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I graduated college three years ago. I got my degree in four years. Got a job soon after.

However, looking back those years are painful. I think about all the things I missed out which is everything. I didn't make a single friend, I couldn't even talk to a girl the entire time. I went through a period of experimenting with drugs. I got clean and spent most of the three years in therapy. I'm better now and I've improved immensely since then.

I can't help but look back on that time and think how I wasted it all. I was completely forgettable and didn't leave an impression on anyone. Even some people I've heard stories from at least made a friend or something.

I know I need to move on. How do you guys get past regrets?
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>>18673710
At least tell me you have a good degree and at least a six figure paying job after all that. Then you can think to yourself "well I worked hard while others party and now I am living better than them."
If you got some bullshit degree/make pennies then I don't know what to tell you, you wasted your time. Its not too late though, I think it only becomes weird once you hit your 30s. Go out with coworkers and shit.
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>>18673730
I majored in Econ and math.

I'm making $50k after fucking around and not settling down with a good job. I had a 3.0 gpa and finished 800 out of 1000 students. So I didn't have the grades to show for my lack of social life.
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>>18673710
>tfw I'm looking into my future in this post.

This is my 5th and final year in school and I haven't done shit except desperately try to cling to passing grades. College was just too damn difficult to focus on anything else for me.
Didn't help I went to school in this rural ass farm town where there aint shit to do and the nearest city is 3 hours in any direction. I'm envious of my sister who went to a college out of state in a big city full of young kids, not farmland where the population is mostly old black guys with criminal records living off welfare.

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I can't help them for the life of me. They just keep insisting they are worthless ect. and I want to help but I don't know what to say.
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>>18673692
Change there emotional state. Words mean nothing it's about the emotions.
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>>18673696
explain
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>>18673696
This is the probably the only appropriate answer unless you provide a more specific example of your conversation with them.

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>I am no longer aroused by hot females because I know that I could never get with them irl

Is this common? If so then how can I fix this?
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>>18673627
Maybe your gay?

I don't think there is really anything wrong with not being attracted to certain types of women.
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>>18673627
I don't see why this is a bad thing anon
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Post picture of what you find and found hot

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So a couple years ago I was a fat loser NEET when I decide to turn it around. It wasn't long after breaking out of my neetdom that I actually got a girlfriend. Since I was still in the beginning stages she was pretty good for what I could get.

I've improved a lot more since, I think I can do a lot better. I think I'm like a 7/10 right now and she's like a 4/10 at best. There's nothing wrong with our relationship. I just think I need to dump her now so I can move on.

Pic unrelated
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>>18673478
why not help improve her to your level instead of dumping her?
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>>18673487
Don't try to change people. OP break up and find a new girl.
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>>18673487
She's kind of fat, she's on the right. I met her on tinder

Hasn't made any effort to lose weight or something

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I am 18 years old and I feel as if life is meaningless.

This is a very intense feeling for me. I am an emotional person without any doubt, perhaps I let my emotions dictate my actions too much.

This feeling, this emotion, this mindset has begun to hurt me in that I find living distressing and painful.

I cannot convince myself otherwise. I cannot finding meaning, motivation or incentive to keep living.

I feel trapped by being alive. I feel a very real pain by it.

I've got lots of problems with insomnia and I believe I must have suffered brain damage at this point.

Over the course of the past 3 days I have slept under 12 hours. This is as far back as I can remember. I've been having sleep problems since November last year, they're increased massively in severity in the past month or so however.

I am so afraid I have damaged my brain.

I am afraid. Alone. Suicidal.
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>>18673309
You just have to find meaning in something you value in life.

For me, it's other human beings, and, more specifically, the human connection
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>>18673314
Perhaps. I don't have many people in my life and spend a lot of my time not only alone, but isolated.

Yes I can change this, but I have begun to feel a disconnect to others. I feel unable to relate. I feel afraid to ever express myself because I don't like others knowing things about me and I don't like being the centre of attention ever.
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>>18673309
Inanimate objects do not need meaning they just exist.
Meaning is a by product of being alive.
Basically people create meaning.
Right now you have decided that life is meaningless. You can change that perception to anything you want.
Obviously, yes the (universe) is inherently meaningless. But you don't realize human being are the ones who create it. The universe doesn't care it's indifferent. But we care that is the different.

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Are hookers worth the money?
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>>18673239
depends on you. is having sex with a warm piece of flesh worth the money and moral issues?
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>>18673239

it depends on the hooker, she's a person after all
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>>18673239
They can def be worth it

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So I'm new to 4chan what should I expect?
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Leave. I don't mean that in a funny haha this place is so bad XD way, I mean actually get the fuck out right now.
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>>18673219
This place has gone to shit about a year ago and it only gets worse and worse every year. But then again, there's no where else to go.
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You can checkout anytime you like

But you can never leave

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I need one before tomorrow and I have no idea what to put :/
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>>18673038
You just wrote one, dude. It's that easy. This is something that you'll probably never even think about again after like 2 days. It doesn't matter what you write.
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>>18673038
Coming from a 4.0 student, my senior quote was something like "A sandwich isn't a sandwich without the tangy zip of miracle whip" or some such nonsense, because I didn't care as long as it was nothing controversial that would catch up to me later. Honestly doesn't matter in the least unless it does to you, then I would suggest you ask yourself WHY you care what you say and tailor your quote on the answer you come up with.

I'll tell you what I should have put: "Genetics is a significant determinant of intelligence"
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"A witty quote never proved anything" - Voltaire

Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship. We dated for a few months before he had to move to a different country. There's a 6 hour difference and we don't get to talk much and it does hurt me, but I love him and wouldn't want us to end. We are both in school and eventually when we both are out I hope to start a life with him. I really wanna go through the day without crying for once about not being able to see him ( I will hopefully see him in 4 months and the summer) Please give me some good and POSITIVE advice on how to get through the time of being apart. Please don't tell me to end the relationship, it will only make this worse.
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>please only tell me the advice I want to hear and not the advice I should hear

Why are you here?
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>>18672923
Dude, you don't take instruction well, do you?

>>18672914
Listen, m8, so I understand you want to get through the time of being apart, right? Do what you've always done. How about that?
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>>18672914

Here's a thing I've done that actually worked:

Play videogames together. MMOs work pretty well. Basically, having a fun activity you do together is often more effective than just messaging each other. Being together in a virtual space can be oddly intimate.

Now, maybe you're not the right kind of nerds for this to work with, but it worked for me. Good luck!

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Is it immoral when you have sex with a woman (or man if you are a woman) who is already in a relationship?

There are two types of people. People who never cheat (they make up slightly more than 50% of our society) and people who cheat (who make up around 40% of or society, according to statistics). There are simply those two types of people in relationships. A cheater is simply a cheater and will stay a cheater. So is it immoral to fuck the girlfriend of someone else? If it's not with me, isn't it going to be someone else anyway?
I think it's immoral to try to seduce a girl in a relationship, but if a girl approached me, is flirting with me and essentially telling me she wants to fuck me, is it in any way my fault when we have sex if she is that type of person anyway?

Don't get met wrong, cheaters are horrible. I never cheated. But I think there is no reason to be angry at the guy (or girl) who fucked your girlfriend (or boyfriend). You can only be mad at your cheating SO.

Thoughts?
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There is literally nothing wrong with fucking another man's girlfriend. If she cheats on him, it should remind him that he have to fight for his existence.
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Why can't you just find another girl to have sex with?
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>>18672725
Yes it is immoral, but do you care if it is should be the question. If you actually want to start a relationship with her, or be her friend it is something you shouldn't do. If it is a one time fuck then that is up to your moral compass.

>But I think there is no reason to be angry at the guy (or girl) who fucked your girlfriend (or boyfriend)
There are very valid reasons for them to be angry, extremely valid reasons. This is also a great way to get beat to shit, because he isn't going to hit his GF/BF he is going to vent that hate onto you because society will punish him less for unleashing hell on you.

Femanon here.
I really want to date a black guy but I live in a mostly white area. Are there any clubs or anything where white girls can go to meet black men for casual dating and stuff? Like what would I even google for that?
Any other femanons have experience with this?
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moshi moshi beito desu
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MEME
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>>18672716
How is this a meme?

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Anons I need help, I met this girl and she was really into me. I meting to set up a date because I like her and would like to see her again. I don't know how to continue from this text. I don't want to sound desperate but I also don't want to be blown off. What should I do, text her something or just wait I out?

I usually don't like the words"I'll let you know" is she letting me down easy?
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>>18672604
Lmao OP
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>>18672604

Either she's actually an extremely busy person with an ever-changing schedule or she's keeping you on the line in case nothing better shows up. You're in the best position to determine which one it is.
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well I'm not a fortuneteller but I don't like the atmosphere of that convo. You're acting kinda overhyped and she acted along.

To me it seems like she has just trashed you but what do I know

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My girlfriend is pregnant. We're both not at all ready for a baby and we had agreed in the past that if it ever happened we would abort. So she's got the appointment and everything set up, we have health insurance so it isn't going to cost anything. My girlfriend seems to be fine. I offered to accompany her to the hospital but she said I don't have to. I'm freaking out a little bit though.

I get the feeling that if she gets the ultrasound and sees a tiny hand moving or whatever she'll suddenly want to keep it. I know that it's ultimately her decision and I wouldn't pressure her out of it if she did choose to have the baby, but I feel as if I should prepare myself for the worst. I don't know how to deal with this.

Also, is smoking weed and drinking wine out of the question for her even if she plans on aborting?
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>>18672263
>aborting
Scum, kys, literally 1st degree murder. This coming from a non religious medfag. I have been in the operating theatres of these procedures in the past. It is sickening. They are alive, they look human, they move.
You are not removing an inaminate object, you are not removing a small clump of cells "like a tumor".
You are terminating life.

The excuse of "he or she would be born into a shitty life" is a bullshit one too. You are browsing 4chan in your spare time, your life can not possibly be so terribly miserable, your child would not be subjected to abject poverty, abuse and torture, nor are you convincing me that there is reason to believe he or she will be born with horrible and painful genetic diseases and/or deformities.

Western mentality of easy come, easy go. No reason to take responsibility for anything in our society anymore, just dump, delete or replace anything that might inconvenience a comfortable life.

Absolutely disgusting.
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>>18672294

Ok thanks for the advice nigger. We're still aborting the shit out of that little fucker
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>>18672294
Fuck off back to /pol/ virgin

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Do it, to it. Get that shit out now.
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I want to go home.
No one has ever been this ready before.

Though, I am 100% certain that nothing is going to happen. You've fucked with me enough. Just getting me hyped for absolutely no reason.
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>>18672259
J
I miss you. I wish i could have gone back and tried again with you. I want us to talk again.

L
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How do you think it went down when the messenger of god told Christ that he would be tortured and killed for the sins of man?

Do you think he took it better than I am?

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It's my first day back to school and it was terrible. I found out that I can't talk to my gf in front of others. I started getting nervous and sweaty and couldn't think of anything to say. I was a nervous wreck. Whenever I saw her this summer, I was never like this and we were both comfortable. I just don't know how to act in front of others. So what the hell can I do? And also, did you guys ever have similar situations?
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>>18672141
Dear anon,
you're a fucking idiot.

What's more important to you ? Talking to your gf or the opinion of others ?
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>>18672156
Obviously talking to my gf is more important. But how can I talk about if I have nothing to say?
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>>18672160
You don't.
Or simply try to improvise.

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