new places and helping out your country or you live life having been to all these places and exploring. Win/win imo go for it brother