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have you started doing something more productive instead of using that time for fapping? 3-4 times a day is kinda problematic but 1-2 times a week is perfectly okay. it's worth it only if it made a change so far, 270 days is a long time, you should already know is it worth it

>>18663652
Only use them if it says on the back "made with real bear skin" otherwise its a crock.

don't use them for anal and only use them to prevent pregnancy, you wouldnt want that thing to break inside a bitch with chlamydia.

i tried basically ever thickness, didn't really feel a difference in any of them. I did have a few rip but that's due more to funky positioning than the condoms themselves.

I suppose it is probably more likely to break though, so if you care that much just get the thicker one, because its going to feel like shit regardless.

step on the board
push
fall on your ass
repeat until you can bomb hills with the best

then learn to skateboard cause longboarding is for fags

>>18663638
Start by keeping your balance on the board first. When you are good, learn how to place your feet: one in front facing the front, and your other behind the first, perpendicular (this way you'll be able to apply pressure either on the left or the right to turn).
Then, by moving only a few meters at a time, try to give yourself a little push with your foot on the back - don't hesitate to move a bit your foot on the front to keep your balance when your other foot is touching the ground).
Bend your knees.
If you can, learn to skate with both of your feet: your leg always staying on the longboard can get tired pretty fast, so if you're going to travel rather long distances, you could change your "balance leg".

>>18663742
Also, to help keeping your balance and learn how to move the board to turn, start on the grass: you won't move at all. It's gonna be easier. And if you want to start slowly to turn (and you're not ready gain the speed yourself), go down your driveway (as there's always a tiny slope, else go to a street that is not too steep but not flat). You'll move slowly and you'll get the hang of turning.

Afterwards, you'll have to master this balance while giving a push. So learn where and how to place your feet in front, this is very important.

Also, you'll want to stop when you'll be going fast! One method is to jump in front of the skate while giving a little force backwards so the board will stop and you'll be on your feet. (You can also do this if you feel like your going to fall: don't be afraid to actually fall but if you can prevent it, do it). Another method is to slow down by braking with your foot.

maybe u should try making new friends then. or perhaps being more upfront and literal with what you mean. I notice you don't have MANY people to do things with. so does that mean you need a whole dozen friends to do anything with? just saying. it sounds like maybe you have one or two friends, but like that isn't enough to do anything with. or, by "not many" did you mean literally "no one"? if the former, you should hangout with those one or two friends. if the latter, make new friends.

personally, me, friends are overrated. I haven't been able to make new friends and honestly I just do not like the majority of people. I'm the coolest person in town so it's better to hang out with myself. yes, I be the coolest, I da best guy. All the ladies want me. I wear a suit and tie. ME DA BEST

>>18663668
one or two friend but they are busy with their lives so i dont get to see them so often

>>18663624
I'm guessing you chose a degree without a job attached traditionally. Sell coffee and consider your life choices.

What area is that? Ive never seen/met a transsexual person but I'm very sexually interested in them.

Well you're already alive, convince me why it's worth ending? Tell me at least.

>>18663612
I have realized I don't have any friends, no girlfriend. Nothing. Every day I wait if someone writes me a message, or invites me, it never happens. I feel so lonely. The girl I love so much doesn't give a shit about me.

If you are going to do it then make it clean, I was suicidal once. I understand why I was like that but in the end I realised life was more imperative because I wanted to experience things and full full my ambitions...but like I said, if you want to do it, do it, but first explore all other avenues before deciding.

>>18663600
Eat her out on the spot. get hard while you do it so she knows you aint fucking around

>>18663600

Why do you think your mom thinks you are gay?
Why do you care if your mom thinks you are gay?

You could just pretend to be like super gay and watnot, then bring a girl home later and like suuuupraaaice!

Seriously though just be yourself.

>>18663611
>Why do you think your mom thinks you are gay?
When I sit down on my bed or chair I sit like a girl I think and she gives me weird looks
>Why do you care if your mom thinks you are gay?
Because I don't like being judged, especially by her
>You could just pretend to be like super gay and watnot, then bring a girl home later and like suuuupraaaice!
I don't know if that would work
>Seriously though just be yourself.
I am, and I think it's making it worse.

it's def. not right, just jerk off to porn or pay money

no, it's not ok.
it's understandable that you got to the point of thinking it could be ok, but you should definitely work on the issues that led you down that road. it won't get better on it's own. have you ever considered getting professional help?

>>18663589
No Mohammed raping people is bad.

Are you compleitly new to music production? Need more info

Get ozone isotope. Set all your audio tracks so the master is about -2 db. Use presets. Don't use a limiter before mastering.

>>18663613
No I've been getting good for a year now, I just thought it could be cool to have a thread where people could share their tips and tricks

>>18663567
sorry to hear that. im in the same boat. hope someone has some insight on here.

>>18663567

This is simple. She's not your
''best friend." She is a girl you have a romantic interest in, that you should have expressed your feelings for, or stepped away from, if something nonromantic was unacceptable.

Your pain isn't going to change the situation. Move on. Find friends you don't want to fuck or romance.

>>18663567

>I really want to know why she said & did the things she did if she's not interested

We don't know anything about this person. We're not mind readers. At this point, it doesn't even matter. She doesn't want to be with you. Thats all you need to know.

>I also still want to be friends with her.

Well, you can't. Sorry. Additionally, I don't believe you have any interest in being her friend. I think your actual interest is just perpetually orbiting in her immediate bubble on the blind hope that one day she changes her mind and decides she wants to date you. Thats not friendship, OP. Move on.

I work with >90% men and nothing you're describing sounds worse than the bullshit I put up with

working with women is a special kind of hell.
you probably need to go into field ms that are too ambitious or strenuous for women to get into. hard manual labor or highly competitive work.

>>18663564
You're delusional. Women dominant work environments (typically in low level positions like office work) are notoriously awful. Just the most obnoxious gossip, banter, and low key politics.

guess you should learn about investing. i'd say, read books about people who already "made it", like warren buffet.

saving up or earning the money trough "normal labour" just won't cut it.
do you also know why you have the goal you have? it makes it more likely you'll achieve it if you know why you even want to achieve it.

You'd have to risk all 80k and your credit to do that.

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>>18663547
Learning about investing is definitely a start. Although I'm not sure it would get the return I'm looking for.

I guess I don't really know why I want this much money, since if I choose to I can just live comfortably until retirement the way I am currently. I guess a reason is that I want to be acknowledged by others, or maybe to prove to myself that anything is possible.

>>18663549
What would I be doing?

Only a good idea if:

You are not in the same building or if it's a big ass building you are on opposite floors and different departments

One of you is leaving soon

You like each other to the point it might be marryable
I dated a girl in my graduate research group and we're married now.

the philosophy is "don't shit where you eat". honestly I wouldn't bother.

>>18663539

I married my boss. Neither of us wanted to get into a relationship due to the fact that we worked together so it took 2 years before we started dating. In general it's not a good idea to date people you work with, but you like who you like. Just make sure it's kinda sorta solid and not just a lay.

move out

>>18663511
>Made a decision
>Wants a decision

Fucking idiot.

>>18663511
move out I suppose