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>>18663037
Bump

>>18663037
Fapping is harmless (unless you do deathgrip).

Thr porn is real enemy. Just fap before sleep on your bed with eyes closed. 10 minutes max.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/

Keep yourself busy with hobbies.

I would tell myself to lose hope and be ready for a life of frustration and disappointment.

work harder in school

dont fall in love

wait until after uni to fall in love

my first breakup in grade 10 was the reason i almost failed all of my classes, it was so hard bc we dated for 11 months after she cheated on me

that stuck with me till first year uni, met a great chick, but i got ghosted 4 months in

it sucked

Keep your car running no matter what, it's your lifeblood

Show up to every class, study hard every day

Keep a job even if it's a part time weekend gig

Do a low-carb diet and lift

Talk to people wherever you go. Be in the moment and show genuine interest in what they have to say. Ask questions. Don't be afraid to propose a hangout. Worse that can happen is they say decline and life goes on just the same for you.

Just because you really enjoy spending time with someone doesn't mean you love them. Enjoy things for what they are and let them go when they're done. Don't chase after anyone. Don't cling to anyone. It will only drive them further away.

If she's engaging in shit talking, call out her bullshit. She started it, you finish it. If she thinks it's weak, remind her that if you don't pick on someone your own size, you can get crushed

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>>18663024
Six Billion people on this god forsaken rock and you care about what some random chick thinks about your anime?

You just ignore them. "Defending" yourself in this situation is childish, hopeless and stupid. She already thinks your hobby is shit, so what's the point? In her eyes, you're saying "I like to eat shit, this is why eating shit is so good..."

>>18663024
It depends if you actually have shit taste and she's right, else, ignore it or call her out on ner own shitaste


Shitaste includes being obsessed with videogames, or non productive things, too much comics and too much manga.

BUT if you are a responsible adult then you can waste your life away with your waifu, it will be sad but you will be a loser eitherway

What did she mocked you about anon?
Your chuuni byu? Are you doing too much of something?

Same story here. It's frustrating as fuck knowing you're reading so much slower than you used to be able to. Maybe meditating before reading would help?

Just got into reading and I'm a bit younger than you. The most important thing is to find material that genuinely interests you. There's just no point in participating in anything if it doesn't interest you. You should also read only when you're free to do so. Make sure that when you read, you read, don't waste time thinking about other things. Although, the last one might be trivial if you actually find something that grabs your attention

>>18663020
Find something interesting. Classics are classics for a reason.

I was like you and the two books that got me into reading again were Animal Farm and Slaughterhouse V. Animal Farm is a short, interesting easy read.

Also finding short stories really got me going. "Where are you going, Where have you been?" Is one of my favorite ambiguous mindfucks

Break up.

She's going to cheat on you.

Enjoy the time off

It probably won't end well.

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it sounds like you’re paying for a prostitute that won’t fuck you. how often do you get laid?

>>18663018
Did you even read the OP? Where did the sex even come from?

>>18663016
Bump

If you ask politely I don't see a problem but that doesn't mean he won't. Everyone is different and some people get offended over anything. I say it doesn't hurt to ask though

call the cops

>>18662988
Ok. I've decided to wait until 5:30pm and then I'll go across. Right now the song playing consists o a guy yelling "A CHIKA CHIKA BOOM BOOM BOOM" over and over.

>>18662989
I tried before but the lady who answered was black and told me off for specifying that the music was reggae and said officers would have to enter my property to judge how loud the noise was.

>>18662970

Options

1. Suck it up
2. Confront him about it

>>18662978
What should I even say? As retarded as he's being he can fuck his life up as much as he wants

>>18662985

Tell him it's annoying that he keeps breaking up and going back to her all the time. Tell him he can do whatever he want but you don't want to listen to the bitching. Pluss say that you care about him as a friend, hint strongly that his relationship with this gal isn't solid and affects him, her and you in a bad way. Still don't give an ultimatum, friends stick around through tick and thin,.

>>18662969
>I don't care if some girl may have mental issues, I have my own as well

Never stick your dick in crazy...
unless you yourself are also crazy...

find new friends, as hard as that sounds.
your peers shape who you are more often than not, and it's extremely hard to change yourself if everyone around you is not going to be too happy about it.

You see they are not friends . The are just using me for my car as I am for their company . :/

It's not easy finding a proper social network (in the pre-internet sense of the word) to support you through hard times, especially when you're having a hard time right now.
But it is important nonetheless. Do you have family? Have you checked out local church congregations?
I know that sounds lame as shit but if you're lucky there will be decent people to socialize with once a week.
Occasionally hanging out with people that have their life under control can really give you perspective. Just seeing that it's possible instead of constantly being with people who have the same problems you have, or worse.

If you don't all go to the same college or workplace, how would that even be hard to figure out

there's no pleasant way to tell someone "you're not gf material for me any longer".
you will hurt her and it will suck ass, but it is definitely necessary.
you just have to go trough this. it's not going to be easy, but it will teach you to think deeper about entering a relationship next time. it's not something you should do "hust because". make sure you're sure before you get serious.

good luck

>>18663310
also, waiting for the rightmoment or setting is just trying to get around it. there's no such thing as a "good moment for a break up". you just have to do it and get it over with as soon as possible. next time you get the chance to meet up, have that talk with her.

>>18663310
Thank you very much for your post. I'm going to see when she's free and get it done.

I feel like you'd be better off looking for the phone numbers of actual institutions that might be related to arctic research. Ask them the questions you asked us

>>18662955

Why not go and work for an oil company or something like that? You'll make 10 times more money.

>>18662955
To me it would be very interesting and it's not a shit job. Of course it will have its moments where you'll think "omfg six more months of this shit" I would imagine he would have to have some sort of research in project management skills in order to qualify for the expensive trip. Good luck