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I have a strange problem. Often when I'm with girls, I find myself unable to get my dick up or keep it going for long, especially in PIV sex. Howevre, when masturbating (100%) and doing some other stuff with girls (Sometimes), it works just fine.

What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?
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you're fucking chicks you faggot, even your dick knows how gay you are
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>>18666588
How often do you watch porn?
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>>18666732
Almost daily. Someitmes there's a 'day off', sometimes even more, but more than 2 days straight without it is rare.
If it matters, I usually don't watch PIV porn, and more often than not it is without any males.

I recently started talking to an ex from high school. Partly because I'd always enjoyed the time we spent together but also because I'm incredibly lonely and it's that time of year to feel bad about it again.
We've been talking everyday for the past few weeks and I've taken her to dinner twice. We seem to enjoy ourselves but I've made it no secret that I want more than to just laugh over chinese food and talk about inane bullshit all day. When I asked her about what she was feeling she told me she didn't have interest in being any more than friends which just destroys my self-esteem but whatever. I really don't think she's a good friend; she's passive aggressive and uses me as a whipping post for work stress. I also know she has low opinions of males and for me to fuck off after being rejected would just prove her right.
I'm caught in this place where I know she's bad for me but I can't bring myself to do what I need to. What do?

TL;DR: I have no interest in pursuing this girl after she rejected me. How do I get away without proving her poor opinion of males correct?
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Who cares about her opinions? She's going to feel a type of way regardless of what you do.
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>>18666683
>Who cares about her opinions?
I kinda care
I feel bad knowing there are people out there that hate my guts. We dated like 7 years ago at this point and about 2 years ago I'd reached out to the people I'd wronged and apologized; she was one of them.
I want her to be happy despite the fact that she uses me to feel better about her life if that makes sense.

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How do I stop feeling so shitty because I'm not very interested/good at math? I write very good papers and am generally a top student in humanities courses, but I regularly catch myself feeling bad about not majoring in something STEM oriented. I don't even think I'm that bad at math (I did fine in HS Calc which is the most advanced course I've taken), I just don't really have the desire to sit down and really commit myself to understanding it, which is all that really matters.I know I have the aptitude to get into a good law school and earn a meaningful career, all I need to do is finish out strong for junior and senior year. I just need to figure out how I can stop putting myself down over feeling stupid because I looked at too many Uni memes on /pol/. I'm doing a Comp Sci minor to at least have some sort of technical skill, but I'd be lying if I said I was actually good at coding.
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STEM takes a lot of practice, patience and general enthusiasm for mathematical/scientific fields that keeps your interest in it

If you genuinely do not enjoy doing math or coding then you don't have to justify it any further, there is only more math and more coding ahead of you if you keep it up
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Stop taking shit posted on /pol/ seriously. That board is satire.

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First time poster, I really need useful advice on my situation since I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for some years.

I'm a soon-to-be 20 years old kissless virgin. I've tried to approach girls through my entire lifetime only to be ignored or looked down upon.

When I was younger, every single time I tried to start a conversation with a girl she would ignore me or simply leave, which damaged my confidence and self-esteem severely, eventually causing a depression after trying so much only to be rejected, and it has become an even worse problem recently.

I met a girl almost a year ago who happened to be really funny, smart and pretty and I made my best efforts to approach her. At first it seemed that I was finally making progress, we laughed together a lot and we shared many common interests. However after some weeks she began to ghost me completely, after I developed oneitis for her, making me feel like a completely useless piece of shit for the last months, since every single time I tried anything I'd just get down like that.

I'm not depressed by the fact that she rejected me like that anymore, I'm depressed by the fact that I'm still a kissless virgin at this stage of my life and I can't raise my confidence or my self-esteem to make any progress towards changing it since I've been ignored too much.
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Is you problem connecting limited to just girls or something you notice in other situations as well?
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Everyone goes at their own pace in life. You'll find someone just as awkward as you some day. I wouldn't worry about it. In fact I think worrying about it is your problem. Get help with your depression as that plays a massive impact with your personality. Get well soon mate there are plenty other people in your situation

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>wake up at 6.30
>be at mr silversteins place at 8
>do shitty tasks no one needs an bachelor degree for but it was somehow required so you wasted the best 23 years of your life getting one
>launch time with collegues you fucking hate
>work some more
>be at the gym by 5
>be back at home by 7
>spend the next 4 hours playing vidya, shitposting, watching yootube, cooking and mastrubating
>go to sleep at 11 o'clock

Repeat for the next 45-50 years. tfw no gf.

Whats the goal here? To work as long as you can so you can have some free time when your body is old and broken?
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>>18666538
Theres a fuck load more to life. Theres so much cool shit to do if you have a stable job and some disposable income.

Where ya live at homie? i'm sure i could find some dope shit for you to do
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>>18666566
i live in germany. Its pretty rural around here. We have a lake and a few forests. Thanks.
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>>18666538
the cool part is you get to make your own goals

do you have any hopes or dreams? are you the person you want to be? who do you want to be in 5 years?
you got your degree so you're already ahead of most people your age

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Why do I still have feelings for someone that I no longer like?
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I don't know.
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>>18666532
Because you do still like them but you convinced yourself you don't.
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>>18666532
>>18666565
Stockholm syndrome/you're a cowardly idiot.

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I fucked up last night. I was having sex with my girlfriend, and she ended up wanting rough sex, so she started choking me and slapping me in the face which was all gravy. But then afterwards were laying there and i asked her if she could take my slap, but thought it was gonna be on her ass but i meant the face. She said she'd take it. granted, i didnt hit her hard, but still, She ended up getting pissed off and slept on the couch. I Explain it to her, that I was confused about what she wanted. Shes says she loves me, but shes pissed. How do I go about apologizing to her?
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>>18666501
This is one of those situations where "let the problem fix itself" is a real solution.

Stop apologizing. One time is enough. Show strenght and she'll come back.

Don't slap her face ever again though, moron.
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She's kind of dumb if she thought ass first instead of face. I mean the context of the conversation was face slaps

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>woman claims to crush on a guy
>guy gets some semblance of a hint and tries approaching her
>woman freaks out a little and turns him down; maybe feel creeped out
>guy gets mixed messages and avoids her
>woman spends rest of her life sulking and beating herself up, feeling that she screwed up her chance

Why are women like this?
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Femanon here. Hits a little too close to home. ;_;
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>>18666477
Women don't know what they want. Once you learn this, it all makes sense.
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>>18666488
This
It's true to all of us in some sense but bitches still be trippin

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Has anyone cancelled their engagement? Regrets?
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No but I wish I had!

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>have cousin I want to fuck
>she has always teased me when we were teens
>she has a boyfriend now
>want to fuck her because taboo shit is hot
>think I can manage to fuck her once we're alone if I make a move, but I don't know if that's just my boner talking or she's legit interested

What do, anons
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Go back to the lil ol' south and unplug your internet there.
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>>18666424
Make a move, see how she reacts. Just don't get her pregnant for the love of Christ.
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Don't do it.

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I bought something from an Amazon seller and they said they shipped it. But they didn't give me a tracking number and they wont tell me the shipping carrier or the delivery estimate. Its been four days and the seller hasn't answered any of my messages
Have I been bamboozled?
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I'm afraid to say, bamboozled as fuck.

How long does it take for the depression to go away? I'm almost 22 and I noticed that my hairline has started to slightly recede after getting a buzz cut. I buzzed my hair 2 months prior to that and there were no signs of hair loss back then. Does male pattern baldness happen that quickly? I'm still not sure if it's just a maturing hairline (is that a meme btw?) or if it's male pattern baldness but I'm assuming that it's MPB so that I can deal with the depression right away instead of postponing it. I've decided to lose my hair the natty way because who the fuck knows how these anti hair loss drugs will affect me later in life. Plus I always say that chicks shouldn't be allowed to use make up to hide their shitty genes so I don't want to be a hypocrite. How long does the depression last? I was depressed as fuck during the first 2 weeks but now my emotions have more or less stabilized. I'm feeling a bit down some days but it passes after a few hours. I just want to feel normal again and enjoy my final year(s) of having hair (assuming it's male pattern baldness and not just a maturing hairline). Also, if I have MPB then will I notice thinning on the crown of my head during the early stages or does it fall out gradually after receding at the hairline for a while? If I drag my fingers across my scalp I won't see a single loose hair when I look at my hands. There is no hair on my pillow when I wake up in the morning.
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Psychological effects are very hard to predict. Depends on the person.

MPB can act at different speeds depending on the person too. This is how it goes: certain follicles in your hair are sensitive to DHT and they start to shrink gradually. The more sensitive they are, the faster they'll die. The more DHT you produce, the quicker they'll die too. MPB happens in different ways and thinning at the crown is not necessary.
If you want to lose it naturally go ahead, but be aware that once you lose your hair it's gone unless you get an hair transplant or magical regrowth happens.
Dutasteride blocks 95% of DHT, that's why it is supposed to be so effective. Some people get side effects, however only a very very small percentage compared to placebo groups.
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>>18666403
Iktf anon, I'm also 22 and my hairline started receding when I was like 16 lmao. Forget that maturing hairline meme, it's probably receding. Lots of guys start receding early unfortunately.

As for how I dealt with it: I simply looked at myself in the mirror, gave myself a buzz cut, and then grabbed a razor and shaved my whole head. My parents were shocked and like "wtf is wrong with you" but it helped me accept my fate. Having friends that complimented the fact that I looked better bald also helped immensely (I had curly jewish hair, definitely an improvement), thought I suppose I have decent traits to be able to pull off the bald look. I feel much more confident in my appearance and even accept my early baldness as a blessing because it made me look much better.

Having a decent beard or stubble and/or wearing glasses detracts attention from your bald head, if you're that self-conscious about it but really, get a buzz cut/shave it completely and go out in public like that. The best way to overcome your insecurities is to expose them to the world sometimes.

Pic related: me being a bald ass fgt
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>>18666403
last sept i noticed my hair thinning out from the crown at 19 first month of uni

it got to the point where i was clearly balding with a huge bald spot on the top of my head. keep in my mind my hairline is 100% and not affected. so it depends on the person

buzz cutting since

i highly reccemend going to the doctor to get your blood checked for any abnormalities - also ask to check vitamin D level.

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I feel like I've fucked up my relationship with my nephew, he's only 5 years old but he's a tall kid for his age.

I tried teaching him to read and ended up getting pretty frustrated at him and he's avoided me since then. I don't think he's told his mom but I still feel like an asshole.

Is there some way i can fix it. I feel awful.
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You could try to apologize by admitting you were wrong to snap at him, and make it clear you have no intentions of harming him.

Not sure why you decided to include the fact that he's tall for his age tho...

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I feel very confused have trouble remembering everything/anything and have amnesia and blurry vision aphasia and I can't remember anything from my life even yesterday is gone a blur everything is now it's coming from a disease that is worsening I am still undiagnosed
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Go see a doctor.
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institutionalize yourself before anything worse happens
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>>18666385
?

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>be me
>6th grade, really love singing
>music teacher and parents always told me i'm good at singing, though parents are just being parents
>teacher wants some of us (me included) to sing a song for the end of the year ceremony, it was yesterday by the beatles
>he just told us to practice ourselves
>as soon as we hit higher notes everyone told me to shut up
>basically in the end when everyone was singing on stage i just stood there trying not to cry

fast forward to now

>practice singing for 4 years by now
>every time i fail a note my throat gets narrow and tense, and i feel like crying, which causes me to sing ever worse

how the hell can i get over it? It's really being problematic.
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holy fuck this actually sounds like some traumatic experience. i honestly can't think of a way to overcome this. does your throat tighten even when you're missing notes on purpose? like, just try singing really horribly for fun?
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>>18666497
I always tryhard when singing, even when i'm doing it for fun. It doesn't do that when i sing horribly on purpose tho.
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Go to karaoke bar, no one gives a shit how you sing there, you just have to be fun (unless you happen to be in japan where I hear they take karaoke real serious).

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