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>>18663818
Get a hobby that takes your mind off things

>>18663865
That's the thing though. Even when i do things i like to do, i still think about other things

>>18663866
Meditate

>>18663789
go buy a tennis ball
then use it to massage your neck against the wall
identify which muscle hurts and then tackle it
you can search for physiotherapy muscle exercises on youtube

no need to thenk meh

>Why the FUCK do women find this attractive?
Because he's an attractive enough guy

>almost 100 likes
Lots of people like their friends' photos to show support for them. It's something you'd know if you had friends.

>He obviously even has some kind of defect because one of his eyes is more closed than the other.
Let's see a picture of you then, I'm sure we could pick out some sort of 'defect' in you that's actually something that's perfectly normal

You sound very shallow

>Why the FUCK do women find this attractive

Is this a question worth answering?

>If women find this attractive I want to at least try and understand why

Why do you want to know?

any eye color aside from brown will receive compliments. he's not a bad looking guy by any means. doesn't look like a nice guy, but not bad looking.

>>18663772
Placebo effect is placebo. If you think it will help it will. If you fight it it won't.

if you expect them to "fix" you, you will only start to hate and resent them. they won't tell you what to do and hand you a premade solution. their job is to ask the right questions to guide you into the right areas to ask yourself the important questions and coming up with personal solutions.
nobody can change or fix you appart from yourself. but they help you get to the roots faster since they know where to look for.
also, it helps to feel like you're actively working on your issues and aometimes medication is very helpful too. provided you actually go trough the hassle of giving different approaches (dosage, brand, kind, etc) a go.
go in there with the clear set goal of providing them with the conplete truth and nothing else. you're not there to make them like you or approve of you. you're not there to nake them your friend. they can inly do their job if you tell them everything as honestly as you possibly can. you don't do this for them, you do this for yourself. help them help you by not playing childish games and you'll see results.

good luck.

>>18663781
>>18663822
Thanks anons. Have you ever visited one before?

>>18663757
Divorce it is then. Next.

nah, this is not "men".
he's probably depressed. that makes you have zero energy.
he might also have some intolerance that makes him fart and burp a lot. my dad did that too and i HATED it. turns out he can't tolerate göiten and lactose. if only he would have gotten that tested 50 years ago. it would have saved me so many disgusting moments.

He sounds like a total slob. If this is a new development ask what's been happening with him lately and call him out on it. If this isn't new, then you knew this is what you signed up for and we don't feel bad.

>>18663734
Khan academy. Start from kindergarten and end up in high school precalc.

>>18663736
How long will that take? I ideally want to have my GED by October or November and begin taking classes at the local community college before shipping out to an actual uni.

Silvery/white stretchmarks are permanent. Use something like Bio-Oil on the red ones.

Nothing can make your tits bigger apart from surgery or pregnancy. If you lose weight, you'll probably lose some of your tits too, they are mostly fat. You can't avoid it.

>>18663731
Nobody cares about stretch marks OP.

boobs size is genetical, but you can try boosting it with food that aids hormonal balance or boosts oestrogen (like soy or bottled water).
building up your chest muscles will also help make your boobs seem fuller/bigger by improving posture.
there's also a massage technique where you slowly re-distribute your own body fat my basically "scooping" it to the desired area (boobs) over a long time. iow, you scoop fat from under your arms in the direction of your bobs for a few years. not sure if it works but i saw some pretty convincing begore and after pics once. might be worth a try.

you can get laser therapy for the stretch marks, would probably cost less than using that cream. that's only topical. the damage is deeper than the cream is even allowed by law to penetrate your skin. you can try massaging the tissue, but you might risk doing even more damage. the only thing that might help smoothen the skin from the outside is aha peeling or derma rolling. other than that, your best bet is to boost your skin health by drinking tons of water, exercising for improved blood flow, eating blanced and with variety to ensure proper nutrition and maybe take additional supplements like fish oil.

good luck

leave her alone, and dont fuck ur friends relationship

Leave her don't fuck up your friend

>>18663721

Leave her alone. Don't make your drunken, emotional stupidity anyone else's problem.

>>18663717
What kind of person do you want to be anon? There's no wrong answer, do you want to be compassionate to her and try to help her with her problems? Or be compassionate to yourself,will opening an old wound do more damage to you than you can afford. At the end of the day if both of you benefit, then cool, but if she gets an emotional crutch and you get wounds re opened, you're fucked rub one out and think about it

>>18663712
You already have the answers you want. Out of the options you know about choose the one best suited to your essay format. This isn't about the practicalities this is about your insecurities. Suck it up.

>>18663726
Is one option better than the other? In my more self-aggrandizing moments, I like to think of myself as a neutral middle ground between Jim Goad and pre-2016 election Matt Taibbi. I know that I'm good. I don't really care about money or acclaim. I would rather have a couple hundred people love me than a vocal contingent whining about shit.

This is veering into 1k words and a poisonous mindset that can only fall into a pit of unrealistic expectations.

Just help me. Please. I know that some of you guys already know, but who cares?

HOW DO I GET FOLKS TO READ MY SHIT AND GIVE ME FUCKING MONEY??!!!?!!

>>18663792
If you are actually good all you will have to do is put your stuff out there. Exposure is your business Norman Mailer.

>>18663705
I know what you mean. American culture obsesses over celebrity, but also shames anyone that desires it.

Its a pretty sick catch 22. I don't think theres anything wrong with a desire to be famous. To quote Brad Neely's "Wizard People, Dear Reader,"

"... you know, that’s all anyone ever does anything for anyway, the sake of a story to be made of them."

it's a normal desire to not just "vanish in darknes"
once you die. moat people sooth that desire by having kids. but you can also try to create a lasting masterpiece. write a book, music, make art. by only being an excentric person you might achieve some fame, but how durable this will be is rather questionable. you'd need to give humanity a good reason to still remember you in 100 years.

also, you prevent imodesty and unlikeabilty like you would if you weren't famous. by not being a narcissistic bitch. you can still be exciting and interesting without being too full of yourself. look at iris apfel. she's a really sweet person.

Thanks for the replies guys, I do read em and they are always interesting

Legit just not enough foreplay, you aren't going to please her with penetration if she's not that wet. Also don't be afraid to play with the clit.

tensing up is the female equivalent of not staying hard or cumming too fast due to anxiety. she's either not yet comfortable enough around you or generally a nervous wreck.

>>18663704

This means she isn't ready/aroused enough. What does she like? What turns her on? Nibble on her neck maybe, kiss her thighs, pinch her nipples. Make sure she wants it.

>>18663686
>Food: $106
>Supplements (Protein): $50
I really don't understand this.

But yeah, sounds pretty decent.

>>18663686

Not terrible, no.

Its very easy to spend all that in a night though. I do recommend avoiding the party lifestyle and watching your personal spending if thats all you have.

Side note:

Im canadian. Our numerical cost of living is far higher than yours assuming youre american. So im going off of that.

That could be tonnes of money for all i know but i know a lot of shit is dirt cheap south of the border depending where you are...

>>18663695
I base my entire food budget around hitting my Macros in carbs, fat & protein. I also want to keep it varied and healthy, so I get all my minerals / vitamins / slowly digested carbs.

I stay away from pizza, ramen, and snacks.

Sadly protein is hard to hit for me in an affordable way, and I've found out the cheapest thing to do is just supplement the rest.

Rationalize the extra cost of gym and supplements with the value of better health and feeling better about my body. Cheaper than therapy or sloth, anyhow.

>>18663701
I'm actively looking for cheaper rent. I currently live with 2 roommates. Where I am right now is actually one of the cheapest options. It is also walking distance from almost everything, so I find it to be worthwhile.

>Its very easy to spend all that in a night though.
How could I squeeze more money in then?
I'm not really the party type of person, but I dont really get what message you want to get across.

assuming Turner technologies, they have a phone app.

personally I use the one I stole from high school

>>18663698
Not all professors will let you use the app. I've only ever had one allow it.

OP, check the syllabus or email your professor.

>>18663681
Try and buy an old one from a friend for cheap?

Lowes and osh are both home improvement stores. I could also do dog walking?

Math tutor and dog walking would be my choice.

>>18663658
I'd work anywhere, jobs are hard to come by.